Why do you hate your family?

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>>39267023
Because I'm bedridden after surgery and every night they force me to sit through CNN's and MSNBC's Trump/Russia propaganda. I haven't left the couch in a week and I have to put up with Rachel Maddow's smirking dyke face EVERY FUCKING NIGHT. Not to mention hearing my brainwashed, boomer father insist that everything on the internet is a lie and the only 'real news' is the stuff on TV.

>>39267023

They dont like my girlpillz desu

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Because my mom is a condescending bitch who literally thinks I'm incompetent and calls me retarded all the time.

It's harassment, but hopefully I'll be out of here soon.

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they didn't teach me social skills.

>have never seen parents talk to a friend on the phone
>parents have never invited someone they know to the house
>parents have never been guests in anyone else's house

>>39267023
>Why do you hate your family?

They damned me to this existence.

>>39267306
i had a brad tier brother who systematically bullied me throwughout my childhood but he got my mom to make me play football and forced me to go out with his friends sometimes.

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>>39267023
Because my mom has been an alcoholic since birth who would dump me at crisis nurseries for days when she was t leaving me home alone in diapers when I couldn't feed myself
>when she was home it was listening to her and the flavor of the month man she was dating screaming at eachother
>because my real dad wanted me aborted who I saw 3 times a year and is a complete autist who never taught me anything just like my mom
>because now I'm a broken man living at home at 27 without a single achievement to my time and an alcoholic myself trying to deal with lifelong depression and daily suicidal thoughts

Fuck I hate my life.

>>39267023
what a cute little white girl.

I'd adopt her whenever she wants.

>>39267965
are you obese? why don't you just leave?

because they "raised" me to be who I am today.

>>39267023

>Shitty father walked out on me because he was a worthless alcoholic (Typical of spics)
>Mother wasn't able to dedicate the time during my early years for bonding, so there's no sense of attachment to her. And she hasn't exactly been supportive or friendly to me.

>>39267306
Same, mate
I usually watch other people have a conversation and I wonder how they do it
It's like they don't think what they'll say, it just comes naturally...

>>39267023
because they've always talked down to me and wasted my childhood trying to turn me into their preconceived ideal version of me

>>39267023
Shit parenting that made sure that I did not learn any social skills when I was young and I was not capable enough to learn them on my own later on.

>>39267023
Because they raised me poorly and have the gall to be overbearing to me as an adult about me drinking, going outside at night, etc.

ALso they're fucking ugly. My mother weighs three times her marriage weight and has no teeth hardly but can't into getting dentures.

Father is fat too and has a third grade reading level, redneck accent, racist, and overbearing too.He gets abusive sometimes and yells all night to keep his wife up so she won't go outside herself for sleeping all day, and sometimes to try to cause me to have a bad stomach so I'd stop drinking.

>>39267023
>They don't want anyone to hurt me
>They hurt me the most
>Didn't teach me social skills
>Taught me how to depend solely on others for my survival

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my mom has probably undiagnosed Munchhausen syndrome, constantly fakes illnesses and is in and out of the hospital, has tons of different doctors and is addicted to pain meds that she cycles between doctors to have

my dad is emotionally unavailable and doesnt give a shit about me but most of the time I can't bring myself to resent him for it because I know my mom is sucking him dry, he has to care for her constantly (she can't even go to the bathroom by herself sometimes) and put up with her insanity

I hate that they basically ignored me growing up though and I'm all stunted and don't know how to do basic shit like drive or taxes without teaching myself on the internet because they just never bothered to show me. if I'm ever vocal about my own problems I'm accused of being an emotional terrorist and trying to suck up all their attention which is bullshit because I honestly keep to myself and stay out of their way more than the average person would in my situation I think.

they just seem like the typical couple that had kids without really wanting to and I was unfortunately born

God damn I don't even know where to start.

My mother has severe epilepsy and is a raging alcoholic. We're talking downing 2 bottles of wine a night. Pretty sure she's on menopause as well. Did I mention she's also a stoner?

Anyway, shes really volatile; the smallest, most insignificant, TRIVIAL things you could imagine set her off into a fit of rage, which results in her going to bed and sleeping all day.
One time I was doing the dishes and I didn't want to use a dirty disposable sponge to /clean/ them so I threw it away. She flips on me and you guessed it bed time for the whole day. My grandmother supports us more than she does at this point.

The worst part of it all, is that our family (her, me, my 3 half-siblings) are financially dependent on my autismbux, and she spends most of it on weed, cigarettes and alcohol.

>>39267306
this, basically. glad someone else knows what this is like

>>39267291
Can i steal this gondola?

>>39267306
my parents were like this too. I remember thinking it was so weird when I was in gradeschool and my classmates parents would have family friends visit, or their parents knew other parents. My own family never socialized, not even with extended relatives or anything. I don't know my grandparents or cousins. It's fucked up.

>>39268360
>>39268390
>>39268099

so where are you guys at in life right now? I'm in my 30s and I moved back in with my parents a couple years ago. i hate myself.

>>39267306
If it's a skill then you can practice and get better

>>39268099
Ask questions and then other people have to do the talking. If they're not sure how to answer some things you can guide them a bit e.g. 'What did you get up to this weekend? Did you head anywhere or have a relaxing one at home?', there's relief for them and they can still give a different answer

>>39268431
I've been a shut-in for like 5 years or something now. I'm obese and starting to think I might have dementia from the isolation.

