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B-but women love n-nice guys like me :(

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B-but women love n-nice guys like me :(
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>>39260157
Nice guy is basically any ugly dude thats not tall and buff, right?
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>>39260181
Well he's also docile, and sexually non-aggressive
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Women want a civilised savage.
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>>39260157
>when a ugly touches you

FTFY
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>>39260181

You'll see them do things like "Miss, would it be ok if I held your hand? I would hate to offend you, and I understand if it makes you uncomfortable.".
What this means is they're too much of a pussy to make a move so they try to disguise it as being a gentleman and asking for permission, while also giving a reason to reject them nicely. It comes off as a weak insecure guy that's trying to make a move in the weakest way possible.

Now, that going on all the time with everything is annoying. The guy thinks she'll be swept of her feet and love it, but it only annoys her because she can't open a door herself with out hearing "Sorry I didn't get the door for you, I was a few steps behind, I will next time. A woman shouldn't open the door, a man should always open it for a beautiful woman.".

Saying things like, "I hope you don't mind if I kiss you, because I'm going to." is much more alpha and makes them wet.
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literally who cares? Girls like aggressive chads. Nothing new
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>>39260344

What happened here? Why was the "Chad" doing with that other guy, just randomly picking a fight with him for no reason?
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>>39260344
GOMU GOMU NOOOOOOO
GATLINGUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU
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>>39260157
Those legs are looking less than healthy.

>>39260298
Good way to put it.
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>>39260394
yes pretty much

orignaajkele
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Why is there a cock on her legs
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>>39260425
thanks for the giggle lad
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>>39260344
God damn why was he so pissed off?
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>not understanding the difference between "nice guy" and nice guy
This is why you are all virgins.
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>>39260344
>chad tries to confront elite chad
>elite chad knocks him the fuck out
>elite chad bitch slaps chad's girlfriend
0 fucks that day.
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>>39260344
Training for the upcoming beta uprising.
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>>39260157
just treat women like shit. women are having their babies with bullies,women beaters,drug addicts,cheaters,liars,criminals and deadbeats. women hate nice guys and see them as needy. women would rather fuck bad boys.
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>>39260344
He has transcended past the highest known order of chads, the GigaChad.
He is now an ApocoChad, bringer of entropy.
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What if you treat girls like anyone else and dont care

I mean she either likes you or she doesnt, and pussy isnt the only thing in life
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>>39260628
Or just a former omega male with anger issues. Something like a potential school shooter who decided to hit the gym instead.
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>>39260673
We will never know for sure. The only thing that can be confirmed is that he is probably out there somewhere, thinning down the herd of chads and banishing undefended women to the shadow realm.
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>>39260673
>former
doesnt matter who they were before
that guy is top chad now
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>>39260660
>and pussy isnt the only thing in life
If all the failed normals on this board understood this they wouldn't be here.
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>>39260660
No you have to treat them like shit and they love it. The quickest way to make a girl lose intrest is by being nice.
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>>39260157
This is why I don't try anymore. I just keep interactions with people light. I don't escalate, and act kind and courteous. I figured why ruin a girl's day by trying to hit on her and kill the vibe with rejection and awkwardness.
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>>39260181
nice guys are manipulative people who delude themselves into think that if they act like a nice person then any girl who rejects them are bitches
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>>39260344
>>39260394
>>39260500
my guess is that the setting is at some hangout with the regular chad, gigaChad and ex gf all knowing each other. regular chad was the conqueror of the gigachads ex gf (girl in the white), who cheated on him. The gigaChad tries to ignore them the entire time The regular chad attempts to flaunt his stature on the gigaChad, getting into his personal vicinity. This angers the gigaChad, who proceeds to Omae wa mou Shindeiru the regular chad. This also explains on why the ex gf was attacked as well, previous confrontation and present tension.

