/25+ General/

28 and no dates. Reporting in

>>39334988
>27
>still live with mom
>cut contact with all friends years ago out of shame
>lost all the gains i worked for years to put on
>no gf in 7 years
>gambling addiction grows worse everyday
>afraid to get close to people because they may find out my shady past
>smoking more than a pack a day because high stress job

i dont really feel anything though.

>recently turned 25
>neet from 19-23
>still living at home
>mom died last Year
>lost all of my old Friends
>5'7 manlet
>weed addict for about a decade
Though it's actually getting better now
>almost completely ditch weed (I only smoke a very small bowl before going to sleep, but I'll stop soon because my heads are getting smaller and smaller)
>found some friends to occasionally go drinking with...they even invite me out
>still virgin but I made out with a girl
>install Tinder and get a moderate amount of matches. I'm too shy to meet them but I practice my "game"
>still hate my new job but at least I have money and got some perspective for my future
>bought a bass guitar
>trying to get/fit/
Do you guys have any other idea for a hobby that I can do alone but also use to socialize, should the opportunity arise?
My main problems are that I'm living at home and that I'm "boring" because I spend most of my free time on 4chan.

Just turned 26. Still living with parents (am disabled). Living off welfare. Only gone out twice in 5 months. Am still kissless virgin.

Im going to die a loser.

>>39335397
>Do you guys have any other idea for a hobby that I can do alone but also use to socialize, should the opportunity arise?

Maybe pick up an instrument? Start going to music classes or something? Been thinking about it myself.

>>39335397
Try an outdoors activity like hiking. Gets you fit and out of the house

>>39335464
I already picked up a bass guitar and I don't really can take classes because my work schedule is Changing all the time + they are very expensive over here

>>39335500
Hiking sounds like a good idea but is it still fun if I only have boring scenery around me?(everything is flat and full of fields...not even a forest)

Reporting in from the concurrent oldfag thread
>25
>have apartment, cat, pretty comfy
>work as a research scientist
>am really well suited for my job because I'm autistic as fuck when it comes to my research
>unsuccessful at all human interactions because I'm autistic as fuck
>don't know how to hold conversations unless it's about my work
>was raised with very strict manners too so in the rare case I can contribute to a conversation I'm too afraid to interrupt someone so I just don't speak
>no friends, no interpersonal connections, most days are lonely

>>39335567

Just take your phone like everyone else that hikes and greet people that walk by. :D

>>39335567
It's not necessarily hiking, but even just walking outside in a park or the like is supposed to be very good for emotional/mental health.

>>39335397
Seconding hiking. Also, DnD is fun but more for friends, non-crazy girls who play are rare.

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What do you think it's like to have a family?

I can't stop thinking about it.
My life feels so empty.

>>39335678
Thanks anon, it's actually nice weather today so I guess I'll go for a walk and search for somewhere green outside

I'll probably get comments along the lines of "you were never a robot," "reeee get out" etc., but just so you guys know your mid 20s isn't too late to turn things around. It's really starting to happen for me with a lot of effort and luck. Keep working on yourselves, bots.

>>39334988
>25
how is this even old? you're just out of college and getting your first job or continuing with professional degree

t. wizard

>>39335789
Well im in community school, i dont got a degree and if i would go for one now i would be 30+ when i had one.

>>39335111
>>no gf in 7 years
So you had gfs in your teens? Fuck right off then, normie.

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>>39335748
>What do you think it's like to have a family?

I wish I knew

I have nothing to live for

I'm 25. My dad and I moved to a new town (Bundaberg, Australia). We're going to share rent a place and carve out a new life. We're all gonna make it bruhs.

>>39336159
fuck thats real

>26 birthday is exactly a month from now
Reeeeee, I thought THIS would be the year when my life changes

It's never going to get better, is it

>>39336159
that picture...

also... yeah... current trends are as we all know stripping away any motivation a man could have to improve his life.

I have done it all trying to improve my chances; improved my posture, improved my general style, clothing, im sitting on a pile of money I have no real use for, improved social skills massively (I am no longer the shy guy in the corner of the bar), improved my diet massively too, yet, last night I got denied by a woman I thought I was getting along with well... shrugged it off in the moment but still... IS ANYTHING EVER GOOD ENOUGH FOR THEM?

>>39336187
Nice anon, QLD is a pretty cool state and if I had to move anywhere from here I'd definitely head up there.

What are you planning on doing up there?

>27
>have absolutely no one in this world
>internet friends have all become backstabbing normalfags
>mom chose her chad bf over my sister and me
>everyone in this house will act as kind as possible to your face and then drag you through the mud relentlessly as soon as you leave the room
>havent had anything remotely close to a real life friend in a decade
>whenever I go outside I feel like I'm just wading through a sea of creatures totally unrelated to me

I really don't care for this species anymore

>27
>still in college, undergrad
>No friends
>can't even be bothered to try anymore
>gonna go to counseling this year and try some kind of meds I guess
>can't keep living like this...

