/TFPG/ - 25+ General

>>38881426

n-no one? ok maybe tomorrow

>>38881426
Try again next year nigga, will be turning 24 soon enough this month.

27 here, every day is more depressing than the last. Wage slavery is hell, all my co-workers are pissing me off more and more every day. I do absolutely nothing outside of work other than go home, watch TV/movies, play vidya and get drunk and smoke pot. All of my friends have moved on, either had kids and got married, or moved away, or just became lame. Also living at home for the last 3 years after being moved out is kind of shitty as well.

>>38881426
32 and less than one month away from redundancy. I'm scared. I don't know what I'm going to do with my life.

>>38881426
>27
>Great job making 100k+
>Cat
>Weed
>Wife

What next? Pretty comfy, guess I should have some kids soon.

Wagecucking sucks though. I'd like to retire by 45.

27, having a comfy night of drinking Heineken and sucking on nicotine mints while filling out job apps online

>almost 26
>know in my heart it only gets worse from here.
What keeps you guys going?
I got nothing to show after years of hard work and feel like literally just putting a bullet in my head at this point.

>>38882011
have you heard of /r/financialindependence? that'll get you set up nicely. Kids will for sure dampen/stop the retire at 45 plan though.

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>27
>high speed job
>two nice cars
>wife & kids
>living in the nation's capitol
>just saw a nationals game a few weeks back

I only browse /r9k/ for the nostalgia of my college years when I was a filthy foul bachelor frog.
What have you done today OP? Fix yourself.

Turned 32 on tuesday, I think I'm finally starting to accept my autism and I might start doing something useful with it instead kicking myself over every single interaction I have.

>>38882037
Yeah I lurk there. Saving at ~33%, which is great for now, but kids will probably kill that.

My dream is to retire, buy a couple acres and build a small farm with some chickens, a cow, and some cats.

The grind from 9-6 sucks right now though.

>>38882058
I'm also 27, in the process of getting a good job, have a car, have my own apartment, but still KHHV.

How did you do it? I can't communicate with women. I feel like a creep when I attempt to. I feel ashamed and weird when confronting the sexual nature of my body.

this is the most norman 25+ i've visited

so i bid you farewell

>>38882102
The key to figuring out women is to not give a fuck.

Do you, be nice.

>>38882058
I want to insult you but I also live in the DMV. Congrats on your hard work paying off.

t. 30 year old khhv

>>38882058
>What have you done today OP? Fix yourself.
I don't think I'll take advice from someone who hasn't ever had to face a real struggle in his life

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>26
>kv
>two of my former friends just got engaged to their GF's
>another got married earlier in the year
>sister just got engaged too
>worse still i'm putting on weight
>hairline has started rapidly crawling backward too

I would always dismiss suicide out of fear, but honestly I'm coming to accept the idea as an inevitability. I just can't see things improving.

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>>38882058

FUCK OFF AND DlE PLS

>>38882058
>He actually thinks the nationals will win the world series

>>38882157
How do you know what struggles he has or hasn't had to face? And what great adversities have YOU grappled with?

>>38882215
lol he just went to the game. The Nationals are just a thing to do in DC. Nobody is actually a fan of the team. It's why most of the stadium is designed around doing things other than baseball.

Everyone here are fucking normies so I'm just going to drink my poppy tea elsewhere

>>38882256
Different than the city I'm in, if you go to a sports game you're expected to watch most of it

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>Feel like I keep collecting more body hair as I get older.
>The only women who can tolerate that shit live half a world away in Greece.

>>38882058
I'm not sure how you can even relate to this board anymore. I'm halfway normie and halfway robot. I have money, a good job and friends, but still KV and live at home. Even I have a hard time relating to some things on here.

>>38882288
DC is a Redskins city. They've lost baseball teams twice. This is the third attempt and they are catering to the non-locals who flock to the city for government jobs.

Feel like if I could just get the desire to earn money in me I could make it. I've got everything else. Starting work again next Thursday after spending a few years truck driving. This is a little less soul sucking and fewer hours. I guess I'll just keep swole'ing up and see what comes. Day at a time.

>>38881426
HA!
Oldfigs rip sooner

>>38882370
On this--can anyone redpill me on wanting to work 50 hours a week through the best years of my life? I feel like the homeless being fucking psychopathic dregs is some kind of psy-op to make us want to buy homes as quick as possible.

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>tfw don't find women over the age of 23/24 attractive at all
>tfw older you get the harder it is to get a 18-22 yr old qt
>tfw society shames you to be with old used up hags
>tfw you will never get to experience a youthful, fresh qt at her peak beauty

>>38881426
Turn 24 at the end of the month. I already feel like I'm 26 (at least). Fucking end this shit already. I'm starting to live that meme of "Guess who came out of his cave today."

I complete my major next spring and I don't think I'll have any work as a psychology major (as if I thought I had any work that I'd like to not be forced into as a chemistry major).

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Do you ever feel like you were born too early? I'm 32 and everything I loved as a teenager and in my early 20s has become so much more accessible and mainstream now compared to the way it was back then. If I 22 again had access to all modern media I would entrench myself into it and become part of it. I know I could do that now too, but for a variety of reasons we all know that is much more difficult.

>>38883411
Pic related?

Sarah Connor chronicles was the bomb.