If someone was to steal your gf(if you had one), and flaunt her in front of you. Would you not react the same way, no?
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>>39260527
nice guy is attractive and sweet, "nice guy" is a creepy uggo ewww.
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>>39260157
"nice guys" aren't really nice, that's why it's in quotations
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>>39260756
>nice guys are manipulative people who delude themselves into think that if they act like a nice person then any girl who rejects them are bitches

Strictly speaking, the true origin of the concept of the "nice guy" is practically lost in the mysts of time now.

You youngins may not remember, but once upon a time it was absolutely fucking ubiquitous to the point of being a trope for your typical oneitis, in the course of using someone as an emotional tampon, to continually complain to her orbiters about what a dick Chad is (or any one of her succession of Chads) and to cry aloud to the heavens about how unjust it was that she couldn't meet "a nice guy".

So the resentment was never based on "any girl" who rejects them - it was based specifically on the girls who complained that they WANTED a "nice guy", even though they plainly did not.

That doesn't happen any more, because the whole "nice guy" concept is too famous, so even the most oblivious air-headed Stacy knows not to direct that particular complaint at her orbiters any more. So it's kind of an archaism at this point.
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>>39260344
*fixes breathing*
ORAORAORAORAORAORAORAORA
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>>39260961
I thought this was the same.

I also think the guy that confronted him didn't really want to but felt like he had no choice.

>If someone was to steal your gf(if you had one), and flaunt her in front of you. Would you not react the same way, no?
No one would be able to steal her, but lets say someone did. I'd find him and destroy him, but I wouldn't hit her. If I was out and my ex was with her bf and he started shit, I'd fight him if I thought I could win.
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>>39260961
>getting your head smashed to bits just because you want to put your peepee in a hole
Sometimes I'm really glad to be the way I am. Sometimes.
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>>39260344
Man, I really need to learn how to fight so this doesn't happen to me.
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>>39261254
just buy pepper spray
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>>39261254
The way he doesn't hesitate to spaz out and throw that flurry of punches to the guy's head in front of everyone... I mean... how? I have this damn inhibition that would prevent me from ever doing something like that, which is why I'll get beat.
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>>39260213
This. Just look at the picture.

Basically a door mat that doesn't make any moves, but is obvious about his attraction.
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>>39260344
That guy might be 6ft under right now. I'm impressed. That's a real dedication to gym and boxing ring.
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>>39260157
That image always makes me so damn angry. Fuck thots
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>>39260734
So my coworkers called me "nice guy" the other day and I actively started treating them like shit,

This week they call me "not a nice person"

A few more steps and ill ascend to asshole-dom
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>>39260745
This is me these days. Why even bother. Not even angry anymore
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>>39260213
>be ugly
>be non-docile and ''sexually aggressive''
>''eww who invited Anon, the creepy rapist here ?''
Kill yourself
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>>39261149
>No one would be able to steal her, but lets say someone did.

Often times it's the woman that orchestrates the entire thing. I can't tell you the number of times women have hit on me only for me to later find out they were using me as leverage to make their boyfriend's jealous. I had a girl steal my hat from me and this is what happened:
>where's my hat now
>it's here, at my apartment, on my table
>when can I get it from you?
>when you get it from me

then I realized she had a boyfriend. I wasn't about to get sucker punched butt naked so I let it be. It was also a fedora (during the time fedoras became cool again, but just before fedoras became the neckbeard symbol they are today).
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>>39261486
Yeah he died, I remember reading the news article.
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>>39261676
get a fucking haircut, clean yourself up, and put on decent clothes and you will no longer be a creep, just unattractive

>>39261362
Put yourself in his shoes. He's just minding his own business and ignoring his ex-gf and this wiener that she's with now. The wiener wants to schmooze up to him and be all buddy-buddy chill bro "can't we all just be friends" while subtly waving her in his face. Guy tried to walk away but the wiener was clinging to him. Gigachad probably had a panic attack and adrenaline dump from being put in that shitty position and couldn't contain himself.
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>>39260394
He got out-chadded
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>>39262070
Top kek
my sides
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>>39260331
>Saying things like, "I hope you don't mind if I kiss you, because I'm going to." is much more alpha and makes them wet.
Lol asking to kiss a girl is gay as fuck.
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>>39260157
>>39260181
>>39260213
>>39260330
>>39261045

They actually want guys who are nice.
Just not "nice guys" -> people like you who just pretend to be nice cause you have NOTHING else sexually going for you. They smell that and it disgusts them.