>>39335397
>Do you guys have any other idea for a hobby that I can do alone but also use to socialize, should the opportunity arise?

get an active dog and go to the park and play with it. you'll get companionship, something to get you out of the house, a little bit of exercise and the possibility of meeting up with park qts.

could be expensive if you go for a purebred lab or something like that though

>>39336650
>internet friends have all become backstabbing normalfags

this one hits home, everything has became so "normie"fied on the internet

I have a few mates from back in the day and now they're shilling their Patreons and social medias, always whinging and complaining about politics - They can't just let things be once they're online anymore.

>>39336975
goat hobbies include

>weightlifting
>calisthetics or however you spell it (bodyweight workouts)
>swimming
>basketball
>kayaking
>gardening
>motorcycles
>fishing

>27
>can't be arsed to study for my test tomorrow
>can't be arsed to clean up my mess of an apartment
I'd get drunk, but I only have 1/5th of a winebottle left.

>>39335111

How do you feel like gambling in such a situation?
I used to do sports betting, but eventually stopped because I realized that I don't even need the money. If I had won a million I still wouldn't know what to do with it.

>>39335748

It terrifies me.
Even if I somehow magically "fixed" my life, I don't know how I would cope with having a family. The thought of having children scares me, because of how uncomfortable it would make me since I have to fake everything I do. I don't feel like faking happiness and content for my children.

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>>39337157
>>can't be arsed to clean up my mess of an apartment
The spirit of your father is judging you.

>>39335766

Post a picture as proof in the thread.

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25? Still a robot? Sheesh, shouldn't you have grown out of that by now?

>>39337275
I never had a good relationship with my father.

>>39336513

Your problem is that you're a naive, gullible idiot who fell for the r9k meme that all women are the same and evil.
Maybe once you stop being so entitled and realize that there are 3 billion different women out there, there is no way for you to generalize them all.

Here's how I know that you're not that great. Posting a bragging post about yourself implies you're entitled and full of yourself. No one wants to have anything to do with people like that.

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>27 roast
>lateblooming and feeling teenage tier body image issues
>i will never look as plump as pic related
>have to lie about my age because mentally i act 18-22

I don't get why i didn't go through this phase when i was a normal age for it

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>>39334988
Most of you will probably think I'm a normie but whatever

>25
>live alone in a house I cant afford becuase I moved in with my exGF, and she didnt get put on the lease because it would be harder to get approved with her on it
>2 major GFs, lasting 2 years and 1 year. both cheated on me
>My mother cheated on my father
>had multiple one night stands with drunk whores, they always brag about cheating on their partners
>Hate women because of all this
>5'9, 175lb, slightly fat, slightly muscular
>1 real friend
>several friends that I do nothing with but play warhammer like games or roleplaying
>Deliver pizzas at dominos for a living, failed as a manager
>no education, not that smart
>daydream about my life magically becoming better, but make no effort towards it
>Havent played a video game in weeks because they dont make me even slightly happy
>All I do now is work or lay in bed watching youtube or on 4chan
>Can't ever see my life actually getting better

>>39337698
>All I do now is work or lay in bed watching youtube or on 4chan

The worst thing is that I'm so tired I have no energy to do anything else on Monday-Fridays after work, especially since I get up at 6AM and brave the cold to lift

Only 2 days where I have the physical energy to do things? And even then I don't know what I want to do

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>dropped 70lbs within the span of 5 months
>took me only 2 weeks to put it back on
>27
>hkv
>manlet
>neet
>kicked out of trucking school for failing the DMV test 5 times
>"you exhausted your time here'
>exhausted
>trucking school
life is one cruel jester

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>>39337939
>70lbs
>put back on in two weeks

yo something is seriously wrong with your scale. That or you look like pic related

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>>39337268
>since I have to fake everything I do
are you me? i could never fake being happy for my children or caring about them at all.
this prevents me from building a family and being a normal person

>>39337939

How did you lose the weight? I'm interested in a way to lose weight in a healthy way as fast as possible.

>>39338061
Not him but i lost 25lbs in three weeks with water fasting. It's super easy to do and after the third day your hunger goes away

>>39338051

Do you also pretend to be normal when you have to, because you're taking the path of least resistance because you don't have the guts to kill yourself already?
After every thing I do, a realization of "what am I even doing, why bother" hits me abruptly and my face just goes from the concerned smile to blank.

>>39338077

That doesn't sound healthy.

>teenage sister pregnant
>mother very ill

i am being tested

>>39334988
29 live with parents
No job
no gf
no friends

play overwatch all day and eat rice and beans

contact fagging on soc to try to get a GF


g-g-guys this is the american dream r-r-right?

>>39338092
>That doesn't sound healthy.
Neither is being a fat fuck like you

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Not one of you cunts are in your 30s? Ffs.

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>>39334988
Freshly 25 now since my birthday passed. All I want is not to be alone anymore, but no one can manage my problem. It's mine, not theirs.

