What's the Tinder experience like for an average looking guy?

If you have good pics of you doing fun things then pretty alright

>>39406999
> tfw sub-average looking guy

The only time I got matches was when I posted shirtless body shots with my head out of frame.

I'm an ugly guy and I get around 1-2 matches a week on average. I guess an average looking guy can get like 5+ per week?

>>39407067
Did it lead to some vag?

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>>39407252
Doubt it (maybe if you're white)

I live in LA and i get a match per month

Pic related , 99% looks like me but shorter hair

>>39407298
Try liking anime on facebook so it recommends you anime fangirls/weeaboos

>>39406999
50% of my matches replied, 10% of the replies lead to meeting up IRL. Ended up losing my virginity to one of the dates and now she's my gf.

I'm like 6/10 according to /soc/ and she's a 7/10 in my view

>>39407252
Yeah it varies but anywhere from 3 to 10 per week.

>>39407333
Is this legit? Also is there a way to hide that on FB cause I keep my powerlevel hidden.

how do non white guys do? should i even try? just askin

>>39406999
Sauce? verifiably original

>>39407255
Nope, they'd ask for a face photo then I'd never hear from them again.

>>39407369
>Is this legit? Also is there a way to hide that on FB cause I keep my powerlevel hidden
tinder tries to show you people who have same facebook likes as you, so it should show you (and show you to) girls who like anime. Some of those girls might have an unhealthy obsession for asian people

>>39407333
Don't have a facebook, honestly if you have one, you don't belong here

>>39407412
Tinder is a million times more normie than facebook I don't understand this viewpoint

>>39407298
Its because you look like a woman. Fix this.

>>39407412
If someone is using tinder, they have a facebook.

I'm average to good-looking and not fat and I get ~ 5 matches per day in a relatively small town.

My best friend can pull 20+ a day but looks like a model.

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>>39406999
Nice trips god damn

>tfw live 5 miles away from prestige college
>students all over America and even Asians
>get matches with cuties
>90% of the time they're just here to attend that college and move back home when they're done

Im getting to that age where we're all seniors in college, so after this year they'll be back in bumblefuck Idaho or some shit

>>39407383
thats 'cause you're meant to send them a face photo

>>39407895
I did, and after they saw it they'd unmatch. Such is life.

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matched an IG model while on vacation, look completely average 550+ matches, if you don't look like a complete mongoloid, or live in a rural area, you should be good

>>39407919
>Save money
>Get plastic surgery
>Go balls deep in perfect 10s every night for the rest of your life

>>39407379
be jacked if you're black, have long hair if you're indian, idk, just try to look as exotic as possible

Maybe you'll get a date or two out of it, maybe more if you play your cards right.

>>39407379
>If you;re Asian, just look like a Kpop star and get weeb bitches or Asian girls
>If you're a Poo, just get an arranged marriage
>If you're black, you're fucked

>>39407252
It's probably your pics dude. I have a pretty average looking build and face but all my pics are of me hiking / bars / well kept. I got 58 matches last week in my recap notification.

>>39407946
>just be white bro
Yeah too bad for me.

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>wear pic related
>get likes from female tumblr users

>>39408219
>White guys get laid all the time
Great, I'm an even bigger fuck up than I thought.

>>39408339
Most women prefer whites because holywood is all jews and whiteys.

>>39408111
>58 matches a week
Are you niggers on tinder the whole fucking day? I don't even swipe much more than that in a week.

I have 500+ matches but i couldnt lead a conversation to save my life so its worthless. And im not good looking enough to try a "lets fuck" approach right at the beggining, they just laugh it off.

>>39408111
>I got 58 matches last week in my recap notification.
Where the fuck do you live?

>>39407252
I made a tinder two days ago and I hit 70 matches today. I got like 6-7 different convos going on, snapchats, instagrams. Damn I love being single already. Best healing app for sure.

>>39408597
>>39408549
>if i lie to keep robot self esteem down they might become gay trap lovers like me
Fuck off shills.

>>39406999

80% whores only craving for your money
15% ugly women, both mentally and physically ill
5% decent skanks who will you never have any sex action

tldr, Tinder is owned by Jews, who also sell the data to the usual Three Letter Agencies

>>39406999

If you're like a 6 or 7, then you can match with like 10 girls per week if you're constantly swiping. Most of those will ghost you or not meet up though

>>39406999
Listen to this 6 second vocaroo from a roastie, stop trying OP
https://vocaroo.com/i/s1iKbhd6fAb6

>>39408709
I'm 6'0 but my dick is like only 16 cm. Also she sounds retarded or drunk.