Read Dr. Glover's "No more Mr. Nice guy" to learn how to avoid that behavior that actually hinders your chances more.

https://ia801302.us.archive.org/14/items/RobertGloverNoMoreMrNiceGuy/Robert_Glover_-_No_More_Mr_Nice_Guy.pdf
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>>39262324
So what do you do then, big guy?

>>39260344
That girl did absolute fuck all in making sure her boyfriend didn't die in a matter of 20 seconds
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>>39261765
>Gigachad probably had a panic attack and adrenaline dump from being put in that shitty position and couldn't contain himself.
Imagine being gigachad and getting cucked, no way jose.
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>>39260157
I would hate to live in a society where sex is the most important thing at all times. Seems that's how America is.
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>>39260181
Nice guy is basically any guy of beta personality regardless of height, size or race
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Why can't I be aggressive with women? I feel like I'm doomed to be a nice guy forever. I admit I am gigantic pussy. But I have good looks and I'm fit, its just my entire life i've been a massive pussy around women. Making the first move scares me, going in for a kiss scares the shit out of me. I feel like I can't "be a man". I know that is what they want but I can't do it guys. I feel so non-aggressive and cucked around women. They have such high self esteem and seem evil to me. I can't fucking control them or take the lead. I feel like a boy and they are grown women.
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>>39260344
ATATATATATATATATATATATATATATATATATATATATATATATA WATAAAAAA
[HYAKURETSU KEN]
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It's mixed messages. Women like aggressive guys, but at the same time all you ever hear about is how you shouldn't approach women ever because then you're a creep. There's no fucking winning. I'm too scared to try because I'd really not like to go jail for "sexual assault" or become even more social ostracized for trying to flirt with someone while being ugly.
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>>39261067
Oh yes, I don't actually reject people because they're ugly/beta, it's because they're bad people, really!
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>>39260344
Holy fuck, he didn't even try to hold back.
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>>39263218
Women can sense you're a creep, don't even bother. Woman don't care about the stable nice guy, she wants a retarded brute so she feels safe.
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I'm tired of being a "nice guy". The worst thing is that orbiting a girl is completely obvious to everyone around. One night at the club with a girl I liked was enough for someone that I had never seen before to tell me that I was obviously beta orbiting the girl.

I wish there was some drug that makes you agressive or dont give a fuck about anything. Without side effects
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>Not going full mommyfag
>Not imagining 2D girls as your mommies

Mommies love sweet little boys like me who are always polite and do what she says. I never have to worry about being too nice cause mommy always loves it! It makes me feel nice too!
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>>39260344
for those who don't know the lesser chad is killed
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>being a "nice guy"
>not being a true supporter of feminism and treating all women equally by not giving them any special pass or shit
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You do know "nice guy" in girlspeak is literally just "guy who doesn't get my pussy wet why can't you just be like those serial killers"
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>>39263365
Why didn't women love Elliot then? The "serial killer" boogeyman doesn't make sense. Women don't want a serial killer, they want a savage who will still be submissive to her will and do her bidding.
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>>39263304
Obvious because of the difference in attractiveness. Everything comes from that. I mean, if you are a regular guy. If so, then you can subconsciusly sense that you do not belong near a more attractive woman, so you hold back, don't make moves etc. So it's double obvious that you are an orbiter. Self fulfilling prophecy basically.
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>>39263396
Because the media plastered him as a woman hater that couldn't get any.
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>>39263460
That was the truth, though
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>>39262341
/r9k/ needs to be full of guys like you. If someone paid more attention to you and stopped whining for a bit they could make an improvement in their lives.
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>>39263310
>Mommy gf's

