/Virgin General/

>>38748534
It never gets better
Once you have sex, your next unachievable goal will be long term dating which is impossible for autismos

>>38748534
Just lie about it, and make that lie the truth. It's all bullshit anyways.

Losing it was always impossible for me. Really makes no difference now

>>38748565
I wish this wasn't completely true. My autismo tendencies will forever lock me out of emotional intimacy.

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>>38748565
Speaking from experience? It's all mental. I'd be fine with losing it, and then never touching a 3D woman again.

nothing stings quite so bad as the regret, anon.

I've accepted the fact I'll never be in a relationship a long time ago, so it doesn't bother me as much. I still get really lonely sometimes, though.

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>>38748534

Oh I can assure you it doesn't get harder as the years go by

>>38748534
good
very good
good

>>38748534
That is a nice fucking ass right there

most likely gonna kill myself before i turn 20 if i cant get laid. i dont fear death so itll be simple for me to shoot myself in the head if it comes to that.

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>>38748642
What regret?
>>38748670
That's one thing. I'm able to accept that, but I just want to get laid at least once in my life, and I don't want it to be with a prostitute.
>>38748882
21 here. You'll manage. I'm not sure where the cutoff point is, but it feels like 21. 22-year old virgin sounds 1000x more pathetic.

>>38748882
>20
Lmao
Dude that's still an age where it's not weird.
Now 25...

I don't give a fuck. The people that already love and care about you don't give a fuck. Its very liberating to separate yourself from seeking stranger approval. I'll tell anyone I'm a virgin with a straight face.

>>38748905
Try 30. See >>38748628

>>38748534
I don't give a fuck I can just get a sex doll that is not going to falsely accuse me of rape, is not going to deny me sex, is not going extort child support from me, and is not going to give me an STD that will permanently make my pee feel like burning because there is no cure. giving up sex is totally worth it and only dumb fucking idiot have sex with women when the laws are getting worse for men because women have the right to vote. more and more laws are getting pass to give women the power to falsely accuse you of rape and laws to prevent you from protecting yourself from false accusations.

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I'm 18 and absolutely afraid of refection and social interaction
What should I do before it's too late

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>>38748904
>22-year old virgin sounds 1000x more pathetic
KEK lad you sound like an angsty teen. Just wait until your 25 and a quarter of your life has gone by with nothing more than a little hand clasping

feels good being a virgin

it makes me unique and special since everyone else doesn't have that over me.

>>38748534
>losing it will become harder and harder
Men peak at 35. Women want experienced men with money.

3 days ago now I somehow found myself fucking this chubby chick I work with. It feels like I'm in a fugue, it finally happened, years of virginity just fucking GONE. Now this girl is already getting clingy and blew me this morning before work, and I don't know how to handle it because i realized I'm not really into her and I gave up my fucking wizard powers for some chick I don't care about. The blow jobs and the sex didn't even feel that great. Ffs lads she even told me to cum inside her the first fucking time but I was too drunk, or too unenthused, to do it. WHAT IS THIS HELLSCAPE I HAVE ENTERED?

>>38749227
>experienced
Key word.
>>38749162
25-year old virgin is even worse. My point is you pass a certain point at 21. 21 can be construed as ''well maybe he's a bit odd and just hasn't found the right one yet''. 22 is unambiguously ''must be something wrong with this guy''.

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I payed for sexual favors on a bi-monthly basis since 12 years old.

Do those count as losing virginity? I'm still pretty fucked up regardless.

I gave up on relationships and intimacy a while ago. I just want to have sex, but I can't even manage that. Fapping doesn't cut it anymore.

>>38749325
>my point is you pass a certain point at 21
No, plenty of people lose their virginities 20-25. These days that's pretty much the awkward years of 15-18 just moved up a step. Obviously Chad's been slamming puss since 16, but no ones gonna give a fuck that you're a virgin until you hit 25.

So chill out, download a dating app and find a practice gf so you can stop overthinking shit

>>38748534
Jokes on you, I had the opportunity to have sex recently but turned it down because I don't believe in pre marital sex. Check and mate.

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>>38749473
Good for you anon, good for you. You are so much better than us!

>>38749562
Stop chasing roasties and instead chase nice Christian girl's to marry.

>>38749583
I'm not Christian tho.

>>38749447
You're missing my point. I'm not saying it will be any harder once you turn 22, I'm just talking about the mental bit, the fact that one feels any shame over it at all. I imagine the difference between being a 21/22-year old virgin is much greater than 22/23.

It's even harder to immerse myself in porn knowing I have never and may never experience that level of intimacy with anyone

20th birthday in two weeks yayyyy

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I have a cousin who I consider a "sexual savant"
He's tall, fit, god tier aesthetics and now even has a job. He got the fuck me eyes while talking to girls out of certain millionaire's leagues but just doesn't act on it. He has no friends and has more pictures of cats on his Facebook than pictures of himself.
It's so fucking weird

Should I try to help him?

