Do girls really find you more attractive if you ignore them?

>>39212073
maybe if you're chad
it doesn't matter what you do when you're a 3/10 robot

>>39212073
No but if you ever get a girlfriend you will find that women immediately find you more desirable, they think if someone else chose you that you must be a good catch.

>>39212073
Only if they're attracted to you to begin with

>>39212073
yes lmfao, I literally did it to a girl today, she doesnt even know what I look like, my voice is just attractive

>>39212073
yes anon. When a girl shows the slightest interest in you, stay shut, ghost her and never look at her.

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>>39212073
Yes. Most women also love the don't give a fuck attitude. I'm not even a chad but I got tons of pussy simply by not giving a fuck and being more witty than the average normie.

>>39212073
2 steps
Showing attention and then ignoring.

>>39212073
No. I get really angry and end up resenting guys who play games, which usually results in me ghosting them. So, it might work short term but long term it's a mistake to ignore your girl.

>>39212224
this
be friendly for the first encounter if it's a short one and then start growing more distant every subsequent encounter
you literally have to lead them along like they're a fish and you're dragging bait
if you reel it in too fast they won't go for it but if you make them move a little bit at a time after a little bit they'll bite or start chasing it harder

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>>39212255
>Your girl
Except she isn't your girl. You gotta bait her first and get her to chase. See >>39212224
Most women find men who chase repulsive.

The peak alpha male is always the chased, never the chaser.

It only works if you're hooking up, if you want a girlfriend they'll cheat on you as soon as you're together and giving them attention.

>>39212073
Step 1. Approach
Step 2. Walk Away
Step 3. Wait for them to follow

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yeah, I fucking hate that shit.
am not gonna play games to catch some girls attention, too much effort for what?
being someone that am not?

am comfortable just being myself, and if someone doesn't like that then so what, it would have never worked anyways.

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>>39212073
>ignore women all the time
>they just get mad at me

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Just rape them, it works every time

>>39212499
Protip bruv. If you're somehwhat decent looking they're just shittesting you. Keep ignoring.

>>39212098

This. You'll also find it much easier to talk to women. For instance, i was looking to get my gf something sweet to eat for her birthday, but had no idea what to get with her vegan diet. I went up to the qt cashier and said "excuse me.. Are the nuts for that make-your-own-trailmix gluten-free?" She looked at me like she was trying to hold in a laugh and explained how nuts don't contain gluten. Then i told her i was looking for some vegan stuff but i don't know what because i like to eat me, so she called someone over to take her register and spent about 20 minutes walking me around the store showing me which shit was vegan, and also chatting me up.


I believe that before i told her i was shopping for mt gf, she probably thought i was trying to chat her up.

>>39212192

Airheaded sluts like all this nonsense. When you find a woman who's worthwhile, you can finally bee yourself and won't have to play these children's games.

>>39212558
nah I'm ugly, I think they are just indignant about somebody of my status ignoring them

>>39212073
I've been ignoring girls my entire life, mainly because they can't hurt me if I don't interact with them.
It hasn't done anything for me so far, and I'd say I'm a 7/10

>>39212499
>>39212659
Same here breh I don't know where the hostility comes from, unless it's that

>>39212255
>your girl
Hmmmmmmmmmm

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>>39212073
Only if you look like a 9/10 like me

>>39212520
I fell in love with a rape victim. They're the most paranoid, neglectful, manipulative lot around.

Never again.

>>39213135
your face is very round

>the creepy virgin
>the mysterious Chad

>>39213488
a girl I like who i ignore half the time once said i was "aloof and mysterious" does this mean something

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>>39212073
Not in my case at least, I much prefer warm, loving, clingy guys.

But I can see why some girls would be attracted to the cold, distant attitude. Prime example is my best friend, she's been crushing hard for 1 year on this guy that barely pays any attention to her. He is really tall and attractive though, so there's that. So I don't really know.

You robots are so clueless. All women want only one thing: to have their expectations subverted. That is it. It is the only thing they want. That's how you get laid, get a gf, and get a wife.

