Femdom thread

>>38704902
>tfw femdom gf
life is too good

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i like subtle size comparison femdom.

i generally like clean femdom. Sometimes I'm in the mood for raunchy mommy femdom though.

>>38704902
fem domme here most sub guys are super autistic and that's not attractive at all
also anything involving the feet or butt is gross and you should feel bad

>>38705025
>also anything involving the feet or butt is gross and you should feel bad

true. its the fanatics that ruin it.

legs can be sexy but fanatics focus on the legs ONLY.

>>38705025

>no feet
>no ass

What is there left then? Most femdom stuff involves ass or feet

>>38705025
>facesitting is gross
>rimjob is gross
>kissing butt is gross
you are too prude to be dominant, get the fuck out of here

>>38705088
I like sitting on a face as long as it focuses on the puss

>>38705088
those are actually genuinely gross

also, prudeness =/ gross. We are human idealists. The human body looks best when its tightly clothed. It hides all of the imperfections.

>>38705139
similar to that most femdom porn focuses on the guy's pleasure
the whole rimjob and butt sniffing stuff isn't the least bit good for the woman but they put it in because most femdom shit is just a male fantasy it's really hard to find femdom porn where she makes the guy pleasure him solely instead of focusing on what the guy wants the girl to do to him
I discard it immediately if she gives him a blowjob

>>38705230

Maybe its because there are barely if any women out there who are into femdom, and those who are are just people who picked up on it from a boyfriend.

>>38705281
I never picked it up from my boyfriends, my first wasn't even into it

>>38705430

Well state what you're into then.

>>38705592
findom and cucking only

>>38704902
>ywn be a femdom gf to a robot because you live in a 3rd world country

That's the worst feel

>>38705605
>implying
what are your top kinks?

>>38705605
w-which cuntry are you from?

>>38705605
please take out your insecurities on me in the bedroom

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>>38705603

Accurate representation of the average "dominant" woman

>>38705592
I'm >>38705025
that other fag isn't me >>38705603
I'm into oral esp forced oral some bits of facesitting, bloodplay, hitting and slapping and stuff

>>38705661

Bloodplay is interesting, first time i have seen a girl into it. Do you like biting or cutting?

>>38705633
Small muslim african country. I'm lucky to even have internet.

>>38705645
Insecurities? No. I want to test how much you can take before begging.
Sadism like that isn't created by insecurities. It's because my role is to be superior to weak males, that's all.

>>38705692
biting until he bleeds and then licking it up

>>38705725

Sounds painful but hot. Ever considered cutting as well? The psychological effect of the knife adds another edge imo.

>>38705700
sit on my face then

original

>>38705797
Do you deserve it? Maybe the only thing you deserve is for me to shit on your chest and tease your dick, while the only thing you can do is look at my ass. You haven't deserved a taste of anything yet.

>>38705842
you're right... I don't deserve to have you sit on my face just yet, mistress.

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>tfw you are a dumb boy and a pain slut
>tfw you get a gf but she's vanilla as fuck

I feel bad for complaining because she loves me, despite both my autism and lewdness. But I just wish she could bully me a bit. On the bright side her desire to wait until marriage for sex is doing wonders for my whole orgasm denial kink.

>>38705856
It's okay. Having a proper mistress can fix you. You can learn. You just need to find a mistress you can completely surrender yourself to.
You need to understand that your need are irrelevant and your dick doesn't belong to you : it belongs to your owner. It's a toy for her to play with and shape into whatever she likes.

>>38705025
>autistic guys not attractive
>no butt stuff
good, more autistic guys with nice butts for the rest of us

>>38705919
would you be that mistress for me?

>>38706046
>autistic guys with nice butts
literally me, pls be gf

>>38706071
i love it when guys get cocky because then the burden of proof is on them

>>38705025
What a pity. You don't know what's good.

>>38706055
I'd love to not live in a shit tier country and be able to do just that. Provided you're as obedient in the bedroom as you are here.

How can i find a gf in to femdom? I'm not ugly, autistic, etc. and i've jad gfs before, but I really want to find one into bondage/powerplay

>be femdom gf
>bf is into femdom
>bf would rather jerk off to porn and vidya than actually do anything with me irl

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>>38706185
Have you tried disciplining him?

>tfw have sorta gfd gf
I didn't realize I wanted this.

>>38706185
Try initiating sex with him, and be more dominant than usual. See how he reacts, and if it's fine then get more dominant.
If your guy is into femdom then it's up to you to take charge and start things up. He's a sub ; he's not gonna do it.

>>38706185
his dick is in dire need of being caged. save him before it's too late.

I'm an 18 year old /fit/izen looking for a dom just to roleplay w online

>>38706214

I've tried but he freaks out at me when I'm anything less than super sweet and kind 24/7. I dun get it.