>>39268373
not him but I'm the anon that made it, it's public domain

>>39268053
No I'm not obese in fact people usually comment on how skinny I am. I don't leave because I have no social or life skills that could allow me to lead an independent life. I've been a social recluse for the entirety of it.

>>39267023
Raised by a narcissistic single mother

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They brought me to life by force, just for their selfish desires... They demand me to Love them, believe in god, make them proud, accept and protect my brother.... And say that I should thank them for being alive even though most of times its me trying to see meaning in this fucked up world.

Because empathy is hard and my childhood was not normal or pleasent. I've spent my entire life watching my mother slowly kill herself while my father reaps the rewards of a wasted youth with all the grace an ex-crackhead can muster. Sure there was no outright abuse but every day was a roll of the dice. Would dad take offence to the way I scratched my ass and go off on another bi-polar rant? would we be forced to sit through another rambling midlife crisis where nonexistent problems where played up and he again decided to ruin the family only to forget his plans the next day? Could I spend the weekend reading like I wanted to? Maybe, just can't shut my door too quickly or too hard or dad'll kick it in, scream about attitude and respect then get pity-drunk and scream along to the offspring

I came to understand early on that my father was an unreliable and useless source of wisdom. Between self-pity, jesus rants and maybe an answer it simply wasn't ever worth asking him anything.

We where poor with bad money management. No mother we don't need seven thousand dollars of fancy couch and an air conditioner. Not when we've turned all our debt over to a middleman who pays them off and then owns us for the rest of our lives in "affordable payment plans". Not when you're smoking and drinking and dad alternates between nothing, shitloads of bear and hard liquor.

I know more about the internet then you do. Shocker old man but between a halfway decent antivirus and a little luck you won't catch a pc melting trojan from a porn streaming site. I was taught that early and held it close. Meanwhile you're the one google searching porn like a fucking 12 year old then freaking out. What was your approach to hormones and porn again?

Was it "do whatever you want, just delete browser history"
Was it "do whatever"
Was it "do anything and I'll kill you"

and why did it change three times a week? Small wonder I'm fucked now when I couldn't even get a stable example

>>39269107
and while we're at it. What exactly was Our religion dad? Because every fucking church we'd go to you inevitably found some problem with and stormed us out of. Oh but we can't stay in on a sunday, and don't give me that bullshit about it only being an hour- it's one out to wherever you go, almost three spent mingling before, after and during then another hour home. Then god forbid we look unhappy about it all or its the night wasted in angry scripture.

My father was not violent, not emotionally distant. He simply should Not have had kids, the man was trapped and unhappy for a long time, had all manner of personal problems that have festered his entire life and resulted in a subpar experience. Normal families either don't go on trips or enjoy them. You don't get yourself worked up, aggressively ask if we all want to go out of our way for no reason (in a shitty "I'm going to flip my shit if you say no" tone) then scowl and sulk the whole time.

and dear little brother. Would it kill you to take a share of the weight every now and then? you have no idea how tiring it is to be the one to pay attention while dad is bitching. Every single time, yes its shit, yes we've all heard it a dozen times but somebody has to keep his attention least we both suffer for it..

>>39268102
This, also have to deal with the whole "stop trying to be different" thing when I try to explain that I want to do something that's different from their idea of the world. Its really annoying for me since they just have this idea of how 'the real world works' without ever really questioning the how or why. For example I try to explain to them the mathematics behind how casinos make their money and their response is that they don't care about what some numbers say.

>>39269239
We lived on the coast until I was 4, then in some shitfuck isolated little village with a one-man cult family, a legit crazy mother and her checked out man and a few other scattered wierdos. Then on your mothers farm. Is it any wonder I grew up weird and friendless with a tendency to want to keep to myself and enjoy electric entertainment? I had very few chances to find my passion so by the time i was sixteen its no wonder I have zero dreams, no passion, no aspirations and have continued to exist until today and almost 30.

I'm sorry I was an autist as a kid. I'm sorry I blocked my guts up and started autism shitting myself, I'm sorry you freaking out at me made my ticks worse. I'm sorry your dad is a piece of shit and that you destroyed your life at every turn. But now I dont give a fuck if we ever talk, I dont give a fuck about your side of the family, about my little brother, about my dying martyr mother. The entire concept of family loyalty and love is so alien to me because you and my mother never should have fucked

>>39269258
yeah they have this defeatist attitude about the way the world works and pass it off as "wisdom". Then when someone actually does manage to change or alter the way we live, such as with technology or social attitudes, they complain about it and won't shut up about "back in my day"

>>39268431
I'm 25 and living with my parents, never managed to move out. I'm having a hard time finding work and struggling to pay medical bills because I fell for the mental illness meme and now I'm on all these expensive meds + therapy. I think about suicide almost daily. No friends or gf.

I love my family, but the people I live with are not my family. They're my family's family and they're huge bitches. I wouldn't even mind them if they weren't actively trying to piss me off constantly. Every now and then I'll blow up and they'll stop for a while, but then they slowly start pushing up their fingers up my ass and whenever I try to be the big kid and take it like a man I end with a full fist up inside.

>mother literally stomped her foot out of frustration today

she's almost 60

i live with a fucking big child

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>>39269999
May these quads help you in the future, anon.