>>39335577
honesty you seem too normie to be here if you have a job and are living by yourself and am able to function IRL


please leave.
plz

>>39338190
There's plenty. Hell, we have two guys who are almost 50

>>39334988
27 years old.

Fucked up but I can't really complain because it's my fault.

/r9k/'s definition of a loser feels like it has changed.

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>>39338092
I don't have a lot of places to try to be "normal" and i hardly talk to anyone. Sometimes, while in public, ill laugh to something i think, and i pretty much cannot stop thinking, sometimes thinking hard enough to lose contact iwth reality.

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>27
>live with ailing mother
>EMT almost done paramedic school
>told my gf of 2 years to fuck off the other day
>raging alcoholic
>sad a lot
>pick up extra night shifts so I don't drink/fap/cry/vidya
>coke habit
>just want to hang out with doggo & down a fifth of vodka & cry 7 days a week
>going to be worlds saddest physician by 40 out of spite
>juggalo

I hate everyone and I hate everything

Do any of you go around with a constant pain or strong discomfort? My body hates me, it riddles me with anxiety of what its next trick might be. I'm afraid to apply for simple jobs, do simple tasks and generally exist since I'm in this state of constant nausea.
It's nothing wrong with me - physically, but my mind makes shit up for some bizarre reason. I can't fathom that people are able to focus on anything, when my default state is tight throat, stomach ache, nausea and a feeling of about to throw up or need the bathroom. It's been like this for a year, and it's so fucking tiresome.
It takes away ability to focus, to distract myself and perform everyday tasks. Everything becomes a rush for it to end. Hurrying through the grocery store just to get out, hurrying from A to B. Work (lel unpaid internship with small payment from government because I'm not well enough to work, but too well to not work) suffers, it's agony to slowly watch the time while having this notion of buildup in my throat.

The worst is the social fear of throwing up, since part of my job involves to not be seen or paid attention to, but if I were to need to throw up - or throw up without realizing it before it's happening, focus would be on me. And it would interfere with some police work (I just control a camera and press record).
It's absolutely agony that I can't trust my own body, when I have no reason not too. I have never thrown up outside from alcohol/drug-induced since kindergarten, yet that's all I think about during the day.

>>39334988
29 here
I've opted out of society.
Sometimes i dream about having a loving wife and 2 kids and it breaks my heart knowing that i will never have that.

>25
>body and mental state frozen in time since 18
>psyche is the same only devoid of most feelings and hardened as fuck
>literally no other progress in any way for 7 years except for the external world which seems to rot as i pass by and rot slower

>28
>getting married next year
>bought a house 2 years ago
>ok job in IT, hopefully promotion next week

Pretty good, however:
No real friends, no hobbies beside vidya, not fat but not fit by any means. My fiance has quite a big social circle and I mostly get all the interaction I need through that, but I need some real bros. Sometimes I wonder what I'm doing with my life, like I want to do something but I have no idea what it is.

>>39339533
Why are you posting here? You are literally surrounded by outcasts and misfits trying to find a place for themselves. I'm not judging you by any means, just wanna know your motives.

>>39335748
Why would you subject another child to this misery?

>>39338077
Won't you just put it all back on again after you stop?

>25
>No job
>no college education
>lazy fuck
>virgin
>addicted to cocaine and alcohol (trying to stop)
>fucking kill me already

>25
>forestry and environmental sciences masters degree,post graduate in wildlife management and conservation.Worked in volunteer animal rehabilitation centers to gain experience.
>Did my 9 months of army in my country,special forces.It was surprisingly easy.
>no friends,never had a girlfriend,prostitution is legal in my country,I save money and fuck a new escort every week.Escorts are cheaper in my country than America and are eastern european so they are much better than western escorts.
>I can play guitar,I learned for youtube,nothing crazy though but I am enjoying it.Own a cheap honda motorcycle and ride alone.I take some decent photos.I have a mama 7 camera which totally rocks.
>I am preparing to leave to europe to work.I want to work as an wildlife biologist,animal conservationist.My dream job is to work as a park ranger in Africa.I do not really care about how much money I will make,since I tend to live with very little money already.I have a lot of experience with animals as I was very lucky to be raised in the country so dealing with animals is natural to me.Also,I hate large cities.
>So thats it.I live completely alone and do not have any family or girlfriend to care about.It hits me hard that I never had any real friends though.I take comfort in the fact that others have it much harder than me in life and try to live every day the best I can.

>>39340321
mamiya 7 camera

>25
>live at home, own car
>40k/year IT job, 45k saved
>a couple of decent friends to go drinking/bowling/hiking with
>not khv but >nogf
>drink/smoke weed too much
I've decided I want to lose weight and try to date 18-22 year olds. My friend's gf and her younger sister came out with us last night, little qt3.14 and gave me a new perspective.

>>39338128
Why do you think you deserve a gf with stats like those? How the hell do you expect to compete?