>Existing

If only anon. . . We are on the feels train for the long ride.
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That's just how women justify them going after assholes constantly until they hit the wall. They want to be ravaged by an animal.
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>>39263579
Even if they're not common in 3D that doesn't mean they're not real in 2D! Plus there's videos online of girls being your mommy and comforting you, they're really nice! I fall asleep to them almost every night.
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>>39263684
We're in the same boat anon, I have to go now. I hope me and you get out dreams one day.
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>>39263708
I hope so too. Good luck, Anon!
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>>39260344
Can I get a link? On mobile rn at uni
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>>39263579
They're called hookers m8

if you've ever had a good one they're all mommies with perfectly fit bodies and classy personalities
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>>39263396
>Why didn't women love Elliot then?
https://archive.org/details/youtube-JblflIdXZ0Q
https://archive.org/search.php?query=creator%3A"ElliotSupremeLady"
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>>39263986
I would like a link as well. Want to send it to a friend
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>>39263986
>>39265074

http://www.bestgore.com/street-fight/teen-boy-beat-up-kick-stomp-pick-wrong-guy-moscow-russia/
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>>39260745
Goodness for goodness sake.
You'll go far this way anon. Good philosophy,
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>>39261582
Truly the best philosophy and way of life.
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>>39263986
>>39265074
I'm assuming hoping that you're no normie, which means you're on Android. Here's what ya do. Idk if it work on iKike but probably.
>press and hold thumbnail
>open in background tab
>promp pops up "open wit video player or download"
>chose
>go to tab, copy link if don't want to save video
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>>39260181
My roommate in uni was a pretty hot (no homo) football player

But he was raised by christfags who taught him to be a big fedora around girls

>holding doors
>never saying sexual stuff
>pulling out chairs
>trying to be friends first
>too nice
>getting invested in girls and acting like they're special

He never got laid, girls thought he was a creep

Last I heard he got married to a spic single mom
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>>39260344
I can imagine how wet she got at the end
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>>39261582
>YOU will never achieve nice asshole status

Feels fucking good to know that you confuse the fuck out of people and they arent certain whether they hate you or love you.
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Reminder that actual nice guys are almost always in a long term relationship and get married when they're like 25. "Nice guys" are just betas that are too afraid assert themselves in public.
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>>39260157
This pic is maybe 5 years old and you fuckers still ranting about it... And THIS is the board of original content...
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>>39261362
Cause you're civilized and had an education. Niggers and lunatics didn't.
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>>39260344
I assume he walked up to the guy, "You looking at my girl bro!"
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>>39260213
So womem want to be raped is what your saying?
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>>39260298
You cant have both.

>orig
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https://youtu.be/RPfx_jFZQuI

ITT
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>>39265288
Thanks lad
>>39265458
Haha thanks I tried that on iKike and it doesn't work. I was on iPhone or whatever but my parents still buy my phone and I still live with them so I don't have a choice. Not gonna justify my robot/non normie status but I'll let you know I'm not :^)
But yeah sorry that doesn't work I've tried it before
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>>39260344
>Girls like aggressive chads.
In the ask the opposite gender threads on /adv/, I've read from some femanons saying they want/like men that treat other people like shit, excluding herself obviously. And reading those posts made me rage. Girls actually like men that are dicks to betas
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>>39260531
>>chad tries to confront elite chad

there's levels to this shit
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>>39266824
if they didn't then no one would act like dick, people act like dicks cuz they know chicks like it
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>>39260756
what about guys that are genuinely polite or actually good hearted/nice?
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Ice is used as an insult from women to men
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Women want what is valuable for them, of course.

That's where the whole "nice guys are just looking for their self interest" stuff is pure bullshit. It's true, but it's not the reason women don't like them. It's rationalization.

When they used to say they wanted "nice guys" (as >>39261103 mentions, this has fallen out of fashion) they meant "guys who makes me feel nice". Most of the time that is NOT a man who is polite and cautious. Sometimes it's the exact opposite.

Men ought to stop taking women literally. Women will always say they want to be heard, but this linguistic shibboleth itself proves they shouldn't be taken to word. They want their feelings tended to.

