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Going out

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Obviously there are lots of threads here about people feeling lonely, feeling like they're missing out on social interactions, etc. I'd like to talk about the specific social ritual of "going out" - specifically, to bars, clubs, or parties, typically on Friday and Saturday nights.

In college I felt a ton of pressure to always go out whenever I could, and I felt super weird and lame if there was a weekend night where I didn't go out or at least hang out with someone. Now I'm 25 and I can't even remember what that felt like at all. I'd be fine with never going to a bar or club again in my life; the only reason I wanted to go was because of social pressure (and the desire to get pussy of course), not because I actually found it fun. Now Friday and Saturday nights are just times to play more vidya. I know that there are other people going out then, but I just don't care at all.

I do have a small group of friends who I frequently end up hanging out with on weekends anyway, so that's enough to fulfill my need for social interaction. If I didn't have them, I'd have to try to acquire new friends somehow, although I still wouldn't be interested in bars/clubs/parties.

Anyone else feel the same way?
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>>38856500
Why are you being mean to me, desu
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Fuck off normie. People like you are ruining this board.
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>>38856609
How am I being mean?

>>38856744
Having three friends makes you a normie now? I'm a virgin at 25, I can't be that normie, right?
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>>38856780
Going out regularly, feeling "super weird and lame" if you didn't, and even continuing to "frequently end up hanging out with anyway" is super god damn normie. JUST being a virgin doesn't make you a robot by any stretch.
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>>38856852
Oh ok.

Well just post cute anime girls then I guess.
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>>38857119
Don't worry. I'm REALLY good at that.
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im going out to a bar with my dad in ten minutes. i'm 25
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>>38857119
Much better, desu
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There's nothing weird about going out to a bar at a Friday night. There's this pizzeria/bar near me, I always go there on Fridays, eat a pizza, drink a couple of beers and read all the newspapers.

There's not really any pressure and it's easy and fun to do.
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>>38856500
I get what you're talking about. Expect it's switched for me, I used to not care at all but now I do.
My desperate need to feel socially accepted and go out is the reason I'm going on a "date" with a ftm trannie I met off tinder tomorrow.
I mean that's kinda normal right? A date???
Deep down I know it's not and that I'll never get to satisfy that feeling of being a functional person
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Still in uni, don't go out anymore though, mainly cos of money but I just don't really care either. There's a bunch of people i'm really loosely friends with but here but i haven't seen them in like half a year, I even moved into a flat alone because I got sick of other peoples shit.

I used to go out all the time in 1st and 2nd year, loved getting fucked up on molly or drinking and dancing to music.

Mainly just miss loud music, and being off my head, of course i'd love some pussy and sometimes end up chatting to someone but normally didn't make enough effort to socialise and just danced and drank the night away.

Maybe i'll go on a night out in the near future...
But there's nothing wrong with doing whatever you feel like, dno where this is going, have a cute anime girl pic
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>>38857207
Well, by "going out" I meant, going to a bar/club and dancing and/or talking to strangers, mainly women. That's the hard part. Sure, just physically going somewhere and doing something by yourself there isn't hard or stressful.
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I have never had a group or a friend to hang out with on the weekend. Sometimes I go out alone. How did you get so lucky?
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>>38857310
Why would you do something you don't want to do? Normies gonna norm and if you are a circle trying to fit into a square hole, you might as well stop.
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>>38856500
>freshman year of college
>every friday and saturday night can hear everyone on the floor pregaming then leaving for parties or hosting parties
>can here girls laughing, see them walking around looking really hot when i have to leave my room to go to the bathroom
>stay in room because ugly and socially inept but still yearn to join them (but knowing i can't) and thus it's torture
>next door neighbor (door literally 2 feet away) hosts party right before christmas break when almost no one is left on the floor, people from all over the floor (we had a relatively small floor) are invited, i am not
>tfw when fantasized about awesome college parties and friday nights since i was in 5th grade
>tfw that time in my life has come and instead of experiencing and living out my dreams im in my room completely defeated and playing vidya, can't even go out to eat since i look like such a loser for being alone

any other robots know feels like this? ive seen been on leave from school and am trying to get my shit together so when i go back for my sophomore year it can be like i always dreamed. i know it sounds stupid, but it's something i fantasized about since i was a kid and it sucked to be in the middle of it and hearing everyone else my age experiencing it while i was isolated in my room.
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>>38857638

No one gives a shit that you're ugly, you cucked yourself by having a shit personality.
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>>38857207
Why not just get a pizza to go bring it home, drink beer from the fridge and watch TV normo
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>>38857749
>none of the kids who were partying all year/invited to party were ugly
>all of the kids who weren't partying on my floor and in the school were ugly
>must be their personality.jpg

really makes you think
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>>38857638
what is your major. my post is original
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>>38857974
i haven't decided yet, you don't have to decide at my school till before junior year, but ill probably decide before i go back for my sophomore year
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>>38857791
I don't have a TV and I don't order any newspapers. Also I like doing it.
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>>38856500
That's a good song desu
Don't care about the thread though
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