>>38882538
My younger brother's Basketball Team Captain is like 40 and his wife is 18.

he almost went to jail for it, but charges were dropped I think?

Still fucking weird.

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>>38881426
>33
>Trying to get a divorce from cheating wife
>Court papers got rejected for unknown reasons and now I have to re-file
>Company I worked for folded 7 months ago and was NEET until 2 weeks ago
>Current job stocking shelves barely pays bills
>I live in a single room and the smell of my housemate's cats can't be cleansed from the floor
>No more drive to accomplish life goals
>Just want to watch anime all day and die in peace

>>38883439
A subconscious decision.

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>turning 27 in one month
>still kv
It's getting too hard, anons...

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Turned 25 this year, iv'e been in severe psychological distress ever since

does it get better guys

>>38883737
same. this is torture

>25
>Live at home, always have.
>Work for Amazon go to CC
>1:30AM shift starts at 3AM
I just hope someday this is all worth it, I'm on my last straw here, life has not been easy.

>>38883737
ive read "im getting too hard" and i chuckled

>>38882538
>society

fuck society, go for all the 18 and even younger girls you like(not younger than 15) college and hs girls love mature mans cock, specially if you have money, sugardaddy become a real thing thanks to Lana del Rey and Melanie Martinez so alot of dumb 17 girls are now trying to get one, fuck society man, you are not hurting or raping anybody, do what you want and if people doesnt like then is their problem

of course Im just talking literally, I know you probably would never get teenage pussy at least you have money

>>38883796
no.
the older you get, the more 'success' you're supposed to have. the more responsibility is assumed by you. your body degrades more. half of your peers are now parents or are married.

28 and alone.
Got no complaints, really.

>>38882301
having hair is ok
telling yourself that you need to shave its just because people in todays age are just not as manly and become more and more womanlike

>>38883737
>27
>caring about being kv
if you have a decent job, then it is almost impossible to still be kv. at this point most women are looking for a provider, not some chad.

>>38883935
i dont think youre using "literally" as it should be used

>>38881426

>32 wiz
>Boring IT job
>Live in a large, empty apartment on my own

I'm just trying to stop playing video games right now. I used to enjoy them as a kid, but for the most part I don't anymore, yet I play them excessively as a form of escapism. I relapsed today and played 10 hours straight of shadow warrior, then uninstalled. I didn't even enjoy it. I had a sudden epiphany just now realizing that I just wasted an entire day of my life and thinking of all the days before that I've wasted. If only there was something decent to replace them with.

>>38883963
>Got no complaints, really.
Surely you feel something during winter seasons, when it's cold outside and you know everyone else is going to be snuggled up with their lovers.

Yet you're going to be alone, probably posting on r9k.

>>38883796

In my late 20s I felt a sort of anxiety to get things sorted out, like it was my last chance. Then my 30s rolled around and I just kind of gave in. So I mean there's that. If you don't kill yourself, eventually you just kind of accept your fate.

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>Be dreaming
>moving down some tunnel thing
>As I am tunneling down there are qt girls along the side with their hands stretched out
>Become lucid
>Try and touch one of their hands
>Missed the first time since there is some force trying to stop me
>Manged to do so on the second time
>keep telling myself not to wake up so that I can experience it
>Right when I touch her hand, dreams ends and everything starts to vibrate violently
>open eyes and see some weird creature thing above me
>eventually the vibrating stupids and I wake up

who /starved of physical contact/ here?

If l were to just touch the hand of some girl IRL I'm pretty sure the dopamine release would be similar to drugs

>>38884058
stop please stop
origjnalo

>25
>NEET since freshman year never graduated no GED
>tfw alcohol is all you have left
if it weren't for my mother i'd kill myself right here and now. she'd never be able to handle it, my father i know could but she would probably kill herself too or never be the same if i did. when she goes, i go.

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>>38884036
>>Boring IT job
CS degree?

>>38881426
26 Navy vet, hopefully starting college in the spring.

>>38884036
>Boring IT job
You get paid good and you really have no pressure to perform. I doubt you even have to interact with anyone often.
That sounds like the perfect job to me.

>>38884098
Why haven't you gotten your GED yet? Doesn't it only take like 4 months? Knock that shit out already, then go into a trade

>>38884098
same. except that both my parents hate me, so killing myself would be doing them a favor.

>>38882087
>The grind from 9-6 sucks
>$100k+
Fucker. I'm working 9-8 and only make $60k. REEEEEeeeeEEeeEEeEE

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>>38884094
>no waifu to snuggle with while watching the snow fall
it makes me envious and depressed at the same time

>>38883737
The next three years are crucial. You can still have your fairy tale, but you've got to do it -now-.

>>38883971
Having chest hair is fine, but I have it everywhere. Like shaving it really isn't an option for me. It's on my chest, belly, back and shoulders. Hair covers almost the entirety of my lower body. Maybe some girls are into that, but I can't imagine there's much of them at all.

>>38884255
>Fucker. I'm working 9-8 and only make $60k. REEEEEeeeeEEeeEEeEE

I'm working 9-9 and make $800 a month. On weekends only work 6 hours though.

>>38884467
We need to get better jobs. Fuck the world.

