To all females (sluts please fuck off) that secretly habitate this board: How do you deal with your vaginismus?
> Mfw 28yr old and can't go the gyno for being a virgin
> Mfw the very thought of something entering my pussy (even a finger) makes me crawl over my skin
I don't get it, do you have a vagina or not?
>>38717370
Yeah, friend. I do have one. And I wish I could take better care of myself and go to a gynecologist once a year, have exams like any woman would but I can't because I'm a loser. A loser with vaginismus.
I felt the same way about sec toys but, cock is a different matter. Iove getting sexually attention from my bf. The way he looks at me while he fucks me is so intense. And when he hits you in the write spot is amazing. Yes, once you have sex as a girl you can't just get off to masturbation nope. You need to be mounted by a sophisticated male. That is able to out witt you and make you surrender.
>>38717434
Well I'm a vagina expert from all the porn I've seen over the years.
>>38717331
Sounds like you should be going to a therapist. Ideally before you develop some kind of condition which necessitates a visit to the gyno.
As a Redditor, I am an expert on this subject.
Vaginas come in all different shapes and colors, typically purple or yellow.
Mine happens to be a lovely rainbow hue. And rectangular.
Edit: Wow! Thanks for the gold, kind stranger! xD
>>38717566
Ironic redditposting is still redditposting, fuccboi.
>>38717484
You sound like a retard that have no idea what is vaginismus and how it works
>>38717505
Yeah, I've been searching. The "cure" is therapy and also exercises with those vaginal dilator set.
I thought about buying it, but guess what? I live with my mother and she would kill me for buying that. Also, I don't think I cant put those stuff inside me arrrgh
>>38717607
Downvote downvote downvote >:(
>>38717434
>I can't because I'm a loser. A loser with vaginismus.
Having a legitimate medical condition doesn't make you a loser, it just makes you unfortunate.
>>38717616
Your mother would kill you for treating a disorder? Well, I guess I know where your shame about sex and your body came from. You could still try therapy, though. Sounds like it could be helpful in other ways, too.
>>38717331
>To all females
>(sluts please fuck off)
You must be reeeeeally new.
>>38717607
Does this mean that I'm in good company after all?
>>38717690
My mother had me in a quite old age, and I was raised in religion so yes, it would be difficult.
I was only allowed to have my own room when I made 18, and yet she gives me almost no privacy, 10 years later.
I caught here. For I also think I don't want to lose my virginity to the dilators (even being this old a girl can dream, right?) but I can't even imagine myself in a situation like that (having sex).
>>38717797
Sounds like it's your mom that's the source of your dysfunction. If it's possible to move out and live on your own I would strongly consider that: that would probably be even more helpful than therapy. You really, really need to set boundaries with her and assert yourself for the sake of your own mental health. It's possible that you could overcome your vaginismus without dilators, at least to the point that it would be possible to lose your virginity with a patient boyfriend.