At what age will I start to feel bad for not having reproduced yet?

>>39496412
sauce on those goddesses?

>>39496412
for me it started at 25

>>39496412
It is inevitable.
It comes faster if you surround yourself with people more succesful than you or with people in general.

>>39496412
About 25.

so if I made it past 25 and don't feel bad I'll be fine forever?

>>39496412
Are you a woman? About 25.

Male? Never. Having children in the 21st century is a burden. Save up and hope for immortality.

>>39496846
>Male? Never.
Wrong. It's mid-20 if you are not a full degenerate or autist.

>>39496419
one of them is Kelly Hart

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I was 27. I had a dream about my oneitis and I being married with a qt daughter. I woke up and wanted to die.

>>39496745

Yeah, I also really hate how people I'm friends with now have actual careers and houses. I'm a college grad and have a lot of experience with gig jobs but get smacked down whenever I apply for something that has growth/promotion potential.

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The FWB I had last year wanted me to knock her up. She already had a 6 year old and said being a single mom wasn't bad.

Might have actually done it if she didn't have weird health/mental problems and I wasn't moving.

It's pretty cool having someone approving of you in such a way. They want you on a primal level and their legacy on this planet will have 50% of your DNA. I'm just terrified a normal girl won't ever want this with me...

>>39496412
>No longer a virgin
>but i havent reproduced

>>39496990
Would you have been a father figure to your child had you gone through with it?

I am 24.. 25 in Nov. and I would say I am already there. Even though I know full well I cannot support a wife and child and I feel lousy about that too

>tfw 20 and have a massive breesijg kink + truly want kids, but slowly falling into step with wage slavery

>>39496846
Men should only be a few years older than their wives desu.

Really started to hit me around 33-34.

My ex gfs badly wanted me to get her pregnant but I can't have kids. Feels bad man

Helped a lesbian couple have a kid just because and didn't think it would impact me much, but I've really wanted to be a part of the kid's life ever since which isn't something they want unfortunately.

Hit me this year at 31. Never bothered before. Wouldn't think twice about knocking a girl up now, any girl.

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It's hitting me now at 23.
All I want is a family.

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>>39497776
>My ex gfs badly wanted me to get her pregnant
Same.
She was literally begging me to during the last few months of our 7 year relationship. Kept telling me that it was okay and that she didn't mind that it was me, that we'll get married once she's pregnant. Like an idiot I told her that I wasn't quite ready and that I need more time to think...
She moved on in less than a week after she met some other guy who was a friend of her coworker and was already in a relationship with him two days after she broke up with me.
Biggest mistake of my life thus far. 7 years wasted... I should have just taken the chance and knocked her up with our child we could be raising together right now.

>>39496412
I'm 36 and still haven't gotten there. I look at my friends who are married with kids and I just feel so bad for them.
No vidya, no going out, free time is all for kids and honey-do lists. They're slaves. Utter complete slaves.

>>39496412
It really hit me when I was 31. Grandparents dropped like flies that year and made me realise that I have nothing in my future but death, loneliness and suffering. A career means nothing, you are easily replaced by 10 other eager candidates and quickly forgotten, but having a child truly gives you comfort and a new life to look forward to. It's never about the sex for me, it's about the companionship, both with a wife and a child.

>>39496412
For me, it was like 23-ish. I'm 24 now and I want babies. I actually get jealous when I see people with kids in public.

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>>39498536
> bitch dumps me because I needed 'more time to think'
> Within a few days she's jumping on other dick
> I wish I was a better cuck

Be glad this happened now and not when you got kids and got married. That whore obviously didnt give two shits about you famalam

>>39496846
Youngfag detected. Males feel like shit too we just don't talk about it and we can hide it a lot easier.

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The reproduction of anyone who browses 4chan will only result in more burden to society.
Please fucking stop, you filthy animals

I'm 27 but I live in a nigger shithole (Argentina) so I'll never have kids if I"m forever stuck here, for their own good.

