when did you realize that you only have 20% control over how your life turns out and the other 80% is based on genetics and neurology?
>inb4 "and your upbringing! right?"
some of you are quick to blame your parents. Although they all deserve a little hatred for bringing us into this world it doesn't matter who they were. If your are a strong neurotypical person with balanced hormones you can get out of any situation. Hell a lot of celebritys like to boast about their "stuggles" all the time. The press loves a sob-story behind a famous person because they want to push the just world fallacy of "you can do anything not matter what!"
Nice percentages, did you pull those out of your ass?
>>39472766
oh my bad you only have 5% really
>>39472704
No better way to make sure you have no control over your life than believing you have no control over your life.
Get a grip.
yes, we can blame our parents
yes, we can blame our genetics
but the truth is, we have the ability to make conscious decisions to change the way we are. we're able to make ourselves happy. you just have to stop being a lazy ass and do it.
you can sit around and cry about how unfair it all is, or you can put in the effort and try to fix it.
literally, every day you have the power to standup, and do something differently.
>>39472704
The only thing im realising is that you are pathetic, shouldnt come as a surprise as im on r9gay but i think you need to get the memo.
We don't control anything in our lifes it's just an illusion