>>38706274
he wants to see you being more pushy. that's why

>>38706241

I've been with him for a while now and I've tried all sorts of dominance, even trying to recreate stuff in the porn I found him watching. I have no idea why he prefers that, it's not like I've ever withheld sex or told him I'm unwilling to do kinky shit. If anything, my kinks are probably weirder.

I would honestly think he HATED being dommed if he wasn't so obviously into it elsewhere.

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>>38706274
By freak out do you mean complaining and whining or do you mean something more along the lines of hides under the bed while crying? If it's the former then he a lazy fuck. If it's the latter he is afraid and will need to be slowly trained and acclimated like a frightened pet.

>>38706327

There's only so far I can go with the pushiness, anon. I feel like if I go too far he'll think I'm bossy and abusive.

Last night I forcefully face-sat on him and sucked his dick and he acted like I was trying to murder him.

>>38706173
maybe one day that can be a reality for us?

>>38706463
>Last night I forcefully face-sat on him and sucked his dick and he acted like I was trying to murder him.
This makes me laugh. How is this in any way femdom. You're still sucking his dick like a slut.
Fucking beat his ass, make him drink your piss, tell him what a useless cuck he is and how Tyrone gives you way more pleasure.

In any case: fuck off from r9k you whore.

>>38706432
Guess he's just a lazy fuck who doesn't deserve a top tier domme gf. If I didn't love him a lot I wouldn't care so much. I feel kinda insecure about this actually but there isn't much I feel like I can do.

>>38706463
have you asked if he's into the connoncon? if he is that would explain a lot

>>38706463
Did he cry afterwards?

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>>38705025
I hate doormat subs so much
They're just lazy guys who want a handjob but are too afraid to ask for it
I mean I only sub because when I have sex I return to painful childhood memories of childlike vulnerability and fear and I desperately reach out for a motherly figure to help me feel safe and comfortable
Eating another girl out is fun, too

>>38706537
I wish, that would have been kinda hot

>>38706522
I'm guessing you've talked to him about this. What are his excuses?

>>38706173
What country are you from specifically, I'm curious.

is it tunisia

>>38705700
>It's because my role is to be superior to weak males, that's all.
wow v. impressive. if you work your ass off you might even become superior to a mediocre one :^)

>>38706569
There are a few. Ranging from "I'm not in the mood" to "I push you away because of my self-hatred". But most of the time it's just *shrug* "I dunno".

>>38706561
>I mean I only sub because when I have sex I return to painful childhood memories of childlike vulnerability and fear and I desperately reach out for a motherly figure to help me feel safe and comfortable

Sounds sad. I prefer being a simple pain slut. Even if it does cause me to do weird shit like trying to denail myself because I was bored and lonely.

>>38705700
Tunisia?
ali is the one true successor to this original post

inexperienced but interested fem domme here
would anyone be interested in showing me the ropes haha and 'practicing' with me?

>>38706668
Well shit, that sounds bad. Not really sure what you can do outside of either dumping him or becoming a rapist. Does he have issues with sex abuse or something?

>>38706745
I'd be down to, I'm young but really into femdom. snapchat?

>>38706745
yes
am grill
can tell you what to do

>>38706745
have this >>38706787 fembot tell you what to do to me and then do it to me please

>>38706751
He doesn't have issues with sex abuse, but I guess he has authority issues? Like, from his family. I've met them and they're bossy controlling cunts, so maybe being dommed irl reminds him of that, so he's only comfortable when it's not real and at his control.

But then that's not really femdom at all.

>>38706759
>>38706787
kik yotsubachan

>>38706822
Let me guess he also doesn't like talking to you about these things at all. Usually gives short or one word answers and tries to just sort of the the conversation die?

>>38705603
>findom
is there a woman alive who doesn't?

>>38706860

Yeah, pretty much.

oreqano

>>38706745

Just give in to your instincts, dont overthink it.

If you cant do that you're a fake domme

>>38706896
Well that is fucked and not in a fun way. Does he at least let you BULLY him verbally or does he object to that too?

>>38705603
>findom
so marriage then?

>>38706919
Anon doing that could end up having her take a sub to the hospital. Human instincts do not come with built in manuals for how to tie ropes properly without cutting off circulation. Or how to make sure you don't break his butt.

>>38706935
Even when I jokingly bully him he takes it personally. And when I bully him sexually he acts incredibly put-off.

He has such a huge chip on his shoulder that we can never do anything kinky and fun so we just have missionary sex for the hundredth time.

>>38706993
He's obviously not attracted to you/not into femdom.

>>38706993
Using girls for quick fuck: The man.

DUMP him you worthless slag jesus christ.

>>38705025
You probably just have a gross butt/feet.
If your feet/ass were attractive you would understand the appeal.

>>38706993
>missionary sex

Kink Jesus didn't die for this normie ass fuckery.

>>38706980

Sounds hot. The idea of a girl having a primal, natural instinct for domination that she can barely keep under control gets me rock hard

>>38706993

Gonna agree with >>38707002

Its harsh but it really seems like he doesnt find you attractive enough to sub to and is just using you as a practice gf/fuckbuddy. Or he isnt really into femdom and just faps to it out of boredom.

