Femdom Thread

>>39216988
>tfw no pegging gf
Where to find one, lads?

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Is gentle femdom also also welcome?

don't get into fendom, I used to let it slide because I thought it was harmless but you're only hurting yourself

>>39217057

It's not a choice bud, you either are into it or not, and once you are its too late to get out. Any fetish where the male is dominant is better than any type of femdom.

>>39217132
wrong, I used to jerk off to all guys of sick femdom, chastity, cbt until I weaned myself off it by doing no fap and only jerking off to pics of girls and my imagination.

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Where is my mommy gf? Where can I get one?

>>39217197

You're lucky then, i tried to stop but it never worked out. Doesn't matter much anyways, i wouldn't be getting a gf to begin with

>>39217034
>>39217211

4chan is unironically your best bet. Fetlife is fairly useless and the chance you'll spot someone into this irl and know that the she is into it before asking is close to zero. I wouldn't recommend asking as you'll get made fun of publically if she doesn't happen to be into it.

I hate myself so much and I can explain exactly why and nobody would care and that's fine and I don't like that but I can't complain so I'll take it because I'm too I don't even know what to try to kill myself again

>>39216988
>talk about that feel when no femdom gf

I had a femdom GF. She utterly dominated my life. She chose my college career, forbid me to drive, made me stare at the ground whenever I was out, a ton of things. She utterly broke me and got me into the most hardcore fetishes possible. Then she threw me away because I was fully broken in. She was only got off on breaking men in and once done threw them away. So she kicked me out of the house and went to find another man. It took three months to unlock my bank account.

Worse part is that I've found other dommy girls but they are uninterested in because I've already been "trained" as they put it. Apparently its a lot of work to undo that "training" and "retrain" me so they just say no.

>>39218227
How do you meet one?

>>39218227
Can you give me her contact information? I'm not broken yet.

>>39216988
>people glorify a fetish which reduces men below women
>they then complain about being beta

There's your problem, this is the gateway for sissy, cuckolding and all other degeneracy.
Stay away from porn, it's all a slippery slope which will leave you broken.

>>39218403
Femdom =/= Beta

You can be into submitting while also not being a beta doormat.

>>39218227

>I've found other dommy girls

How the fuck do you meet so many? This sounds like a larp

>>39217584
Why doesn't /r9k/ have hookup threads? Is there a rule against it or something?

>tfw no gf who enjoys cuddling, lap pillows or boob pillows

damn man,i just want to be comfy with a girl who loves me

>>39218403
>>39218626
Femdom also doesn't necessarily become cuckolding or sissifying. Personally I'm into femdom but it has to be monogamous, no cucking. It doesn't rule my personality either, I don't let people walk all over me. That right will be strictly for my gf if I ever have one.

>>39218633
>>39218283
I meet them on the internet. In fact I just met one on /r9k/ a week ago. She lives in Denmark so nothing is going to happen there though. As normie as it sounds I just be myself and dont lie. They walk into my life naturally. Telling my life story helps a lot to. Every post I make has a chance of catching a girls eye. Another good place is Discord. Just get room chains going and keep getting invited to more and more obscure channels. I've met a lot of girls like that. They like the nonpublic invite only ones for obvious reasons.

>>39218808
Could you put me in touch with the Danish girl? I'm all for long-distance relationships, feels more meaningful to me.

>>39218227
That's my fear, only with a bf instead of a gf.

I basically want to be gently made into a slave. But my past two bfs have been so bad that I fear being dropped. Like, being used as a fucktoy is a fun fantasy but I don't want to be thrown away.

>>39218808

What kind of discord rooms? There are a shit ton out there, it helps if i can narrow it down to the most useful ones

>tfw no findom gf

>>39218227
>She chose my college career,
This is oddly enough the hottest part of this. That you would trust someone to pick your life course like that. Simple damage can be recovered from, but this one will stick with you.
So, what did she choose to make you?

>>39218639
/soc/ was made specifically to get those threads off /r9k/ (and /b/).

