This week, I asked my crush at work to go to lunch with me on Friday, and he agreed. He's gay too, and I'm pretty sure he knows I really like him by now (because I'm terrible at being subtle or hiding my power-level). In any case, lunch went pretty well (I think - at the very least, I enjoyed myself, and he appeared to do so too).
I do want to ask him out - but how do I proceed from here?
I might get together with some co-workers today, and it's likely he'll be there too (hence the reason I'm going, despite my fear of social occasions). I want to ask him out, or at least try to take this further, but I don't know what to do. I don't think I'm even thinking clearly: I just really want to go out with him, but I have no clue how to proceed.
Also, I'm scared that this is entirely one-sided, and that any hints I got of him being even remotely interested were just misinterpretations on my part or him being nothing more than nice/polite/friendly. And honestly, I don't even get that many hints that he's interested in me to begin with.
>inb4 "don't pursue this because he's a co-worker"
Fuck that, so many people at the workplace are dating, so I don't care. And he said he's considering moving on to some other occupation, so I have to act a little more quickly.
> This week, I asked my crush at work to go to lunch with me on Friday, and he agreed.
Stopped reading at this point.
Get the fuck out, normalfaggot.
>>38714197
>I have a monopoly on all the suffering and wretchedness in the Universe
How have you known this guy? You might want to wait a little.
Don't lose hope, you got this
>gay top
Go get fucked in the ass. Most gay men (including myself) will fuck any boipussy we can get. Invite him to your place sometime.
>>38714539
I only started really talking to him last week, when a mutual friend of ours invited us both to lunch.
>>38714609
You've got to be fucking joking.
>>38714875
If I were you I would wait a little before taking things further but that's just because I'm hopelessly shy and insecure lol
You should try to get to know him and to get him to know you a little better, I guess.
>>38715417
>that's just because I'm hopelessly shy and insecure
I'm the exact same way. I do agree that I should wait a bit, though, and maybe pop the question by asking him something along the lines of "hey, you wanna go grab dinner this weekend?" or "want to grab a drink tonight?"
>>38715534
>>38715534
Yes I think that's the best thing to do