Approaching men yourself

fuck off you stupid piece of shit cunt

>>39286178
When girls approach first, it makes them look easy. If you're going for Chad, then this is a good thing. Unless you don't put out and then he'll be mad. If you're going for a beta, he's going to think you're a slut and be wary of getting an STD. Although if he's desperate, he'll still probably accept your advances. Then be mad if you don't put out.

>>39286178
>fuck off you stupid piece of shit cunt
ditto

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>>39286178
>It's another possibly larping "woman" saying she has it hard socially

You do realize even Chads think that's cute right? For us men? We get the school shooter reputation. Be glad you live life on easy mode you stupid cunt.

>>39286238
Honestly I just don't want to be a virgin anymore. It's a desperate attempt and on Saturday I'm going out with a girl and I've told her what my plans are.

>>39286346
Okay, sounds like you've got your shit figured out. Plan will work as long as you're willing to have sex. Don't forget to shave your muff.

>someone asking for advice
>"fuck off you stupid cunt!!!"
this is why you guys don't have girlfriends

>>39286394
Hee hee hee good one, anon! Mind if I share this zinger with the boys on reddit? :)

>>39286393
Not a single hair anywhere on my body except for the head lol! She's kind of an "out there" person, who is loud and likes to have a good time. I'm gonna use that to my advantage.

>>39286419
i'm just saying, you guys shouldn't complain if you aren't willing to act in a way that attracts women lol

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>>39286475
>She's kind of an "out there" person
Why do women keep saying this? Just yesterday another "fembot" said she was out there. This shit is becoming funny, like it's the new "i'm not like the other girls".

>>39286520
I'm trying to describe her personality! Take it easy, asshole. She's very outgoing and an overall nice person to have fun with.

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>>39286178
I don't give a shit about fucking
What I want is (at least a 6+/10) a girl to love and who loves me back
Just this, or maybe something productive I enjoy doing

These two things are literally all I'm asking for, but I know no one will ever answer.

>>39286178
Facing the same problem desu
I like unusual "" men but I sperg out and make them think I'm weird or dislike them in some weird fear of them noticing I like them/rejecting me.
Men never ever talk to me on their own, I find dumb excuses to talk to them like asking for time or asking them to explain things to me (doesn't work, as it doesn't create a fluid conversation)

>>39286539
I'm just saying it's funny because it makes it sound like the woman is trying to be different by doing that same shit the vast majority of you do.

>>39286178
Carry mace just in case.

I imagine it works the same way with women as it does with men. if we find you attractive, you can get the D I C C, if not, not interested.

I've given women fake names before because I wasn't attracted to them and wanted nothing to do with them.

>>39286610
Why shouldn't she be carrying a gun? The fuck is mace going to do? Piss off the nigger that's attacking her and get into her own eyes and mouth so now she's maced while getting raped twice as hard?

>>39286608
Okay buddy, whatever makes sense to you

>>39286178
You can practice on me if youd like i wouldn't mind helping someone out

>>39286238
shut up shut up shut up.!
A girl approaching me is the only chance I have. I dont have the balls to make the first move.

OP please do it. I wish more girls did this it fucking sucks that guys alays have to start things

>>39286590
I see what you're saying. The ones that I attract are old men who think they can control me, you know the ones who look like pimps

>>39286751
I panic instantly if a man talks to me, even ones I don't find attractive
I never got to know one ever in my life

>>39286643
Claiming self defense for homicide is far more complicated, whorechan is not real life. Besides there are moral and ethical dilemmas, We have a justice system for a reason. That is unless you're a savage from some redneck backwater. Don't underestimate the stopping power of pepper spray, there is a good reason as to why pigs carry it when they are on crowd dispersal(non-lethal) duty.

>tfw all these qts out there that will NEVER notice you feels bad man

>>39286795
I think part of it is because of porn. I have watched hardcore porn since I found some in my brothers laptop when I was 12. I'm 19 now and I think it's ruined my chances at ever getting laid, I think my vagina is depressed.

>>39286178
While you are shitposting and baiting here your oneitis licking Stacy's pussy.
It doesnt matter what you do if you didnt win the genetic lottery.
Face, Tits, Frame.

>>39286795
aaaaaaaa

You.. Well, try nudging me at [email protected] if you want to get to know me at least a little?

