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Why do normies just get angry at you for being miserable and

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Why do normies just get angry at you for being miserable and unhappy? It's like they consider your unhappiness to be an insult to them and their time.
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>>38909517
I think there's a difference between "miserable and unhappy" and "moping about your problems while doing nothing to fix it". The latter can be infuriating to deal with in other people, especially if you give a crap about them. It's okay to trip and fall in life, but crying about it while refusing to get up is the pinnacle of insulting the survival spirit of your ancestors.
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>>38909517
They dont. They get upset at you because they dont actually understand. Most people, normal people have never experienced depression, all they know is what they've heard, that it's a kinda sadness and malaise and that getting out of it takes effort. The thing they don't get, and CANT get because they've never had anything approaching depression or similar, is how hard it is to pull out of it. They hear "It takes effort" and think you can just conjure up the will to get better. Others might understand how it works, but because again, they lack the experience to have real empathy for what you're going through, see you as "not trying", they become frustrated with your perceived inaction
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>>38909517
trust me if I knew I'd stop it.
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>>38909517
I always assume it's instinct because I get pissed at them and I can explain why, his life is hell, he's 34 a khv NEET with diabetes that will likely claim his legs, his 67 year old dad is depressed what a waste he is, his mother has told me she stays up at night wondering where she went wrong and none of this leads me to pity, it leads to to rage, like I need to bite on something hard till it breaks rage. And I can't understand it, I can't figure out why my gut feeling is to beat the shit out of this fat ugly smelly blob that's doom to hell because even if he gets his shit together he is way to late to enjoy the pleasures of life and I just don't get why that's my first urge.
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>be miserable mentally
>develope empathy and understanding
>see how people end up in certain situations
>friends who were always normal
>"why would you do that I can't understand"
>"why don't you just do what I would do"

I only use the term normalfag because these people even if don't mean no harm can't understand suffering because they never suffered. It's an alien concept for them literally.
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>>38909517
there could be loads of reasons why this is happening, but a general rule is that your negative situation will bring about nihilistic thoughts in others. not because they can't understand you but rather because they're trying to understand you, take a car crash as an example some will see a bloody one and think..
>holy shit that could've been me, life is so fragile
and feel bad for the rest of the day despite nothing directly happening to them.

maybe they might've been trying to make you feel better, but your mood didn't change after their attempt. if that's the case they might feel helpless or maybe they'll get the impression that you don't value their kindness and efforts.
>so they looked at your situation
>realized that yes there are things you can do to fix it
>they don't understand how apathy might make someone complacent to their own bad situation
>you're apathetic you still get lonely and stressed so you continue to vent
>in their eyes the situation is like a kid going to his mom to cry after burning himself on the stove
>and crying to her after doing it again and again and again
because lets be frank if people take the time to get angry at you, you were probably unconsciously making an effort to get their help and attention and that's why they stopped to notice.

you have to learn to talk to people it will make your life happier whether you think so right now or not, give and take my lad. sorry for the stupid arm chair psychology, i had a lot to drink and i already fapped like 3 times tonight. totally irrelevant but i thought you should know.
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>>38909993

>there could be loads of reasons why this is happening, but a general rule is that your negative situation will bring about nihilistic thoughts in others. not because they can't understand you but rather because they're trying to understand you

I'm not OP but that is a really interesting idea. It's a perspective I haven't really considered.
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>>38909517
>Why do normies just get angry at you for being miserable and unhappy? It's like they consider your unhappiness to be an insult to them and their time.
I too, want an unironic answer to this question.
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>>38909560
put ur organs into a shredder to end your life you normie piece of shit
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Normal here

This (>>38909560) is why. You're all self absorbed in your own problems
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>>38910302

What this >>38909993 guy said is a pretty good ideology. I guess it depends on the "normie" so it may come from ignorance or the person who is nihilistic can be such an energy vampire that they don't want their own mood getting fucked up when they see what they do will not help anyway.

>>38910346
You are rather fucking stupid because what you say is true but it 100% depends on the invidual. And as you don't know shit about anonym people who write 2 sentences you can't say if it's self pity or a legit mental disorder.