A beta thinks this means emotional healing; a Chad knows it isn't. She can take care of her own emotional healing, which is usually accomplished by moving on to whatever makes her feel nice again.
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>>39260157
Men overthink how women can become attracted to them.

Biologically, yes, women are like men and want someone fairly attractive; but unlike men, women have a tendency to be more attracted to the "aesthetic" of the relationship, not the technicals. You could be the baddest, most comedic, buffest, attractive clam tamer, and still fail at getting a woman if she doesn't like the aesthetic.

The aesthetic of the relationship needs to be socially approved, not individually approved.
Everyone, for example, hates "bad boys", but we all recognize the aesthetic of the bad boy. As long as things like the media portray bad boys as desirable, it won't go away. It's like dating black guys; 100 years ago it was taboo and disgusting, but now it's cute and sexy.

Nobody hears about a guy from 4chan being a vag slayer.
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>>39262341
fuck off with your conspiracy theory bullshit. niceness has nothing to do with whether you're attractive or not. what women want is a nice Chad/alpha. though actually some of them genuinely prefer mean and immature Chads to that.
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>>39262956
You ask the girl if SHE wants to kiss YOU. When she says no you say that you didn't say she could. When she says maybe say let's find out and move in
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>>39266824
There was a post on /adv/ where a woman complained to her husband that he was "too nice" and yelled at him for not imposing any restrictions on her girls night out.

The dude said they broke up because he didn't want to change his character for a roasite
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>>39266824
Women are children.
I don't think it's so much that they like men who are dicks to betas ( though it's certainly a factor ) as they want:
1) Date up: a guy who can bully others without consequence proves themselves high on the social totem pole
2) Entertainment: As much as humans want to deny, seeing fights is fun and seeing "yours" fuck up the "others" is a great feeling. This is why sports and animal fighting is popular.

Basically, women are incapable of ensuring their emotional whims take a backseat to morality, social cohesion, and rationality.
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>>39260602
Every girl wants a bad boy who will be nice only to her
Every guy wants a nice girl who will be bad only for him
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>>39266035
What's the difference?

They're both weak cucks
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>>39266824
Never ask a female what she wants
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>>39265471
This frightens me to levels I cannot begin to describe
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>>39267968
Women love guys with a sadistic streak

When I'm out with a girl they always giggle if I taunt some robot looking quiet dude

It's fucked
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>>39261103
i haven't forgotten those times but that was many eons ago but betas who can't take rejection regardless of the circumstances gave it a whole new meaning

>>39266991
if that person is genuinely polite then he will take rejection graciously and will still be her friend if she says no
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>>39267105
You have no idea what the fuck you're talking about, do you? Have you ever been in a relationship?
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>>39260660

That only works if you're good looking. I'm a hideous monster and have long given up on women ever viewing me with anything but disgust, so, I treat them just like I treat everyone else since there's zero possibility of sex.

It hasn't improved anything versus when I thought women wanted men who treated them well.


So the lesson to be learned is that if your'e good looking, anything you do will be viewed in a good light. If you're bad looking, everything you do will be viewed as bad.
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>>39268607
I actually met the chick before. No education beyond high school and her babby daddy was a cholo ex-con. The way she treats my old roommate like a puppy/ATM is disturbing.

You just know he's gonna get divorce raped.
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>>39268637
> tfw no sociopath bf to kill with
Why even live
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>>39268821
True, but I think you may just have low self-esteem crossed with poor status. Post your picture and let me judge.

I only consider a guy ugly if a heterosexual man would consider him ugly.
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>>39260660
>What if you treat girls like anyone else
You must understand that men and women are different, and interacting with either will also be a different experience from the either.
Honestly I think the misconception that men and women are the same is the cause of a huge amount of social awkwardness.
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>>39268924
>from the either
*from the other
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>>39260344
that ass whopping was truly justice
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>>39268821
>if your'e good looking, anything you do will be viewed in a good light. If you're bad looking, everything you do will be viewed as bad.
Nah, that's bullshit. People need to like and respect you. You can have those things regardless of how you look (though obviously being better looking means people are more likely to like and respect you).