>>38884467
>I'm working 9-9 and make $800 a month
Damn, and I was about to comment how I work 5-5, but I make $1400 a month(after taxes/benefits) and only 3 days a week.

What kind of slave job is that?

>>38881426
1 more year till I can post here

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>>38881426

27 year old here.

Everyday I contemplate suicide. Not because Im depressed or emotional, Im just bored with life. I dont have self pity or anything like that. I just dont care, nothing seems worth it honestly. So I just wake up, eat, work, come home. I make money by doing Uber Eats deliveries during the night.

Life is so fucking boring,

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>>38883974
>if you have a decent job, then it is almost impossible to still be kv.
Then call me Mr. Impossible because I am almost 27 and my bartending job pays enough that I was able to save up for 3 years and buy a house. I'm financially secure, friendly enough to have healthy, amicable friendships with both sexes, even if I'm "the weird one" and no woman has ever wanted me.

>>38881426
neet just got sentenced to felony possession
had some weed and xanax because of my mental illness issues, they said I was trafficking but would cut me a break if I agree to become a felon
no representation and scared of 5-15 years in jail so I said ok
hate USA private prison system and my life everyday
can't find a job, more mentally ill than ever, people think I'm a thug because I'm a felon fucking sucks man

>>38884570

>Uber Eats deliveries

How much money do you make a week? I moved to a big city recently and considered doing something similar until I get a real job

>>38884580

You fucking retard. You ALWAYS get a lawyer first. You also live in the USA, which means you dont have to even talk to the police. You literally just say "Im using my rights to remain silent and refrain from speaking to the police. I would also like to contact a lawyer."

Obviously its too late to tell you any of this, but jesus christ man. Its not rocket science. Police will always try to intimidate you with this kind of shit, you just need to know better.

Also, can I ask why you dint just get a prescription from your doctor? I live in Canada, but I have a prescription for Xanax because I have GAD.

Man the USA legal system is completely fucked.

At least you can get on welfare since its pretty much impossible for you to find a job now.

>>38884662

If you deliver during the hours where its 1.2x - 1.3x pay, and you make 3 deliveries in an hour, you make about 23 bucks an hour (average 7 - 8 dollars a delivery). I usually bike ride at a leisurely pace and make about 3 delivers an hour, so I make around 23 bucks per hour. I usually only do it for 2 hours a night, which nets me 50 bucks a night.

Its not much but I can do it whenever I want and I dont need to bust my ass.

>>38884523
>What kind of slave job is that?
>>38884514

Third world country. Security guards here work for 14 hours a day and make the equivalent of $150.

Ironically, despite having really low salaries, prices in general are really high. A liter of diesel/gasoline costs around $1.6. Groceries are also more expensive than other third world countries.

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26, failed another on-site interview. still living at home with mom. feel like such a fucking loser now, literally sitting at home painting my new gunpla I bought. wishing i had the courage to kill myself. will it ever get better?

>>38884580
Well using drugs to solve mental illness is pretty retarded. But that's just the tip of the dumbass iceberg for you m8. Just go become a cook. Challenging but easy to get work, plenty of room for advancement, lots of coworkers that get high, no background check, no drug test, no reference check. It's really the ideal job for a felon. My kitchen manager is a little Mexican dude that has two felonies and his eyelids tattooed.

>>38884573
>bartending
>works at a fucking bar
>normie central
>cannot find girl

w
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>>38884782
No.
There is no cure for autism

>>38884580
it's already hard enough finding a job while having no criminal history AND work experience.

I honestly don't know how felons get any jobs.

>>38884894
my cousin is a felon now and apparently he got some apprenticeship to be an electrician from some program that specifically seeks out felons.

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>>38884894
By doing jobs that don't require background checks. Construction,cooking,warehouses,etc.
I don't know how you retards have trouble finding work. Likely because you're like my irl friends that think submitting an application online should actually mean something. Just call the hiring manager or HR department, casually say you've submitted an application and are wondering if they still need people.
Bonus points for doing this in person and not dropping your spaghetti

>co-worker's car broke down
>barely even talk to him
>wants me to pick him up/drop him off until he buys new car
>is major druggie
>my car smells like weed after he has only sat in it for 5 mins
>keeps trying to offer me drugs
>want to just tell him to fuck off, but he's paying me for the gas so i have no excuse

this shit sucks.

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>>38884573

this >>38884855

original memepost

>>38885012
>Major druggie
>weed
>(you)

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I'm so tired of the people I know. I'm tired of everything, i'm tired of life and of work and everything. id ont feel okay. I'm so sick of not feeling okay anons im so sad, i just want something i can be proud of or happy about but instead i just mindlessly go to a job i hate and hang out with people who judge me and do nothing but play video games and watch tv. I'm going to die alone and I can't stop it. why can't I be an interesting or cool person that people enjoy being around. why does everyone hate me so much, i try so so hard to be interesting, i try so so so so hard to be not weird or bad or anything but they always look down on me and judge me i can feel it. I just want to be loved and valued, it hurts so much, i'm so sad, i dont want to be so worthless and hated, i'm so sad

>>38884970
>Just call the hiring manager or HR department, casually say you've submitted an application and are wondering if they still need people
I might start doing this, because this online shit isn't working.

