Getting a gf is so easy

>>39207211

Go fuck yourself, it's one of the hardest things in the world (in America at least). Even fit guys complain about how hard it can be.

Some guys are lucky enough to have them fall in their lap, some guys work hard for it and get one, some guys work hard for it and don't get a damn thing.

How is it easy? I've got 0 matches on tinder after a month

>>39207211
a better question would be..

Why would I want a "relationship" at all anyways?

>>39207235

(not to rain on your parade, just demonstrating a point here)

And even if he DOES get a match, okay, let's go from here.

The amount of girls that don't even respond is high. So, let's say, every 10 or so, he gets a response.

He finally gets one of these girls to let him pay for food for them. (ugh)

The date even goes well, they have a great time, and text afterwards. Then the girl ghosts him out of nowhere. Guy texts her once checking on her. Nothing. He's in the danger zone now. If he texts her again, he's going to come off as "desperate", destroying his chances. If he says nothing, she's just simply not going to ever text him because modern women are shit and take no responsibility for anything.

So yeah, good luck out there guys. It's a shitfest and I am by no means much of a robot.

Why would I want a girlfriend?

>>39207232

Wrong. Fit guys can get gfs easy. They probably mean it's hard to maintain the relationship due to personality differences OR they mean the 10/10 girl won't give them a chance.

>>39207235

Tinder is not how you get dates. You have to get a date the old fashion way like the real men before all this online shit.


If you guys don't have gfs it's either a choice to not have one, or you just aren't being realistic and settling for a girl around your level of attractiveness.

>>39207211
I have a debilitating health condition for 3-4 years now, it keeps me from doing most of the things I used to enjoy.

>>39207301

Your second point is true, I would never ever ever use Tinder for dates.

Really the lesson I'm gonna give you guys here: if a girl shows even the slightest flicker of interest in you in real life, do not let that shit slip through your fingers. At least give it a shot, because life doesn't drop those on you often.

>>39207301
I'm not gonna settle for a fat girl when I'm not fat myself

how tho when youre a loser in life?

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>>39207331

I'm gonna try to expand on this a bit because it's so goddamn important.

Okay, say you're playing a game and a rare spawn that you want badly spawns. You're not going to fumble around and be all beta, right? No, you'd instantly charge at that shit and kill it.

As a guy, as much as it sucks, you need to look at potential relationship threads as a "rare spawn" or whatever analogy you want to use. When they happen right in front of you, you better seize it or you will be miserable (like I have been).

>>39207232

>Go fuck yourself, it's one of the hardest things in the world

Keep deluding yourself. Most people will have had at least one partner by 30. Try looking at the world outside of the context of r9k.

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>>39207281
Guy who has gotten 50+ Tinder Matches can confirm. But It's mostly your approach, these girls will not take a simple "Hey". It's very lame, and they use the service mostly for validation.

But my main problem with Tinder and Dating apps besides the abundant catalog of mentally Ill girls with Daddy Issues, is how they try and shill you out of your money for a service so minimalist

I really think it has to do with the "guys must initiate" culture we have.

Some guys I know are great dudes, but they just can't initiate (or escalate) with girls, and due to those basically being required skills, they get the short end of the dating stick.

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>>39207211
>that kid

origi

>>39207408
I seriously do not understand why anyone would want a gf. Why? Solitude = peace. Having a gf would just fuck it up, she would always just be..there..annoying, present, wanting to go out and do shit that you don't want to do, ruin your shit, or trap you into marriage and eventually take half your shit. Seriously, why would anyone want that?

>>39207487

It's hard to ignore chemical impulses in the brain.

>>39207211
>so why don't you have one yet?
Because the Jews are manipulating the woman to breed with Low iq savages instead of beta providers.

Make no mistake OP this is the end of the white race.

The mongrels that result from this will be salves of the Jew.

>>39207502

Ah yeah. Also this. Wasn't even factoring that into the equation.

I legitimately believe it's harder than ever for a regular ol' guy to get in a relationship these days. And that kind of sucks, because most women and most men are just that, regular.

>>39207502
Slaves*

Forgive me, I've had a bit to drink.

But if you're white and have no girlfriend don't be too hard on yourself! It's because the girl that would be with you is breeding with a low iq savage from a lesser race.