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>>38707032
>Using girls for quick fuck: The man.
Unlikely t b h. Dude is probably just damaged.

Or maybe he wants to BE the domme.

Where the fuck do all these femdom fembots come from suddenly. I remember just a year before there were barely any. Are they just roasties trying to cash in on/take advantage of the trend?

>>38707443
What trend? Now I might just be a sub who's to afraid to leave his home but I haven't seen women pegging guys in the streets or anything.

>>38707443
99% of them are role playing faggots.

>>38705003
Is the non-todd guy Paul Nuttall the old leader of UKIP?

>>38707495

It has gained in popularity significantly on 4chan lately.

>>38704902
I'd cum to that if she was barefoot

>>38704902
It truly is suffering only being attracted to dominant women. I just find submissive women boring and lose interest in them. The worse ones are the ones that don't do anything without your prodding. They just sit there and complain about being bored but do nothing to change it.

>>38707567
And 4Chan was founded as a Cantonese 4D pornography board? Why wouldn't it be popular?

>>38705230
>focuses on the guy's pleasure

This is what killed femdom. All the girls I've met that were predisposed to it got turned off because all the "submissive" guys just wanted their own fantasies and shit played to.

>>38704902
I don't exactly want a femdom gf I just want a girl that I can please and do things for. I want a girl I can cook and clean for.

>>38705887
>pain slut

God this is the worse. I'm so bad that hitting my elbow on the corner of my desk will make me moan like a bitch in heat. Its even happened to me in public. Most awkward teacher conference ever. But I have legitimately never found a girl into "hurting" me.

>>38707629

Im not discussing that, im saying it GAINED in popularity. Just a year or two back it was kind of a niche/taboo even on here and you'd barely see any females posting about it. Now its a common fetish on here and you suddenly see half of these threads being made or posted in by women, which makes me wonder if they're just roasties who want to take advantage of another opportunity to gain attention/cash, rping faggots or actual females.

>>38707645

What "killed" femdom is that women are submissive. You have plenty of shit tier sub women who only care about their own pleasure yet they still get fucked by chad, because chad is actually dom and not just pretending for orbiters.

>that knee
whoever drew this should be shot

>>38707645
This is perfectly true, now im only interested in domming girls.

>>38704902
I've met a few girls into femdom but none into my brand of femdom. I like training and obedience with a dash of pet play. I want to be trained up like a good pet.

How do I be a good sub for an inexperienced female dom that is learning? Anything I should request as well?

This is very different from my usual role of being the dom/beating up girls in bed.

>>38707746
I'm somewhat lucky in that I don't make noises. So everyone just thinks I am clumsy and not a pervert.

>>38707846
>How do I be a good sub for an inexperienced female dom that is learning?
Impossible, inexperienced dommes are basically retarded and worthless, too insecure to ever actually BE anything other than their usual timid self. If they're not doing it right from the start they're never gonna make it.

>>38707861
The weirdest part for me is that it feels so fucking good but it still hurts and different things have different variations of the two. So some things just hurt and don't feel good but other things feel good and are just kinda sorta laced with pain.

>>38707757
>if they're just roasties who want to take advantage of another opportunity to gain attention/cash
i mean its obviously this,
but you are never going to meet these people so who cares .

>>38705025
If you don't look like a Halloween decoration, seek professional men. Submission is a very common desire among men who have difficult, time consuming, high pressure jobs.

>>38707950

I care because this place unironically gives you the best chance of meeting someone into this. Fetlife is garbage and women like this are maybe 0.001% of the population so you'll probably never meet one irl.

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>>38708079
>I care because this place unironically gives you the best chance of meeting someone into this.

>>38708122
What a literal abomination. Xer is half plastic. I don't want otherkin like Xer-kana. I want a real woman who will love me not because of bullshit gook stuff but because of who I am

>>38708159
anon the only woman that will ever love you unconditionally is your mother
usually
it's just a fact of life.

>>38704902
I'd take it for granted eventually and realize that I was using my dom to fill a hole they could never fill.

I'm not the only one who's like this.

>>38708122

Best doesnt mean good

>>38707996
Or you know, pretty much any man who was born after 1990. The whole professional men with high pressure jobs thing is just a handy excuse for whores to go after wealthy clientel.

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Can sub girls post here too?
I'd really love to be a slut for a nice dominant girl. At least a lot of guys are into being doms, but I'm just so curious about serving a girl ;-;

>>38708122
I hang out on /r9k/ in the hopes of finding someone I like. Its not that rare.

>>38708276

Just post in lesbot threads and you'll be able to fug in no time. Dom lesbians are afaik more common then sub lesbians

>>38708276
Lesbians are the worst. They steal all the dominant girls

>>38708296
and you are into that stuff?

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>>38707507
>Paul Nuttall
My sides.
It looks just like him.