This is why "normalfags" like you are considered idiot, just as much as the self pitying people you hate. You can't look beyond what you understand / how you see the world and you just spout shit without a second thought.
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>>38910401
>what you say is true
>here are reasons why what you say is not true
nigger its one or the fucking other you useless piece of shit
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>>38909517
Because it's different. I'm actually completely confident in my inability to be normal so I'm free to do as I please. I have zero social milestones, not even a single friend. It doesn't matter whether or not you are sad, miserable, confident or good-looking if you bring nothing to their lives. It just so happens that miserable people don't have much good to bring, much like how neither I nor them can relate to one another because of how fundamentally different our experiences were/are.
Most "normies" don't know how to reel themselves in so they're rude shits compared to moderate normal people who will, at worst, never see you again after a bit of back-and-forth conversation.
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>>38910453

>I can't understand so I insult

How old are you? 17? You don't get to know a person from a couple sentences so you don't get to judge if they are self pitying or have mental health issues. Is it hard to understand?
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>>38910502
>so you don't get to judge
lol fuck off back to your safespace you fucking faggot.
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>>38910401

>calling others stupid with this absolute train wreck of a post

I hope English isn't your first language
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>>38910523

Judge all you want just don't think you are 100% right because you stick with your own ideology. (this is why you are most likely underage, if not I feel sorry for you) I also don't understand why you frequent the site if basically every person that posts here are "faggots".
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>>38910502
actually, you should totally judge people harder that use slurs
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It's 99% because it drags them down too. Being around someone who's depressed is depressing. Talking to them is a bummer. They would much rather be around someone who's happy and bubbly and full of energy, smiling and making jokes and brightening up their day. It's a very selfish way of viewing others, not really caring about them and how they feel, but about how their presence and attitude affects you.

Very similar to the way that they hate loners in the workplace. To them it's not enough for you to come in and do your job and not bother anybody. They want someone talkative that they can chat with to pass the time, so that going to work is more like hanging out with friends. If you aren't going to be their friend and talk to them it makes their workday harder, and they resent you for it.

>tl;dr "everybody should entertain me all the time everywhere i go"
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>>38910635

IT seems selfish that you think that everyone should put up with your depressive shit because you're there
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>>38910722
>no u
great fucking argument you nigger
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>>38910734

Ask yourself would you want to hang around someone who complains all the time? Someone who just wallows in misery?
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>>38910761
Seems like it would be good to hang out with someone similar to myself. However I have yet to meet such a person.
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>>38910810

I doubt someone could live up to your cunt standards
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>>38910821
I don't have standarts.
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>>38910722
That's like saying that being handicapped is selfish because it's depressing and it inconveniences other people sometimes.

Depression is an illness, you can't blame someone for being depressed.
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>>38910761
>would you want to hang around someone who complains all the time?
yeah, normies are truly insufferable to hang around with
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>>38910761
Where do you think you are? I come here exclusively for the misery and experiences I can relate to.
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I have this one female normie friend...
She's ugly as hell, but apparently likes me, just keeps me around to talk to sometimes, I don't mind as I don't have a lot of human contact, so I enjoy talking to her sometimes.

I once mentioned being depressed and considering suicide, all rationality was immediately thrown out the window, she got into an emotional rant about how precious life is and how you just need to be happy, how I should go travel and other normie bullshit like that...
Hate that attitude so much.
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>>38911047
Well what kind of answer did you expect you girl-talking normie shitter?
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>>38911047
Lifeprotip: NEVER mention to other people that you consider suicide. ABSOLUTELY NEVER.
nobody supports people that arent gonna live long
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>>38911179
>>38911188
figured that out as well, still thanks
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>>38909743
Could you please reformulate your post, i'm trying to understand what you're trying to say.
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>>38911243
How about you just learn English? I understood him just well.
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>>38911222
Dont isten to them, the girl cares about you, but having no experience with depression/suicidal tendencies, she simply doesn't know how to react. She would give you the proper advice, if she could. She's just ignorant on the subject, and a little stupid.
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>>38911261
His post isn't clear, it's not about english or not. Why don't you fuck off with your shit attitude? I asked him nicely.
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>>38911277
you know, all 3 of you are right, to a certain degree.
You don't talk to normies about suicide because they have no experience with it, can't understand it, and get really emotional when ending a life is brought up
Worst case they report you and you get detained, 12yo me had to experience that when parents didn't know what to do...
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>>38909562
>>38909743

> Not being able to get any pussy is the only valid reason to be unhappy.
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>>38911612
Who are you quoting? None of the posts you're replying to imply any of this.
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>>38910317
>Ooooh this one doesn't like getting redpilled
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>>38911655
Both posts stated that normal people can't understand suffering because they've never experienced it...