Plus good looking people also have to put up with resentful shitters trying to tear them down and being held to unrealistically high standards the entire time. Oh, and being taken advantage of for sex.

You have to buy into looks less and focus on the shit you can actually fix.
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>>39260331
>too much of a pussy to make a move so they try to disguise it as being a gentleman
My faggot friends from central massachuttes said thats rape so thats why those niggers never got any when I was fucking their crush.
>>39260344
BEAT THAT NIGGA BOY.
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>>39266824
Yeah but if they're on 4chan what does that say about them
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>>39268924
Like you wouldn't believe

Society would be 80% healthier if men stopped pretending women work the same way men do, and vice versa. It's insanity how it is now.

Women tell other women to act obnoxious and surround themselves with many people to "win" a guy. Not realizing they're projecting THEIR desires onto men.

Men tell other men to "be nice", which is only because MEN simply want women to "be nice".
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>looks don't matter to girls totally broooo
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>>39268901

No thanks. I honestly don't worry about it too much anymore. It sucks, sure, and doesn't help but I'm miserable mainly because I'm an almost 30 year old wagecuck who despite making vastly more money than he needs has absolutely nothing to look forward to in life. Also, I'm probably at least somewhat autistic since social cues and body language are completely invisible to me. So that's why I work a night-shift IT job and maybe exchange a few words with a cashier or something every few months..

So maybe women do like me but I just can't tell, but I find that unlikely given how women act around men they *are* attracted to. Pic related.
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>>39268821
>if your'e good looking, anything you do will be viewed in a good light. If you're bad looking, everything you do will be viewed as bad.
Yes.
http://www.ibtimes.com/women-less-forgiving-toward-unattractive-men-study-1943420
>>39268982
>being taken advantage of for sex.
>implying this is a legitimate problem
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>>39268982

Sure, how you act can matter if they are on the border of liking/disliking you, but ultimately what matters is how you look. You're judged before even a single word comes out of your mouth.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Halo_effect

Additionally, attractive women get a double positive whammy, too: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women_are_wonderful
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>>39269035
The worst part is that the state we're in could naturally right itself probably. if not for the constant counterproductive reinforcement that is. People instinctually treat men and women different because it's a blatantly obvious fact, but it's under the pressure of constant subversion creating a perverse atmosphere of dissonance.
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>>39269038
They do

But nowhere near as much as men
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>>39265288
>moscow
>Russia
Nigga had it coming thats one place you do NOT pull a punch.
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>>39266394
Nigger how the fuck do you think we got this many people?
Holding doors for whores?
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>>39268850
This was probably your fault because you were in the room the whole time so he couldn't get laid
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>>39266523
I got pussy but Id MUCH rather a AK and some meth.
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>>39263132
>tfw saw portions of fight gif
>tfw better safe than sorry

Screw aggression take it easy bro there's more to life than girls
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>>39269038
What is said in the image is true but looks are only part of what makes women attracted to a man.
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>>39269065
Being used for sex when you wanted a relationship with somebody sucks. But I wouldn't expect you to understand that.

>>39269068
I've heard of both of those things and I don't disagree that they're true. The halo effect doesn't just apply to looks though. It applies to everything. If you seem confident and in charge people will be more likely to interpret other more negative aspects of you positively.

Also falling for the women are wonderful effect makes you an idiot.

But looks aren't the only value you hold and to let the disadvantage of being unattractive get to you is just sabotaging your own chance of success. At the end of the day, willpower and effectiveness are more important. Do you think a woman would rather date a poor attractive guy or a rich ugly dude? And yeah, if you're rich but boring or weak they'll cheat on you but that's completely on you.
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>>39260298
That's an oxymoron. Women don't know what they want and certainly wouldn't admit it even if they knew
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>>39263132
This is what (((they))) have done to entire generations. It's why they want to teach this feminism and gender bullshit to elementary school kids. They need to get to them young to make sure they can ruin their future.
They want to purposely train us wrong, but it's not a joke.
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>>39269275
i only understand being ignored and led on when i want a relationship with somebody
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>>39269275
>Being used for sex when you wanted a relationship with somebody sucks. But I wouldn't expect you to understand that.
Or maybe women should make rational thoughts and don't give it up for free to the first guy that makes her feel good for fear he doesn't leave. But I wouldn't expect roasts like you to understand that being exploited for sex sounds like a she problem.
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>>39268637
What happens if some robot looking quiet lanky creepy nasty dude ~~taunts~~ you?
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>>39269275