>>38708122
im almost as cute as him
almost
Though I feel like id never ever exist like that
>>38708276
I would, but I'm not a real girl so I don't count

>>38708321
How can you steal them? They are not property. Like half of the "submissive" guys are still entitled as fuck, you don't deserve a dominant girlfriend, ever :<

>>38708322
Yes I am. Are you by chance?

>>38707443
they are larping
source: i do it as well
there are almost no females here, especially not dominant ones
its all just fucking with each other and trolling and baiting
youre welcome

>>38708417
Not sure about dominant one's but there's a very surprisingly large amount if you leave your contact details.

>>38705887

I'm more into degradation than I am into pain, but I'm in a similar situation as you. I knew my gf was into light bondage, spanking, foot worship, and switching, so I thought she'd pick up on more humiliation-themed stuff, but she's too vanilla for that. Says even playfully insulting me makes her feel guilty, and she's not sure she could handle something like calling me a loser and spitting in my face.

>>38707187
>Or he isnt really into femdom and just faps to it out of boredom.

I'm gonna guess it's this. It could be his femdom "fetish" is more a symptom of porn addiction than genuine urges.

>>38708394

I am. What are you into?

>>38708276
Could you see yourself serving a girl that also owns a guy? A-asking for a friend!

>>38708780
Just about anything aside from pain, although I can be a little bit flexible on pain and the furthest I've gone in that respect was just hot wax. I can either be dominant(though I'd rather not) or submissive(which I am really into). I just want to be somebodies personal bitch, I want to feel inferior to them, I want to be owned by them and feel like I live for their pleasure.

Femdom is the worst fucking fetish to have. Worse than normie shit like footfaggotry or male-on-female rape fetishism. Worse than the outlandish shit like vore or transformation.

Imagine being a malesub. All you've ever wanted sexually and romantically is for a strong, assertive woman to dominate you. Maybe with disdain, maybe with affection. Maybe with pain or maybe with pleasure. You've known since your sexual awakening that you've wanted a woman to possess you.

And then you get out into the world and you are gradually forced to confront the sad truth that 99% of women are ultra-submissive fuckdolls who just want to lie there and be fucked into a puddle while screaming about their daddies. First you try to go for the women with assertive and dominant personalities only to find that the facade of being in control immediately slips away the moment you get to the bedroom. Then you go for the meek, nerdy girls in the hopes that a tiger might lurk within, but they're even worse. Warped by hentai and fanfiction, they want you to Dorian Grey their asses.

If you ever come out and confess your desires, they're met with disgust and revulsion because submissiveness is a universally unattractive trait to straight women, especially in men.

Rejected by the world, you're forced to live out your fantasies solely in the realm of pornography and imagination, slowly mutating into an unfeeling husk as you come to terms with the harrowing understanding that you will never have what you want.

The only true female doms in this world are either only dominant for money, genuinely insane or only attracted to Chads who don't even want to be dominated.

I wish I was just into feet or some other bullshit. Instead I'm saddled with this need to be pinned down or tied up or cradled like a child. To be used and abused and forced. And the more time that passes without a single woman to dominate me, the more detached from the world of romance and intimacy I become

>>38709014
You are a true man an for now you've earned my respect Godspeed to you.

>>38709014

Your writing is cringe but i agree with this.

Especially

>. First you try to go for the women with assertive and dominant personalities only to find that the facade of being in control immediately slips away the moment you get to the bedroom.

>If you ever come out and confess your desires, they're met with disgust and revulsion because submissiveness is a universally unattractive trait to straight women, especially in men.


This part alone makes it basically impossible to find someone like this irl. You can never know if someone is sub or dom in bed by observing them in daily life. Worst is that if you try to confess you risk being made fun of by everyone, especially if you're not beta in daily life.

Any fetish where the male is dominant is better than femdom. There are more women into guro tier shit like getting beaten until bloody than there are into femdom. And from those who are the geniunely dom ones have extremely high standards and only want high tier Chads.

>>38709158
Even most actual dominant women want to be dominated by an EVEN MORE dominant man. They claim that men are pigs who deserve to be trussed up and stepped on up until Chad Thundercock 1000 walks up and slaps them in the cunt, at which point they become mewling submissives like every other woman.

>>38709158

What's especially frustrating is meeting a "domme" woman who actually *is* into being dominant, but then you find out it's within really limited parameters (e.g. riding on top, grabbing you hard, biting/scratching, maybe some light bondage like blindfolding and handcuffs), and if you confess to things like wanting to be insulted, spit on, made to worship her feet and ass, put on a leash and made to act like a dog, etc., they get weirded out and leave.

thread ruined
see ya another time lads

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>>38709014
Sometimes I wonder what I did in a previous life to deserve this.

>>38709386
Guys are infinitely depraved. If you indulge in their sickest desires, they get sicker ones. Better to focus on your own enjoyment. Doggy play is super cute though.

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>>38705025
>>38705725
>feet and butt are gross anon
>let me lick your blood

And you call others autistic

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>>38709014
I agree. Why can't guys on here make threads about tfw no sub girlfriend instead?