>Bonus points for doing this in person and not dropping your spaghetti
Nope.
I went to 5 different job sites in person once. Spoke to them, filled application out in person on site. Didn't hear back from a single one. I'm never doing that again.

At every job I've had, you are not even allowed to just enter the building unauthorized. The fact you even mentioned that kind of invalidates everything you said.

>>38885051
The guy does multiple drugs.(xanax, some opiate pill). He literally told me he sells drugs.
Obviously weed is the only one that stinks up my car.

>>38881426
Is this where I can go to get a daddy?
>>38881711

>>38884666
there's a little more to the story, but I had a prescription for ativan and doctors/pharmacy visits were getting expensive
so I found xanax pills for 75 cents each and bought 30 of them
I bought some weed there too and was on my way home when there was a random DUI/drug checkpoint
I remained quiet but they had dogs and pulled me out of the car and searched it
I had a lawyer that didn't do anything for me he didn't even show up 2 of the 4 days I had to go to court, and called me an idiot the whole time
he said I could go to trial on a trafficking charge and lose or take their deal, obviously he didn't want to work for me
I don't know what to do, I don't leave my parents house much and gained 50 pounds of fat since it happened

>>38885078
Have you ever considered learning..an interesting,productive hobby? Something that'll make you feel proud and therefore others interested?

>>38885083
The amazon warehouse I worked in had a separate part of the building for applicants that was connected to HR.
The airport I worked in had a publicly available HR office.
The call center I worked in etc etc

>>38885121

Find a better lawyer then?

Clearly a good lawyer could argue exactly what you just stated. Medical visits and prescriptions were becoming too costly so you were trying to save money. You have the paperwork to prove this. And ativan is pretty much the same thing as Xanax. The weed as well you could argue was for the same reasons. You were self medicating with illegal substances.

A good lawyer could EASILY get you off these trafficking charges, proving you had no intent to traffick and that you were just trying to self medicate. He'd be able to get your charges down to a simple possession of controlled substance.

Your lawyer fucking sucks. When shit hits the fan, you need to pay for a good lawyer.

>>38885078
you sound like a little bitch
you deserve you're suffering because its obviously what youve earned faggot

>>38885121
>I had a lawyer that didn't do anything for me he didn't even show up 2 of the 4 days
are you sure this wasnt a free public defender or something? kek

>>38885127
I try but I get depressed and lose motivation and I'm just bad at everything. I don't even know what an interesting hobby would be that people would like. I play a little piano, I read a lot and like history but none of that is interesting. I'm just not interesting to anyone

>>38885083
Also,having reread your post, I don't mean to go fill out the application in person. I mean to go follow up with them in person. It's always worked really well, and honestly I'm retry bad at talking to people but I just came up with a copypasta spiel I give them.
"Hi, I'm anon. Recently saw that you were hiring, so I submitted my application and came in today to see if you still needed people and so that you can put a face to a name."
I've had pretty much the opposite luck in this versus your experience

>>38885078
>why does everyone hate me so much, i try so so hard to be interesting, i try so so so so hard to be not weird or bad or anything but they always look down on me and judge me

im 27 and live in a small town i know this feel anon damnit where did i go wrong?

>>38885198
lol tripfaggot thinking he has any wisdom to give

26 here and been a shut in neet since i was 19, I pretty much failed at everything I tried so I gave up.

My parents haven't kicked me out yet since I'm only addicted to porn and video games instead of drugs.

>>38885632
>My parents haven't kicked me out yet since I'm only addicted to porn and video games
same except ive moved back in after the navy and my mom is giving me shit about moving out daily. Im starting school in the spring but shes still bothering me.

>>38885226

Yea Im pretty sure OP is a grade A fucking retard who just took a public defender that was given to him by the courts. Fucking retard honestly.

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>>38885078
i hope you feel better one day anon.

>>38884463
im telling you that having hair on your body is the least of your problems

>>38884719
Spainbro?

Original oregon

>>38886408
I paid 12k, 5k to get out of jail 50,000 bail and 7k for the dog shit lawyer
It was small town corruption
fuck you faggots I never did anything to anyone and the state cut my legs

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Turning 25 this month
My brothers said that if my parents kick the bucket i can keep the house. I feel kind off bad cause they have families.
I will probably lose it cause i cant get a job.
I plan to sell it then fly to nippon and do a bit of exploring and finnaly freeze to death in sudoku forest. I will spend as little as possible and send leffover money to my brothers.

>>38888762
wats wrong brudder sounds like u have a nice loving fmily.

>>38882186
You need to realize that most people arent getting married and living super duper happy lives at 26 my man. Facebook always points out the outliers too.

>>38882058
t. Chad

Originali

>>38887886
Fuck off, Spain isn't that bad. You are in the EU so you have a somewhat decent minimum wage (825 euros)

I'm from Albania and the minimum wage here is 240.000 all (before taxes), which comes to around 220.000 all after taxes (166 euro).

>things women will never understand
>being a 27 year old virgin
JUST

>>38884782
are you good enough to get commissioned building gunplas?
at least that's a valid avenue of income.