>>39407496
>Can't help it senpai
>I thought girls like the fuckboy korean popstar anyways?
just post your real profile photo so we can properly evaluate this. you people all look alike anyway. nobody gonna find you out.

>>39407946

7000 km --- el Drugs Cartelo de Medellin --- pretty nice girl

dude, are you still alive? you'd better escape to North Pole if you don't want to die

>be me, living in a small town
>literally everyone on Facebook
>scared to install Tinder because everyone could recognize me
>including all of the women who I unsuccessfully tried to date

>>39408770
Use a VPN based in a nearby larger city = profit.

>>39408018
>>39408087
>tfw mixed spic and asian kek im fucked right?

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>everyone itt says they get dozens if not hundreds of match's
>TFW can't even get one match over weeks
>Heard ping and thought I got match once
>It was an ad bot

>>39409539

everyone posting about getting tinder response or even signing up to tinder

>Tfw too nervous to install tinder.

>>39408709
who even care, roasties are for fuckin, not dating

Some of you "average" guys better fucking start posting your profles cause I'm slightly above average according to /soc/ and I match with maybe 1/300, and I swipe right on 100%.
>>39407252
>>39407344
>>39407946
>>39408111
>>39408549
>>39408597

>>39410831
I'm British and a military pilot, apparently girls are in to that

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>>39406999
Something like this, and I ain't shitting you.

>>39409735
This. Besides every other thing, I'm not having my face connected with that

>>39409423
Im a hapa. Whats it like being that kind of mixed? I rarely see one of your type.

>>39407448
Not anymore. Possible to register without FB acc.

>>39408770
I wouldn't worry about that, because it uses your Facebook account you can tell tinder to hide you from anyone on your friends list so they won't see you on the app and vice versa.

>>39406999
I used to get a lot of matches on my old account (like over 400)
I started up again a week ago and so far I have one match who didn't reply to my first message
I guess I got uglier

>>39406999
The same experience as a noticeably unattractive female

>>39406999
Do you have photos of yourself doing some cool/fun/awesome shit?
Do you have money?
Do you have a big dick?
Yes to any of these and its pretty good.

>first match ever
>it's a "girl" trying to get money from me

Fuck this shit.

>>39407471

I know that feel brother, I'm 25 and if I use a dating app it matches me with seniors in college who are like 20-22.

I just want a fucking girlfriend

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>>39406999
>Average looking guy
>Swiped right on loads of girls
>Got 1 match within 1 day
>She wanted to have sex, and that's about it
>Say no to her
>Deleted account
>Day #2
>Decided to be brutally honest with my life and stop advertising myself
>Got no matches the next day
>Deleted account

It's a depressing way to interact with other human beings, and I advise against it.

I look alright, but it hurts to be forced to tell bullshit. It keeps reminding me of what the human species is, and it hurts to observe it in motion.

I refuse to use Tinder to get a girlfriend. You're guaranteed to strike shit, and you're better off going through a different online dating venue and travelling the distance to meet a girl.

>>39411502
So you either live in middle wallop, wattisham, or fucking some RAF base in bumfuck northern Scotland.

If you fly anything else (lel chinook) then nobody gives a fuck

t. officer in the Army (airborne muthafucka)

>make tinder
>reject everyone - literally - within 25 KM
>uninstall
Waste of time.

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>>39406999
>that line of hair above and below her belly button
My fucking dick.

God I love that hair that girls have, that you can only see when the sun hits it at a certain angle.

>have had tinder installed for 6 days
>5 matches 3 superlikes
>not enough time in the week to spend with all these women, have had to double up a day after work a few times

some of them are pretty cool and have nice taste, but are roastie whores so I would never date them seriously. Going out on 2nd date with a potential serious gf tomorrow night though, and the second potential the morning after

wish me luck, my ascension begins now
this group I hang out with in the dorms cant understand how I'm pulling this many women this quickly, and to be honest I don't get it either. I just do. Whether on tinder or in real life I have randomly become a chad after moving to uni

>>39412598
You're letting it go to your head. You will be brought back down.

>>39411515
The best average guy vs. hot girl pic ever.

>>39412631
ye maybe but so far I've had sex with 3 different women this week, cant take that away from me
I forgot to silence my phone one time and kept getting tinder messages from this chick texting me, had to just start laughing because of the absurdity of the situation and the chick turned around and started shoving her tongue down my throat

women are fucking weird man, its actually pretty disgusting

>>39410831
have slighly above average build, that helps somwhat

I dont use tinder because I'm scared that some one would recognize me.