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>30
>quit job to spend 4 months traveling
>back home now for a month
>bored, depressed, drinking too much
>literally just play WoW all day and drink cheap wine in the evenings
>not sure what to do next

>>39339674
No, i'm not a fatass

>>39338813
>juggalo
Seriously? Why?

>>39335397
i wanna learn how to dance. Im already pretty fit so that would complement it i think.

Doing okay. 60k a year IT job. Gf i live with. Friends that i had in high school/college are all too far away to hang with, and i just dont like hanging out with people most of the time. Good most of the time but recently tried getting off celexa and couldnt handle depression and anxiety from withdrawals. Have had trouble sleeping over the past few weeks now which really makes me want to just end it all. Gets my anxiety going like crazy. Doesnt really matter what all you have in life, if your mental health sucks your sorta fucked.

I'll be twenty-three in November, you don't mind if I join, do you?

>30
>No job
>No friends
>Debt
>Live in Honda Civic
>Chubster
>Acne

>25
>learning to fix ac systems
>nice because I don't have to deal with people like a cashier or waiter would
>sucks because heat exhaustion and 12 hour days
>love life nonexistent
So this is the rest of my life, huh?

>>39341751
Hey you're doing good. When you learn the ropes start your own business and rake in the cash.

>>39334988
> 29
> Living abroad
> Knowing that if life is bad one day it can be good the next one.
> Not super happy but not depressed anymore
> Not so bad, more curious about future than frightened by it.

>>39335567
Everywhere I go to hike or walk is filled with fucking normies. I take my book to the park to read in peace and there's tons of annoying people blasting music even though the park sign clearly says no music. Then there's groups of friends running around behind me having fun.

Same thing with hiking trails literally filled with groups of dumb stacies taking pictures of themselves. While I don't mind the prescence of a few people its like every damn place I go is like a fucking circus. I want to be at peace and be in nature not surrounded by idiots like i'm at some outdoor club.

>>39339216
Tried benzodiazepines, low doses of anti emetics, healthy eating?

>>39341853
i ain't reading that shit nigger. give me a tl;dr

>>39341898
tried sucking cock, fagot?

>be 25+ me
>meet person that was supposedly a girl on a site
>tell the person I'm interested in getting to know her if she was really a female
>she accepts
>we talk for 5 days
>decent conversations
>subject becomes dating preferences, marriage and kids
>person says she can't have kids for some reason
>oh no
>"could it be that you're a man pretending to be a female haha?"
>beats around the bush for 2 days to then send me really long text explaining that "she" was a man and thought that could milk my attention long enough for me to like "her"
>cut contact

Why would someone do this sort of shit? I'm feeling disgusted with myself and I don't know for how long this will last. Sucks to know that a guy my age fell for this just because I'm lonely.

>>39341898
No benzo, but I've been on different anti-depressants with little to no effect a few months/years before it started.I'm eating healthy - at least most of the time, I do however eat like hell on the weekends and the pain is sometimes less due to it being weekend.
Over the week I'm very careful of what I eat to avoid upsetting my stomach too much.

As for Antiemetics, I was prescribed Stemetil to take care ofthe symptom, but it left me feeling dull and less present. It was as if I had a certain high, not that it helped with the discomfort though.

It's most likely anxiety or something else mental, but it takes its toll. I can't imagine being a functional normal person at this point. I might have a (easy) job, decent pay, own (mortage'd) an apartment and that's my contribution to this life. All while being mentally and physically tormented by my own mind.

I don't get how people can have a dog, have 2 kids, have a partner, have a house, have hobbies, have a network, and still have energy spare for whatever may happen. That's so foreign to me.

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>>39334988
25 since today, the only people that remembered my Bday are my parents and my sister, invited me over to eat some cake and drink coffee.


I don't even care anymore

>>39340403
Damn literally me, how are you holding up anon

>>39342010
>Sucks to know that a guy my age fell for this just because I'm lonely.
what did he mean by this?
>>39342023
nice blog faggot. no one cares about your shit life
>>39342038
happy b'day anon.

>>39342109
>what did he mean by this?
I meant that as a 25 year old dude I should know better than to blindly trust people.

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>>39342010
That's what trannies do anon. They're mentally ill.

>>39342023
Low benzo doses that would not create addiction could probably help. As for the middle class dream life, it's not how most people live anyway.
>>39342109
Fuck off son, go meme somewhere else.

>>39342248
I'm feeling like shit because I talked for almost a week to that person.

In a few days I'm going to try and get viagra prescribed to me for my dead dick. Wish me luck.

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>>39342298
Yep. And the best part is that person feels no remorse, to them you're just a typical close-minded cis male.