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>>39213787
>she expects a tall, handsome guy
>ugly robot shows up
>instant blowjob

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>>39212073

When Chad ignores them sure, when some robot does it doesn't matter because you already don't exist in her world.

treat 'em mean keep 'em keen. It' not just a meme but yea they need to like you first.

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>look decent, not fat and not buffed
>wear good clothing since everything is grey or black
>dont talk unless im asked because im introverted and even if im a WoW playing nerd with nothing "normie" themed to contribute
>girls intrested in me because im so mysterious and yet appealing
>avoid them untill they think im gay because i dont want to pop the bubblee

Autistic Chad here. I constantly ignore women who like me because I just don't know what to do. Most of them just end up hating me because they think I'm rejecting them.

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>>39213935
>avoid them untill they think im gay because i dont want to pop the bubblee

RRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

Several girls thought I was gay cause I never hit on anyone. I THOUGHT THEY HATED THAT SHIT WHAT THE FUCK.

>>39212224
1. Demonstrate value
2. Engage physically
3. Nurture dependence
4. Neglect emotionally
5. Inspire hope
6. Separate entirely

>>39212073
it completely depends on the person, this is why you can't be autistic OPie you have to read the mood so you can understand how each specific woman works

if you're giving a girl a lot of attention and she's not responding then try something else, one of those things could be ignoring her for a while

but if you fuck up and start ignoring a girl who was already responding to you then she'll think you're not interested and move on, most girls will probably be like this

if you have no common sense you can't figure women out, you'll have to get out there and get more experience under your belt than the average person. but the sad thing is that autist develop anxiety and they do just the opposite out of fear of rejection.

>>39213147
That's because most "rape" victims are just whores with cognitive dissonance who cheat and convince themselves they didn't want it so they can feel like the victim. I do feel sympathy for those who are actually violently raped and try everything in their power to stop it.

>>39212098
In the past I would've called bull on this, but it works. A female friend once asked if I had a gf and I lied. She got really excited and left me for a day, and returned the next with 5 of her female friends who were really friendly to me for no reason. This is coming from a short black dude with 5/10 looks.

>>39212073
It also works the other way, males find girls more attractive if they ignore them. That's why almost all the posters from this sub are lusting for pussy.

>>39214086
She must think you have a big dick or something

I ignored this one girl who kinda liked me she asked if I wanted to fuck but I continued to ignore her lol. I sometimes regret it but then again she ended up pregnant at the age of 19 (like 3 years ago) she's a yr old than me.

>>39214129
I'm only 7" senpai

Girls crave attention they'll act differently to get it but that does not mean they like you.

>>39214227
Girls are bad at math you're golden

>>39214109
>this sub
Yikes.

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>>39213935
Are you me anon throughout highschool girls thought I was gay because I never dated

>talk to a girl
>then stop talking
>no reply from her for 3 mweeks until I break.
>then a slew of replies
>then get ghosted
Yeah no. It works op.

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>>39212073
>ignore everyone
>everyone ignores me
About as expected, what are you people talking about?

>>39214289
Feel the yikes, I feed on them, hahaha

>>39212073
Let me break it down for you, anon.

Women are attracted to physically attractive men. Literally every other trait that might be considered attractive is just a multiplier to that base level of "I want to fuck his brains out" you get from being an 7-10/10. If you're not attractive, you won't suddenly become attractive by having money or power or anything else. You might get more women to PRETEND you're attractive in order to siphon your resources, but you can never, ever be Chad no matter how hard you try.

Chads are born, not made.

>>39212654
No such woman.
AWALT.
Unicorns don't exist.
Unless you're a newfag you should know all this already...

>>39214399
Correct.

ori123

>>39214399
This but it should be kept in mind that one can easily become a 7/10 by working on their physique for most people. Some are born naturally blessed though.