>>39496859
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even this board rules are autistic

Even in your early-mid 20s you'll start to see your former classmates getting married. Your facebook feed will be flooded with pregnancy pics from roasties that you used to know. In your late 20s you'll start to notice a lot of men your age with wives and small children. At 30 is when it really starts to hurt, you may have a personal crisis over it especially if you haven't even had many girlfriends before.

After that you'll either be alone forever, or settling with someone you don't really like and producing inferior children with poor genes just so that you don't have to be alone.

There's a point when you start to realize that you're aging. When you're in your teens and 20s it can feel like you have all the time in the world. There's no pressure because you can always get a gf later right? It's bound to happen eventually. If you feel fine in the present there's no need to worry about the future. Well, sooner or later the future dries up and suddenly you're facing the idea of spending the rest of your life alone.

>>39496412
27. First thoughts at 25, but it becomes uncomfortable at 27.

28.I never wanted kids up untill that age. Now I want kids more than anything. Too bad it will never come true.

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Ask someone with a 14 month year old daughter anything.

>>39498536
you dodged a bullet there senpai

>>39496412
When you look around and see the kinds of people who are reproducing and get terrified of the idea of making one more of them.

>>39499141
Do you talk to the mother regularly?

28 here

Tbh I feel a bit bad for not giving grandsons to my parents, but in my own I am not interested on having kids at all. There are things that worry me more about the future

My own parents never seemed to care about it. Maybe they do but don't dare to say a word. I don't care anymore honestly

>tfw no little blonde haired blue eyed daughter..

>>39499141
What's it like seeing her eyes stare back into yours?
How good does it feel to know that you had a hand in her creation?

Please hold her close, cherish her forever, for all of us who aren't as fortunate.

>>39499177
Yeah, she lives with me.

>>39499197
So she gets raped by niggers or blows them voluntarily at 13?

No thanks

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>>39496412
Pretty sure I'm doing the gene pool a favor, not that nature didn't make up its mind on the matter to begin with.

>>39499141
I got nothing to ask. If you really have a daughter I congatulate you, becuase you won at this game called "life". I can only envy you while I rot in loneliness.

It started at 24 for me.
I just want a wife and kids to provide for.

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>>39496412
Y'all niggas need Benatar

>>39499202
The amazement factor kinda wears off a couple weeks after theyre born, and they slowly turn into a sort of small companion that you gotta keep. Its really fun but it can be a lot of headaches sometimes

Its worth it (for me at least) having a customizable human essentially. Like i can put funny hats or masks on her. Her mom gets mad if i give her stuff like anl gun tho (even if it isnt loaded) or money

Never. Fuck childeren

>>39499185
>My own parents never seemed to care about it.

I thought so too until I saw the way my mother lit up when my younger chad brother talked about marrying his gf and having kids. It was completely different from any look of happiness she showed me. It really crushed my heart that day knowing I could never get that same look.

Around 25.

You watch all the people you knew in highschool and college begin having kids and starting families, and you slowly start wondering when you'll be joining them.

By the time you're 27 you're seriously starting to wonder what you're doing with your life, and by the time you're thirty, you're either desperately looking for a suitable guy or trying to distract yourself with work and a bunch of pet animals.

By 35, you're either resigning yourself to a life of loneliness and misery, or you've got full-on baby-rabies and your search for guys is non-stop and full of disappointment as you sob over being pumped-and-dumped by a long stream of men, all of whom magically vanish the second you say the word 'baby', which you do within 24 hours of meeting them.

source: a 30 year old male who spends his days fucking 25-30 year old childless women.

>>39499277
Can she talk? What kind of things does she say to you?

>>39499438
Nah she cant talk yet. She can make noises that kinda resemble words though

She actually doesnt make a lot of noise at all. She cries and laughs, but seems to be a lot less expressive than other kids her age. She just kinda stares at you with this deadpan look for prolonged periods. Shit weirds me sometimes so I should probably get her checked up by a doctor who diagnoses autismo kids.

>>39499428
>by the time you're thirty, you're either desperately looking for a suitable guy
AKA Chad

>>39499428
>source: a 30 year old male who spends his days fucking 25-30 year old childless women.