>>39335748
don't have kids mate unless your really want and can afford them

>>39342276
make me you fucking old fag
>>39342248
how can you not realize that that is a guy. dude was probably angry at his friend for disturbing him
>>39342307
>dead dick
don't fight it m8. that's nature telling you that it's time to transition. better to go with the grain and start injecting estrogen. tranny life is best life
>>39342298
find him irl and revenge fuck the shit out of him for wasting your precious minutes. deeds like his shouldn't go unpunished

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>27
>was always struggling with money at a shitty part time job, no training or education
>now making almost 500 a week, seems to be just enough
>meet fat mexican girl from texas, total opposite of what i would go for but beggars can't be choosers.
>been alone for years and settle, give it a shot
>i fuck it up in a couple weeks
Its her birthday today and i feel like i should apologize for the mean things i said after she said "sorry this was just meant to be some fun" but it will just be a waste of time/energy. Not sure if i miss her or just companionship.

>>39342044
Life's pretty comfy honestly. I need to lose ~25lbs and I'd be more conventionally attractive. Seriously though I think I want to start cruising the younger girls for a while but it's hard to meet them not being in school and shit.

>>39342695
Same. I always thought many girls like older guys so once im almost 30 I'd finally get some good pussy. Nope, don't know where to meet them or they still think I'm creepy. I got mad at a girl for calling my friend creepy the other day, you could say i was triggered because of all the times I've been called creepy. Maybe because I'm 6'2 and don't have the best posture.

39 I live a miserable and bleek existence

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>>39338128
Senpai
>European
>27
>No education
>Shitposting instead of vidya

I think this /soc/ phase is the final phase of my """sane""" mind and a sign of a mental illness starting to manifest it's self at last.
I feel like i'm finally starting to lose it.
Been practicing ligature suspension hanging lately and i start to loose consciousness within 20 seconds with very light, painless pressure.

Hopefully i can find a mentally ill gf on /soc/ to """enrich""" before going all the way trough with the hanging.
Scared as fuck to do it finally, hold me bros.

>>39340109
>no job
>cocaine and alcohol addiction

how?

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>31
>minimum wage job
>spend all my free time drinking cheap booze and playing mmos
Fortunately, at this point I don't really care. I've reached a bizarre stage at which I no longer give a fuck about others, myself, anything whatsoever. Liberating in a way, but the feelings of emptiness and emotional void are still weirding me out every now and then.

>>39342695
Thats good man. I lost 50 pounds last year and it definitely helped. I'm not insanely attractive but girls definitely talk to me more and seem more attracted to me than they did before. I actually have an IT at my old college so I'm surrounded by younger girls but being staff makes it weird. Honestly the easiest way is to meet them through other people. Even if you only make one friend, all you have to do is get into their larger group of friends and then you go from there.

>>39342787
It's kind of a gray area with younger girls. 18 year olds are after guys their own age typically but once they hit college senior age they're looking for someone older aka with money car job house etc

>27
>Self supporting but minimal social life, almost no confidence or energy when talking to others, male or female
>move to city and rent a house with friend and two roomies in hope that it will be great opportunity to socialize
>two months in and starting to regret my decision; cant relate to these people
>trade job pays the bills at about 55k but I get tired of it and think maybe i should have finished university instead
>Get along with parents but relations with other relatives is mostly poor or non existent
>feel despair as I feel my youth slipping away and I dont have much to show for it relationship wise
>see stupid and poor people in relationships

While I love talking to people my age, these threads are always very boring.

>>39335438
hahahahaha, and you deserve to due a virgin

There is no escape from this horrible life. I from hating being a NEET with no life and no money and nothing, to hating being a wagecuck with no life outside of work, no time, still no friends, still not meeting girls. I move 3 times, still nothing. I'm gonna be a loner my entire life and I'm 27 now so I'm not young any more. Nothing interests me. I don't want to go back to school, I don't want a difference job, I don't want to learn a trade.......none of it will change shit.

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>>39334988

I'm 25, gonna be 26 in 6 months. I'm assuming it only gets worse

>27 khhv never had a gf
>manlet
>dicklet
>fattymcfatass

currently stuck at my parents since beginning of august because i had a surgery, will have to stay here for a additional two weeks

then i can get back to my place
i'm bored beyond imagination

vidya is not fullfilling anymore and i dunno what to start as a new hobby (got a few supplies for drawing but i dunno)

I'm turning 22 next month, but already feel like I'm a bum in my late-20s. These threads are one of the few that I can relate to nowadays. Was just after some perspectives on what post-college life (graduating with a Bachelor's degree or lower) is like for non-normies.

>>39338061
go to tdee calculator and ate 1600 calories a day.Broccoli,chicken breast,and green drink plus banana,and oats

>>39343748

Wow, get a load of this edgelord.

Seriously, what's the point of making someone feel even worse when they're down?

>>39343933
photography? maybe learn an instrument?

>>39343961
you have a degree, i assume? What is it in?

who else here 25+ and /backacne/ ?
Thank God my face cleared up when I reached 20, but it's still really bad on my back

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>>39334988

27 in a couple months.