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>>39213135
Fuck off you plebian piss ant pleb

Steps on how to get a girl interested in you.
1.Be some what fit.
2.Be confident
3.Ignore her
4.If shes texts you reply four days later
5.Be unreliable as possible
6.Treat her poorly
7.Win

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>only meet girls through dating sites
>if you ignore them too long they just start chatting to one of the other hundred guys on their messaging list

This is all just a Chad method. And even he doesnt have to play it since the girl will fuck him either way.

>>39212073
Use the rule of three.
If she initiates conversation with you first three times, initiate a conversation once. Always give her less back.

>>39214844
you forgot "be attractive"

>>39213787
What the fuck are you even talking about you fucking retard?

>>39214457
Anon, stop lying to yourself. These women do exist. Their loyalty can be earned through understanding and patience.

>>39212654
men are all the same and women are all the same. you don't get to "find" a women who's worthwhile, you just make the best of the situation and if she likes you then you'll be fine.

>>39213903
>treat 'em mean
>keep 'em keen
>it's not just a meme
>but yea they need to like you first.

You messed up the fucking rhyme mate

>>39212073
It's because women are used to getting whatever they want and freak the fuck out when someone doesn't give them the attention they're used to.

Doesn't work if you aren't hot though.

>>39215033
>women
>loyalty
Ah such blissful youf

>>39215033
For a relationship to happen you:

>need to meet said woman/have her in your social circle
>need to chat up spend time etc.
>she needs to like you
>you need to like her
>AND she needs to be a unicorn
Combining all of this and thinking about how many women a man meets in his life on average, your chances of meeting this imaginary woman is... Yep, zero.

>>39215033
If such women existed, there wouldn't be a board such as /r9k/. All men on earth would be happily in a relationship.

If you are a beta you have two choices:
>be alone
or
>be alpha

You can NEVER be yourself, because being yourself is the sole reason why you are currently browsing and posting in this board.

>>39215114
robots just don't know they exist. but they do. robots meet like a total of 2 women in an entire lifetime.

>>39215194
What are you talking about, that's just not true. Think that to yourself sure, but don't go sabotaging other guys. And if you're a woman, you need to be more honest with yourself.

>>39215194
Oh so we have to meet every single woman on Earth instead of relying on generalizations. What faggotry is this?

>>39215078
>unicorn
What if I told you that the majority of women are good people? Yes, most of them are prone to cruel instincts and self-absorption, but most of them also wish they were above these things. It's all a series of knee-jerk mistakes and confused ego protection, and if you are quick to judge, you'll never see past it.

If you can't believe in the light of humanity then what can you possibly hope for?

>>39215194
Are there horses in the world that are bad at moving at fast speed for a long time? Probably. But chances are, if you rode a few horses, you know what it feels like. You know how horses act.
If you ride a random horse in the wild, chances are you know what to expect.

It's a fucking horse. It's not gonna have wings and fly.

No.
Unicorns.

>>39215285

>If you can't believe in the light of humanity then what can you possibly hope for?

I believe in the light of humanity but I wouldn't risk my emotional well-being in a relationship for it.

>>39215285
>but most of them also wish they were above these things

Intentions and instincts don't matter for jack shit. I look at actions. The good old "Sorry, wish I wasn't like this" spiel. I've heard those exact words from a girl who rejected me.

Fucking bullshit. Bull. Shit. She then went on to fuck Chad like a good roastie.

>It's all a series of knee-jerk mistakes and confused ego protection, and if you are quick to judge, you'll never see past it.

What are you even saying? You've lost me...

>>39215224
robots just don't know.

>>39215234
what?

>>39215296
robots just don't know. we're not talking about unicorns. if you're attracted to something that actually doesn't exist, fix yourself. if you are attracted to basic shit like loyalty and honesty, just go outside. you're not triggering anybody by saying shit like "women aren't human XD" "all women are the same XD" these phrases have no meaning. when feminists say that all men are rapists the reaction is to harass the feminist, not make an argument for rape or how men aren't rapists. try again.

