How do you cope with the fact that no one will ever love you?

>>39244746
I don't. Every once in a while I'll make efforts to find someone, fail miserably several times, then give up for another few months, trying to make myself believe that I'm fine with being alone forever.

>>39244858
Exact same deal.

Ugh, I hate how similar I am to everyone here.

>>39244746
By keeping the slimmest bit of hope that I'll find """""the one""""".

>>39244746
Hang out with friends. None of them have gfs so we get along very well.

Surprisingly well, after I had actual love for an extended period (year and a half I think?).

Heartbreak fixed me desu.

i watch anime and live vicariously through the character to fill the void, but the pain comes back if i dont watch anime every so often.

>>39244746
I can still strive to be someone deserving of love.
If you can do something about it, why worry? And if you can't do something about it, why worry?

Make a list of undesireable traits of yours and read that list every time you feel like you "fell" for someone. Looking at the mirror helps too.

This shouldn't be difficult. I made my list after my freshman year, and I still live by this list today.

never experience intimate relationships nor love. it seems all my life was becoming some sort of alpha-male process or becoming part of the tribe during my youth years from college, catholic collage. confessedly, i do want to experience with it. what it means to be loved by someone from the other side.

Luckily I have a mom who loves me

>>39244746
i already loved everyone in the spirit world everythign is aboomerang and coming back around it all evens out

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I don't have to cope, because I don't know what I'm missing out on. I pity the fools who once loved / got loved, but no longer do or ever will

>>39245944
>I pity the fools who once loved / got loved, but no longer do or ever will

This, honestly. A guy who had a great relationship but has been completely alone in the ensuing years/decades knows what he's missing. He's seen both sides.

Someone like me can only work on hypotheticals and conjecture, so it's almost more of a thought exercise than a personal problem.

>>39244858

HI me, do you also break down in tears every few months?

>>39244954
This. I would have offed myself by now if i didn't have the hope that one day something will actually make me happy. But for now ill go through this life, continuing to genuinely feel nothing.

>>39247083
I'm beyond crying at this point. Mostly just dead inside

>>39244746
I don't cope, I'm aware of why no one loves me, I don't make excuses as to why no one does. Thinking about the reasons however is useless because it just sends me in a loop of negative thoughts. Instead I escape to anime, work, fitness, my hobbies, anything to keep me distracted and not feeling too bad about myself. Sometimes I wish I was more delusional.