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jap femdom
>guy is an overzealous masochist whom the girl hesitantly ingratiates
>girl is a monsterous sadist who just hurts the guy
>both end with guy fucking girl like a regular old slut
western femdom
>guy just gets hurt by disgusting freak with all sorts of dumb restrictions tantamount to slavery
>never seen anything but and the guy doesn't even matter at all
>gentle femdom is just dudes acting like bitches while women still pine over confidant, alpha, and relationship leading men but who happen to like facesitting or some shit makes them "doms"
Real life femdom
>comical caricaturization of humanity's cruelty more fit to denied by the thirteenth amendment than classified as a relationship
>retarded grandmothers beating misguided men at the leather club
>the divorce court system without having a wedding
>so many catfish you wish you knew how to make cajun food

Y'know it's probably less effort to abandon my desire for active love from a woman because of my mother's failures as a human than put up with this shit
Have this though, I won't make an utterly unproductive post and maybe something like it will come back to me: https://exhentai.org/g/870753/d9876dc5d0/

>>39219528
its just a picture of panda

>>39219528
What I hate about femdom porn is that they choose the ugliest fucking guys, always some fat autist or hipster cunt. I want to see some twinks getting pegged by fit looking woman goddamnit.

>>39219384
But /soc/ is full of normies and attentionwhores.

>>39219786
Because that's what you find in those threads.

>>39218741
>Femdoms who's not into sissifying og cuckolding

Those exist?

>>39220978

Most people into femdom hate cucking

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Pic related is my only kink, I guess it falls under femaledom.. although the way we play is not very femdom

>>39219689
This.
>Lets have a woman dominate a man in chastity
>Should it be a thine lithe hairless trap?
>Should it be an average looking guy who could be a self insert for the audience?
>Nah lets make it a fat hairy middle aged man

>>39222561
I imagine it's cuz a lot of men who are going to go do this type of porn are either extremely perverted and not very attractive or old enough and settled enough that they don't mind recognition or they low t and have health issues.

Me and my wife made ballbusting vids in college and they were so low grade cuz we had to protect our appearances so even though we are young and hot we had to be careful about showing too much

>>39219689
>>39222561
They're trying to keep it somewhat realistic I guess.

You've got to have serious self esteem issues to be into this fetish.

>>39222628

My self-esteem's fine and I've always had this fetish. I remember a lot of my first sexual fantasies involving bondage or humiliation in some form. I really don't get what caused it. I'm also a switch.

>>39222628
>You've got to have serious self esteem issues to be into this fetish.
Most women with submission fetishes are in management positions, it wouldn't surprise me if many men were too. Its nice to have a break from herding cats and let someone else tell you what to do and control you.

>>39218808
Is it a spoon?
If you know what i mean you know what i mean.

>>39222775
That's because it's the natural order.

>>39216988

>Use the r9kfemdom tag on omegle for erp or if you just want to have a quick private chat without having to contactfag

I wish more people would use this

>>39222775
>Most women with submission fetishes are in management positions,

I hate this shit, this is the reason why you cant ever bring up this stuff without being 100% sure she is into it as well. Even the most dominant women in daily life more often than not end up being subs in bed. There is no fucking way to predict if she is going to be dom or sub.

>>39223628
Submissives make some of the best femdom girls. I wouldn't knock them out of the ring. My girl will do the I own these balls. I own you, kick and hit you if your bad or disobey but outside of foreplay I have to make all the decisions and tell her what to do with her life and where to
Be and make her arrangements because she is socially inept and hates people

>>39223753

But is she really dominant or does she do it to please you?

For me a big part of the fetish is the fact that the girl enjoys dominating the guy to no less of a degree than an average girl enjoys getting fucked. If she is faking, pretending or lying to herself thats an instant turnoff to me. It has to be geniune.

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>tfw no girl to knee your balls and let you cum on her legs.

>>39223803
There's definitely fun for both of us. She isn't dominant in the sense that degrading a man or watching a porn of femdom will turn her on. But she definitely isn't just pretending the dom role. But she does have to have it either.

I used to have a son goth girl who literally didn't care what happened to me but at the same time she was so clingy she would damn near stab any woman who walked my direction..it's not a way to live

I want a girl to call me her bitch!

>>39223886

>She isn't dominant in the sense that degrading a man or watching a porn of femdom will turn her on

Yeah that kills it for me. It has to be something she gets off on.

Sadly it seems like girls who are geniunely into femdom are extremely rare. Some more experienced guys have posted in these threads before and i remember all of them saying most girls who are willing to do dom stuff don't actually get off on it and those who do are like 1 in a million, maybe rarer.

I want a girl to hold me down, bite my neck, and whisper into my ear that she loves me and that I belong to her!

>>39223981
Women's sexuality is odd. I'm more than happy if she gets off on dominating me. It would be kind of disheartening if she just got off on dominating anyone. Then it doesn't make you feel very special.