Please? No need to be shy, I won't bite, but.. Yeah :|

>>39286178
>The thing is this girl is a 5/10, has acne, but she's outgoing/ loud and the guy she liked was a semi chad.
>I feel bad because when she told me she liked him and that she was thinking of approaching him I kind of laughed internally and said to myself there's no way she's gonna get with him. I feel like a dumbass. I'm thinking of doing the same thing although I'm not very talkative and I have social fobia, like I sweat and stuffer and my voice and body language changes involuntarily. I'm practicing in the mirror, I did it today but then I just stared at myself thinking what the fuck am I doing.
girls with kind of a slutty personality have lots of success with men because men think they're guaranteed sex or at least a blowjob on the first date. if you're kind of over the top about it and the guy either laughs about it internally or externally, that's good persuasion, which is the girl's goal. watch movies and tv shows that have girls like that in them and copy their moves.

>>39286475
>Not a single hair anywhere on my body except for the head lol! She's kind of an "out there" person, who is loud and likes to have a good time. I'm gonna use that to my advantage.
have her coach you and be your wingwoman when you're out. she obviously knows the game inside and out.

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>>39286805
>you're a savage for defending yourself
>everywhere that's not a giant liberal city is a backwater redneck town

>>39286490
>i'm just saying, you guys shouldn't complain if you aren't willing to act in a way that attracts women lol
telling girls to fuck off and leave /r9k/ is meant to not attract women. that's the point.

When women talk about approaching, what they mean is walking into the field of view of the man and waiting. Maybe if they are adventurous they will say hello. Most men when asked out by a girl would assume either that woman has something severely wrong with her or is planning on playing a cruel trick on the man.

>>39286922
come back when you've been a country for more than 250 or so years. British Legal tradition goes way back and similar models are followed worldwide. Murica cannot into law.

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>>39286870
>[email protected]
>>39265585
>>39252661

>>39286842
I'm an only child and the first few schools I went to (until about age 15) were 90% girls so I never got to have a bf or even a high school crush. I'm also generally socially incompetent and started masturbating super early.
Now I get super intense crushes on men I barely know and sometimes maybe ask them for a pen, if they're nice to me that makes my day and I feel super euphoric if they tell me they don't have one I hide in the bathroom and cry for half an hour.

>>39286178
>roastie is finally motivated to take the initiative for once in her life because she sees a chance to get glossed and tossed by Chad

yawn

>>39286973
That is the problem, America doesn't want to be like the rest of the world. You have your way to do things and we have ours. Now bin your knife after you spread your butter

>>39286178
Lesbians approach me more than guys desu. Last Monday, at my new part time wage cuck job, this butch fat dyke wanted to watch me change into my work clothes after giving me a tour of the whole building. She bluntly said she already changed and she wanted to watch. Like what the fuck? I ran into the restroom I fucking hate lesbians.

>>39286973
Modern weaponry didn't exist for the majority of your country's existence. You're like the old man trying to keep the kid from using tech because it's not what you're used to.

>>39287027
After you bin your M16 and make sure you wipe the blood of the innocent school children you just killed before doing so.
>>39287059
Except that I wasn't discussing weaponry. What I was discussing was Law.

>>39287082
Weaponry and laws go hand in hand, do they not?

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>>39286178
Can confirm this works...a 6/10 apporached me asked if we could hang out and it kinda impressed me that she had the courage to do that. We started hanging out everyday and still hang out and have sex regularly. She was really outgoing and had a 10/10 personality so I guess that kinda helped

Pic related

>>39287038
Female sexual harassment where are the sjw feminists we need their opinion

>>39286713
How does it suck? It's the easiest way to weed out the undesirable betas and women don't have to do a single thing to do so.

>>39287082
>After you bin your M16 and make sure you wipe the blood of the innocent school children you just killed before doing so.

Lol cucked yurocuck doesn't know it's only niggers who shoot each other on a daily basis.

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>>39287106

Stop posting here faggot

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>>39287082
>He owns a gun so he must kill people

>>39286590
>Men never ever talk to me on their own, I find dumb excuses to talk to them like asking for time or asking them to explain things to me (doesn't work, as it doesn't create a fluid conversation)
what kind of men are you honestly hitting on? if you are going for chad, just be forward and tell him you'd like to go out for coffee or something. if it's a regular guy, ask cheesy, cliche personal questions so he knows what you're driving at and it gives him the chance to say he's in a relationship or gay or whatever.

>>39287105
this discussion will become tedious. I recommend reading up on the criminal law and important cases regarding homicide and it's defenses. People are really anal about the "self defense" defense. There has to be legitimate threat to your life or that of severe bodily injury and it's very hard to prove that there was no other recourse left. Unless you have laws like "stand your ground", If you made no attempt to avoid said danger and courted it, You're fucked. Have a nice study cunt.

