What's stopping you?

I've gotten to complacent. Send help.

>>39316133
I dunno. I didn't even realize my life was off track. What should I be doing?

>>39316133
avoidant personality disorder adhd, and social anxiety

My life is on track.

>>39316133
I need an employer to not reject my applications. My issues are manageable enough to function around normies in a work environment and once I have a job I'll have a purpose in life again. From there I can pick up the other pieces of my life

>>39316133
my teeth
i already started to see the dentist
I need at least 3 year to fix them
i wont socialize until they are perfect
so i have 3 free years of 4chan in front of me :D

the problem is im 27

Prolly need to be about 4 inches taller, get my teeth fixed, get hair plugs, lose weight, and start lifting. Looks are everything and if you don't have them, you best fuck off.

>>39316133
I like being a NEET, I won't work unless I'm forced to somehow.

>>39316205
>I need an employer to not reject my applications
>My issues are manageable enough
I'm just gonna hire someone that doesn't have issues to begin with t.b.h.

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>>39316282
aren't you embarrassed? don't you feel bad for your parents? what do your friends think, if you still have any

>>39316299
Why would I be embarrassed? Why would I feel bad for my parents? I have a few friends, they think it's funny/interesting/weird.

>>39316284
>implying I don't check the box saying I don't have any conditions that would interfere with the job
They say it won't be used against me but I know what's up. I meant it when I said my shit is manageable though. When I'm out in public as far as anyone can tell I'm a perfectly normal human being, maybe a little on edge and jumpy, but not dysfunctional.

my arms, they are very thin. and im not going outside without a Sweatshirt but it is way to hot to wear this fucking thing.
i'd say i have to gain weight but i dont know hot to do it.
also my parents think its normal, so they dont really help

>fat manlet sperg during prime developmental years
>shut-in from 18 to almost 30

There isn't anything I can do to get over my situation. I fixed my fatness by going to the gym, so lifting is basically all I do in life. I missed out on all the normie things you're supposed to do when you're a teenager and all the things you're supposed to do in your early 20s, late 20s etc. I pretty much have the social and sexual maturity of a kid. There ain't any coming back from this, especially now that I turn 30 soon.

I'm currently doing CBT (cognitive behavioural therapy) with a clinical psychologist for the past 6 months but I don't feel like it's doing anything and I'm pretty sure it wont ever do a thing for me.

The psychologist said she just wants to help me get to some kind of normality, but it's hard when you're a near 30 year old shut-in, that's never worked, that doesn't have any money, that has no qualifications or skills, with severe agoraphobia and a schizoid personality.

The only chance I had was back when I was a kid, that's when I should have got the help, now it's just too late. The tax-payers pay for my clinical psychologist so it's the only reason I go, I wouldn't go if I had to pay, mostly because I have no money, but even if I did I probably still wouldn't go if I had to pay for it.

>>39316133
What was her name again?

awfvg

>>39316133
The fact that I derive joy from nothing. I'm not happy at all. My life is just slow, slow pain. It's not getting better anytime soon.

>>39316133
What's this fetish called? Is she oiled up or something?

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>>39316146
This. I'm still happy without normies.

Over time my fear of everyone and everything has gotten out of control.
I clearly have undiagnosed anxiety
I have a job interview this Tuesday, minimum wage part time retail and I'm terrified
Whys everything so scary

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>>39316133
My neet life is pretty solid. What do you suggest i need to do?

>>39316133
Finding something I enjoy studying or finding a way for me to enjoy studying electronical engineering

>>39316133
Quite a generalization here. My life is back together well enough. I've a fucking great job, pays more money than I need, and I have the respect of my peers, friends and colleagues.

The reason I occasionally visit this place is because I'm alone. I've always been alone, and I will always continue to be alone. But that has nothing to do with not having my life in a working order. It has to do with the fact that it took me decades to understand that love does not exist. It was always my increasing understanding of the true nature of the rudimentary and ugly mechanics of human coupling and copulation, the thing our history and art decided to label "love" for the dumb and the lucky, which always made me a loner.