Calling bullshit, what with robot,, Assuming you're telling the truth how does one pull this off and where do you meet them..? Maybe you are just very good looking.

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>giving more slaves to the Demiurge
Kys my men

Having kids is an act of evil and cruelty

Old guy here (47). Didnt really hit me until my 40's. No way it could of ever happened back in the day though. Total loser in my younger days, zero self-esteem, virgin til 24, no real relationships, never really felt capable of being a partner or a father. My friends were having kids back when I wasnt really ready to even date yet. If I had a do-over, I'd find some blue-eyed chick and make a dozen babies.

>>39496412
Male here. Started about 25 years of age.

>>39500446
Did you m-m-make it, brother??

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Is impreg the most logical fetish out there? I mean, aren't guys obsessed with anal, cuckolding, etc making it less likely for their genes to be passed on?

>>39496412
30s if you're female, 40s if male. you can always make autistic happas if you're the latter though.

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>>39500522
M-make what?

>tfw I'll never feel bad about it because I don't have any friends that would pressure me into getting pregnant
Seriously, take a look around and you'll only notice women getting knocked up because their friends are already pregnant. They get envious and try to one-up them.

>>39499185
>Tbh I feel a bit bad for not giving grandsons to my parents
They're not entitled to having grandsons.

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>>39500649
it's the conquesting man's fetish.

>>39496846
don't males pretty much only exist to impregnate a woman? I always thought they were the ones who wanted to have kids more in the end

with all of the couples among my peers (we are in our late 20s-early 30s) the girls have a "maybe someday" attitude towards kids while the guys are more toward "I need babies now"

>no grandkids for the parents.

There's that too. Feel like a total friggen loser for a thousand different reasons. Could have at least given them that.

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>>39500794

Society is teaching women to never be happy with what they have. Maybe civilization will be saved when the older millennials hit 40 and realize how hollow life with no children is and act as a warning to the younger ones.

I also feel like guys have a longer view. Girls imagine getting positive attention for being pregnant and having a baby. Guys are imagining playing catch with their son or buying qt outfits for their daughter or how cool it would be to have adult children visiting you when you're old.

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Srsly.

Looking at most middle-aged people, their kids are the main good thing they've got going for them. Most of us won't get to travel the world or start a successful business or any of the other reasons people cite for not having kids, anyways.

>>39500873
Kids will also be there to help take care of you in your old age. (as long as you raise them right)
No kids? You better get in the habit of eating right and staying fit so you dont end up alone in a ratty apartment shitting yourself twice a day.

>>39501030
I plan to either kill myself after my parents die or to go full ascetism getting lost in bumfuck nowhere to meditate all the day until I die or get killed

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>Neighbor has a qt Hapa daughter
>She acts like an anime loli and runs outside to tackle-hug him when he gets home from work
>I will never have that

I am a 28 year old lady who has a suitable mate and pretty torn about having kids

pros
>someone to visit me when i'm old
>knowing my genes will carry on

cons
>i'm not exactly "motherly"
>randomly pissing yourself all the time after giving birth
>stretched out sack looking stomach
>being expected to work full time and also be a good mother
>baby weight which you supposedly can't lose
>your life is completely shat on (literally and figuratively)
>so much responsibility

My significant other wants kids, though easy for him to say since he doesn't have to consider pregnancy/childbirth

>>39501122
Start chopping wood. Seriously. You'll be in phenomenal shape and you'll drop dead of a massive heart attack well before your at the point where youre laying in a hospital bed shitting and pissing and staring at the ceiling all day.

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>>39501140
> I am a 28 year old lady who has a suitable mate
> My significant other
You are in the wrong place, mothercucking roastie.

Get lost

>>39501140
If you dont want to have children then you shouldnt - you'd make a bad mother.

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>>39496996
Wrong board, get the fuck out.

>>39496412
For me, it was around 26-27. About to turn 34, still think I'd be a cool dad. Doesn't seem to be in the cards for me though.

