Femdom

>>39437160
>Advice?
get yourself off the femdom fetish you degenerate, sort your life out and get a normal girlfriend

>>39437182
I don't really feel like it. My sexuality is 98% tickling (giving mostly) and I'd like to experience it. Plus, in general, women don't like me, and, in general, I don't like women.

>>39437236
you're just proving that because you have the symptoms of not having a good life that that means it isn't worth getting one, seriously man you'll feel better in yourself getting away from all of it, even if it takes a great deal of inner willpower you need to

>>39437290
>because you have the symptoms of not having a good life that that means it isn't worth getting one
I swear the best posts on this board are from random threads that die.

>>39437290
I see what you're saying. I think I'm reasonably content though, and you maybe don't understand fully: of all the thousands of times I've watched porn, it has always involved tickling, and 95% of the time the woman is receiving. I can only think of one time I've masturbated to sex, and even then the actress had shot far more fetish videos.

>>39437351
>of all the thousands of times I've watched porn
THERE IT IS
> I can only think of one time I've masturbated to sex, and even then the actress had shot far more fetish videos.
you're clearly indulging in sloth, and being idle and allowing your fetishes to overwhelm you. I relate in many ways, but you can't live like this. Can you explain to yourself why the fetish manifests in your head? to me it sounds like deep rooted desires for female company, relationships, wholesome intimacy became so crippling that it became a strong sexual thought in your head
>>39437331
thanks!

>>39437290
OP again: Also, interestingly, I'm a very dominant guy with bad looks but decent fitness. I won't go to be degraded, just to be indulged.

>>39437393
>I won't go to be degraded, just to be indulged.
you're only degrading yourself and your dignity by paying a woman to let her tickle you, or are you paying for more? its good that you stay in shape, but the biggest battle youll ever face is the one with your own soul, clearly much work can be done within you, to normalise you, 'sort yourself out' as JBP says. We all have our darknesses, our fetishes calling to us, our sins, our insecurities. But you're really just letting it control your life if you're paying to see your fetishes meet reality. What's next? its a slipper slope

>>39437391
Well, you may be right, I may have an addiction, which is worrying. Thanks for bringing it to my attention man.

I usually masturbate so I can do other things like learning and working and going to a gym, otherwise I can't focus. I do it so I can do other things, so maybe it isn't sloth? The fetish has been around as long as I've been aware of tickling. I've been physically close with girls before (women I should say) but no sex.

>>39437351
>>39437441
If you get no pleasure from women unless they tickle you and you can only get that from paying them then why bother? Just jack it and go try to follow whatever goal you have (if you have one)

>>39437441
>I usually masturbate so I can do other things like learning and working and going to a gym, otherwise I can't focus.
then try recondition your subconscious to masturbating to normal things, slowly, over a periods of months. It takes time but I did it and the massive urges I used to have to masturbate to degenerate porn faded. dont get me wrong, those dark thoughts are still there, but i avoid them a lot better.
>I've been physically close with girls before (women I should say) but no sex.
I think i see whats happened more clearly from this, As a teen i used to masturbate to the thought of just making out with women, because for a time my first 'sexual' encounters were making out with my first gf, cuddling with my first gf, kissing her etc etc. You're just gonna have to tap into that primal natural instinct to fuck women, no matter how long it takes. its within you.

>>39437435
I'd be far more interested in hiring a submissive service, but that doesn't exist yet! I am pretty dominant in all of my friendships and interactions, and very assertive when I need to be, but it's just one of those kinks that people sometimes have. You're right about it being a slippery slope. What next? I might associate my fetish with submission and then become submissive? Fuck that.

>>39437496
I will try to do just that: to normalise my porn consumption. May I ask what your degeneracy was? You aren't obliged to tell me btw.

You're right on that last point too. I remember receiving some very good news semi-recently, and I was glowing for about three days afterwards perpertually ecstatic. An hour after I first heard the news, I remember thinking 'you know what I need? To savagely fuck a girl.' So you're right. I need to.

>>39437471
My goal is my career, and that's what I have been doing so far. My recent urge has sprung up because of a 2 week long nofap.

>>39437160
Umm here is a audio clip of one, never saw one but if you have a small penis they will abuse you for it

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>>39437608
>tfw under 6ft with over 7in benis

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>>39437591
>I will try to do just that: to normalise my porn consumption. May I ask what your degeneracy was? You aren't obliged to tell me btw.
slippery slope of bdsm porn as an early teen devolving to its worse point of really fucked up femdom porn, ive cut porn out of my life now, usually just wank to the lasses that show up on /hr/ now.

