Women Hate

Here's what happened anon.

He was nice, romantic, passive, friendly towards her right?
He never said anything bad about her, he genuinely loved her.

This puts pressure on her, because she sees this genuinely nice guy, and has to act the same. She can't be open with him. She has to be nice and friendly, because she thinks that he is too fragile for anything too harsh. And since she has to always have this filter when talking to him, it's suffocating her, she can't be free to say anything she wants. If he was mean at times towards her, she would be able to relax because she would know that he can take anything she throws at him. But she can't. She's stuck. So she left instead of putting up with it.

What happens if a guy is emotional, nice, friendly, passive within a group of guys?
That's right. He gets bullied and made fun of. They see it as a weakness.

Life is unfair.

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>>39254467
So you're saying he should've been a little more callous? Girls really do want men who treat them shitty then?

>>39254607
Yes, as long as he is still respectful. It's about creating a judgment free social contract.

>>39254607
They want you to act like a human being who gets angry, happy, sad, jealous, envious etc

Not just accept anything she throws at you

>>39254690
Yes it's important not to be an emotionless robot. But that's not why girls reject nice guys.

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What everyone said here is right.
However, who gets a gf that won't even let them kiss her? The fact that your brother was ok with this says a lot about him. Also she's a fucking bitch for treating him like that, I mean, if you don't want anything to do with him you just say no right? I think it's a 50/50 situation, she's a bitch and your brother is a cuck.

She was not his gf. Only a complete retard would date a girl for 6 months with no sex. He went beyond retarded and didn't even get a kiss. I'm all for roastie hate but here the blame falls on your brother. She got tired of him never trying anything sexual.

>>39254738
>le nice guys meme
Actual nice guys get girls easily. OP's brother and most of /r9k/ just aren't nice.

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>>39254853
>>39254910
He was always trying though, it's not like she'd set a ground rule in the beginning. Also it was his first gf so he didn't know how these things are supposed to go.

>>39254949
Are you sure she knew she was supposed to be his gf?

>>39254925
This is a big part of it. Most "nice guys" are just dudes who believe they deserve a girlfriend for never improving and showing the most basic human decency to an attractive woman.

>>39254192
>Why are women so cold hearted

You mean why are people so cold hearted? I know plenty of men who pretend to love a girl but ultimately just want to pump and dump. Really sorry for your brother though, he should have realised the fact he was the only one giving in the relationship was a huge red flag

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>>39254973
Yes, they always went on dates but he never got anything out of it.

>>39254998
You see posters here who seriously think they are "nice guys" for saying things like "I would never rape and murder you".

>>39255079
Lesson learned for him. Get him back into the game, do what he did before, but this time tell him the rule is to have sex after the third date.

>>39254925
>Actual nice guys get girls easily.
You're confusing being respectful and being nice.

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>>39255119
How am I supposed to do that? He got farther than I've ever gotten with a girl.

>>39254925
>>39254998
>>39255110
No. Being nice is about avoiding confrontation. Deferring to her decisions. Showering her with compliments. Never saying anything even remotely mean as a joke. Being careful not to talk about any touchy topics. Being careful not to hurt her feelings. Going out of your way to please her. Asking questions so you can figure out what she likes and dislikes, so you can align your views with hers. Etc.

That's what being nice is about.

>>39255184
That's not being nice. That's being a superficial beta.

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>>39254467
The typical beginners guide to MGTOW

>>39255126
Why don't you explain the difference and which one gets girls.

>>39254192
>women treat betas like shit
More news at 11

>>39254192
Haha. Poor schmuck. Atleast I got to stick my dick where I wanted to before I got burnt

>>39255216
>believes in alpha/beta mentality
>doesn't believe that nice guys don't get girls
Anon please.

>>39255228
Being nice is >>39255184
Being respectful is admiration/acknowledgment of her abilities/qualities/achievements and never being genuinely hurtful.

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>>39254192
Your brother is a cuck and doesn't know how to deal with a woman

>>39255432
Unironically niggers know how to treat women.

>>39254467
This is entry level nigga. Come back when you are sacrificing female virgins for the great Xeon, fggt

>>39254467

>group of bros
>bullying the nice, drama-free and friendly bloke
>not trying to set him up constantly and get him drunk on outings

Maybe back in high school, but bros before hoes is still a thing in most circles. Most that'll happen is playful banter, which is mostly done to break the ice and crack through the shell, not to harm.

Now women, on the other hand, are absolutely merciless and without restraint. The sole negative trait about a person becomes one's whole identity to them.

A woman will never desire a beta male. It's simply not possible.

Don't tryhard, it will be extremely painful.

>>39255360
>align your views with hers
In what world do you live in where that's nice? That is not nice, it's retarded.