>>39501189
can't, been coming here for just over 10 years now and at this point it's simply a part of life

>>39501224
this is pretty true I suppose if I were meant to have kids i'd want to go ahead with it with no lingering doubts

>>39501140
get a caesarean like all the vain roasties du jour

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I'm a 28 year old male and I'm definitely feeling it. A lot of it is coming to terms with the fact that I'm getting old, and that video games and Chinese cartoons about high school kids are starting to lose their appeal. Like can you picture yourself when you're 50 and beating off to the girls in whatever fotm anime is airing and shitposting about it on 4chan? Maybe you can, but I can't. I need some progression in my life and I don't think Mr. Shekelberger is going to satisfy me, so I think family is the way to go.

When I was like 23 my goal in life was to never leave my place of living. I used to drink a lot of singularity koolaid, and I never desired kids. The older I get though the more traditional and conservative I got. I want to do the whole wife and kids thing now.

>>39501305
Seeing as you sound like a selfish bitch, you shouldn't have kids.

But just so you know, the appeal is when they are old enough to wipe their ass but not old enough that they don't give a shit about you. Then you can teach them stuff and take them to do kid stuff you secretly want to do and try to mold them in to a better version of you (but you'll fail just like your parents).

>>39501331
I couldnt be a good father. I dont want to spread my shitty genes and bring others into this miserable world. Besides i'm emotionally distant and reserved man who wouldnt be role model.

>>39501379
some would say selfish, but going through with having children is a pretty awful thing to do to yourself if you're a woman and you really should consider the negative points before diving in as selfish as that may seem

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At least you faggots live in the first world

Me, on the other side, I'm trapped on a subhuman shithole with shit people, no future and a decadent culture. I'd rather kill myself before having kids in this cursed niggerland

>>39501492
>the negative points
sure the are negative points but having and raising a child should negate those bad things.

>>39501492
Haha okay. If you can't think past 9 months of being the host to a parasite, that's up to you. It's also telling that you responded to my offhand insult and not my main point.

Anyway, wait a little bit sweetheart. Maybe sometime it will hit you, maybe not. If it does, I hope it does before it's too late for you.

I dont want to have my body and mind fucked up by pregnancy, but I do want kids. Maybe I will adopt. There are a lot of needy kids out there.

>>39501512

I always thought Argentina was one of the whiter areas of South America, like Chile, Uruguay, and South Brazil...

>>39501777
You /pol/tards deserve to be genocided in the worst way possible

>>39499141
Why haven't you fucked off back to facebook?

Depends.

I'm a 24 y/o male and at the moment I have no desire to have children, just a few cats and dog.

>>39501777
>Chile
>white

Chilean here btw. Nice trips though

>>39501512
Al menos ustedes no estan invadidos por haitianos. Literalmente un haitiano en cada esquina.

Who here has gotten to the point where their family or friends don't ask about your relationship status anymore? It's comfy af.

>>39496412
>tfw Zheng He was a eunuch who did more without reproducing
>tfw he was oppressed by attention whore emperor of China
>tfw despite trying to destroy his accomplishments from history and omit his name he still became known
>tfw don't even remember the name of chinese emperor during his time

That was that...

>>39501596
well it's just that "selfish" is what gets thrown back at me every time the when-are-you-going-to-have-kids topic comes up (and it very often does these days) but what about our overpopulation crisis or all the kids who need to be adopted? guess it has something to do with me being a blue eyed blonde

>>39496412
>the right ones boobies

Jesus fucking christ have mercy on my boner

>>39501952
You don't have an obligation to have kids and you aren't necessarily selfish for not wanting to.

But your comments for the positives were that they could help you when you're old, and something abstract about passing on your genes.

Raising the child itself is supposed to be something you find meaningful. It's not necessarily 'selfless' because you are getting something out of it.

If you haven't had that desire yourself, and don't even get what I'm talking about, you maybe wouldn't be the greatest parent. But who knows really, maybe it'd be different after you get knocked up.

>>39501958
They will be saggy soon enough

>>39501926
>tfw don't even remember the name of chinese emperor during his time

Well obviously. All chinese names sound alike.