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>>38704902
Hey you downloaded my Tokiko Zaizen pic from my thread last night

>>38705094

>>Not using his fetishes to your advantage

I get the impression you don't truely understand what it is to be a dom. You sound more like a normie sub girl that likes to ride face.

>>38709950
why? do you wanna be their sub?

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>>38710229

I did and i fapped to it as well

>tfw no intelligent business gf who treats me like a dumb muscular fuckmachine that only exists to pound her into orgasming

is this sub or dom?

>>38710303

Very common, stacy who wants chad but also wants to have the social status of being dom in daily life. For the male its called service domming.

Tl;dr get the fuck off my board chad

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>>38710296
I busted 3 nuts to her yesterday. We should post her more often, I want her to become more popular so more ecchi art will be made of her as well as more doujinshi since there's only like one and it's just okay-tier for femdom.
Here's where I got most of my pics if you want some more:
http://danbooru.donmai.us/posts?utf8=%E2%9C%93&tags=zaizen_tokiko+&ms=1
All 8 pages have really good stuff.

>>38705725
Long live AIDS

>>38709541
I want to die. You all remind me how much I want to die. I'd take anyone anyone at all who will dominate me for fuck sake.

>>38710476
How do you know it's common?

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>>38710496

>We should post her more often, I want her to become more popular so more ecchi art will be made of her as well as more doujinshi since there's only like one and it's just okay-tier for femdom.

Sounds like a plan.

>>38710675

You're talking about a boytoy dude, its very common

>>38710303
>is this sub or dom?
Depends. Do you mind being chained up in the basement when not in use?

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>>38710846
Exactly. You'll notice other anime girls often only get popular around here because they have a few people dedicated on each board to posting them constantly, and then the boners just activate from there and others start posting them and you can't stop the snowball effect after that point.

>>38710951

Its not just this character desu, there isnt that much straight dom stuff to begin with, most anime porn is either maledom or gay shit. Sucks but i guess thats where the demand is

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>>38711323
Yeah. That's why I get my rocks off for months when I find a new quality femdom character.

>>38710951
>that doujin
Into the collection it goes! Why is CFNM+fit sub such a bitch to find

>>38711475
>tfw fit sub
>tfw no girls like it
who else knows this bad feel?

>>38711441

Any good ones you know of other than tokiko?

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>>38711475
That pic gets me so hard, the doujin is good but it could be a lot better. Just the imagination of what will happen from that pic is exciting as fuck.
>>38711543
I've seen some good Rin Shibuya dominatrix art. I don't watch the show so I don't know if that actually matches up with her character but I've got a decent amount of material of her in that role.

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I bring to this femdom thread. Oc femdom!

>>38705025
You might have a sample bias since the only guys who'll approach a girl they know is into femdom outright on the basis that you're a Dom and they're a sub are autistic. Plenty of sub guys aren't like this, but you don't see us as often because we don't approach you unless we think you're interested in us and that we'd work together well in a relationship even without elements of bdsm

As a male switch, it's weird how hard it is to find dominant women that aren't in it for money or abuse.

I'm dominant 90% or more of the time, but the other 10% I just fake it and wish the girl would take charge. Most women though, see "You be dominant tonight" as "Insult me and hit me", and that's not dominance that's just abuse.

>TFW no cute switch/domme girlfriend into gentle femdom, and kinky stuff. All I want is a girl who gets off on taking charge, teasing, face sitting, pegging, hell even forced crossdressing is hot, but one that's not into just being abusive since I'm not into pain or insults.

Being a switch male is suffering because I'm not beta enough to enjoy the shit that the common fake femdoms are into these days.

This thread has reaffirmed my belief that I will never find a decent female.

>>38712032
>Most women though, see "You be dominant tonight" as "Insult me and hit me"

God I wish that were me

>>38712071
See, there's so many high estrogen mega-betas that ruin femdom for the rest of us.

>>38712091
Have you ever considered that you alleged alphas who get uncomfortable whenever you have to deal with real femdom are ruining it for actual femdom enthusiasts?

>>38712147
Nope, never considered it because every single time I talk to a woman about it, guys like >>38712071 are what they always say turn them off about being dominant.

>>38712032
I'm 90% submissive and 10% dominant, and what turns me on most about being dominant is hurting and insulting a person who is into that. I don't get how this is abuse, because I also like it if it's done to me.
It seems like most submissive guys just want a handjob machine who acts like their mom.

>>38712278
Well good.

If I can't be happy and loved, why should you?

>>38712280
>10% dominant
>You like it for the abuse
That's pretty normal since you're only a little bit dominant, that manifests in violence, and if that's what you and your partner are into more power to you both. If you enjoy taking out your frustrations on somebody and they enjoy it being done to them, I don't judge. I'm into some fucked up shit.