>>38909562
>people have never experienced depression
>>38909743
>can't understand suffering because they never suffered.

The main thing which separates normal people from robots is virginity. Therefore, the implication was made that lack of pussy was the only valid cause of depression.
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>>38911822
>implying being a piece of shit online is redpilling
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>>38909517

my reasoning is, if all the genetic failures, walking abortions and manlets are too depressed and staying at home isolated, that the normies can't feel good about themselves contrasting and comparing themselves with a total fucking loser, example being your typical robot.

they are angry that you aren't struggling in the life/social game that is clearly rigged against us and in their favour.

they actually enjoy our suffering and when they find out we have withdrawn from 'life' and are on the BUX the become VERY ANGRY.
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>>38911918
>and are on the BUX

Yes, I will admit that smug welfare niggers make me angry.
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>>38911918
good post, kill all normies
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It's stray thought to them. "What I drove this car into on coming traffic." "What if I stabbed myself with this knife." Normies want squash those thoughts instantly. Say it out loud in non-joking sense and they shut you up real quick. We are the living embodiment of one of those thoughts. What if I give into the depression, anxiety, despair, nihilism. What if I give into that darkness.
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>>38912092
>kill all normies
Even if you had the balls and the manpower (and I use 'man' in only the most strict literal sense), we'd just lock our doors and wait for you to go home because you're hungry for tendies.
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>>38910722
Youre paying me to do my fucking job not to be there to make you feel less lonely
grow the fuck up and stop pretending work is supposed to replace your zero social milestones. i dont wanna talk to your narcistic cunt ass by default and only do if i have to.

>>38909993
that image is racist by default and i dont care if its your fetish but thats racist
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normies are a slave race to mr.shekelstein and his propoganda
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>>38913497
Keep telling yourself that and maybe you won't cry so much the next time you're jacking off to weeaboo porn in your mother's basement.
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>>38913783
For a board centered around original content, your comebacks are rather stale.
Don't you get bored of writing the same bile day after day?
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people online have now rejected my unhappiness i've retreated to complete isolation from family and friends
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>>38909560
But what if your problems are unfixable
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>>38913819
It's not one bit more stale than when I was replying to.
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>>38913783

see normies are demons, they think they have a right to interfere with everyone else, this is called 'society'

normies are the puppets of the devil to torment us
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>>38914218
I thought all of you losers were fedora atheists.
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>>38909560
>Normie/weeb crossbreed

Disgusting
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>>38914314

no that would be normies, it's normies who beleive in scientism, that the entire univere is physical (LOL BALL WORLDS SPINNING AND FLYING AT GORILLIAN MILES PER HOUR)

that they evolved from monkeys, fuck shit's so retarded only normie tards believe what they are told like pathetic GOOD GOYIM.

that is the problem with normies, they don't understand what is good for them, they simply wait for consensus, they look around to their left and right to see what other people are doing and emulate (monkey see, monkey do)

normies live their entire lives wholely on assumptions and the social paradigm set by our satanic society, they base their pathetic mortal lives on assumptions which are LIES.
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>>38914617
What a retarded fuck, kys
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>>38914670

and that is exactly how i predicted how a normie would react when confronted with reality that bursts it's bubble
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>>38914739
Fine; I'll go on enjoying my happy Satanic bubble, and you can go on sitting in a puddle of your own butt-tears jacking off to furry porn because you're too much of a loser to get a girlfriend.
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>>38914768
>Normalizer is obsessed with the thought of having a gf

As usually, probably an insecure low tier normie who settled with a landwhale/ugly girl and now he has to have everybody know he has a "gf" so he can feel like he fits in
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>>38909517
because it is
pretend you're better than them
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I want a proffesional dictionary definition for the words "Normie" and "Robot" right fucking now no bullshit i want some tfw to intelligent shit
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>>38914820
As usual, definitely a standard-tier little permavirgin desperately trying to hide his butt-tears so that he can feel like a big man on an anonymous image board.
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>>38915330
Hit a little too close to home, failed normie?
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>>38915351
Are your butt-tears getting so bad that you're about to slide off of your chair, loser?
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>>38915276
>>38915276

A normie is literally a person who is deemed "Normal" to society.