>still in community college
>still not sure what to do
>probably get a certificate in web design and then maybe do surgical tech afterwards
>live with mom but have dropped out of school so many times in effort to move away
>also live in desert but would like to move somewhere cold
>fuck the desert
>virgin
>kind of want to make video games , kind of dont

>>39335438
How much do you get from welfare? Wish you all the best, bud.

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a lot of 27 year old bros in this thread. Anyone already have bad knees?

26, reporting in.

lost two jobs in a month, a new record. last one was because of "budget reasons" but they hired two more people after laying me off. The more I lose jobs the less likely I am to find one. Where the hell am I supposed to go? I wish that America will just self-implode already, it's the only thing I have to look forward to, in the long run at least.

26 KV here.

I'm planning a trip to Nevada to lose it there. I honestly think that once I get through with the act, I'll realize that it's not that big of a deal and it won't be on my mind every day like it is now. Or at least that's my hope.

>Just do it where you live
Too scared of getting arrested to do it where I live. Even a 1% chance is too much to me. I'd rather just pay the extra money for a 100% chance of not being arrested.

>>39345510

Thank you. I get $720 per month. It's not a whole lot, and definitely not enough to get my own place around where I live.

I could move into one of those assisted living places but I don't know. I'd live by a bunch of old people.

>>39345876
What disability do you have?

Cxzxc

36, reporting in i feel like im 90 and my legs are fucked. got a good job and a nice wife tho

feelsgood.gif

>>39345876
Be happy you recieve anything from your country at all. I, for instance, should i go full neet, will get nothing, a big fucking zero

>>39345940

Essential tremor. Only going to get worse as I grow older.

34 robot here. Nice flat, cold beer, full bag of weed, and madden 18. Life. Is. Good.

>>39345549
No but back hurts almost every day. How did your knees go bad?

>>39345956

Where you from? That sucks. It's mandatory here. However, been considering picking up a job, just to get out more. Something like overnight stocking.

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>26
>graduated college in a worthless degree
>tried to pursue a career in music
>failed, band broke up and now I work a wage slave job to pay my rent and just keep myself above water financially
>have no friends, no idea what I want to do with my life
>want to possibly become a Database Administrator but I spend most of my time dicking around on the internet and not hitting the books (I have a terrible fucking attention span)
>going back to college would get me in shape intellectually but I don't have the money and I don't want to deal with the SJW bullshit that goes on there these days
>have no interest in music anymore, the one thing that used to bring me joy
>only thing I enjoy doing is shooting my guns at the range, which everyone thinks I'm a fucking weirdo for and just ends up burning a huge hole in my wallet.
>thinking about joining the army to either get shot in some sand dune or get a free ride to college (either one is fine honestly) but I have a bad lower back so I don't think they would even take me.
>spend most of my life doing the bare minimum to keep myself alive and feel fucking empty inside.

So.......this is adulthood.

>>39342896
I could never do hanging, i always thought fall from bridge would be my end. Good luck though and i feel you.

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>>39334988
Today I turn 26.
> no birthday wishes from friends (FB was a mistake)
> my brother didn't even call
> no gf
> making $13/hour with benefits at high-stress job that I'm already one bad day away from losing
> deliberately cut myself off from news because it's never good and the world seems to be falling apart
> slightly fat but know that even losing weight and becoming /fit/ will not solve my problems
> feel slightly happy that my life is almost certainly at least one-quarter done with

>>39345978
Sounds great lad

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>>39334988
>28
>100% KHV, never had a date
>still live with parents
>most of my friends abandoned me and i became the last option for the remaining rest
>lifelong health issues due the heavy motorcycle accident i've been involved in two years ago
>rather returned back on the bike instead gathering enough balls to ask any girl out
>crashed again week ago, i'm okay, bike has only minor damages (pic related), will ride again
am i really that desperate?

>>39346339
Happy 26 my man. I know it sounds overused and it is but at least trying to get /fit/ does wonders for self esteem and happiness. Hpw will you spend the day?

>>39346417
Crashing an mt-09 man that would of set you back a fair bit cash wise
I learned on a Yamaha YBR125 and came off a few times. Now i ride a CB500, it's as old as me and a solid machine, dirt cheap too. Great excuse to pick up girls and the true robot mode of transport

>>39346417

Where is it damaged?

>>39335748
babies are honestly ugly as fuck and not only that but annoying

i feel better knowing i wont bring another person into this gay earth

>>39346445
Probably end up wasting time on 4chan at this rate, maybe some video games too

>>39334988
didn't have time to read the thread yet
but is anyone trying to find others in similar situations? how? if not, why not? in case one of your problems is loneliness do you think it would be a way to still achieve happiness in your life?
my hope is that i'll find similar people relatively soon. the good thing is that i don't feel the urge to be part of the "normal" world. a few like minded people would be all i need, although the bar is a bit high because anyone with only mild problems would be out of the question ... for now at least.