The other dom girl didn't seem like she got off on being. Bitch..it was more like just abuse to keep me. Kinda like how a guy will tell a woman she is ugly and deserves less...she would beat the fuck out of me when we got home if I even spoke to a woman. Broke up with her pretty fast (9months) then she got really scary so we kicked her from our town

>>39224022
>Women's sexuality is odd. I'm more than happy if she gets off on dominating me.

Women are just inherently submissive and focus on pleasing men. That's why she is willing to do something for you that she gets no sexual pleasure from.

>It would be kind of disheartening if she just got off on dominating anyone. Then it doesn't make you feel very special.

Well that's not really how it works. Just as submissive girls don't enjoy getting dommed by anyone, dom girls don't enjoy domming everyone. All relationship dynamics still exist in femdom, it's just switched.

I see where you're coming from though. In the end the biggest problem is actually finding a "true dom". The chance you'll even meet one is very small, and if you do there is a high chance she won't think you're good enough as girls like that have a whole harem of men to choose from usually.

>>39224285
She gets off on our dom play but it's also intimate, just how I wouldn't get off on another girl busting me

What is a true dom to you?

>>39224367

>She gets off on our dom play
>She isn't dominant in the sense that degrading a man or watching a porn of femdom will turn her on.

Sounds like she just gets off on having sex with you, she does dom stuff because you ask her to, she doesn't get off on domming.


>What is a true dom to you?

I think i explained it before but to put in perspective, to me a true dom is someone who gets off on it naturally, as opposed to picking up on it from a boyfriend or from the internet. Like for example the way a guy gets off on tits and ass. It comes naturally and it's a geniune, biologically driven attraction.

>>39224557
I feel like if that was the case she would only do what I like

Ohh I've met a few natural doms then... yeah that's what the girl I dated was like that

>>39224630

>Ohh I've met a few natural doms then

How did you notice they are natural doms? Dated them all?

>>39224732
The goth girl didn't care about people. Natural sadist.

The other ones had led groups that were like radical feminists. Not that they like attacked people but they wanted men who would obey and do as they said and also got off on different individual femdom links. I butt heads with them though cuz men>women

>>39224764

Goth girl sounds about right

Feminists are usually repressed subs though. I also highly doubt that you met more than one natural dom, they're extremely rare from what i have heard.

Though i suppose there is no reliable way to figure this out without getting intimate with the other person, so who knows, maybe by some immense stroke of luck you happened to meet multiple of them. Statistically though most of us here won't even meet one, which is depressing.

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>>39219272
You mean like this in an originally original way where we can make an autistic joke originally

>>39224884
Well I also kind of seek them out for curious reasons. One I met ran her own dominatrix office outside of her apartment. Her and my wife were friends in college.

And buddy's gf is a tall chick that is into bondage. Has been into tying and teasing people since she was five

A lot of interesting people out there in the world, I'll admit they're uncommon but I doubt it's all that rare

>>39224959

>A lot of interesting people out there in the world, I'll admit they're uncommon but I doubt it's all that rare

Idk man, just seems like you are lucky. Basically every experienced sub who has posted in these threads has said that they are extremely rare. I know one guy who had like 10 years of experience and said from all the girls he had met only 2 were actual doms.

I'd try my luck irl but i don't even know how to go about it since i am not submissive at all in daily life and it would draw attention and look very weird if i acted more sub suddenly

>>39225204
Well I'm also very bubbly and talkative. For being on here I'm. A social butterfly and I seem to attract that type of girl, it was harder to find a submissive girl for me cuz I always targeted the dark hair and make up goth chicks.

>>39225329

That makes it much easier for you. I usually tend to attract submissive girls if any, but even those don't stay around.

If your personality is generally masculine you're fucked. People expect you to act and be a certain way and if you don't you'll get made fun of or looked at unfavorably. If you have a feminine personality people won't really care about your femdom fetish but if you are generally masculine you'll get made fun of plus you'll repel any potential dom girls who might have been interested otherwise.

>>39225561

>If your personality is generally masculine you're fucked. People expect you to act and be a certain way and if you don't you'll get made fun of or looked at unfavorably.

This explains it better than i ever could. Well said

>>39223227

>tfw try it
>tfw no one is on it

Oh well

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I really like this series.

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>>39226307
it's one of its kind

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>>39226324
oops my bad

here

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>>39226344
cbt with futanari pics aren't all that usual

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>>39226359
much less so a comic

>>39218227
This smells like a LARP to me, but on the off chance that this is real:

That was abuse, not BDSM, actual BDSM shit involves boundaries, honest communication, and other shit that makes relationships work.

Believe it or not, it doesn't actually work like a shitty yandere manga.