All I'm saying is that isn't "being dominant" in the sense of femdom. Anybody can kick a guy in the balls and call them worthless, but actually being dominant involves being able to be in control without physical force, it's a mental thing.

>I'm in a few kink/BDSM communities and this is pretty common everywhere, even 100% submissive women will always go for the dominant guy that can just tell them to do something and make them do it, instead of the guy that has to cane them just to get them to bend over

>tfw too pathetic to surrender yourself infront of a woman

>>38712414
hurr durr what is sadism

>>38712432
>Sadism
You mean sociopathy? True masochists are incredibly rare, and if you're just beating on somebody for your own enjoyment and all they're doing is tolerating it or being too scared to ask you to stop, you're a sociopath.

>>38707159

Seconding this. Its hard to put into words but its something about that instinctive drive to dominate. Too bad i have never seen a girl who seems to posses it, they all seem to like domming on a more conscious level which to me just feels forced and fake

>>38712480
But I like being beaten, and I'm pretty sure I'm not the only person who does. If someone is "too scared" to talk about their limits, they shouldn't be doing bdsm in the first place.

>>38712552
>Talk about limits
>You're with somebody who has to already at their mercy hitting you, possibly with a weapon
>That's the only part about being dominant that they enjoy
>Thinking that all people in the submissive role would be able to tell somebody that's interested in only physical abuse to stop because it's gone too far
No, you talk about limits before hand, but if somebody thinks that the only part about being dominant is being physically violent, there's more to it.

If somebody's attacking you with a weapon they aren't going to stop just because you say stop, if a sociopath is getting off on beating you, they won't stop just because you tell them to. Chances are in both cases they'll only get worse.

>>38712618
I hope you are trolling. No one is a sociopart simply because they get off on hurting people. If that's not your thing, that's okay, but don't keep going on about how someone isn't a real dom because they are mainly into the sadism aspect of it.

>>38706512
it's still sex u dumb fuck

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>>38711533
>>tfw no girls like it
Wrong. You probably just scare off dominant girls/attract submissive ones thinking you're Chad McChad. There's someone out there who'd love to watch your muscles ripple as you struggle uselessly against your restraints, I promise.

>>38713371
>There's someone out there who'd love to watch your muscles ripple as you struggle uselessly against your restraints, I promise.
RREEEE how do I find her?

>>38713371
sign me up :D

>>38713371

>You probably just scare off dominant girls/attract submissive

I do definitely do this. Im too afraid of showing my sub side as no one thinks of me that way and im afraid i'd get made fun of if she didnt turn out to be dom, which is much more likely than the other option

>>38704902
>tfw nurting femdom gf who slaps your balls, loves you and cares about you, is nurturing, caring and basically everything you ever wanted
Lads, I met her on this board and she's the best thing that happened to me. You never know where you'll find love. Don't give up anons, love exists and it'll find you when you least expect it. I love her more than anything in my life. She's my life and I can't imagine my life without her. She's going to read this probably. M, I love you more than anything and I want to stay with you forever. Thank you for everything. I may be hard at times, especially with my ocd and anxiety that makes me question everything but... I'm here. I love you. Thank you for being here.

>>38710935
If you feed me

>>38712032

I'm a switch, I have a gf who *is* into the kind of things you're describing, but I'm the opposite of you. I'm 50% dominant and 50% submissive, and I'm really into what you call "abuse". But she isn't. It's frustrating as fuck.

>>38714171

How the fuck do you meet girls on this board

>>38714911
By not being you or me, that's his secret.

>>38715268
That clever bastard

how do people unironically like this shit?

>>38704902
there is originally not a worse feel

>>38715498

Good question. Its completely useless and goes against nature.

I wish i didnt like it, i really do.

It's gotten to the point where I resent traditionally feminine and submissive women and all the people who encourage them with love and affection. Whenever I see a generic moe girl in fiction, I'm actively disgusted by her and I dislike seeing people talk about how perfect they are.

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>>38704902
That feel when 50% overlap between femdom and smug folders.

>>38715674
>Its completely useless and goes against nature
its a fetish dude. For a fetish it doesn't even do either of those that hard, its not even 100% fiction tier.

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>>38704902
>Tfw no dom gf to love you

>Tfw you're unattractive to anyone and you're not even ugly

>>38715783
I feel like you're more likely to find a woman who's into ryona, scat or fucking furry-play than a woman who's dominant in the bedroom

I'd a gentle femdom girlfriend. Not a momm-dom like a lot of guys seem to want, I don't want to be treated like a child, I'm just tired of always being the dominant one in bed, there's so many things that a switch or gentle dom girl could do that a normal boring sub girl can't.