I've played with the idea of what I would do differently if I could travel back to the past. I've thought about it probably thousands of times. And every time I've run to the same conclusion: nothing at all. In order to find "love", I would have to give up who I am. I would have to magically forget that there is no such thing, and that women and men are totally incapable of it. It's just dicks (men) confusing their natural prime directive of overprotectiveness towards the breeder of their progeny as "love". And pussies (women), slaves to their need for the best, most influential and powerful mate to secure the future of the tribe, confusing their desires for something that's supposedly wrong with the dick who had their eyes on that particular pussy.

We're animals. Both men and women. Our ideas of love, dedication and what is good and proper differ only because nature intended us for different purposes.

You here all blame women, but the very need for you to have a GF is driven by the same animal instincts that makes women ignore you, in favor of a better match. Blame yourself, then. Because your need for love is the problem. It's *your* need. Something you can actually do something about, get rid of.

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>>39317110
>It's just dicks (men) confusing their natural prime directive of overprotectiveness towards the breeder of their progeny as "love"

This is why I'll probably die an alcoholic.

>>39316133
my autism and fear of all education systems

>>39317110

This is a very good post anon, except for the part where you critique r9k for blaming women. Most women don't have a problem with exploiting our vulnerability and trying to sell this vision of love to us. It seems reasonable to criticise adult women for manipulating and hurting men in many ways and then playing the victim. Our complaints about women are mostly a form of self-defence through consciousness. Most of society would have us believe that women are collectively and historically the 'victims' of exploitative men - this type of forum allows us to express the truth, that in most circumstance would be completely silenced.

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>>39316133
I need a purpose, lose weight, money, will to live and a girlfriend. Only thing slightly possible to remove from the list is lose weight but that will never happen unless any of the other impossible tasks gets fulfilled.

>>39316237
You're lying to yourself. Once your teeth are fixed you'll find something else to put your life on hold for.

>>39316133
Being stuck at home made me failed my job interviews. They can sense my fear as I sense their normieness.

>>39316205
>once I have a job I'll have a purpose in life again

This.

>>39317520
Being a wagie is the only thing that makes you want to live? Sounds a bit sad 2bh

>>39317543
It's not the sole purpose, but it's a definite start to fix my life.

>>39316133

After viewing this depressing image I'm not sure I'll be able to find and original happiness today as nothing will be that ass

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>>39316133
I dont want to be NEET but I cant get a job. I made too many bad choices in life and now Im 26 with useless degree and no work experience. I am not picky at all but it seems pointless. I must occupy my mind with constant learning new things or I get so depressed I wont send my resume. It is a constant struggle and to be honest I dont believe I will ever make it or earn more than minimum wage because of my bad choices. I take full responsibility and if I wont get a living wage until I am 30 I will kill myself because it is too shameful.

>>39316368
Because you're the definition of a failed human being.
Unable to to care for himself
unable to provide for anyone
unable to be a functioning part of society
unable to get gf

>>39316133
my biggest problem is thinking that if I solve my problems then I won't have any more problems, so that's basically a trick question

>>39317648
Whose definition? People I don't give a shit about. And I do care for myself, I even have a gf.

>>39316133
> Move out of my parents' house
> Stop playing vidya
> Lose weight
> Learn about fashion
> Learn and practice stoicism
> Get in good physical shape
> Get in a series of fist fights with random people
> Learn "game"
> Learn to deal with rejection
> Ask out every woman I see
> Become chad
> Punch out any dweebs who get in my way
> Smash all the puss

>>39316133
Source on that image?
Origami

>>39317755
Cherie from southern charms

organolegrano

>>39317243
That's right there is your delusion.

Men wrote most of literature and entertainment, the love you believe in is as how men see it. Not the way it is, and not way women see it.

Look at any traditional romance novel or movie plot from over 10 years ago before feminism started its unrealistic image campaign. A man falls in love with a woman, just like that. The woman is entirely indifferent about the man. Just like in real life.

The man then goes on a quest to become stronger, more famous, more rich... in essence, more powerful and more influential. As that power and influence increases, so does the woman's love for the man. Until ultimately the man becomes a hero, and the woman falls in love.

They are always told as separate entitiesYet, they are one. It's in the male genes to love easily, and profoundly. To sacrifice our own energy, health, even lives. It's in the female genes to do none of that, but to guarantee the best odds of a survival and a flourishing, rich life for themselves and their children.

You think the women are to blame. What makes your form of love the default? What makes it superior? Nothing at all. You're just biased, defending what you like because you were pre-conditioned to like it.