A robot is just the opposite.

How have you not picked that up?
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>>38909517
They're NPCs, programmed for ''positive vibes only''. They will glitch out and get angry if you confront them with something so negative and sad.
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>>38915543
this

I've been awake since 5pm yesterday afternoon, it is noon. I am sitting in the park drinking straight vodka, shitpoasting on 4chan, listening to music. I am robochad.
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>>38915619
>abnormie
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>>38909699
Your post is very honest. Humans hate ugly people, it's instinct. It's natural for you to hate him because he is useless in this world.
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because the only thing normies understand about "depression" "social anxiety" or any other mental illness robots experience are those shitty video lectures they watched in high school for the suicide prevention program.
they believe everyone experienced the exact same childhood or upbringing (middle-upper class family, loving and supportive parents, etc) and just cannot possibly fathom why someone with that upbringing could be depressed, even though many robots like us have had god-awful shitty parents or come from low-income communities.

tl;dr they are angry because they think depression can be fixed in a day if you just worked harder. they think you're being a dramatic, lazy pussy.
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>>38909517
What's the image from, OP?
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>>38915276
A "normie" is an individual who manages to feel happy and answers to society's expectations of what a normal individual should be. That comes through having a job and loving it; harboring politically correct opinions (not only in politics) and generally following current trends or associating with normie-ized subcultures (subcultures that were normalized by trends, like hip-hop, and integrated in normie culture). But a normie's essence is deeper. A normie is (or feels) fulfilled. A normie is (or feels) loved. A normie also loves, and has learnt the social codes necessary to thrive in today's society.

A robot is harder to define, because they're the opposite of normies as said a fellow poster. Its base condition is to be unfulfilled, not loved, and not socially adapted, because due to alienation, he has failed to learn social structures. This said alienation towards society comes either from the fact that he has been rejected by said society or that, having seen its underbelly, rejects it (the "redpill" effect). Another important condition for the robot is to not have a girlfriend. Overall, a robot is very much like an android: He doesn't feel love, and has no friends. A robot can also be a NEET, an apathetic piece of shit like most of us are, or someone else with a similar condition that sets them apart on a deeper level.
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>>38915966
>or that, having seen its underbelly, rejects it (the "redpill" effect).

This doesn't actually happen with robots, though. This is just what they SAY in a desperate attempt to sound less like whiny little faggot losers.
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>>38909560
This, this, and a thousand times this
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>>38916001
May be a little of both
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>>38910635
OP here.

I think this is the best and most straight forward answer.
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>>38913949
If your problems are literally unfixable and you're still whining about them then you deserve to be euthanized.
Why the fuck would you even pay any attention to a problem in your life you can't fix, that's like dedicated years of research into how to make the sun go backwards - it just isn't going to happen so why are you humoring the fucking idea, just ignore the whole sun thing altogether,
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>>38909699
>together he is way to late to enjoy the pleasures of life

How so? Normies only think in terms of "I'm 30. I'm 40. I'm..." because they eat shit diets and live shit lifestyles that they let on rails.

If you're actually healthy (a rarity for the majority of americans), you can enjoy life to the day you die.

Normies are autistic in that they expect to stand in any frame of life and expect that their bodies will act the same.

>>38911047

She wants your D and she's just trying to reassure you. She said that BECAUSE she likes you. Just give her the D but be stern that you're not ready for any sort of long-term relationship.

Is her facial geometry ugly or is she just fat?
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>>38915734
Martin Sheen, Apocalypse Now
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>>38909517
it scares them because they feel it too.
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>>38916697
Thanks OP.

123759137518957185
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>>38909560
so what you are saying is

>i know your own private, personal problems better than you do yourself
or
>i know through my own personal life experiences the solutions to your problems so therefore somehow you should too?????

wew
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>>38914617

Absolutely spot on, globies are the ultimate normies
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>>38916001
Happened to me and no retarded normie is going to generalize me into believing it didn't.
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>>38910635
>tfw depressive workplace loner

No wonder everyone fucking hates me there.
The worst part is that I can pick up on how I bring down the mood of my co-workers by existing and it just makes me feel even worse because it's like I'm spreading my sadness around.
Why can't I just be an optimistic people person and make others happy? Nooooooo, I gotta be a depressed neurotic mess full of self doubt and hatred all the fucking time. God I'm such a FAGGOT.
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