Sex with a purely submissive girl gets boring fast unless she'll let you fuck other women.

pls share some sites that have lots of femdom to stream/download for free

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>>38705661
You sound fun desu ne

>>38715443
>>38715268
I found 2 gfs from r9k so far

>>38715674
Technically every fetish besides impregnation is also completely useless and goes against nature

Femdom really isn't that bad a fetish compared to what's on the front page of most porn sites nowadays

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>Tfw most girls dont know how to ride dick properly
>Tfw they hold back because they don't want to hurt you
>Mfw

>>38716088
Any fetish where the man retains dominance is a better fetish to have than femdom because it's far more likely that you'd find a girl who's into it. Dominance literally flies in the face of female nature. It's unnatural. It is extraordinarily rare that you will find a woman who enjoys being dominant.

>>38716050
How did you do it, mr. norman

>>38716100
Girls don't like to ride because they think they are fat and don't like the angle.

seriously, even the skinniest of girls will say this.
Or they're just fucking lazy

>>38712032
I know this fucking feel.
WHY GOD

>>38714172
We'll toss you a steak when you do good. You might even earn a headpat.

I have a really specific fantasy situation involving femdom, that's 125% unlikely to happen in reality so it's only a fantasy.

It involves having a fairly wealthy femdom with her own house that has me as her live in house cleaner/cook, comes home from work, has me give her massages, then takes her sexual frustration out on me. Bonus fantasy has her lending me to her female friends, or letting me still date separately.

I'm not looking to be a house husband for this person, it's purely a fetish thing.

>>38714911
Idk senpai, we talked and she slowly revealed it.

>>38716162
He makes them up in his head

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Men that want to be dominated are worthless scum
Kill yourselves

>>38717733
>Men that want to be dominated are worthless scum
y

>>38717733
YES MISTRESS ANYTHING FOR YOU MISTRESS

>>38717733
Only if i die via being choked to death by a girl

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>tfw you fell down the Akai Mato rabbit hole
>you'll never have a dom gf like Sakura
>you'll never have a dom gf
Fucking god dammit, why did I have to be stricken with this fetish

>>38713371
Fuck, is that Guts in that comic? Dude is fucking huge, that's my goal body.

Lads help me here
> A porn where the guy is REALLY shy and the girl is experient (she may mock him a little) and he may even want to refuse at the beggining

I-Is there a tag for this kind of porn? T-Thanks...

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Fuck I want Crispy to dominate me

>>38717935
Gentle femdom and momdom are the closest thing to that. Check out some of Mistress T's videos if you're into 3D.

>>38717733

t. tranny/trap

>>38717935
If you're into hentai, check out the straight shota tag.

>>38717935
>>38717935
Probably not the answer you want but mom-son incest roleplay is the easiest way to find that

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>>38717893
Sakura is a top tier gf, really the ideal dom gf who loves you and doesn't confuse "domination" with "be a giant slut who abuses her bf". Really why I feel finding a real 3d sakura is just impossible.

Also I want to be her chair.

>>38717852
>YES MISTRESS ANYTHING FOR YOU MISTRESS
Stop it. STOP IT!

>>38718556

>Really why I feel finding a real 3d sakura is just impossible.

Well its possible, its just going to be male. Since that doujin was written by a male, you're basically fapping to a male mind.

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>>38705025
You're just mad because you have ugly feet.

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Threadly reminder femdom is a shit tier fetish.

If you actually WANT a girl to beat the shit out of you while spitting in your mouth and calling you worthless, you're pathetic.

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>>38719375
B-but I REALLY want Zaizen-Sama to hurt me and make me her little bitch

>>38719375
really? Tell me more
>>38719429
> hurt me and make me her little bitch
same lad

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>>38719375
But what if I want to be cut up and scratched?

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>>38719534
What else do you want her to do to you?

>>38711844
>A baby in the background
I weep for it

>>38719689
God, it's the look of utter disdain and disgust that gets me off. Like she's constantly thinking of all the ways you make her sick and how she's going to punish you for them. That imperious upward tilt of the head that makes it so she's constantly looking down at everyone.

Why can't dominant women exist in real life?

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>>38719818
This is precisely what I was thinking in the back of my mind. Her face is the quintessential anime girl face. Her eyes are just right, her eybrows, nose and mouth are poised and cute. Her hair is absolutely perfect. Her outfits are always 10/10 and she makes them look so good even if it's something simple like that the one I just posted. It's like the perfect combination of Endou and Boa Hancock. I always wanted some Endou femdom pics but never found any art of it, and the Boa Hancock art is usually shit-tier.

>>38719891
Saya doesn't seem like much of a dom to me. If anything, Hotaru would be the dom and even then it would only be incidental due to her gung ho personality.

>>38709014
I'm standing up and clapping to this post

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>>38719959
Yeah I know and I also got off to Hotaru in the same mental state of imagining her in a dominant position when looking at her pics. The thing with Endou is the eyes and thin body that seems more appropriate for domming since cute thin girls can get insecure that they think guys don't like them and thus they take revenge on them through hardcore femdom. Hotaru body-wise seems like the type that would always be in demand by high-quality men so she would never get into that stuff. Kind of like how Tomoko is really into lewd VNs and that sort of thing.