Porn is a mind disease, it fucks with your head. even wanking should be avoided though if you're a loner you can't really expect to be having sex.

>, I remember thinking 'you know what I need? To savagely fuck a girl.' So you're right. I need to.
thats the spirit! in a weird way having my first girlfriend helped me off all the porn in the end, gave me my first normal sexual experiences i could relate to and be turned on by (even if it took a while)

you'll be fine man, just don't give money to women to fuel your fetishes, maybe go to church or read the bible, gain some inner willpower, and try live a functioning normal life

>>39437689
This is sound advice. You're right, it does fuck with your head. The worst thing would be if my fixation mutates into something even more embarrassing.

I will try my hardest to be sexually normal from now on.

>>39437689
Oh and I forgot to say thanks! good luck with everything

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>>39437760
>The worst thing would be if my fixation mutates into something even more embarrassing.
as mine did all those years ago
>I will try my hardest to be sexually normal from now on.
Good! yknow im sure once you get a stable relationship and you have cute moments with her where you wrestle her and pin her to the bed and tickle her it won't be such a focused sexual thing, itll be more of an intimacy wholesome thing, but let that come and dont be impatient with the progress you make, however slow, progress is progress, realising you have a problem that needs fixing within yourself is the first step!
>>39437779
>Oh and I forgot to say thanks! good luck with everything
thanks man, im sure ill be okay, got my own battle to fight. see you man, going to bed. might come see this thread again when i wake up

had a femdom for some time. She would let me rub her feet for hours which was like paradise for me
>tfw didn't wash hands for as long as possible because it had her smell

>>39437844
>had a femdom for some time. She would let me rub her feet for hours which was like paradise for me
did you not read the entire thread and life advice? get your shit together

>>39437827
Good night man, all the best
>wrestle her and pin her to the bed and tickle her it won't be a sexual thing
I will literally be unable to innocently tickle a girlfriend or playfully tickle any future children. (This scares me greatly)

>>39437844
how did your foot fetish begin? and what was your first session like? I won't go thru with mine now, but just curious.

>>39437608
At least I like being dominated so ya I have a 5.2 inch penis maybe I would like it

>>39437889
no, why would i take a life advice from r9k?

>>39437939
always had it, it was exciting at first but then i got used to it, still stayed devoted to her feet

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>>39437889
>Having a sexual fetish is a symptom of a bad life style

I have the same curiosity about dominatrixes as OP so bumping

>>39438133
It is. How do you expect to form healthy relationships?

>>39438192
>he thinks people with fetishes don't have any healthy relationships
I mean, you clearly keep yourself off it and don't indulge in any fetishes yet you're here

>>39438192
>"Hey, I have a thing for feet. Could I rub them for you?"
>"Sure, you are my boyfriend and I want to make you happy. Besides, I like foot rubs."
>Proceed to do so, relationship didn't fall apart

I can really see how this is ripping society apart senpai.

>>39437160
>tfw I'm the femdom gf

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I've tried it OP and its one of the best things ever, it wasn't with a hooker, but with a friend
ask me things if you are interested

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>>39438192
please kill yourself cuckold

gb2 >>>/pol/ autist

>>39438494
elaborate

>>39438545
give backstory and details of session buddy

>>39438494
How did you meet your boyfriend?

bloxx original

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>>39437160
Advice here from a semi-chad who has been to fetlife dominatrix parties
>Most of the fem doms are 4/10 or less
>there may be one or 2 who are truly hot, but they usually have 1000x more choices than stacy does on tinder
>if you're not exceptionally hot, you'll be surrounded by unattractive women unlike your fantasy
However, if you enjoy bondage for the sake of it, go for it. I had fun, but also was able to get a 7/10 milf to tie me up. Didn't work out in the long run though

>>39438574
girlfriend, met her nearly two years ago through r9k, in one of these femdom threads I think

>>39438669
I hope your relationship is going well!

>>39438568
it wasn't a session per se, we were playing 21, and it was either truth or dare. she told me that her boyfriend was very frigid and that she wanted to try to be on the dominant side, then basically I told her that if I won the next round I'd get a kiss, and if she won she would tie me hands behind back.

later on she started trying more elaborate stuff, like knots ad shibari, but we never had sex, still was great fun

>>39438627
What is fetlife like as a website? Like, are you really just putting yourself out there for people to see all of your fetishes or does it work different than that?

I feel too shy to sign up.

>>39437236
>tickling

My nigga.

I have to imagine that finding a pro-dominatrix that would sub for that is hard, tho.

>>39440686
Maybe I should found a small company from which you can hire and rent a 'subinatrix' lol.