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I've already given up on having friends, I'm just trying to play D&D at this point

to the archive it goes...

despite what normies say being friendly isn't enough to make friends, you have to have some worth to you, like social status, something others think they will benefit from spending time with you

>>39150810
They often make fun of friendly people behind their back. Normies just like you if you can be toxic enough to be mean for no reason.

>>39150243
I feel you. At the end of the day when you have a lot to say to others but no one to hear you out. Most terrible feelings.

>>39151016
I don't have a lot to say, but I'd like to have someone who actually want to talk with me.
Doesn't matter if it's bullshit they did today, talking about a movie they've seen or if it's a deep conversation about what they're feeling. I want to be important for someone.

Later on I'm trying to use r9k omegle text chat fo feel the gap. It's nice to see someone writing to you, even if they'll skip at some point.

>>39151345
I totally agree with you. It's like, I'm being constantly used by my friends. They use me to get information about this and that, I feel happy, even though I know they're just gonna leave after their work is done. I don't mind, at least I get to talk and feel a bit useful.
I would also like someone who wants to genuinely talk to me. Not as in they have to, but they want to

>>39151345
hey uhmm

do you have the discord? we could talk

does anyone have a chill discord channel?

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>>39150219
last ''real'' online friends i had turned their back on me and left me for others, started shit talking me and joining groups that were made especially for bullying because i'm ''autistic''

i never did anything though, i was just trying to stay nice to people, they were getting attached to me and then i might've been busy playing an online game or trying to reply to multiple people if i ever was messaged from more people at a time, and these so said ''friends'' were instantly ''disgusted by my uncaring behavior'' , they would get really mad or depressed if i didn't reply to them in like 2 minutes, even though i did my best to reply in max 10mins.. they all left me, then started making up rumors about it, shit talking me to other people and even going as far as making hate groups addressed towards claiming that i'm a ''liar and deceiver, uncaring of my friends, relationship cheater, a cuck, and autist'' etc.

it all hurt a lot seeing that happen when i really just did my best to stay in contact. i dont know, i was starting to feel somewhat better and found a few games to play in my free time that got my mood better but then because of that, everyone leaves me..

>>39151519
>do you have the discord? we could talk
I have it, but I don't know if I'm ready to start again. I'm sorry.
In this moment of my life feeling rejected one more time is definitely not what I need.

I have a couple of online friends and they are nice. Took awhile to get them but it is worth it.

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>Hung out a few times with a few groups of people over the last year or two
>Really got on with them
>Thought we were now good friends
>Invite them all out for my birthday
>Almost all of them ignore the invite or don't show up

>>39151578
Having too many friends is a thing too.

>>39150219
People have been ignoring me my entire life, or telling me to fuck off, basically. At some point you feel like you have nothing to lose anymore. The problem is that I'm not a pushover like most people in that position, and I'll do ballsy shit on a whim.

>encountered first person in years three years and a few months ago that could actually just idly chat with without an air of awkwardness sinking in
>person eventually claims to be a she after some light hearted banter, don't really care
>starts hitting on me
still frustrates me to this day that I didn't know how to handle the thought of losing a friend if I didn't reciprocate after a while
>>39151578
>i'm
>too lazy to capitalize the i but not lazy enough to neglect the '

>>39151649
If you feel that you want to start again, then here's my discord tag #3114 I would also want someone to have a nice chat with

>>39153190
I hope you will find someone nice, but in this moment I can barely take care of myself so... sorry.

>>39151649
Looks like this time you ignored me. Sigh. I'm accustomed to these feelings anyway.

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I feel like I'm in this situation a lot. I mean all my old friends have either got other friends and left, completely forgot about me, used me and then forgot about me and or told me to fuck off, and it's not just isolated incidents it seems to be every friend I've had while I tried my best to be a good friend to them. There was a time one friend wanted me to give him money to continue being my friend and the pathetic part is I was so desperate to keep a friend at the time that I was actually considering doing it.

All of this has left me with a bit of a fear of friendship and reverting back to my reclusive state which I don't really mind. I mean I would like interactions but I don't think I'm cut out for them, and who would want to be friends with a 30yo autistic neet anyway?

>>39153917
I haven't ignored you. I replied to you explaining why you will not see me in your pending friend requests list.
I thought saying something is better than saying nothing at all and let you wait in anxiety.

>>39154013
It's perfectly alright.

>>39153982
Don't say that. I've tried making a lot of Internet friends. Apparently, it never worked. Always got left behind.

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>>39150219
I added someone off a thread a few weeks back and I've been messaging them most days. They'll reply quickly and seem interested but they never start conversations. Should I expect to get ghosted one of these days?

>>39154627
I hope not. At least you have got some friends of off threads.

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I am just so boring. No friends.

>>39150784
>five hours later
Bump.

>>39154627
>they never start conversations
It's a problem for many people. Don't give up.

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>got broken up with by LDR gf again
>refuses to tell me what I did wrong
>one friend left from middle/high school days
>we used to make music together
>he's stopped making music and is going into trades
>good for him cuz I can tell it genuinely makes him happy but we're going to grow apart
>worry that we will fall out of touch completely once he realizes I'm not gonna be useful to him in his new path
>trying to meet people
>how
>where do I go
>what do I say
>trying to find a first job
>realize I can't find one because everyone I know who is employed got their job through a friend or relative
>really want to kill myself
>probably too pussy to kill myself
>can't do anything
>I don't even know if this is on thread topic anymore but fuck it

Can I have a friend please

>>39156178
Do you like anime though?

>>39156213
Yes and video games I would like friendship

I make ever effort to share stuff about myself and hang out with my friends but get little in return. My
one (((friend))) always gives me mixed answers when I ask him to hang out. Nobody asks me to hang out, I'm always the one asking people. And now with my brother dead I feel like I'm radioactive either people (did) only talk to me to say sorry and pretend to care and now just gone on with their lives want to avoid me because I'm just a living blob of despair

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>>39156235
Post an anime girl to prove it.

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>>39156178
I will be your friend Anon-kun

I made a couple of friends playing Dota 2. One is in Macedonia and the other in California. I plan to visit the one in Cali when I go there for my cousin's wedding next summer. I'll take my time and go to Europe on a vacation and I'll hit up the Macedonian one when I can.

My IRL friends aren't bad but they share absolutely no interests with me. We just kind of go and chill together when we're not working.

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>>39156745
Please will you be my friend too?

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>>39156902
Yes. Where can I contact you for jolly friendship?

>>39156920
Will we fap?

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>>39156933
Not together but maybe at the same time coincidentally.

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>tfw i like making online friends but get scared or insecure eventually and ghost whatever circle I join

I feel bad because of all the anons talking about people ghosting them

I don't speak for all of the people who've done it but I just get autistic as fuck and think I'm annoying people, and that they'll start shittalking me behind my back

I want a nice girl or trap i could dedicate my whole time too

>>39153190
Hey anon. What's the name before the tag? I could use someone to talk to.

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>>39156964
Sure.

lakyr#7843