>>39406999
Friends rate me a 8 or 9/10, as a dare I put myself on tinder and a friend kept swiping, it was like a hit ratio of 6 or 7/10. Friends going wild saying why am I not hitting this shit. I just sit there and shrug it off, I have no idea how to interact with these women, I wouldn't even know the first thing to say or do, at the same time I feel it's so much work for so little gain when I can just jack off?

Is there something wrong with me? Am I gay or bi, or not bothered? I've had sex with 3 girls, 2 of them one-night stands, but I don't know I've never had a massive urge like normal people?

>>39412715
I don't think women are weird.
I think life just fucking sucks.

>>39406999
This is going to be another "anons think they're better looking than they really are" episode isn't it?

>>39408709
> listening to roasties ever

this is where you fucked up

If I swipe right on literally every girl how many messages will I get


T. Guy who doesn't know tinder works

>>39412774

It's kinda like how all the robots on here have 8+ inch dicks

>>39412951
How you rate yourself?

>>39406999
im model tier attractive and never got one match after years

>>39412972
Isn't that just slightly above average?

>>39413024
So you're basically a fucking inbred goliath of a retard?

>>39406999
You only match with ugly and or fat chicks

>>39410831
My face is kinda cute, i make them laugh in my bio and i dress well. I sperg after that though.

>>39407344
/soc/ puts me anywhere between 5/10 all the way up to 8 sometimes

I still can't match with anyone above a 6, what's your secret

If I swipe right on everyone
get like 8 to 20 matches per day on women
about 100 to 300 matches per day on men.

But thats only the first week, after that the traffic is very low

>>39412516
>She wanted to have sex, and that's about it

sell your balls

>>39410831
>i swipe right on 100%
Isn't that supposed to fuck up your account and start only matching you with people who do the same?

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>conversing with a girl
>ask her hobbies
>say cool, I like that too
>she ghosts me

I'm sorry bitch, am I too boring for you? What do you want me to do, fucking cartwheels? You think I am here to amuse you? Fucking skank

>>39413296
Me too dude, i'm attractive and i get plenty of matches, but when it comes to talking or meeting girls just ghost me. I don't even want casual sex, :(

>>39412765
Are you sure your friends aren't just being nice to you.

I wish i had friends :(

>>39413296
Good job being entitled and salty that not every woman is going to pander to your every whim. Just move onto the next one, anon, Christ, it's a numbers game after all

>>39412516
>She wanted to have sex, and that's about it
Yes, that's the entire point of the app, you succeeded and then threw that success in the trash. Very few people are seriously trying to date through it. I'm a total recluse NEET and even I know this.

>>39413471
I'm not asking for a personal slave for fucks sake, but at least can I get a girl with an attention span longer than two god damned minutes?

Sometimes I can't even get past the greeting for fuck's sake

Average looking guy here, I get maybe 5-10 matches a week however I don't swipe much

I don't message any of them because I'm too scared, this one time a girl messaged me first and I unmatched her and regretted it instantly

>>39413608
You have to remember you're competing for her attention with at least 10 other thirsty normalfags at all times

>>39406999
Miserable depending on country/location. I got many matches in the time I used it but only actually met two people from it. Girls where I was were really closed off but they're like that in every day life too. You'll have no problem getting matches but converting those into anything meaningful will be soul-crushing.

>>39411699
kinda awkward desu but the cultures are similar in the context of being conquered by the spanish

>>39413983
This. /origatoni

>>39413967
Exactly, which is why I feel like I have to fucking entertain her. This is bullshit, why can't I have a normal conversation?

>>39414130
Put yourself in the shoes of the rosbeef, only then does all become clear

You guys make me sad.

I was on tinder for about 3 months last year. I swiped right on everything but obvious bots, so, I swiped right on something like 9000 women.

I got 2 matches. They were bots.

>feels bad man

>>39408597
you get more replies right after you sign up but everything dries up after about a week.

>>39414383
Country/state/city? That sounds rough

>>39406999

Not that bad actually. I get about 4 matches a week and fuck a chick every other month. So at least I dont live under the sterotypical robot archatype

5-6/10 according to the homosexuals on /soc/
Sometimes as low as 4. Sometimes 7.
(Full disclosure: im bald and shave my head)
I've had tinder for a couple years at least. Have 565 matches right now and I swipe right on everything except for obvious bots/cam girls and obese chicks. I've probably swiped on 1000's as I live in a big city

99% of the time conversations last for a day if I'm lucky. And it's always me trying to move the conversation forward.
Maybe 1% turn into texting and maybe 0.5% of that have ended up in sex.