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>>38881426
>struggling in med school
>Im described as a robot by my teachers. Yes, literally robot.
>But I always go forward
>promise of hot 10/10 loyal wife when I become a doctor
>MGTOW red pill
>suddenly realise I will get divorced in 2 years and pay 50% of my salary to a whore for 18 years
>MGTOW lifestyle instead
>live frugally
>invest everything aggresively in stock market
>retire when 40
>go to 3rd world shithole and destroy loli ass left and right

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is it too late for me to attempt becoming an engineer if I'm 26 with no prior university experience?

I'm 25 and I've only had sex with prostitutes (many, 30+). Never had a gf or sex with 'normal' girl.
Am I still a virgin

>>38890971
>I've had sex
>Am I a virgin?
Really makes you think about the state of r9k

>>38890900

What are you expecting exactly?

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>weed lmao, drugs and welfare until now
>got accepted for Comp Eng
>Struggling hard with math
Time to kys if I can't catch up I guess.

>>38881895
get a degree for a better job

stop using legal/illegal drugs to pass time

stop playing games and get a hobby where you can meet people

get a girlfriend


or you know, do nothing and hope your life automatically becomes better

>be 26
>dropped out of uni last January after failing the first year three years in a row
>not had a job since I was 20
>parents threaten to kick me out if I don't get a job
>it's hard to find places that will accept you with little work experience, no relevant qualifications and a huge resume gap
>after months of applying I get an interview at my local Argos (catalogue store in the UK) as a store assistant
>I rehearse the answers all the difficult questions the night before. I can do this.
>go to interview
>most of the interview consists of the interviews asking about my resume gap, lack of experience and why I haven't progressed as much as people my age
>asked what I have been doing all this time
>one of the interviewers joking says "anon, you can't have just played computer games and browsed the internet all that time."
>I die inside
>do not get the job

What does TFPG stand for?

>>38891889

Those people were jerks don't think too much about it.
Being able to hire people is a huge power trip for a certain type. I've had people bring me in for an interview and then talk shit about what I wore.

Not everyone is going to be like that keep looking and someone will give you a chance.

>tfw hair loss kicked it up a notch
>suddenly balding faster
Fucking shitty body. It does this any time I dare to hope.

>>38882058
>Linving in DC
My condolences

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>26
>trying to put myself out there more but really not doing a good job of it
>last year my mom told me "I have lost control of my life" and paid for me to start going to therapists
>she just wants me to not be alone and to be happy
>two goals that seem impossible to be completely honest
>I'm not a bad looking guy but I simply don't have the predatory sex drive instinct to try to get girls due to personal issues with sex
>therapist hasn't helped out at all in that realm
>finally found a girl who matches my sexual hangups
>flirted with her over kik for a week
>got along great
>tell my therapist how I'm excited to meet a girl for the first time in years, she tells me how impressed she is by me
>meet in person with this girl
>she's fucking obese, ugly, Hispanic and has a kid despite being 3 years younger than me
>hates everything that I like, is a complete turbo-pleb
>allow her to blow me even though I don't get hard and she leaves embarrassingly
>she messages me to try to keep it going but I just block her
>back to being completely alone
>why do I even bother any more
>another day goes by in my sexual prime and I am completely and utterly alone

>>38885251
>I tried but it's too hard

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>tfw life has lost its luster
>tfw just drifting from day to day
>tfw suicidal thoughts becoming harder to ignore
>tfw legitimately cannot remember the last instance of being genuinely happy
>tfw no hopes, dreams, or aspirations
>tfw you can't help comparing yourself to others even though you know it will only make you feel worse
>tfw drugs and therapy don't help because you're not willing to help yourself
>tfw the black sheep of the family had to be you

dfhkjnfxdp;ynhhndxz5lhm

>visiting parents for a week
>come home today
>2 hours edgins session
I really needed my virginity fix.

27 everything is okayish. Kinda bored

>>38882011

>cat

Kys asap

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>tfw perpetually riled-up and agitated for no goddamn reason
>tfw storming around the house and yelling
>tfw you are becoming the "autistic screeching" meme you laughed at previously

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

>>38889404
This is just the facade that they show on facebook. I'm 33 and I want to make some points here to anyone who is 25+ and dissatisfied because they are alone. I lost my best friend since elementary school within the past year because he is now a full on cuck. Not satisfied with just your hobbies? How about becoming a cuck that watches DIY network and buys your wife stuff just to keep her while she talks to other guys every time she doesn't get her way just to get you mad. That is marriage. Want kids? Kids are just a guarantee that she can be a stay at home mom and doesn't have to work. Not to mention they are going to be fucked up because they're being raised by a narcissistic cunt bag. How about spending your hard earned cash on scented candles, all while she is using you the whole time. How do I know this? Because my friend's wife told me this is what she was doing straight up. Long story short this is part of the reason we are no longer friends. Shes going to divorce him after the dog dies. And this is one of the better scenarios that my friends have been dealt, the others involve divorce and child support payments. Even with a women you are still alone, you need to realize this, they are only interested in what they can get from you.

You guys need to dive into your hobbies and create talents/marketable skills, whatever. You guys have to invest in yourself and become desirable to the point that women will come to you and you call the shots. You can walk away at any time. Don't think you can do it? There are plenty examples of nerds/ ugly guys with hot women. You gotta do the work. Ugly? Make the money. Get talent. I know you guys have this fairy tale concept in your heads but unless your the ones with the power marriage/relationships are a cuck situation. I know my friend, when everything goes down hes gonna loose it. He might even kill himself or her. Its too bad his future self can't send a message to the past and tell him what happened.

