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Why are you still a virgin? Does it bother you much?

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Why are you still a virgin? Does it bother you much?
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Never tried then just stopped caring. I don't care about being a virgin and am content on dying one.
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>>39013781
How old are you and do you know why this happened?
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>>39013727
Virgin here. DESU I wish females would value male virginity more. I'm still holding to it like some share on the stockmarket.
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>>39013791

26, I'm just overall apatheic.
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>>39013885
I'm 24 same here. You think you can get a gf if you tried?
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>>39013727
18 and starting to lose hope
All the guys I know in my grade are all moving into their next relationships while I haven't had a first
Even kids who I think are more autistic than me have found gfs and that only leaves me to reflect on just what the fuck is wrong with me
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I've never penetrated a girl or cummed on anyone but I did have a few sensual experiences with my dick. Albeit I was flaccid. Do I care? No. I am struggling with whether or not I want to be celibate or try to marry however.
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25 here not really its whatever
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I've never pursued a person of my preferred sex in my life.
Doesn't bother me, never has.
Don't cry over milk you haven't spilt yet
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scared of all interpersonal relationships
stopped caring about virginity because fear of every type of social interaction leads to much worse problems
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32. I'm more lonely than anything else.
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>>39013968
>Marry
That's quite a stretch.
>but I did have a few sensual experiences with my dick.
You mean like a blowjob?
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>>39013954
its probably not your time yet.

i knew this airforce-dude buff smart, lawyer, etc. lost his virginity at 25, which is late.

does NOT spell doom.
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>>39014003
A girl sucked my flaccid dick for like 3 seconds.
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>>39013906

No. I have zero attractive qualities.
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>>39013992
How did it come this far.
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>>39014033
Why only 3 seconds? Tell me more

Awkward sex experiences make me hard for some reason
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>>39013727
>Why are you a virgin?
Because I avoid women
>Does it bother you much?
Not really, im quite contentt with wanking. The whole not having children thing scares me though.
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I am a virgin because I am socially retarded have trouble expressing my feelings. I don't really care that much about being a virgin, I just want someone else to experience life with and snuggle with at night. Sometimes I even cry alone at night because I feel so lonely and nobody wants to be around me.
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>>39014027
how tall is he?
t. 5'7" manlet here
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>>39013727
I have never tried, i know for a fact two girls liked me in highschool but i feel relationships arent worth the time they take when i have other things to do,no it doesn't bother me, im 18.
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>>39014033
Ok anon now comes the important part. How old were u.
If you were below 12 it doesn't count.
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>>39014044

I kept thinking things would work out on their own, but I wasn't putting in the effort to change myself and asking girls out. Now it might be too late.
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Never found a good girl I'd be willing to get with that wasn't already with somebody else. Never saw the value of casual, meaningless sex- masturbation feels plenty good and is more convenient.
Only been one girl I've ever wanted to go out with and I never had the balls to ask. I'm planning on doing it soon provided she doesn't get with someone else. I can virtually guarantee she'll reject me. We've known eachother for 6 years, so I figure that had she liked me, she would have said something by now. Even still, if she says yes, I wouldn't know what to do in a relationship. We make good friends but I don't know if we'd be a good couple, mostly due to my aforementioned inexperience.
Wish me luck, fellow virginfags.
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>>39013727
I am actualy proud to be a virgin it shows women don't have power over me sexually and they can use it again me to manipulate me.
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>>39014063
Literally me.

What is worst is, when you realize that there is actually nothing you can do about it, when you're the only one who can change yourself.
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>>39014138
How do you look? Aspergers? Fat? Mental ilness? Condition?
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Literally me, all my friends have gf's or had one and I never tried nor cared.
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>>39014074
he was around 6 foot

i also knew this one guy who was your height who got laid often, so it's not all about the height

i don't think that's very relevant though. even though looks really do help, all of the stuff you see on the media/net about meeting beauty standards is overstated
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>>39013727
I don't know. I just don't think it matters. I haven't flown to space either but its nothing to grieve over. As long as I'm not in tremendous pain I am grateful.
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>>39014052
ok.
>Be me
>autist in highschool.
>In special education
>Feel elitist because i'm much less nerdy than the other kids. In truth I have a worse social life.
>The only girl in the class likes me.
>I find her annoying and unattractive but doesn't get the hint. I'm nice to her of course but distant.
>We start hanging out. She's telling me about her problems.
>She had a really fucked up life.
>I, desperately wanting my first kiss, get the bright idea to say "we should make out"
>She gleefully agrees. We start hanging out to kiss and shit. I'm too embarrassed by her to make her my gf though and swear to everyone she isn't.
>The kisses feel weird and kinda gross. Even though I initated the whole thing I feel like she's preying on me.
>I come to find she wants to go the whole 9 yards and have sex. I just wanted to make out but say what the hell.
>I drive her to a few places where we try to have sex
>I'm so grossed out by her I can never get hard.
>And one point in a subway bathroom she sucks my dick for like 3 seconds. It actaully felt good.
>Eventually we break it off and she gets in a lesbian online relationship.
>A bunch of drama goes down
>She goes crazy, moves, supposedly gets raped, comes back but is too prideful to go back to her home. She ends up homeless with a half Black child (i'm not kidding).
>I blocked her number and don't talk to her anymore. I'm happy to be free of her because she was a timebomb waiting to explode.
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>>39013727
i'm a 5 inch dicklet desufam
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>>39013727
Because I always get nervous and pussy out when I get the opportunity.
Yes it bothers me a lot.
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>>39014200

Yeah, Aspergers, although the doctor that diagnosed me said it was mild. OCD that has improved since I was 20ish, and I've recently been trying Adderall again for ADHD.