>>39414584

Charlotte, North Carolina.

I had a bit of self-esteem before that. Not any more.

>>39406999

Really fucking awful.

>>39412103

Same exact thing happened to me bro...

>>39414619
this, but I'm black so it's mostly tumblr and facebook tier girls.

Living in Las Vegas sucks because a good 66% of the people on tinder here are tourists.

What is it like being a normal tinderite in a normal city?

I matched with a qt norwegian girl who left the next day and never replied. :(

single moms and whores

>>39407402
>>39407369
just make a fake faceberg for pussy hunting so your normie one is not fucked

This tinder shit depresses me. I just want someone cool with good vibes and isn't a fucking roastie drone pump and dump.

I know it's probably not hard to find but it feels like it is.

>>39406999
can you tinder without facebook yet?

>>39415596
I'm looking for that too. You won't find that on tinder, or on any dating site for that matter.

>>39406999
Can a virgin 23 male who still lives with mommy have any success on tinder or any dating site??? (asking for a friend)

>>39413052
no, technically 6 inches is above average by a slight margin in most western countries, and the black dick thing is honestly a meme when you look at the raw data across the world

>>39415793

If you are hot. Women are shallow as fuck.

>>39407298
Ell.i.ot, from Fayetteville, Is that you?

I don't really use tinder but I've thought about trying to advertise my photography services to guys who need good pictures for online dating sites. How pissed off would you be if you found a fake profile that was advertising such services as you were swiping?

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>finally work up the courage to download tinder
>remember I have no photos of myself
>at all

no social media either so yeah
I cant even enjoy a comfy hermit life because i work 12hrs a day in a work camp

why am i even still here
how do you even meet people as an adult when you have no spare time

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>>39416375
>why am i even still here
the same reason as the rest of us

just to suffer

>>39406999
If you're smart about crafting your profile, you'll get a fuckload of matches. Gotta have a good first pic that stands out and makes you look friendly. Your other pics should be of you with friends doing fun stuff.

If you do those, you'll get tons of matches. I used to get like 10 matches a day.

But, that is only half the battle. Girls expect you to make the first move, carry the entire conversation, etc. Get used to messaging some bitch with no profile to have her reply with "Heyy <some gay emoji>". At least 60% of the girls have literally no personality what so ever, hence why they're on Tinder instead of having been wifed already. Every question you ask them will get a vague ass answer. If you actually try to get to know the girl, like by asking them if they've gone to any good concerts recently, they'll answer with 'Yup <some gay emoji>'. You have to ask all the questions. The only thing most of these girls respond to is accusations of them being a trouble maker or sexually suggestive loaded questions. You might guess based on their complete lack of interest in any other kind of dialog that they're only interested in a hookup, but these are the kinds of girls hoping to meet their husband on Tinder ffs.

The majority of the remaining girls are batshit fucking crazy. Once you start talking to them, they'll message you every fucking morning, all day at work, all night talking about stupid shit like how their roommate is a fucking cunt, or how Donald Trump is sexist. And if you go 5 minutes without responding to their message, they'll flip shit and come at with stuff like 'wow. ok bye then. i guess I'm boring'. These girls will hook up with you on the first meetup, and some of them won't even make you take them out for dinner/drinks first.

Out of 200 matches, 1 or 2 might wind up being someone who you genuinely enjoy talking to, likes to fuck, doesn't make you want to blow your brains out, and can carry out a reasonable fling/relationship.

>>39406999

Some chicks are really loose on there, Im an average guy and I've met up with at least 4 chicks and a trap for bjs and have gone for coffee with a filipino model as well as matching up with people I already knew for fun

>>39416690

When you say smart, you mean being jacked, having a strong jawline, and being white, right?

>>39416690
>with friends
Well, I guess I'm fucked.

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>>39406999
>little to no matches
>matches never message first, or ignore when you message first
>a girl finally matches and actually messages me first
>conversation dies out after ~15 messages
To be fair, she sent the last message. I just didn't have anything else to talk about, and I don't want to meet her because our thing in common was drugs and I actually have 0 interest in taking any drugs.

>>39416883
No. You can be the ugliest fucking person in the entire world. If your profile is good, you'll get matches.

I'm talking like 50% Brian peppers 50% Steven Tyler ugly.

