How hard is it to find a dominating gf?

>>39171482
It's not hard but it's impossible.

>>39171482
i'm a dominating gf and honestly i don't even know either just hunt for the rare dom gf, a lot of us are shorties tho idk if that affects anything

I'll warn you now, they all have issues. But you probably do too, so if you can both put aside your faggotry, go for it.

But be aware, it might not be what you actually want when you get it.

>>39171530
how tall are you roughly??

>>39171578
I just want a tall gf who dosent find it akward

>>39171587
5'3" with a height difference of 8-9 inches give or take

>>39171482
Most girls who are dominant want so see how far they can push you before you dominate them.

>>39171714
ew no dom men are a dime a dozen

it's just so flavorless and boring to see guy doms everywhere

>>39171599
That feel when no tall aggressive gf
Or any gf for that matter

>>39171714
Are there more girls that are not into BDSM shit and will just cuddle me in bed?

>>39171736
You're playing coy but I think we all see through it. You're laying it on a bit thicc.

>>39171482
I found a dom gf that lives pretty close to me here on r9k.
She might read this reply, so hi M, I love you.

>>39171853
That's lucky, what counrty?

>>39171866
We're in Eastern Europe.

>>39171800
i'm just tellin ya weak submissive boys is best boys

>>39171877
>>39171853
whats your relationship like?

>>39171900
We live around 70km away from each other, see each other once a month (soon we'll see each other every week), we text/talk via discord every day from the moment we wake up and we sleep in the call. We talk about random topics, deep or not. It's pretty good I'd say, we had some ups and downs but she's amazing to be honest. What else do you want to know?

dom gf here. most guys think they want it but once they have it they realize it isnt what they thought it would be.

>>39171981
what sort of stuff does she do? is she aggressive or nurturing?

>tfw freakishly tall female, but total sub
Hurts, everyone expects me to be a fetishist

>>39172085
You're atleast a switch though right, you can be grrr ANGERY and enjoy it surely

>>39172085
would you hold me?

>>39172085
Everyone has shit taste, tall sub girls are great

>>39172107
No
>>39172119
Sure

>>39172144
would you mind that we embrace each other in an intimate way?

>>39171482
Not as hard as you think I went on Grindr and found a at dickgirl with tits in a week

>>39172144
So you have no interest at all, not even being the big spoon in a pair of big spoons and being very playful and firm with your hands

>>39172152
Depends, you into rough sex? Choke me anon!

>>39172053
Nurturing, sometimes aggressive in bed but generally very gentle and nurturing.

>>39172161
Nope, zero, my hands only seem to want to dig into a back or a bed.

>>39171482
I mean she is very dominating loves to pin my legs behind my head and fuck me but at the same time she lets me chm in her mouth if I treated her good

>>39172175
But hands are for holding, anon.

>>39172023
Come on. Tell us your story.

>>39171482
It's very fucking easy if you're not an autistic beta. Just find a normal girlfriend, start it off as roleplay and soon enough she'll be bossing you around like the mother you always wanted.

However the problem with the people on this board is that they're too collectively stupid and mentally ill to get a girlfriend in the first place thus for them, it's impossible.

>>39172167
>>39172185
wow thats the sort of thing i'd want, is she taller then you?

>>39172165
where do you live chokeanon?

>>39171482
It's semi rare, but not impossible. Honestly sometimes you can get a girl who's already confident but also fucked in the head to get into it and learn how. That's how I got into it. Current bf suggested it could be fun and a few hours of porn investigation later I was alternating between mommy and sadist. So if you find an adaptable girl that cares about you, totally possible.

>>39171482
Wait a GF or a trap? It sounds like you have gay issues anon.

>>39172206
Washington, D.C. orig

>>39172198
She is 5 11 i am 5'9

I want a taller gf..

>>39172323
>see tall stunning girl in class
>perfect figure

fuck, should i speak to her?

>>39172351
Go for it, girls like confidence!

>>39172085
Every girl calls herself a sub though
Are you a real sub, or just lazy in bed and like to be led and call that 'subby'
>>39171736
>dom men are a dime a dozen
That's because most women ask for it

>>39172195
Yeah sums me about right. If I had been able to fix myself, I wouldn't be having a problem.

>Women
>Dominating

Those women have some major insecurities or are massive sluts. I had a date with a dominant girl via Tinder and she was constantly on denial by being a woman. It's quite hilarious and sad at the same time.

>>39172394
Haha no, I like to be choked and pinned to the bed ass up head down. I have only ever hsd loving sex and not fucked though.

>>39172198
I'm 174cm she's 170cm. I'm taller than she is but I find that cute.

>>39172368
They like confidence in men who don't look like schlubby pieces of shit, anon. They hate confidence in men who are unattractive and want to smash it out of them.

To the original poster, I would recommend steering clear unless you're decent looking. If you are decent looking, try opening with a joke.

>>39172425
So .. you're not a virgin then ? Organ donor

>>39172509
No, only had sex with one guy though, but he died in a freak accident, so I have to find some else to spend the rest of my life with :'(

>>39172549
Oh, that's really sad. I'm sorry to hear that, tall subgirl.

>>39172616
Yeah, he died when some stuff in a forklift he was walking by fell on him. Really crazy, and I found out leter that hebhad bought ab engagement ring and was planning to propose. All my attempts to find someone since have been failures and my a lot of guys expect me to be a dom.

>>39171482

Depends on what you mean by "dominating". A girl who's into taking control and leading things during sex and being rough? Not very hard. A girl who's into hard femdom where she degrades you and makes you humiliate yourself for her amusement? Extremely difficult.

>>39172750
>A girl who's into taking control and leading things during sex and being rough?

that sort

>>39172668
Well, it's not terribly hard to find someone to click with, right? I'm sure there there are some guys in your area.