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>talking to cute shy girl for a few months after adding her

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>talking to cute shy girl for a few months after adding her on an discord/zeemaps thread
>talking all day every day for about 2 and a half months
>grow attracted to her
>meet up
>pay for lunch and stuff like a gent (this is not an issue, I have the money and would do so for mostly anyone)
>hold hands and cuddle
>rests her head on my shoulder and we talk for a long while
>say our goodbyes with a very long hug
>get home
>she says she is not attracted
Now I know it wasn't about the money, she definitely isn't that kind of girl. She is the sweet shy type and was stuttering over her words most the time. What did she mean by this? I felt a genuine connection and it seemed like she was very keen. I had a bit of a go at her for leading me on and I'm honestly very upset seeing as we had such a nice day and I rather like her. Did I do something wrong? Apparently she was not attracted but was too shy to say so, but this does not ring true considering she was reciprocating everything I was doing.
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>>39477879
Shes not interested bro. Move on. Thats how dating works. Ive hooked up with girls on first dates then had them do a 180 after we left, girls are dumb sluts.
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>>39477879
>Did i do something wrong?
You are not Chad, that's the problem.
Keep searching for another girl that is attracted to you bro, it's not gonna be a easy journey, but i'm sure you'll make it.
>>39477916
This.
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>>39477879
You're going to end up alone like the rest of us, give up.
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>>39477916
>>39477957
>>39478016
I know you are right for most women but she is different. She is not that kind of girl. I probably will end up alone. I think this was probably the one girl I could be genuinely happy with even as a close friend and I blew it.
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I heard that sometimes people can't accept it when they find someone truly caring, something just doesnt feel right. For example, if they had an abusive realtionship with their parents groing up, they'll always be looking for that feeling of familiarity, i'ts what they identify love as.
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>>39478089
>she is not that kind of girl
I also thought that of my ex lmao. I know that when you are in love, you tend to idealize the other person, but if she turned you down, it means she is prob searching for a 10/10 looking dude. I mean, you were as nice and confy as possible... if she wasn't your average roastie she prob would ve given you a chance.
> i blew it
Don't be so hard on yourself mate, you did all that was in your hand. At the end of the day it was a 50/50 chance you could end with her. It didn't work out this time, but you did all you could, so you shouldn't blame yourself. Her damn problem.

Also, don't think that she's the only you'll ever love orso.
I thought like you 2 years ago too, when i broke up with my ex. It will take you time, but you ll get over it, i'm sure bro (took me almost 2 years kek, but it was my 1st relationship and i still didn't open my eyes about roasties).
Do things that make you happy and try to stay positive, try to improve yourself and in the end you might find someone even better than her^^ i know this sounds like normie advice, but it's actually true and works if you have willpower.

>inb4 normie you had a gdf get out reeeee

Hope you make it, don't feel bad m8
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>>39478266
;-;
>>39478291
I don't think she is this kind of girl. I know a lot of them are but she seems different. I've had gfs before but she is definitely special. Everything was going so well. One in a million kinda girl.
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>>39477879
You were too nice
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>>39477879
>for a few months
There was your mistake.
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>>39478804
Can't help it. I'm not good at being anything but nice. Bit of a pussy desu.
>>39478885
Elaborate.
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