TFPG?
that feel people general?
Is that what you're trying to say?

I left a qt virgin gf to chase a whore because I was bored, in the end I lost both. Don't be like me.

>>38891988
i second these based dubs

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>>38893592
life, it is bullshit
can not trust many women
lonely is the top

Turned 25 a couple of weeks ago.
If I don't make it this year then I don't think I'm ever going to.

>Started again with the SSRIs.
>Going tomorrow from 50 mg to 100 mg.
>Visit to the shrink in a few days.
>Holidays after that.

Even with the 50 mg I'm feeling quite an improvement. Things are going to be ok.

Best of luck to everyone.

>>38893813
Probably means "Twenty Five Plus General", anon.

>>38895194
Why didn't he just say that then. Not everyone is going to understand obscure acronyms.

>>38882058
t. virgin loser trying to get easy you's

>>38895356
It's pretty clear if you think about it for a moment.
The thread says "25+". i.e. "Twenty Five Plus".

>>38895433
(You) just get him another one.

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Rate my life guys

>25
>Perfect, loving, fulfilling relationship with high school sweetheart qt (literally only girl that's ever shown any interest in me, only good think I have going for me)
>crippling ADD, can barely get anything done, failed out of high school and community college because of it
>dead-end wageslave job, burnt out constantly
>can barely afford living paycheck-to-paycheck, always worrying about money
>live in an RV that's falling apart (literally put out an electrical fire 20 minutes ago and surprised my computer even turns on)
>teeth are absolute shit, rotting away in my mouth, I'm constantly in pain

Despite all of this I feel okay, and luckily I don't suffer from much anxiety or depression. I bought some illicit amphetamines off the darkweb to treat my ADD issues, and it's been going okay. I just always feel like I'm one step from becoming homeless and losing everything.

>>38891938
One time I was looking for a simple summer job and saw a little boat touring place. Emailed the owner and he said to meet him at an address.

I show up and it's a bar. Walk in and the host asks me if I'm here for an interview. He points to the bar. The owner is sitting their in a disgusting cut off shirt drinking beer. I walk up and politely try to introduce myself. He doesn't even turn to look me in the eyes or shake my hand and just tells me to wait with the other applicants. At that moment I just ordered a beer and went out to smoke on the patio so maybe he'd take a hint at how much of a white trash shit head he presented himself as.

27 here. moved to the city to room with a friend and two of his college buddies who are a few years younger than us. I thought it would help with my social life and that we would go out and talk to women, but no luck so far. All they do is sit at home and drink and smoke weed, which I dont really do anymore because its not productive. I am able to function and have a job but everyone thinks I am strange. I have all but given up hope on a gf, best i can hope for is get drunk and bang a slut once in a blue moon. I get along with my parents but me and my sisters hate eachother, so holidays cause me dread. My parents always defer to my sisters because they have boyfriends to bring over and I always come alone.

>>38890772
sounds like a good plan, man. There are good women out there, but very rare. Ideally find one who makes more than you so she pays you if you divorce.

>>38888762
its cool you get along with your siblings. I hate my sisters and they hate me so it will be a shitstorm when my siblings are gone.

>25
>realize I'm basically at the point of no return staring into the void
>trying to talk to girls again

It's just so hard to do anything after work. Hanging out with my mates is enough of a chore. I don't know where they fucking find their girlfriends, but it's never like a guy girl hangout like it used to be in school.

Just hope I can lose the vcard and find a girl <20 who will procreate with me. That's the only purpose to life. And I won't live very long if it's just to stack cash.

>32
>have escaped wage slavery for the last 3-4 years by working at home
>very comfy but the industry moves fast and it could all stop
>still a pathetic virgin looser living at home who can't talk to people

I don't know how feel. I'm fine with being a loner and don't give a shit what anyone thinks so the bad and good pretty much cancel each other out.

>>38897149
they never spend a single moment by themselves, they're always with other people, kicking around cans for the sake of networking.

i can't do that. never was able to.

One month away from 25. I told myself I'd suicide if I didn't improve my life and lose my V card this year.

Was a nice run yall. You're all stronger men than me.

>>38897385

How are robots so totally suggestible to jewmedia memes? DUDEBRO STIFLER OMG LETS ALL GET LAID AT THE PROM

Promiscuity is one of the fundamental factors of chronic societal decline. Promiscuous people can't get into stable marriages which in turn leads to stable family environments which leads to life stability and material success for the offspring. Promiscuity is the most reliable way to tell if someone is an inferior in all other aspects of life.

People with very high IQs literally almost never marry before thirty, and are the people most likely to become sucessful. Everything should be modelled on the elite caste and not the masses of failing drones.

>>38897385
>28
>5'3
I finally reach financial security and been trying to work up the courage to ask girls out or just talk to girls or have small conversation.
And the struggle is real. can't even speak so I keep imagining the scenario of which I did manage to talk to a girl.
I'll keep trying robots. I do not want to be alone and bitter at the world.
Any idea on how to get girls to talk to me first? Haven't been able to talk to a girl yet because it's extremely intimidating

>>38881426
39 my days are always filled with the same shit filled days no idea what's kept me going all this time post 20s

>>38895944
You seriously need to improve yourself because once that girl leaves you you're going to be fucked

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>>38897691
Go full Prince

>>38897691
>Any idea on how to get girls to talk to me first?
Will never happen.