They might date a rich ugly dude, but they are essentially being prostitutes, as they are selling sex to him in exchange for resources. They will not ever actually be attracted to you.

That's a big, big difference.

And no, willpower or "effectiveness" don't really matter when you're ugly. I have a lot of willpower (I haven't shot myself yet, after all) but, surprise, no one gives a shit when you look like something that's spent the summer rotting in an Indian dumpster.
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>tfw Chad has a penis that can do loop de loops
>tfw you don't

It's not fair....it's just not fair
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>>39269399
You clock that sack of shit in the face and assert your Chad dominance.
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>>39269308
Then you can understand that being good looking doesn't entitle you to a relationship and probably wouldn't solve your problems.

>>39269403
I don't think attractiveness is only about looks. If you're ugly but have an attractive personality that's all it can take to make people who wouldn't otherwise be attracted to you want you. Plus if you think a sign of having willpower is not having shot yourself yet you should probably go watch a movie or something and see the type of willpower I'm talking about. Prioritising your wants over other people's.

>>39269349
I'm not a girl and I'm not attractive in the slightest. I was actually thinking about a dude who posted here when I said that. He was attractive, but had a bit of a weak/mundane personality and complained about being lead on by women for sex. So what I'm saying is that looks aren't everything, that you can be blessed in that department and still come up short in others and find yourself being mistreated then as a result too. Which means you can work on the things you have control over to overcome your bad looks.
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>>39269599

Given the living nightmare that my life has been ever since I was conscious, yeah, it has taken a lot of willpower to not end it.

I do prioritize myself over other people. I treat most people like shit, whether male or female, because everyone has always treated me like shit.

It does not make anyone like you. I just figured that since people are going to always view me negatively because of my looks, I might as well do something to deserve it.
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>>39269599
>He was attractive, but had a bit of a weak/mundane personality and complained about being lead on by women for sex
What a horrible problem to have. Sounds like he is getting the cow for free with none of the repercussions of a relationship. Explain how that is exploitation for the rest of the class.
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>>39269643
I mean I'm not saying you should be an asshole to people because that isn't advantageous at all. I'm saying you should prioritise your will over theirs because it's the most effective way of getting what you need and it's a great way of getting respect and social status.

But yeah, you shouldn't be a lapdog to people who treat you poorly. If they're an asshole to you you should treat them in kind but you shouldn't go around anticipating that everyone will be like that, preemptively mistreating them to avoid rejection.

A counsellor I had once would say "We rely on other people's good will to survive," and while that's basically a pretentious way of saying "If people don't like you they'll try to hurt you," it's true.

You're caught up a lot in looks as though people's snap judgements of you are all you'll ever be. You need to not conform to their expectations or get so hurt by what they think of you and instead be the person that you want to be. The shallow judgements of strangers don't matter.

>>39269679
Because it's not what he wanted or expected. He was manipulated into sex thinking the person had genuine feelings for him. He came out of it feeling used, unworthy and foolish.
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>>39260344
that webm never fails to cheer me up, I wish I had the balls of that guy who just went into full violence mode
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>>39269038
I think this just comes down to dominance. If they're above you in the dominance hierarchy (or you perceive they are) then them using you like this is flattering instead of repulsive.