>>39215296
Your didn't make sufficient effort to understand each horse before you wrote it off. They're all horribly flawed and clueless, just like the rest of us. Doesn't mean there's nothing of value beneath the surface.

>>39215408
>what?
Read it again slag. Fuck are you confused about?

>>39212073
>meet girl
>she's really cool, we get along well
>never want to date, I have a lot of trust issues. Not getting into why.
>she starts giving off heavy signs
>we're coworkers at a restaurant, she'll "accidentally" grind her ass on me
>eventually decide "fuck it" and start pursuing her
>go out a few times, i start to open up to her
>once i open up, she gets distant like she wants me to chase her
>don't feel like playing games, start ignoring her
>she starts giving off heavy signals again, heavier than before
>open up again, she distances herself
>distance myself again, she starts to be flirty
>rinse repeat until i gave up on her altogether

>>39215439
what are you taIking about my dude.

>>39215408
No YOU don't know, and that superiority complex you have shows me how delusional you are.

>>39215473
had a similar experience with a girl
god fucking damn

>>39212073
Yeah happened loads of times.

>>39215408
Are you incapable of forming a sentence other than "robots just don't know"?

You are ironically generalizing robots when you're trying to say I'm wrong for generalizing women. I don't know about other robots, but I have met MANY women. I doubt many robots even asked out a girl, but I have. I actually speak from a point of authority and knowledge here. Every time I said "this one is different", I was just blinded by emotions. Never fucking again.

If you want to change men's minds, go date a guy who's not a fucking Chad. But you can't do that because you are a dumb roastie that can't control her fucking retarded ape brain just like the rest.

It's always the same fucking words. All words and no action.

>>39215414
What the fuck are you talking about?

>>39215485
that doesn't make any sense because i do know that they exist, i've met plenty of girls/women who have been loyal/fun to their partners. even if you make some trash tier argument about how they could be faking it, effectively it's the same shit if nobody ever finds out. by around 30 there are more people who have been in long term relationships than not.

>>39212098
This is true. I remember in my freshman year of high school I had a gf for a few months. Suddenly all these girls started talking to me and laughing at my jokes. Lol fucking whores

>>39214327
>then
learn to greentext newfag

>>39215553
What in the everloving fuck are you talking about, OP said girls find it attractive if you act cool and aloof.

>>39212073

It's not a joke. I drove an Asian and Hispanic girl crazy in college by ignoring them. In my case, though, I did it because I was tired of ending up with the same result everytime.

>>39215595
>tired of ending up with the same result
Can you explain in an original manner?

>>39212073
Only if you're the almighty Chad, really, if you're lucky enough that some girl is interested in you and you go full autism and ignore her she will quickly loose interest, in the case of Chad though she will still try her best for him to notice her

>>39215353
I'm saying that in a busy social context where people have to think on their toes, they're liable to make some cunty mistakes.

In a long-term relationship with plenty of one-on-one time to demonstrate respect and reach mutual understanding, people can bring out the best in each other.

>>39215519
>i'm not like the other robots
you are ironically contradicting yourself ironically if you ironically think my ironic point was about generalizations.

i'm saying robots don't know because they don't meet enough women. groups of people can be inexperienced in anything. robots also make arguments about genetics which are wrong.

i don't care if you change your mind. nobody cares about you lol. it's your personal problem, if you can't tell the differences between girls and actually cannot identify a decent girl that you enjoy being around and trust, then you're just a homo or retarded. at some level it doesn't matter what "authority" you have if everyone else can do what you can't.

>>39215285

>the majority of women are good people
>most of them are prone to cruel instincts and self-absorption

Way to shoot yourself in the foot.

>If you can't believe in the light of humanity then what can you possibly hope for

The truth. There's a perfect woman for every man and she lives inside his head. But thats where it ends. Reality may or may not throw women who resemble that ideal your way but there are far too many men who have gone to their graves virgins to show how often such meetings occur, if they occur successfully in favour of that man at all.