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>>39416932
Oh and I forgot to say what's most important: looks are only half the battle. The other 50% is the image you sell. You need good pictures that make you seem like a cool and outgoing person, someone exciting. I have very few pictures in existence of myself, even fewer taken by other people. In fact the only pictures of me that I didn't take myself are from family group photos. I cropped them so it looks like I'm with friends and used a picture of me at a skatepark, and one of me sitting in a tree. If I had better pictures, I'd probably get more matches. Also I think your bio matters a bit. Mine is just the tree emoji, it isn't appealing to 99% of girls but the "unique" druggie ones sometimes match with me. Problem is I don't actually do drugs at all anymore.

>>39416932

>She does everything
>tries to contact you and court you
>still not good enough

I think you have to take a step back and think about what you actually want

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>>39417035
Yeah, I could've done better but I was at work and the conversation dried up pretty quickly, like I said all there was to really talk about was drugs and work. The only other thing I could think was escalating and inviting her to hang out but that would certainly involve smoking or tripping and I have 0 desire to do so. I put myself in a box by trying to come off as some nonchalant free spirited drug user when in fact I'm highly anxious and not really free spirited at all

>>39416937

Your profile will never be good unless you are attractive.

>>39417111
>I put myself in a box by trying to come off as some nonchalant free spirited drug user when in fact I'm highly anxious and not really free spirited at all

Sounds like a great tinder profile summary

>>39408597

this is my experience using it too. i rarely use it anymore because i want to exert zero effort into it. i don't give a fuck about dating any of them and it takes genuine effort to talk to girls right now.


now i only use it when girls blatantly want to only meet up and fuck. just by letting my matches sit, i've had girls straight up bootycall me or be forthright with wanting some good dick. maybe im a dick but i cba to give a fuck about a girl other than having sex with her rn

>>39417157
Yeah maybe for a better looking guy but I don't have the looks, charisma, or interesting enough profile pictures to pull off the "brutally honest" angle.

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>>39416932

>girl point blank says she wants to fuck me
>think about having to clean up my place
>having to spend all that time with her before fucking acting like i give a shit about her
>have to spend all that time after fucking for after-care
>have to deal with her blowing up my phone for weeks afterwards trying to keep fucking me/date me
>dont even feel that strong an urge to fuck her at all even though she's hot
>ignore her instead


whats wrong with me

>>39412715
why the heII are you here?

>>39412517
Nah I'm on exchange in the USA, hence the being British helping

>>39406999
there is no experience.

>>39415080
What's the other 33% like? I'm moving there from New Mexico next year, here 90% of the people are fat hispanics and the rest are in the army

>>39414787
Damn, that sucks, man. The south seems like kind of a shitty place for robots though. Ingrained tubrostacy/chad culture

>>39417574

My guess is that it is based on physical appearance, so I'd do badly anywhere I go because women are the same everywhere.

Why are all you Chads who get laid from Tinder here?

>>39406999
Fat chicks or single moms. Sometimes combined.

>>39410831
I didn't say I'm average. I'm fat and my face is ugly as fuck. Your ELO might be super low due to you swiping right on everyone

>>39415714
Yeah I know, that shit already put my trust in women at an all time low.
I met someone recently who fit the bill but she's with someone, which I know probably means I was wrong and she's a snake telling me to fuck off.

>>39407946
>tattoos
ruined

>>39417777
Getting laid on Tinder !== Chad. Chads get with chicks everywhere they go.

On Tinder, you're not fucking 10/10 Stacys. Not unless you're a Chad. At best, you're fucking an 8/10 psychopath who's into Marxism and Whole Foods, and annoys the shit out of you 24/7. More likely you're fucking a 6.5/10 who thinks because you bought her dinner, she isn't being a slut. You're stuck fucking the chicks the Chads can't be bothered with.

>>39417777

Because it's our board just as much as yours

I live close to Boston and only get shown girls which are obviously rich, study in Harvard (I get tons of Harvard girls, many asians as well) and other private universities, and I'm a fucking immigrant poorfag. I was set to lose even before I even started playing the game.

>>39418143
This. I've been on here since gentlemen era. It was so much better before the beta virgin shit took over. This board is supposed to be about OC

>>39418448
Preach the fucking truth. The beta uprising thing was a joke that went way too far

>>39418143

No. Why would you want to be here? Being a robot is fucking hell. The only reason I don't kill my self is in addition to being hideous, I'm also terrified of death. I consider, and long for it, every day even though I fear it. If I were a functioning human being, I'd run as far away from here as possible. I don't really fit in anywhere else, though.

I genuinely don't understand how someone normal like you would ever want to be here, just like I don't understand people who get off on broke by kicked in the balls.