You are as much a victim to your own misery, as the women who trade men left and right, take selfies, buy jewelries, and then wonder why they aren't happy, are to theirs.

My constant fear and anxiety.
I'm so timid and shy it's embaressing to think about. I feel as if I'm part of a movie of some sort, like I'm some passive observer watching it from the top of my head and occasionally interacting with the world. Simple NPC-talks like hi and bye, but nothing deeper then that.
There's nothing physically repulsive or wrong about me far as I know, yet I throw away the body I'm dealt. I'm constantly defending myself against imaginary hurts.
I'm not afraid of failure, I'm afraid of success. I wouldn't know how to deal with things working out OK. The concept of not being berated or commented on doing the simplest thing is so foreign to me that it makes me more insane when the world reacts normal then when it reacts like a madman.

I guess what's stopping me is my hedonism, anxiety, laziness and lack of self-worth.

>>39318279
This guy has it right as much as you may not want to admit it. The problem is that we don't oppress women anymore. For society to function properly, women must be oppressed. Women shouldn't vote. Women shouldn't own property. Women shouldn't drive.

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>>39316133
>sperg
>clinical depression
>extreme anxiety
>general hatred of our species and the society it has created

Idk, dude. I just want to keep collecting NEETbux and play vidya all day

>>39318638
No, you still don't get it. Even if you did oppress women, your "love" would just be property. A dumb, uneducated woman who was with you literally because she has no other choice. If you want a sex slave then sure, that's one way to get it.

But most people here want a partner. And that's the point: There is no such thing. Relationships are formed where two people have a mutual agenda, and enjoy each other's company. There's no "love" to it. The sexual and political liberation of women, equality, is not the problem. It's simply the thing that made it easier to see what's wrong.

If there is such a thing as love, that, fantastical belief of a real two-way relationship where both people are together because they love the other person, not just their power or influence, or the shape of their tits and pussy, then the only way to find it is through VR and AI. There women would be free to live their lives as princesses with total dominion over all, with a harem of perfect men to choose from and throw away at a whim... while men would be free to find their soulmates, loyal women who would never cheat, never betray, never nag and never manipulate, always willing and able and active in bed.

>>39316133
>whats stopping you
Schizoid personality disorder with severe agoraphobia. I find it hard to leave my room/house except for necessities like food
>what are the steps you need to take in order to get your life back on track,
This is a hard question to answer. For the agoraphobia the only proven solution is to push yourself into uncomfortable situations, but I never want to because I'm a schizoid. I never get any enjoyment from social interactions, so I never want to push myself when I know it leads to nothing.
>what would you need to change for your barriers to go away
I would need to change the entire way I think. I would need to go back in time to being a young child and have parents who didn't emotional neglect me. But thats not going to happen. Any no progression is going to happen either. The only thing I know is going to happen for certain is my money running out and me killing myself.

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>>39316133
Nothing will change unless I clean up my apt and do my laundry

>>39319003
Fellow schizoid here.
You have become schizoid by getting lost mentally and you can find your way by regressing and reconciling to the point of origin in your head.

This probably goes strongly against your inclination but wish I had started doing so sooner, so many years in maintenance makes it harder to break the mold into pursuing what you actually want or even being able to follow up on constructive development and satisfactory functioning.

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>>39316133
>>39317778
Too bad she doesn't do hardcore porn.

Because people dont like me. I dont know what is it, but people always avoid me. If i already know someone they try to ignore me or get rid of me as fast as possible.
Even my dad doesnt like talking to me.
Since I became aware of that I started being afraid of talking to othera because I dont want to be a creepy loser that everyone avoids.

>>39319076
It's a hard thing to do. I have a very vivid memory back in 2006 when I realized I was so much different than everyone, and that they were experiencing so much more than I was. I had no support in family or friends and relinquished myself to a mostly hermitic lifestyle. I think I've gone to far to change, I don't really want to change. I just wish I had less anxiety, because I could live a happy life alone as long as I didn't feel like utter shit as soon as I stepped outside my home

>>39319204
I resolved my anxieties through creating a compensatory narcissistic identity within the internal schizoid universe.
It works but there are probably healthier ways to improve things. Getting stronger physically and mentally facets certainly does wonders, whatever drives you to become stronger.