This doesn't even touch upon 'love' or that overwhelming care a woman can give if you're the undivided object of her attention/desire. Some (most if you want to be more cynical) men will never know what thats like even if they try, worse still the act of trying hard itself will burn them out and reveal the truth to them.

Perhaps they're too ugly or socially inept or simply loathe to change for a system who would casually discard them otherwise. But to tell them to believe in unicorns and the 'light of humanity' (especially when it comes to women, in an age where entitlement runs rife) when statistics, experience and common sense say something else is a cruel and unusual punishment.

>>39215647
nobody said for you to believe in unicorns.

>>39215473
>>39215499
I have this problem as well
>get good vibes from girl
>attention gives a confidence boost and I play back a bit
>she comes back a bit stronger
>match it
>she retracts expecting me to follow up
>now completely isolated out side my comfort zone with absolutely no idea what I'm doing or how to proceed
>people are now aware of our to and fro
>get spooked and fall back to my default standoffish self
>she takes it that I'm not interested
>now its awkward between us for the rest of time

>>39215671

>If you can't believe in the light of humanity then what can you possibly hope for?

>nobody said for you to believe in unicorns.

The post I was responding to directly pleads for a belief in unicorns.

>>39215676
I had this experience like five times over in university. Ended up dating a really persistent girl. Worked out pretty good.

>>39215738
1. a metaphor for the good intentions of people is not a mythical creature
2. if you think people have bad qualities, then they must have good ones. to "believe" in them is just to notice them and value them more. if you can't overcome some quality that all women supposedly share, then you're not straight, are you.

>>39215793

>1. a metaphor for the good intentions of people is not a mythical creature

Recieving the good intentions of a woman is a like a mythical creature. For some men it will come thick and fast, for others it will not come no matter how much they chase it.

You were talking about a woman with whom one 'doesn't need to play these childish games with'. The metaphor of the unicorn is entirely apt.

>1. a metaphor for the good intentions of people is not a mythical creature

I was not talking about the good intentions of people, which I believe exists, but about the possibility of landing a woman with whom there will be no 'playing of games'. An 'ideal' woman if you will, someone who will see and judge you mostly for your character and not your physical husk/social value/material wealth.

>2. if you think people have bad qualities, then they must have good ones. to "believe" in them is just to notice them and value them more.

Good and bad are subjective. A dominating girlfriend may be one man's dream and an abused man's nightmare. People have qualities which become good or bad when viewed through the lens of another persons perspective shines a light on them and they become, as you say, valued more.

But even eliciting these values or becoming exposed to them is a trial which you do not touch on beyond 'the light of humanity'. We might as well be clear here, are you talking about the literal 'good' acts of humanity as weighed against the 'bad'? Or about the woman with whom one plays no games and might be considered ideal for men looking for romantic attachment? Which is it?

>then you're not straight, are you.

Nice ad-hom.

>>39215642
>actually cannot identify a decent girl that you enjoy being around and trust
I'm telling you I have tried and there's no such girl, you're telling me "go find one lol".
But do go on, you are single handedly proving roasties are retarded and helping all robots confirm what they already know.

>>39215627
That has absolutely NOTHING to do with what I'm saying. You can't even understand the point I'm making here?

>>39212073
>woman wants chad
>cant get chad
>wants him even more now

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>>39212073
No, my precious boyfriend tried that. Stood up our date then didn't text me for 24 hours. He knows I'm OCD with that and thought he was dead, when he told me he wasn't I arranged to dump him the next date.

Doesn't matter where in the world you are, if you're too busy to answer the phone or messages on social media you don't care that much. It wasn't even an emergency either.

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>>39212098
>Women want what other women have
I thought that was common knowledge.

>>39216118
This is probably bait but fuck off anyway

>>39213935
>avoiding instead of avoiding, showing affection and eventually getting with them
anon

>>39212073
No they just continue to not acknowledge your existence.

>>39216118
so he was already your bf? you stupid cunt.

You can't ignore someone who doesn't know you exist.