>>39286590
>like asking for time
They will just tell you the time.
> or asking them to explain things to me
They will tell you then go back to not talking.

You are asking them one thing, they will tell you that one thing and then stop. A lot of men are like this, you have to do things that are a bit more open ended.

>>39287221
Usually the autistic nerds who are really pretentious about one certain thing
I don't even know why
It's just what I'm attracted to
Does option 2 work for those too? And how do I lead into those questions? How do I strike up a conversation?

>>39287171
That's not cool man

How the fuck is that original btw?

>>39287238
Just why shouldn't there be stand your ground laws? You took care of the danger in a reasonable manner, consider they were going to harm you unless you ran away or killed them. Why is their life worth more than yours when they're the ones who instigated the whole situation? Besides my point was that laws have to adapt to emerging technologies. Whether it's the internet or guns, the old fucks writing the laws don't seem to even know what the fuck they're talking about.

>>39287012
>Now I get super intense crushes on men I barely know and sometimes maybe ask them for a pen, if they're nice to me that makes my day and I feel super euphoric if they tell me they don't have one I hide in the bathroom and cry for half an hour.
walking around with a pen isn't that common for guys unless you're on a college campus or something. girls have purses so they always have pens and shit with them. don't be crushed because a guy doesn't have a pen. i'll help you out. carry around a new bottle of water or soda and ask for help opening it-- that's your new move. not this pen thing.

Eh there are too many stacies in at the uni I go to. I've been here a couple of days and they are everywhere. I'm never going to find anyone.

>>39287279
Try to touch their penis through their clothes "on accident" and say you're sorry with a smirky smile. You're either in or out in that moment. Don't worry about sexual assault/harassment charges or anything, because that doesn't apply to women as demonstrated here: >>39287038

>>39286224
fpbp, kill yourself attention whore

>>39287301
>the old fucks writing the laws don't seem to even know what the fuck they're talking about.
No one gives a shit about legislature trust me. Retarded laws get thrown the fuck out by judiciary all the time. Precedent set by the judiciary is the only thing that matters.
>You took care of the danger in a reasonable manner, consider they were going to harm you unless you RAN AWAY
All life is important and private citizens do not have the right to take anyone's life only the state does. If we allow mob justice, you will be fair game for the family of whatever nig you just killed. Laws are there to keep order ergo stop violence and not to escalate it.

You should be paying me for this. How much does a basic law degree cost wherever you're from?

>>39286864
I would lick any girl's pussy.

>>39286224
I like this guy. He's honest and straightforward.

Just do it, it comes off naturally once you got the introductions out the way, I've been approached by several girls (I know, normie blah blah) and I find it cute on their part.

>>39286178
Well I'm a Chad or semi-Chad fit guy who dates a Russian model (of catwalk).

I would find it cute even if the girl is ugly. And I will be friendly with her each time I'll see her. Just don't get angry if the guy refuses. Say that you understand and don't try hard, you can go away after that if you want; it won't be seen as rude.

>>39286178
>virgin "fembot"
With the quotes, I suggest you stop crossdressing and get a real life.

If you're ugly it won't work unless the guy is black. Niggers will have sex with anything

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>>39286178
i go out and do "pick up" on the weekends and im telling you that if you approach as a woman you have very high chances of getting laid, even if your standards are high. i hate this fact, but thats just the way it is. you have to realize that almost every guy that goes out is there to potentially get laid. the reason why most guys dont is because they are too scared to approach or they are very limited in their number of approaches. which is totally fine, approaching a large amount of women is very exhausting and mentally taxing, a lot of nights us guys just have to take the L and go home alone.

another factor at play is that women have much more to lose by doing an approach. your friends might think youre slutty/easy/desperate, your social value can go down, you are more prone into running into violent/crazy men, etc. these arent really problems guys have to deal with and in general there is less at stake for us when taking home a girl the night we meet her.

good luck and be careful, dont feel bad if it doesnt work out. a lot of times finding a good partner is just about having some luck and being in the right place at the right time

>>39286178
>if a girl approaches first is she desperate/ is it off putting or a turnoff?
Do it to me please.

>>39287279
>Usually the autistic nerds who are really pretentious about one certain thing
>I don't even know why
>It's just what I'm attracted to
>Does option 2 work for those too? And how do I lead into those questions? How do I strike up a conversation?
if they are autists, they probably won't recognize the obvious pick up lines you are throwing out at them, so you have no choice but to be direct like you would with a chad. just say "hey, i think you're cute. are you free sometime for coffee?" it's a cold open. you don't work your way up to that because there is no point.