From the bottom of my heart, I feel sorry for you all.

>>39207211
Acne, and a low self esteem mostly. If I didn't have acne I'm pretty confident I could get one. mostly because I'm not particularly in a rush

>>39207502
>I can't get a gf because jews
lmao

>>39207616

It's part of the problem. Dude, have you even seen what our commercials and media look like these days? It's not even subtle.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DimMrdLRNT0

>>39207616
yea I expected that shit from /pol but not /r9k
fucking kek

>>39207616
I wish it was the simple.

Understand the complexity of social engineering before judging me please.

Regardless of race, we are all being used by the Jews.
Black, white, brown, etc.
The Jews want to be the superior race, and it looks like no one is trying to stop them.

>>39207643
Big brands are always pushing the 'diversity' propaganda in ads (and videogames, TV in general, etc. do as well) but I fail to see the relation between it and the jews. They do it to SELL and make money. They do it because they think it's what people want, I suppose.

>>39207757
>They do it because they think it's what people want
With all do respect you are stupid if you think that.

They do it because it fits their agenda.

Low IQ are naive and that is what the Jews are forcefully injecting into the white race, they want more of you. Feel flattered.

I'm both ugly and completely blind to social cues and body language.

next time I'll spec out as a chad instead of an undesirable

>>39207757

So just so we're on the same page, it's subtly implied that there's a spark or something like that between them and they might get together in that commercial.

You're right about big brands pushing diversity to reach more demographics. And some people want it yeah.

Anyway, my point is (I'm not the original guy who was talking about Jews), someone, for some reason, is pushing a lot of interracial breeding type propaganda. You can't deny the cuck meme is extremely popular, I hear people use it in real life now. The imagery that always comes to mind when using 'cuck' is a black dude cucking a white guy. This stuff is everywhere, and it being everywhere is bleeding over into real life, where you are seeing more white/black relationships.

Now. Theoretically, is this fine? Sure, in an ideal world. But it's thinning out the white race and it is a problem.

>>39207847
>I'm not the original guy who was talking about Jews
Hello. I am the guy who was posting about the Jews. But listen to this guy because he is more intelligent than me.

>>39207867

Aww don't do that. You seem plenty smart.

>>39207881
Accepting harsh truths is a part of becoming "woke". I'm not saying I'm stupid, but I'm saying you're more intelligent.

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>>39207643
The problem is that neither of you have talked to any actual females recently if you really think that the media is consuming their brains to this fucking extent. My best friend is a 110lb 5'7'' white guy and his gf is a white 8/10, far out of his league. He's got confidence and a great personality, that's what women are attracted to. Sure you have some dumb cunts will shove it in your face that they only date X race exclusively, but that's a small percentage of women. You'd know this if you went outside and socialized like normal human beings.

It's funny how you guys speak of Jews as a monolithic entity that controls the world.

Y'all seriously give my religion too much credit. WE DO NOT CONTROL THE WORLD. We just like money and do whatever it takes to get more money. There is no great conspiracy behind it. From a very early age we are taught about business, money, taxes, etc. We carry this knowledge with us and we seize opportunities most people are too afraid or ignorant to capitalize on.

Most rich Jews do not inherit their wealth! Zuckerburg, Ellison, Adelson, Brin, etc. They are self made billionaires. They started companies that became wildly successful.

Anyways, have fun blaming your relationship woes on Jews...

>>39207301
>Tinder is not how you get dates. You have to get a date the old fashion way like the real men before all this online shit.

old fashioned way fucking sucks. even on tinder, from an entire city of 1M maybe i find every 10th girl or so interesting. dont get me wrong, there are a lot of pretty girls, but the majority of them look the same, theyre all boring trend-hopping social media sluts i have absolutely zero interest in. at least on tinder i have a chance of seeing interesting women, in an average bar i have zero
never used it with my own pictures though but i want to looksmax anyway

>>39207281
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>>39208053
all this plebbit spacing
wew lad

Im gonna bump this thread my dudette

>>39207643
They added a black guy because middle-aged dads view youth culture through a telescope and figure what's popular is ethnically ambiguous brown people because of things like Instagram. It's not le jooz meme.