I think I look okay, although I need to lose some weight that I gained after I switched to an office job from retail.

I live on my own, which is nice, but I don't really get out a lot besides work.
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>socially retarded
>voted "Most Quiet" in high school
>non-attractive face
>non-deep voice
>5'9"
>not Chad
>18, will live rest of life a KHHV
At least the past 6 months in the gym are paying off, r-right g-guys?
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>>39014327
And I should add that despite having a niglet to take care of she felt it appropriate to get a puppy. Last I talked to her she was hitting me up for money for the puppy.
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>>39013727
I'm a bisexual robot and still a virgin, although I'm paying to bring a dude to me so I can finally lose my virginity (literally the only dude who has ever been interested in me, the only person actually_
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>>39013727
What do you mean by "why"?

I'm a virgin because I have never had sex. There's no reason for it. There's nothing egregiously wrong with me. It has just never happened and I guess it never will. It bothers me a lot actually, but there's nothing to be done about it. I try to just live my life.
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>>39013727
The virginity doesn't bother me as much as never having a gf does. I want the companionship more than anything else.
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>>39013727
I'm fat and I don't know where to meet girls or how to speak to them. I have no idea what girls like except for watching netflix, celebrities and gossip. None of my friends knows any girls except for my normalfag friend.

It bothers me alot, I want to rub my penis and insert it into her vagina, I want to give love and pleasure and get it back in return, I want to feel a girls body and explore their bodies. Every night I lay in my bed thinking about these things I will never get to experience while I hug my pillow. Sometimes it makes me cry and sometimes it makes me very frustrated and almost angry. I'm 20 years old and a female has never showed any interest in me, I am jealous of all my normalfag friends and everyone out here with a girlfriend. Throughout all my life I've been told that there's plenty of fish in the sea and there is always one for you but that is simply not true, if that would be the case I'd probably experienced something sexual with a female or had a girlfriend at some point but I haven't. I feel both betrayed, forgotten and lost. If I turn 25 and haven't experienced anything sexual or gotten a gf I will probably kill myself, at that point I really do have nothing left to live for, not that I do now anyways but I keep myself alive for the very slim chance that this will somehow change.
TL;DR, I'm a fat horny KHHV loser that will kill myself if I don't have sex or get a gf before I turn 25.
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>>39014528
Often there is a reason even if it's just asperger syndrome.
>>39014521
>Paying
So a prostitute.
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>>39014575
Really you should just get an escort. If that is out of you means, you should get an asian massage. Nothing is wrong with paying for sex or sexual acts.
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>>39014617
>escort
There is none in my country, illegal here.
>asian massage
Where and how? How much does it cost for "special treatment" and how do I know it is one of those massage places? I don't even have a car or something to take me from place to place, my mom would question where I went. I honestly have no clue about these things so if you even bother to respond to me do it as if you were explaining it to a retard because that is how clueless and unknowing of these things I am. I don't live in the US by the way.
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turned 20

Didn't want it to distract me in high school

now I'm in college with no dating experience

Yes very, I'm at the point of no return
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>>39014685
>I don't even have a car or something to take me from place to place, my mom would question where I went.
You're pretty much done then. I guess I presumed at the bare minimum you lived in a place with Asian massage parlors, had a way to save enough cash to buy their services and had means to get their along with a viable half-truth to tell your parents about where you went. Without any of that? nah.
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>>39014735
Well looks like I'm fucked then, well thanks for trying to help I guess.
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Thank god im not a virgin man. Lost it at 19 a month before I turned 20. It's not even the fact that I know what it feel like to be in a girl, it's the same as stroking your dick with lube, except with feelings. It's the fact that I know that if I was over 23 years old and still a virgin I know for a fact I'd be depressed about it and couldn't cope with getting out of bed every day knowing everybody else has had sex. Other than that, I just want a girlfriend now, once you've had sex a few times you start to not value it as much anymore because you know what it feels like. I just want someone to care about me now...
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>>39013727
i will probably never have sex unless a girl literally forces herself onto my dick.

and seeing as how i rarely leave the house, and never socialize with anyone when i do the chances of this happening are slim to fucking none.