>>39286178
Approaching is more of a chad thing, normal guys get girlfriends through groups of friends who already know each other well

>>39287260
>>>39286590
>>like asking for time
>They will just tell you the time.
>> or asking them to explain things to me
>They will tell you then go back to not talking.
>
>You are asking them one thing, they will tell you that one thing and then stop. A lot of men are like this, you have to do things that are a bit more open ended.
she realizes that, though.

>>39287430
>talks about basic law degree
>spouts nonsense
Basic indeed

>>39287663
Excellent retort, now do the world and yourself a favor and kys.

>>39287313
>Eh there are too many stacies in at the uni I go to. I've been here a couple of days and they are everywhere. I'm never going to find anyone.
stacies only give their attention to chads. and chads are open minded about most all girls. you have plenty of options-- pretty much all men are available to you. try asking out more average looking men first and work your way up the chad ladder.

>>39287685
But if I kill myself my girlfriend would miss me and nobody would be here to tell you your basic (and incorrect) understanding of law is wrong. :(

>>39286238
>When girls approach first, it makes them look easy.

I've barely if ever seen a girl approach first, it's never happened to me at least. If it did though, my first thought wouldn't be she was easy unless she was wearing something that exposed a ton of cleavage or ass, etc. and looked experienced. Whether I was attracted to her or not, I'd be overjoyed if a female actually approached me.

>>39287731
>if I kill myself my girlfriend would miss me
How insecure must you be to spout irrelevant and made up bullshit, you retarded faggot.
> :(
>>>/reddit/
> (and incorrect)
And i'm just suppose to believe your drivel you dumb cunt.

Not enough girls approach.

Still, it's so unusual that many guys feel intimidated by it. It was the case for me. the girl I lost my virginity to aggressively approached me first. I turned her down a couple fo times before I decided to give her a go.

I don't want you to take my story to the letter, though, the girl who approached me was very experienced both sexually and on how to approach guys. As she told me, She's mostly always the one to approach first. Very rarely does she give approaching guys a chance. I don't know why, maybe because she always had to feel that she was in control. So she tried several times with me, but her method was refined. She changed her approach everytime if ever so slightly. So don't go desperately trying to get a guy in your pants. there's some form of strategy to that.

That being said, my opinion is that whoever is interested first should approach. I, myself, approach girls very rarely, but when I do it's because I really feel like it. I see tons of girls looking my way who demonstrate obvious interest, but very rarely do they make any first move. It's funny losing your virginity to a girl who, basically, gives herself to you without any work from your part only to be thrown into a world where you have to do all the work. Adjusting after her was a pain in the ass.

>>39287657
Even if you're an absolute loner you can still get a gf . Go outside your cave and meet women, or use social apps. Sure it's easier to have friends and get them to introduce you to any girl they know but you can't have everything in a silver plate.

>>39287804
>How insecure must you be to spout irrelevant and made up bullshit, you retarded faggot.
>i-if nobody loves me t-then nobody loves you either!
hahaha

>And i'm just suppose to believe your drivel you dumb cunt.
Facts are facts whether you believe them or not :)

>>39286178
Guys like it only girls say other girls are "desperate" or "easy"

>>39287879
I don't get why normies introduce each other to women. Apparently they already know women, so why don't they just fuck the ones they know instead of trading with their friends?

>>39286178
being fat would bother me more than acne for some reason.

>>39286178
no, i'd be nervous but i wouldn't be turned off.

>>39288303
>for some reason
Because fat is way more disgusting than acne and acne is likely to go away at some point. There's your reason.

>>39288278
Because they are fucking cucks

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>>39286178
All the bullshit needs to stop
> omg i might look desperate
Just fucking approch him. Otherwise he will probably never notice HOW MUCH you like him, think you are just polite etc. If a girl came to me and told me she likes me i would never (not even if she was ugly as fuck) be rude or intentionally hurt her. Just make the first step and don't just let the chances go by.

most guys like when a girl wants to talk to them, as long as you are cute/ semi attractive

>>39286178
No, when a girl approaches it shows she is very interested.

It's by no means a negative you dipshit

>>39286178
I'm 23 and my current gf had asked me out 4 times before I gave her a shot, she's the best women I have ever known.

So don't be discouraged if you get turned down!
Remember all those old people stories about having to ask their wife of 50 years out like 20 times.

you have to realize youre asking a board of actual autists who overanalyze every social interaction

any normie will tell you that they like it when girls approach them

>>39286178
Most guys would see a woman approaching him as unattractive and desperate