>>39346630
i've been riding for more than 10 years already and i still learn new things, anon. i still have quite nice cash from the previous accident (i was the victim and i've got financial compensation from culprit's insurance company). so far i have deal with a shop on 1400 dollars limit to fix anything that prevents safe riding. they'll eventually call me if there's more.

>>39346737
the forks, especially the blue tube, should be straight. the fenders is also about to be donated to the local guitar picks factory and the rad got twisted a bit too.

>>39346862
I would be surprised if anyone lived close by eachother

>>39346897
true, i am mainly wondering what people think in general, do they feel the need, what would they do if they wanted to try and so on.

>>39347043
Well i am in my situation because of me, i push people away and cant act very spergy and i am suspecting a drinking problem, just because you guys are in similar situations does not mean i wouldnt do to you like i did to all the other people in my life if you know what i mean.

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>>39346104
Im same. Did 5 years masters and not only there are little jobs and those pay nonliveable wage but I dont even want them anymore. Just remind yourself that if it wasnt medicine or some specific STEM like CS you probably wouldnt be in bette situation. At best you would be doing something you hate for a bit more than minimum or something.

Today its who you know/be lucky/get 3-4 degrees that are in demand but no guarantee they will still be once you finish. I dont have either so I am a wagie.

>>39347130
there certainly are no guarantees. some people, including me, would need people with high tolerance. but if both sides are willing to try, it could work. unlike (deeper) contacts with normies that simply aren't possible in some cases.

27
Shit job no money no friends no GF

But going back to school tomorrow

Last three relationships were horrible one cheated the other too were extremely abusive. Glad I got out of the last one with a batshit insane blue haired cunt.

Still miss the company but I think I would rather be alone then be with someone like that again

>>39347411
Would not hurt to try i guess. But im pretty sure were pretty spread out, im in scandinavia for starters.

>28
>Have no friends, significant other
>Family is across the country, but I dislike them anyway
>Barely go outside, too afraid to go out and make friends
>Ugly, skinny as fuck, already bald
>Work deadend job, barely able to pay the rent and have money leftover for food
>Unrequited love with someone online I've never even met.

I think about suicide at least once per week. Think I'll do it after my dog dies.

>>39347645
Fuck i felt that, keep pupper safe.

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>dropped out of college three times between 18-19
>26 now and just a sophomore in uni
>too autistic to have roomates
>barely enough money to live in my shithole apartment
Was "it gets better" a meme?

>>39335577

Hey Anon, fellow comfy scientist reporting in. We don't have to be alone, we could talk about work if you wanted and see where the conversation goes from there?

>>39335577
>research scientist
>25
How? you need a PhD to do anything beyond lab monkey work.

>>39347706
He's the only reason I go outside. Sometimes I wish he'd die sooner so I could kill myself. Sometimes I entertain finding him another owner so I could kill myself. Who know what the future holds

>>39344944
That's me. I saw it today and its pretty bad. Just bought a brush and some soap to help clear it up. Sun also really helped me clear it up before but I wasn't out enough this summer since i'm away from home.

>>39337563

autism

literally autism

still ezmode if you have a vag to be honest mi familia

>>39347640
being spread out makes it harder, yes. i wonder what the total amount is and how many "hard cases" there are - as opposed to people who are maybe not really satisfied but still okay with living how they live. i could even imagine some sort of community with the right amount of, well, community and space to be alone. sounds a bit like an asylum, i know, but it would have to be like a well-done apartment complex or something.

>>39347850
Atleast you got someone that loves you, doggo sounds more loyal than roastie.

>26
>parents kicked me out
>have until September 1st to leave the house
>cant afford renting in my city
>no friends or relatives to hit up

What do m8s...

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>>39347965
>bunch of old robots living together in a apartment complex
Sounds like it would smell alot but i like the idea

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Recently, a 40 year old person from IRC opened my eyes to a few ideas such as how newfags have always dictated the site's direction. For example:

>when the site started, it was advertised in SA, where moot had started out before copying 2ch's idea
>people came in with their usernames and didn't anonpost because they literally carried their personas from other sites here
>/b/ started popularizing the anon caricature greenman with the 404 not found and suit thing
>people started anonposting once they realize this site facilitated sharing ideas with no strings attached
>with the culmination of the hackers on steroids and chanology/habbo raids happenings, newfags flooded the board taking a lot of those old jokes seriously
>when /a/ and /b/ were the biggest boards, the boogeymen were gaia, livejournal and myspace
>/v/ and /a/ became the dominant hobby boards until /v/ became the most active board after /b/
>suddenly around 2007-8, more normies flooded the site and because those old sites were still somewhat functional but they were newer gen, shit like Facebook became increasingly accepted
>people still called out others for using normiebook but the pace at which old anons shamed and new anons joined was not enough for assimilation so looking down upon social media got phased out
>flash forward to a few years after and even twitter, snapchat, kik, etc on top of fb are all accepted by 4chan
>there's even a containment board a la /mlp/ for this shit

He also ranted about the history of ironic shitposting and all sorts of stuff that bothered him. I was a summerfag of 2007 myself but I was never deep enough into any board until following r9k form its creation to now. I was wondering if any of the older posters had deep rooted hatred for specific board stuff like him.