i have zero desire for a gf as i can no longer form emotional attachments to people from the years of NEET isolation, i literally just want a mouth/pussy to fuck and nothing more
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>>39014953
How long have you isolated youreself?
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>>39013727
>Does it bother you much?
No, I hope to save myself for my future wife (assuming that ever happens, which is doubtful). I believe my virginity is a promise to my wife that I will remain faithful to her, and only her. Nothing spiritual, I don't believe a flying white man is watching me take a shit, I just have no desire to give out something I can't get back for momentary pleasure with someone I don't care about. I have more self respect than to sleep around like a disgusting fucking normalfag.
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T years ago i wnet to and STD clinic O am afraid of the #BADWOLF
WAITING Q0 YEARS TO DEVELOPPEMENT TREATMENTS
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>>39015032
She is also your past and present wife if you are that committed to marriage and spookys
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>>39015066
>committed to spookys
what did he mean by this

like I said, it's not really a spiritual thing. I'm insanely autistic about everything I do that has the chance for loss. Sex outside of marriage loses my virginity, something I can never get back, and gives me guaranteed pleasure with only one woman, once. Saving myself creates a stronger bond between husband and wife and decreases the chance of divorce. I'd still be guaranteed one woman, but now it'd be guaranteed more than once. Pros for chastity until marriage definitely outweigh pros for random flings.
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>>39013954
Exact same situation here. I know im pretty socially retarded but i at least make an effort. Do you go out often if at all? (E.g. parties, clubs etc.)
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>>39014735
different anon but where can i find such places if i did have my own car and live in the us?
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>>39015032
good luck with that because she is not waiting for you and she is riding the cock carousel. enjoy your sloppy seconds and her lying to you about being a vigin.
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>>39014472
nice gains anon whats your routine?
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>>39015172
Strip malls.
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In high school and a bit after, yeah. Then I stopped caring. About a day or two ago something really pushed me off, so I'm back here again and I can feel the same rage as before fuming within me. God... Women can be such fucking whores, and the guys that fuck and dump are just as much to blame. It's within my power to do something about it unfortunately. I just hope that the girl I meet that takes my first kiss, hug, and dicking is a complete virgin, otherwise I'll be chimping out (this is unrealistic nowadays. I'll probably be a virgin into my fucking 30s at the rate I'm going)
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>>39015231
It's not within*

This post is entirely original.
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>>39015197
Did starting strength until a month ago then switched to pic related but modified

>instead of bench, I dip
>BB row every workout plus YT link
>https://youtu.be/qaJhYsCkX2s
>3x3 deadlifts
Accessories:
>Leg extensions
>Leg curls
>tricep extensions
>bicep curls
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>>39014970
4 years desu

my brain has completely atrophied
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I'm 19.
Back in high school I figured it would happen eventually and didn't care.
Now I have no friends (like literally 0) and no experience with women.
I don't know if I should give up.

It's not even the "not having put my dick in a vagina" part that bothers me, it's the fact that I've missed out on something so natural and normal and the stigma that's associated with it; the thought that something is wrong with me even though I don't know what.
Fuck
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>>39013727
2 reasons.

1. I think that no woman would ever be attracted to me or willingly want to be with me. I'm average at best, why wouldn't a woman want to be with a guy better than me? There are billions of men on earth she can be with that are better than me, and on top of that she can just share a Chad with her 9 female friends. I'm a 4/10 at best and 5'6 and fucking white. No woman finds that attractive.

2. I never tried to be with a woman. I just assume no one is interested and would automatically not be interested so I never flirted or asked a woman out. Never even spoken to one that didn't speak to me first. 26 year old virgin here btw.
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Would a handjob be considered losing virginity?
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>>39015760
Unfortunately not. oreganu
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>>39013727
How long until virginity grows back?

Obviously this only counts for penis virginity.
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>>39014327
Dodged a bullet there anon, funny story
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>>39013727
Was offered pre-maritals from 2 or 3 girls back when I was in high school.
Declined.
Don't regret it.
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>>39013727
Social anxiety, introversion, aspergers, and self-esteem issues (mostly to do with gyno/skinnyfat body) prevent me from trying to find a relationship. Also been a shut-in NEET for 6 years and in hindsight I was progressing toward that fate all my life, always very reclusive and shunning contact with people. At school I had a few girls show interest in me, call me handsome, etc., but the aforementioned psychological issues prevented me from pursuing any potential opportunities. Usually being a virgin doesn't bother me, but sometimes I do get lonely and wish I had somebody to love/somebody who loved me.
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I never tried to lose it. I never really had much interest in sex at all. I didn't even fap for the first time until I was 23, and I didn't enjoy it. I don't know whats wrong with me, but I don't really care. All I know is I was destined to be a wizard.
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>>39013727
I'm 24 and i'm a virgin with girls. Done everything with guys in the past and know i found a cute virgin girl, but she doesn't know that i've done that so....

I don't know if tell her or not, i feel so bad to lie to her
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>>39015157
How do you even have sex at clubs?
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>>39017311
In the toilets, anon.
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>>39017531
Gross, they never remember to flush.
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31. I never cared about it growing up, just cared about my hobbies. But I do wish I had someone to talk to in person sometimes, because ever since I graduated school I haven't had contact with people much. I wouldn't be able to live with someone else 24/7. I know there is something wrong with me. Not that I am attractive or confident or anything anyway even if I did try.
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>>39017939
>31
Did you just never talk to a girl?
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