>Haven't been able to talk to a girl yet because it's extremely intimidating
Start out on the internet first maybe? I'm in the same boat and at least a phone screen and girl I don't know has a good amount of dissociation that I don't get nervous.

What to say to them though...

>>38882186

I'm 28 and I know one person with kids and it's literally a CANTWAKEUP tier situation for him.

What do you guys actually want from life?

>>38897907
someone to wuvv me

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Sure is a lot of 27 year old bros here. 3 years till we're wizzies.

>>38897907
A stable and supportive social life. Meaning friends I don't have to lie to. Gf I can do things with. Human interaction begets human interaction but this also works in reverse.
Some semblance of normalcy. The ability to handle anxiety and stress without shutting down.

>>38881426
Dear Virgins in this thread,
I would have sex with you all. Don't lose hope.

Love,
A woman whose fetish is stealing a man's innocence

>>38897812
>Go full Prince
what does that mean

>>38897816
>What to say to them though...
Hoping to find one that will like to said. I'll just listen and respond to what they say

>>38884291
at least you feel something anon

>>38897798
I know it, anon. I'm going to therapy, and trying my best.

>>38897907
Practice my hobbies and go /out/ a lot without having to worry that when come monday it's a new plunge into hell.

>>38898016
>A woman whose fetish is stealing a man's innocence

The problem is we'd all probably lie to your face about it because you are the 0.0000001% of women that would be ok with it.

>>38898042
>Hoping to find one that will like to said. I'll just listen and respond to what they say
For a long time my philosophy was that I never tried to make friends, it just happened. And I thought the same for a girlfriend.
Then I found myself out of school for a few years and with no friends and hadn't touched a girl in eons. You have to go out and make shit happen. It's not like when you'd all be in the same classroom and you're forced to develop relationships.
It's the cold reality.

>>38898016
>Love,
A succubi who feeds on a man's mana and aims to thwart his achievement of wizardhood

>>38891692
>or you know, do nothing and hope your life automatically becomes better

yeah that one

>>38898147
>make shit happen
What does this mean? I know how to talk to people but making the jump from silent stranger to conversation and from casual conversation to friend is a jump I don't understand.

>>38897907

I'd like to visit ancient ruins all around the world someday. I want to learn all I can and create some lasting art and music. I want to undermine the mediocrity of people in some substantial way.

>>38898267
>What does this mean? I know how to talk to people but making the jump from silent stranger to conversation and from casual conversation to friend is a jump I don't understand.
You have to be out and about (either physically or on the internet) to meet people. Wish I knew how to start conversations. I think that's more just dumb luck where you and someone else are in the same mutual situation and so can comment on it.

>>38893104
>after fapping 2 times all the lust is gone
I hate being old.

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>>38881426
I think I've completely given up on the real world. I spend all day, every day here, but half the time I'm just staring at the screen daydreaming about my own little fantasy world. Sometimes listening to music, sometimes doing nothing else at all. I think about having all sorts of friendships and meaningful relationships with people I barely know online (not even friends, just people I have the smallest connection to, and don't even speak to very often).

It's nice when I'm thinking about it, but boy do I feel pathetic when I snap back to reality and realise what I'm doing with my life.

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>>38898285
>I want to undermine the mediocrity of people in some substantial way.

>>38898459
>euphoric meme in 2017

Update your memes

>>38898362
That's part 2 of my multipart problem. What the fuck does out and about mean?
Where am I supposed to go as a 27 year old guy alone in order to maybe meet a friend or a girl?
I don't have the social skills to go bar hopping, that environment is just not for me. Not to mention there's only 2 bars where I live.
They gym? I've never struck up a conversation with anyone at the gym. They all have headphones and are in their own world.
I don't know where to go.

>>38898481

I'm a man of timeless classics.

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>depressed because my entire life has been defined by shame and regret
>can't self-medicate with weed because illegal and don't want my apartment smelling like burning carpet and have the police knocking on my door at 2 am
>deadset on not returning to jew pills after being on them for nearly a decade but the 24/7 self-torment is fucking unbearable
>regular exercise by lifting weights which I have to push myself really hard to even get started, drink nothing but water (sometimes alcohol), go out of my way to get sunlight even if I look like a fucking dope standing around in the sun doing nothing. Started (again) taking Saint John's Wart x3 a day but the difference is imperceptible. Hygiene is the best it has ever been in my life. It all does nothing. I was happier being a filthy NEET in my teens than I am now. Much, much happier.
>have to resort to alcohol when I can get it but primarily stick to dip because it doesn't make me feel dehydrated and groggy, also less expensive
>waking up in the morning is like waking up from a really bad nightmare but then realizing that instead of it being a nightmare, it is your real life
>even among robots I feel alone, and I've been here for over 6 years
>25 and things are NOT getting any better
>honestly don't know what to fucking do other than keep hanging on by a thread and hopping some day I just don't give a fuck but I think that is wishful thinking on my part

hope that wasn't too blogposty.

Financial independence.

fghfgh

>>38898509
Normie here but maybe I can help you.

