Social butterfly

>>39475963
i can't understand how can you go from Chad to fucking loser. looking for advice here is not worth it

>>39475963
ya I was popular and got some girls. The secret is doing what's fun all the time, but people get sick of being overshadowed

>>39475963
I was pretty popular but only because I was a Europoor living in a small US town. Most people were quite friendly to me since they've never been outside the US.

I didn't have a good outlook, I just got good at wearing a mask.

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I'm currently a chad(fuck 10-15 differant girls a year) who used to be a khhv at 21. In general, you chose whether to be happy or not and to like people or not (mostly). If you decide to hate people, no matter how kind someone is you almost always find some stupid thing that makes them a cunt. Secondly, try not to socialize with robot like people or losers. I don't know what it is but people who are losers are often assholes. The kindest people I've met were usually chads.

>>39476443
>you chose whether to be happy or not
If that were true nobody would be depressed

>>39476443
dat arse

>>39476473
to put it in more complex term, the choiches you make are what will make you happy or necking yourself at 25

>>39476532
It hurts that we will never be able to stick our penis into a 8+/10 qt.

>>39476473
He's right. You think you aren't making the choice to feel bad, and you're right. The problem is you made the choice of how you should react to any given situation a long ass time ago. You've stuck with it so long that you react unfavorably automatically. Happiness can be reached just by changing your mind, but that's a thousand times harder to do than to say. In the first place you have to become aware that you have a choice at all and that alone will be difficult.

>>39475963
When I got into secondary school my game plan of befriending the kids who were obviously gonna be popular went to plan. I was considered out of their league but they still knew me so people didn't try anything. Out of nowhere in year 9 though they just went against me and the only place I could go without being bullied was the library.

On the bright side at least I was then friends with smart people, who actually had the mental capacity to feel things like sympathy etc.

Im still a bit of a chad and its just a mask

>>39476574
it's ok, I shall lie in a bale of straw, u can cover it and ship me cross the ocean and to the African continent so I can get that new beginning

>>39476443
>I don't know what it is but people who are losers are often assholes.

yep.
I always had pretty bad friends who treated me like shit. But I treated them like shit too.

How much effort is being a fake Chad? How often do you have to do social shit you don't necessarily want to do?