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not sure if this is the right place to ask, but can you guys give me some advice on something that's been on my mind for a while now?
>
I just turned 25 and am in school (graduate program), but am having trouble connecting with people. I have "friends" but they don't feel like friends because our relationship is based around shallow interests like memes and drinking. I feel like I don't have a real connection to anyone, not even my gf or my parents. There's something inhibiting me from taking these friendships further, and I think it's because of my desire to be a recluse.
Up until 2 years ago, I was a shut-in khv ho just wanted to be left alone. When I moved to a new city for school, it was chance to reinvent myself. I got a bit less shy and made a few social gains, lost virginity, became a normie. But it all feels so fake. I don't care about any of these people. In my head I just want to be alone and not interact with anyone. But at the same time I know that to succeed, I have to be able to make connections and shake this toxic desire to be alone. And I don't know if this desire to be left alone is real or if it's a coping mechanism learned from growing up ignored or bullied. Whatever it is, it's holding me back from improving.

I guess what I want advice on is if I should turn to psychedelics to help me understand and get rid of the feeling, or if I should go to a therapist instead? Any robots fix their psychological troubles through psychedelics? Any robots fix their psychological problems with the help of a professional? Pls help

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>>39347866
I've wondered if i had please be patient i have autism but i met another girl who is one and the difference between us has me confused. She cannot tell if a joke is serious, even very obvious over-the-top ones. It's pretty embarrassing.

Well, either way i'm almost at the wall and i'm going through 16 yr old girl puberty.

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>every girl I fall for already has a boyfriend

How do you lads deal with this? Every time it happens I lose more and more hope

>>39342038
>>39342038
Holy shit, i took that screenshot and posted it back when ds2 had just come out, thanks for making my evening lol, never thought i'd see it again.

27 here, going allright i guess, hang in there

>>39348322
Youre the opposite of me, i went from normie to robot. I would say that a therapist will actually help you if you are able to confide in her or him as speaking truthfully with another human irl is something noone here does, we lie or hide stuff because we are either ashamed or afraid what people will say or do to us if they knew. I would not recommend psychadelics in order to understand things but then again i never tried so what do i know.

>>39348326
>lateblooming
Youre 27, when you say lateblooming what do mean.

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>>39334988
>34yo
>Highschool dropout
>Bullied through high school
>Neet
>Havent worked in over ten years
>No friends
>No girlfriend
>Only mommy loves me
>Diagnosed with Schizophrenia
>Mommy getting old so I know I have a future of soul crushing loneliness ahead of me after she dies
Someone kill meeee

>>39348365
Isn't it obvious? Find someone who has no boyfriend.

>>39348478
I'm just now starting to care about what i look like and not being a complete sperg, but i'll be 30 soon

>>39335397
This guy reporting back. I didn't go for a walk but spent the day in the garden thinking how to redecorate my room and fucking around on tinder
>get a match with a personal 8/10 who only has 1 pic
>hit it off great and chat non stop for a few hours
>arrange a date on tuesday
>get her whats App
>she's actually a 5/10 and I feel no attraction to her because she is THICC
>her personality is great but I know I could do better because I'm actually good looking (albeit a manlet)
>I need experience but already feel bad just when I think about using her
Wat do?
I've also decided to Hey bouldering

>>39349068
She's a fatass. Don't show any mercy

>>39349068
If you're a virgin then fuck her and get some exp from it.

>>39349454
this is why i hate humanity and want to die. look how people are so cruel as to use another for their own ends. disgusting piece of shit.

>>39349068
>5/10
>fatty

C'mon bro, you're better than that. Have some self respect

>>39348262
idk how much insight I can give, but I've been on /fit/ since 2009. Back then, troll threads made up 10% of the posts at most, and newfags knew to lurk for a long time before even thinking of posting. Nowadays, troll threads make up the majority of /fit/ and everyone wants to be spoonfed information without doing their own due diligence.

There's a pattern when it comes to the discovery of fitness. Once you first get into it and learn some very basic concepts, you want to apply them and give advice to anyone who will listen. So what do these newfags do on /fit/ when they're overcome with excitement about their new hobby is post non stop. They barely know anything but they just won't stop posting their retarded advice and pop-science. What's worse is when other newbs come to /fit/, they're being educated by these retards. It's the blind leading the blind, all because the new generation of 4chan posters won't lurk. Ironically, /fit/ is a terrible place to learn about fitness now and is just a place to shitpost. It's the new /sp/.

I've taken it upon myself to go into the catalog 203 times a day and read some of the newly created threads. If they're noobs begging for advice that they can learn by googling for 30 seconds, I'll reply "lurk more" then close the thread. I hope my actions catch on and other anons also start putting these newidiots into place.