Usually most of my friends are from work.
1 of my best friend I met trough my wife and we usually meat up on weekends and play boardgames together and have some drinks.

comfy as fuck.

>>38898655
Yeah, I get that. I haven't held a job for longer than a year in 8 years. I'm still fucking aound in university so I'm in and out of part time work all the time. Unemployed more often than not.
The closest I ever got to being normal was at my longer than a year job. Maybe I just need that kind of stability in my life...

>>38898509
We're in the same boat. You pretty much have to utilize the internet. Smartphones have destroyed society.
And even if you had some specific hobby, I mountain bike, I only ever see them doing it with their boyfriends. Never by themselves or another small group of girls. And that's not surprising it's just the nature of people. Girls will latch onto guys and adopt their interests and views.

Actually maybe volunteering would be a place to meet people. Problem is it's a lot of old people from church groups.

>>38898655
>Usually most of my friends are from work.
This doesn't work when everyone is at least 10 years older than you at work. And the few people close to your age have a wife and kids.

>>38898736
>This doesn't work when everyone is at least 10 years older than you at work

well then maybe you should stop having such a good job you fucking faggot

>>38890900

26 is absolutely not too late, anon. A friend of mine went to Uni for a degree in psychology at 26 and he just finished his masters degree.

I know plenty of other people who are even older than you and are still studying. Some of them are just taking very long, some went back for a second degree and others just started pretty late.

If it's what you want then go for it.

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>tfw you have no hope of human intimacy because your life experience is just too far from the average normie

By the time you get to 25+ too there is no excuse and it's impossible to bridge the gap. What the fuck do you do when people are married, had kids, moved out ect, when you still have the life experience of like a 14 year old.

There is no turning your life around at this point, you have simply lost too many years

>>38898839
I never understood why people hated peragus so much, it's dripping in atmosphere.

>>38898839

That sounds very convenient, anon. If there truly is no hope, and there is nothing you can do that means you also have zero responsibility to change something in your life. Sounds comfy.

>>38898839
Some people are understanding, especially if you've fixed your shit. If you're still a huge manchild it's harder.

>>38897907
I want a war to start somewhere. War with at least semi-good cause, so I can fuck off there and die in that conflict.

In this society is nothing worthy to live for, so why not look for something worthy to die for.

>>38884463
i think body hair is hot anon

>>38898978

Just join the Kurds in fighting ISIS.

>>38881426
33, NEET, single, my own apartment, enough NEETbux to put some aside for the occasional trip. Can't ask for much more.

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>>38898978
Rojava needs you anon

>>38899031

What's your plan if the welfare state finally becomes unsustainable?

>>38899031

How are you able to save up enough money to travel on NEETbux??

>>38898720
Yeah usually a job gives you stability and a chance to meat new people.

>>38898736
Age isn't important

I am 29 and my best friend is 37.
I would say after 25 age isn't that important anymore to people.

And someone having a wife is usually nothing to care about, its even better you have more people to have fun with.

>>38899055
Probably wageslave, or go live with my parents again.
>>38899062
I buy cheap food and my hobbies don't cost anything aside from maintaining my bicycle now and then.

>>38899029
>>38899041
How anons? I don't wanna get fucked by Turks while crossing the borders. I was already thinking about it.

Bit disgruntled about the whole communism business there, but I can manage.

>>38899343

I wouldn't know, but there have already been plenty of people who've been there and gotten back.

If one has an interest in joining them, getting in contact with one of these people might be a good start.

>>38899343
They will smuggle you out there once you contact them, they arrange it all. They will wait until the border is safe.

>27
>most of my cousins are married and have kids
>every one of my past crushes from highschool and college are married
>still working like a dog to build a decent life for myself but my best years are behind me now
>have to walk in the world of normies, but are unable to bring any relationships past the acquaintances phase
>I don't even know how adults make friends anymore, let alone get dates outside of tinder.
>Yet I'm surrounded by happy couples and groups of friends going out.

It's like looking through a store window at something they refuse to sell you.

You guys should be happy you aren't married. You've idealized it rather than what it is actually like. Most guys i know from work ect are constantly complaining about their wives and home life. Plus most marriages ending and divorce and all that.

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>>38899785

>marries a thot
>get thot problems

whoa

>>38899785
My best friend is the same age as I am. He's been married about 10 years and has a beautiful daughter. Loves his wife and kid.

But he still hangs on every word when I talk about what fun I had on Tinder. Or is super jealous when I dedicate a weekend to playing old PS2 games just for the fuck of it.

>>38899031
I forgot to add: I have room for a cute fem NEET. You'll get 100 euros/month to do whatever. You have to be a EU citizen though.

>>38881975
start looking for a new job now so its an easier transition.

Im sorry, bro.

or, i mean, you could milk unemployment but it can be really hard to get on it.

>>38881884
ahhh 23, I hope your out there swinging your autistic dick around for lulz like I did.
Don't waste it

>>38882186
stop shampooing and drying your hear/head so hard anon, be gentle and don't do it everyday

welcome

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why must weed be illegal? this should be a humanitarian crisis

>>38884058
I'm almost 30. I fell nothing anymore, just empty husk of a person. I still hand around r9k in hope for something to click inside like 2-3 years ago but to no avail. Sometime I wonder if I'm alive or just existing.