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>>38709014
You're absolutely right, and thats the worst thing of all

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>>38718556
I think the reason why I love Akai Mato so much is because it displays a fetish that is at my very core
I think it could be described as 'gradual mindbreak', but thats a bit disengenuous because its more so putting all your emotional trust into one person unconditionally, knowing that despite how they treat you and put you through, they still care about you on some level
I just want someone that I can love unconditionally while they slap me around, put me in a collar, and call me pathetic. I guess you could say I more or less want to be like a higher-functioning pet more than anything else

The fact I probably will never get what I truly want and instead get what I can deadens my sole to idea of true romance

>>38720359
That pic hits too hard. That was my exact reaction every time I realized I was in the friendzone and got hit hardcore by reality, time and time again back in high school.

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>>38720508
>letting a sub boy put you in the friendzone

That's why you put them in the sin bin.

>>38719680
Then you've got bigger problems than just being pathetic

>>38709014
I must've met the 1% because when I was 16 I lost my v card to a dom. Looking back I really regret it. Also she was like 24 so that makes it even more creepy

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>>38720855
>sin bin
Do I even want to know what that is?

>>38720855
>>38721340
I want to know what sin bin is

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>>38721340
>>38721391
To learn about the sin bin, you must first understand what the dick prick is.

>>38721598
Mate, just give the full scoop
Its reaching a point where I think my lewd fantasies are more than what it actually is

So I had a dom turned gf who was so bad at being a femdom I think I became gay. Did this happen to anyone else?

>>38705025
You don't sound like a dom at all
you sound fucking awful

>>38721269
shut the fuck up and stop trying to get people to pay attention to how awesome your life is

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>>38705003
I like unsubtle size comparison

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>>38721171
But it feels good. I mean be a pathetic slut but pain is fun.

id like a dom gf in the sense that shed be more like the husband and me the wife

i guess i basically wish girl with a dudes take action personality would find some worth in me
ive always felt subby/feminine in the sense that id rather be by someone's side than be their rock
i know ill get shit but whatever

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>>38719375
Bully me more, mommy

all i want is a femdom gf to lock me in chastity. is that really too much to fucking ask

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>>38711844
Is that a fucking baby?

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>>38711844
DUDE WHY THE FUCK IS THERE A BABY IN THE BACKGROUND WHILE YA GIRL GIVIN YA DICK THE FOOTSIES

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>>38719375
>ywn have a dom gf who bullies you till you cry, and then comforts you after the fact

>>38711844
Your baby will have a foot fetish by the age of five

>>38723194
Its already developing as we speak. Jr watches as his father is emasculated and teased by the soft and supple feet of his mother. He sees that his father is in ecstasy over the abuse and feet and now will forever associate the two.

Ywn be a qt househusband for a domniate girl who sweeps you off your feet every night.
It's probably too much to ask for,but I dream of it every night and I really do wish it would come true someday.

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>>38723228
>being this fucked in the head

God this place has really gone to shit. My wife and I are so fucking disgusted by your rampant faggotry. Gonna post this shit on Twitter holy fucking lol

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>>38711844
>ywn get a footjob while an infant watches in the background
why live

>>38723271
I wanna die.
I want to be a perfect house husband who cooks and cleans and is used by my wife to let off stress.

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>>38722865
Yeah that's our little newborn! I forgot to crop him out

>>38723194
>>38723228
OH stop. Little guy can't even see yet. Let alone be effected by any if that he's way too fresh. Don't mistake his age and size. He is only a month old for being 16 lbs

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>>38704902
>you will never have a petite and bossy girl half your size whip your lanklet body into shape
>you will never look like her body guard/guard dog out in public while being an out for her frustrations back at home
>you will never massage the worries out of her sore muscles

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>>38724123
>tfw you will never be left in the corner of a room and watch your mom step on your dads cock

>>38724533
Lol he sleeps over there woth the doggy. Again at his age he isn't seeing much but the light he states at. When he gets older well have to really reel it back because right now it is day to day life

>>38705230
>rimjob
>not female pleasure

lots of women LOVE getting their ass ate, anon

>>38705025
its ALL about feet
its ALL about ass

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I just like gfd

i have a femdom gf. i met her here. well through discord. but she's so great

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>>38708079
Why is fetlife garbage anon?

>>38726154

Because 90% of it consists of 40 year old men and women who have their own closed social circles set up, and the rest are literal prostitutes, findom whores and stacies looking for orbiters. You have a better chance of getting a dom gf by screaming in the middle of a busy street for one than going on fetlife.

>>38726243
How is fetlife for finding sub women? Ive looked at the people in my area and most are men but there are still some 6/10s or higher that are around my age

>>38726338

Its ok, its at least doable compared to finding femdoms which is impossible. Though there is a shit ton of competition from chads and rich sugar daddies. I dont know much about the femsub dating scene but its probably not very easy unless youre chad

>>38726489
What about failed chad aesthetics while being a social retard?

>>38722254
You'd think women would be more on board with this idea nowadays but role reversed relationships don't seem to be anywhere.