Also that woman is unattractive and I'm not sure why the people who post this image put stock in her opinion. Probably because insecure men feel the same way.
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>>39269892
>He was manipulated into sex thinking the person had genuine feelings for him
Oh boo hoo! I am playing the world's smallest violin just for ya boi. People get into relationships for sex. Without sex, relationships are friendships. He got sex without a relationship. Do you not understand how grateful he should be? He is foolish and looks a gift horse in the mouth. Not really convincing me he was exploited desu senpai.
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>>39270063
Yeah I mean it sucks when you're ugly and no one will ever exploit you for sex but either way you're left with a feeling of disappointment
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>>39270114
>left with a feeling of disappointment
Better than years of disappointment in a sexless relationship
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>>39269892

It's advantageous to me because I often end up screwing people over and making money off of it. Even without that, it can just be fun. In addition to being monstrously ugly, I'm also huge (Huge as in closer to seven feet tall than six) so one of my hobbies is scaring women when I am out and about doing my errands and such at 2 in the morning. Upsetting people is really the only thing I look forward to anymore.

If you touched a stove twenty times and each time, you ended up with a burned hand, you'd rightfully assume that the same thing would happen the twenty-first time. It's the same when it comes to people and I. People always treat me like shit, so, people in the future are probably going to do the same thing, too.
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>>39261699
Where can I find the article?
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>>39260344
That nigga just went full [Star Platinum]
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>>39270181
If you're nearly seven feet tall why are you such a fucking pussy and so concerned by what other people think? You need a boost in confidence. Lift or something. You could beat the shit out of most people with the right bodytype.

You seem sensitive which is pretty endearing but at the same time be less of a pussy and recognise your own strength. You don't need to be shopping at two in the fucking morning. Kick some ass.

I've actually made that touched stove analogy to social rejection myself recently. I think you're being overly sensitive to rejection and that you could probably change your behaviour to be more palatable to other people if you wanted to. If you're the giant you describe their disapproval is because they're intimidated by you. Use that to your advantage. You could kill them if you wanted to.
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>>39260157
HOW DONT YOU PEOPLE GET THIS

ITS A CHICKEN FOOT

NICE GUYS ARE CHICKENS, PUSSIES, SCARED

THATS ALL THERE IS TO IT.

GOOD FUCKING GOD I THOUGHT YOU PEOPLE WERE ALL OF """ABOVE AVERAGE INTELLIGENCE"""
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>>39260344
The solo guy was vandalizing a shop and the guy tried to stop him and got fucking stomped into a vegetable state. Seriously. Russia btw.
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>>39260157
they literally don't you moron.
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>>39260344
Gigachad has awoken
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>>39270349

I'm not concerned. That's the whole point. That's why I can be an asshole to people. Why be concerned when people are going to judge you entirely based on factors outside of your control?

I shop at 2 in the morning because I work a night-shift job, as I said. So, I'm normally awake at night and asleep during the day.

And it's not a matter of being super-sensitive to rejection. Accidentally burning yourself on the stove sucks, sure, but it won't kill you. That doesn't mean you should keep on touching it, though, when you know that every time you do it, it's going to hurt and the same thing will happen.

Anyways, I've tried changing my behavior to be more palatable to people. When I was young, I was the shy, sensitive, sweet guy who spent all of his time working with animals at the Humane Society. People hated me then. I got older and decided to change costumes and be the cocky, self-assured guy always with a joke or something outrageous to make people laugh. Still didn't help much and I was still miserable.

Now? Now, I'm a monster. But given that people pretty much react to me the same way no matter how differently I act, I might as well do what gets me some amusement out of the exchange.

Everyone is sensitive to rejection. Even Chad. The difference is that not everyone is rejected 100% of the time like I am. That, and people overlook it because Chad is attractive and I am not.
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>>39270349

But in any case, thank you for talking to me. This is the most social interaction I've had in months.
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>>39260394
>no reason
skinny guy provoked him retard
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>>39262341
>this whole document
Goddamnit this is hitting a bit too close to home.
I thought I was over this stage of my life. Fuck's sake anon.
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>>39270394
you're retarded, she said this is what it LOOKS LIKE not this is a metaphor for nice goys.
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>>39260344
>AH ATATATATATATATATATA
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