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>>38749713
>when you can't understand how two people could be comfortable enough to be nude around each other and touch each other

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>>38748534
I don't really care to be honest lol

24
I self improved just to find the personal satisfaction was enough and being in a relationship sounds unpleasant. I HATE talking about drama, and that's half of the conversations you have with your partner
In fact I hate conversations with adults in general and the more attractive and "intelligent" the adults are, the more unpleasant the conversations become
I like not having to give a fuck if I meet someone else's standards and having fun on my own.
If people make me out to be a freak then fuck them they don't have to be near me. Everyone is judgemental garbage about everything else anyway

>>38749925
Not him, but it's hard for me to imagine because I'm so awkward. But I'm guessing it has more to do with wanting to insert himself into that situation, pretending he's the one fucking the girl. But even as a fantasy, it's becoming more and more distant as time goes on. As a teenager, sex was one of those things that all adults enjoyed, and it was only a matter of time before you would to. That sort of anticipation made porn more immersive.

>>38750118
>Everyone is judgemental garbage about everything else anyway
This is extremely true
If you're not a virgin then something else about you is off and you still get looked at as weird

>>38748565
being in a relationship is not an achievement you fucking dumbass

>>38748534
lost mine at age 15 it was nothing special. If it's such a big deal to you pay an escort and get it over with and then finally you can move on and do something with your life.

>>38748534
>tfw I don't think I've ever actually wanted sex
>tfw I've always wanted a relationship
I just want to feel loved.

Absolute apathy.

>>38749610
Then become Christian

>>38748534
Can't be considered a failure if you die to an "accident" early

>>38750226
Anything other than this is bitch tier

Feels like nothing
There for a while I was really feeling it though, last year when I was 26. It felt like that was the ultimate point of no return since it was the end of my mid 20s.

But now that I'm in my late 20s I can take it easy because there is no hope. Hope is the real killer, once you lose that things calm down a lot.

>>38748598
Yea, just say it's been a really long time Bitches won't know it your first time

>>38748534
I feel like my dick is getting smaller and I have my tits growing
I never even grew hair on my stomach, and only a little on my chest, none on my back, thin patches on my face
might as well start trapping

>>38750320
I'm 26 now, haven't kissed a grill in 7 years still a virgin and only gays hit on me in the last 3 years

>>38750320
wtf are you me?
Fuck you 4chan this is original

Can someone provide links to actual sources (health, psych, sociology journals etc) that point to how longer you wait, less chance you have? I know I've seen some, just hoping someone here has some on hand.

>>38748534
>with each passing year, losing it will become harder and harder
that's not necessarily true
>you will be viewed as more and more of a freak
other people can't tell that you're a virgin. i don't know where this retarded myth comes from.

I just want emotional intimacy so bad. I don't even care about whatever macho shit sex signifies anymore.

>>38748565
>having sex without being in a long-term relationship
Unfathomable

>>38748534
>and that you will be viewed as more and more of a freak as time goes on?

Don't hang out with normies

problem solved

>>38748534
I'm 19 and could not give a single fuck about virginity.
Everyone now a days is so obsessed with virginity. If you're naive enough to believe that fucking some sluts vagina is going to change your life then you're in for a shocking surprise. It won't.

>>38748534
I wish I cod wake up every morning and see that nice butt next to me

>>38750538
this
i fucked some slut when i was in college and a year later im still working in fast food lol

i'm pretty sure tumblrwhores post these threads to make themselves feel valuable

>supposedly care about something enough to be deeply upset and disturbed by it.
>do absolutely nothing to improve your odds
>It's hopeless, it should just fall in my lap
>working out, getting fit and achieving things on my own are meaningless because excuses.

Get it over with by any means, it will change nothing of consequence, you'll lose the idea that you are fundamentally alien and incapable of being wanted but you'll gain deeper disillusionment as you realize there are no solid criteria and the only deciding factor is what kind of whims you happen to be dealing with.

Move on to profound indifference and only engaging in behavior that earns you net gains, the rest is childish bullshit.

can't say i care right now desu. only reason i'm still a virgin is because i still have standards that i can afford to have for the next couple of years. if i somehow hit 25 and still haven't stuck my dick anywhere i can always just go to a hooker or something for all i care

>>38749317
just find yourself a nicer girl?

i'm still a wizard
no end in sight bros

>>38749132
Kill yourself. It is the only way.

>>38748534
virginity is an illusion sex is not even real

>>38748534
I threw out the normal societal programming a few days ago, so I'm actually alright with it.