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>>39207211
I like being creepy

>>39207211
Never tried, always assumed no woman would be interested in me and that I was inferior to all the guys around me. Literally never spoken to a woman or tried to flirt, just assumed it was a no. Besides, I'm a 4/10 manlet white boy. Women aren't attracted to men like that.

>easy
Its not impossible but god damn it's a lot of work unless you know a bunch of people and are decently attractive.
I spent three years trying to find people on dating sites and try and keep a conversation with these average as fuck girls who holding conversations with is the most god damn tedious social interaction ever and we do meet up they'll usually just ghost you after an awkward as fuck boring date. Not worth the effort desu. Thank god for porn and hookers.

>>39207315
What is it? Originadooo

>>39207232
>in America at least).
Oh don't worry it's like that everywhere, girls are almost impossible to get

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>>39208258
I lived in a common city

>>39207235
You're doing something wrong then. I got over a dozen and fucked half of them, and I don't even use it that often.

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>>39207211
GETTING a girlfriend is easy. Make a dating profile, take a couple pictures, send messages to chubby girls with makeup on. TA DA. Got a girlfriend.

KEEPING a girlfriend is fucking hard work. It's a never ending battle of keeping them happy and keeping yourself sane. I've yet to win that war.

>>39207211
Because I don't want to come onto the wrong girl, a nut case, and have her ruin my life. Get it, yet?

I do tho.

Although she's annoying and mentally unstable

But she has a never ending sex drive and gives me free drugs.

Soooo

>>39209714

Keeping the girl is the easy part, m8.

>>39209382
I don't actually know, all I know is it causes me pain in my chest and feels like someone is sitting on my chest when it acts up, mainly if I'm active but also if I move wrong or even sneeze. This has caused me to become sedentary to reduce the frequency of pain. My guess is a massive hernia but who knows. Please kill me.

>>39209749

Please go to the doctor before you die you could atleast use it on your hobbies

>>39210029
I know anon I know...I have been trying to go for a long time but it's just so damn far away from where I am and I have no way to get there. I talked to someone on a helpline chat earlier and they said I should ask DHS to help me get there so I guess I will call them tomorrow. But honestly I'm not optimistic. Plus I have to move out in a month and I have no where to go, it's a really shitty life for me right now.

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>school was 65:35 M:F ratio
>hobbies are 9:1 M:F ratio
>workplace is 5:1 M:F
>the girls i do like enough to ask out have been lesbians

I got a tinder match in 24 hours though, she hasn't replied at all which is a shame. But at least i know i girl liked my pics

>>39209714
oh please the amount of girls that stick with guys who beat the shit of them proves that keeping them is easy as fuck

>>39207211
>6"1
>Good face / jawline
>always complimented
>fit, decent build

I'm a sperg though and spend all my time working, playing video games or working out. I am an INFJ and find it hard to talk to people in general... Never had a girlfriend and I'm turning 25 soon.

Getting laid is easy. Getting a gf is moderately easy. Getting a gf that you actually like, and she likes you back, and keeping her, is the hard part.

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>>39207211
I do. Shes my goth gf.

>>39207211
>it's not easy
>because they reject me

>>39210304
Do you suck on her mole ?

Tbh i bet i'd get fucked and get some manipulative bitch who sees my vulnerabilities

>>39209747
My experience is congruent with this post.

>>39210304
Lindsy?

>>39207211
>so why don't you have one yet?
I'm very picky, and a the slight show of degeneracy on her part I tend to just lose interest.

>>39207211
I got my first GF a few months ago, this is why I was banned from the r9k discord

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>Be me at work
>Gril customer is randomly strikes up a conversation
>Autistic me doesn't realize I'm being hit on
>mfw I'm deeply in the closet
>She asks for my phone number in the earshot of several other customers
>Give it to her cause I'm a deer in headlights and would feel bad for turning her down in front of everyone
>Text for a day
>Feel extremely guilty about leading her on
>Forced to come out of the closet to a complete stranger
>She seems to understand and haven't heard from her since
>mfw this could have all been avoided if I just said no.

>>39210321
That's a piercing

>>39210434
thats pretty kawaii, anon

>>39210385
>he fell for the muh pure virgin meme

>>39210434
>She seems to understand and haven't heard from her since
nice!