>>39255360
I must be doing something wrong then. I get girls by being nice. I'm sure you know much better, being a kissless virgin.

>>39255447
I wish you were dead and Patrice was still alive. unironically

>>39255045
Most men are cold-hearted but ALL women are cold-hearted deep down.

>>39255486
It's to make her feel good about her views. By making her relate to someone. Nice guys go out of their way to make her feel good about everything she does.

>>39255497
>I get girls by being nice
No you get girls by being respectful. But you're not nice. If you were, you wouldn't get girls.

>>39254192
>being nice
women don't want that shit
they want to get choked out and shit

>>39255461
A nice guy would never engage in playful banter though. That's the point. He tries to make everybody feel good. Never says anything bad even as a joke.

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>>39255461
Women think that banter & fighting is the same as bullying. That's why they say female friends are "nicer".

Men can befriend a guy who they just got into a vicious fight with. Women hate bitches they ain't even MET before. It's crazy.

>"Ha! That's why you got no hands and no hoes!"
>"Okay, see you around faggot"
Man I love Max, such a good guy. Hope he achieves his dreams.

Vs

>"omg you heard of my friend Rachel?"
Yeaaah, totally. She's such a slut and ugly! Hahahahaha!
>"Yeah, I hate that cunt!"
Oh shit, here she comes!

*fake squeal of excitement*

>"RAAAAAACHEL! I MIIIIIISSED YOU!"
>"Nice blouse....it looks like something my grandmother would wear, very (((retro)))"

>>39255535
Kek

In the Norse mythology Odin says something similar. Basically "beware men because many of them are treacherous pricks, but beware women because they're ALL treacherous cunts"

>>39254949
>>39255079
This sounds absolutely absurd. It sounds like she was using him to get free stuff. I don't think they were romantically involved despite what your insane brother may tell you.

Sorry, but 6 months and no sex isn't a relationship.

>>39255688
nah bro women are extremly catty and hateful and jelly of each other behind each others back and shit

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Relationships are about projecting superiority to your woman and forcing her to chase after you

When a guy freely offers his attention, investment, and time it looks like you have no value as a man so she'll think you're desperate and low quality.

Commitment sluts disgust women the same way sexual sluts disgust men. Guys think the whole "flowers & poetry and listening to her problems" is what works because of the (((media))). In reality, that disgusts women. Especially if you're barely even together. Women are not romantic. Sure she'll smile and do the whole song & dance when you're trying to be. But honestly, she's tolerating it and thinking "I hope this guy doesn't think I'm his only option".

Women will TOLERATE romance from an alpha guy, emphasis on the word tolerate. Because when a guy has proven his alpha nature she can relax a tiny bit and think "cool, he's doing this because he WANTS to, not to win me or out of some weird sense of obligation".

Rule of thumb is be an asshole and cause drama 3 times in a row, then do something randomly sweet.

That's how I do it.

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>>39255818
That's what I just said, dude

>>39255549
Once again, you're a kissless virgin. You know nothing about what girls like. Or what being nice is. Nice guys get girls. You are not a nice guy.

>>39255549
>Nice guys go out of their way to make her feel good
No they don't. You're retarded.

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>>39255924
It's so obvious that you're a chick. You're projecting. Idiot.

>>39255447
fuck off you disgusting nigger

>>39255956
It could just be an ultra feminised man,

>>39255956
It's obvious you're not a nice guy.

>>39255500
>>39255432
big up patrice

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>>39255956
>we will all die alone and we should accept that so we don't get crushed when hope seems to show its ugly fucking head around. I'm sorry.

This picture never fails to kill me inside.

>>39255924
lol

This bitch

"Nice guys" get women when they're 30 and can no longer attract alpha kids

>>39256145
This is a retarded meme, and you're a retard for believing it. When a woman turns 30, she will still want Chad, nothing changes. She would rather die alone than settle for a low class beta robot.

>>39256182
Reading comprehension is your friend

Women never stop wanting alphas

But they're forced to attend their priorities after they hit 25

And that means calling up/Facebooking the beta faggot she knew from high school with a steady paycheck to care for her and whatever bastards she may have spawned

That's how it works

>>39255924
bull fucken' shit "nice guys get girls", girls mostly only go for the fucking caveman chads that are the complete opposite of "nice" and only end up discarding them once they get tired of that same used up pussy and go for another bitch that's just gonna get used in the same cycle over and over again.
Girls never even consider the nice guys because they're too busy being Chad/Tyrone's cumslut.

>>39256256
That's how it works in /r9k/ fantasies. Not the real world.

>>39256280
Nice bait. Some autists will think you were serious.

>>39256290
But that's wrong

It's pretty much fact

>>39256441
If it's a fact you should be able to prove it.

>>39255818
dummy thats what he said