Why did you never make your move on that cute girl you liked,

>>39242471
I did, she broke my heart.

It wasn't the rejection, it was her stringing me along until I told her how much I liked her, then she said "thanks, I just wanted to hear that" and the dropped me like a hot potato.

I never really knew what to do with a girl or how to keep someone entertained even if she said yes.

>>39242471
She is already taken that's why, feels bad

for me it was crippling depression and a traumatic childhood that ruined any chance of being social

>>39242471
honestly its not my lack of courage/will. ITS JUST THAT I HAVE ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO OPEN UP WITH.

like writing an essay, the introduction is a bitch to write up. the worst part to pull outta your ass. i've somewhat pulled it off in semi-social/full party social situations , but 1v1 JUST FML

It hurts so much, I wish I did so many years ago when she said she liked me, now I'm just some creep who to her seems like a stalker, theres no way out this cycle of shittery
As to why i didn't? Lack of confidence and abundance of autismal skills like everyone else

>>39242471
I tried and she said she didn't feel the same way
hurts a lot

>>39242471
But I did anon, apparently she thinks I'm a great friend.

>>39242471
yeah many times. I have gotten some success and some rejection. But it's getting old when you are 30.

I live 2 hours away and only see her on my trips over on weekends when I'm not working. I don't know how to confess that I like her and then be 2 hours away again.

>>39243367
For me its starting and ending a conversation, like how do I start, do I tell a joke, do I confess my love, do I compliment her eyes, do I just scream TWAT in her face. Then how do I end, do I just say bye and leave, do I just stop talking

WHAT DO I DO

>>39242471
I didn't know I liked her

>>39242471
Social anxiety, lack of courage and fear of rejection. Also what my social status would become afterwards in hs.

>>39243510
Yeah I feel you anon. I mean I can keep a convo. going, it's just starting one. An interesting one. I've only ever pulled it off "masterfully" once, and thats because I didnt even view the woman sexually from the get go.

>>39242471
>Why did you never make your move
better question is why did i ever do, what the fuck were I expecting

She's been in love with my best friend for years
And she plans to move away to be with someone she has also been interested in for years
I never asked because I don't think I have a chance. You might think someone can't have bad feels if they have friends, well, this man has been my best friend for years and I have always been in his shadow, on this and many other areas. He could just choose to have a person I believe I am not even worthy of having. For years.

Fear of acceptance