why is femdom a thing

>>38641823
i don't know but i like existing and i like being dominated by feminine women

I don't know about femdom but it feels wonderful to have a cute girl play with my butt.

Because we're fucked in the head.

I got to the point where I fucking hate femdom, yet it turns me like hell.

I too would like an answer to this question OP.

fetishes are not genetic, fetishes are a result of upbringing and environment

homosexuality, transgenderism, pedophilia, etc. are all just fetishes, they were not born with them however they are still involuntary

It's taboo and contrary to social norms.
Which is why it's hot.
Like sneaking into your sisters room eating her out while she sucks you off.

>>38641823
In evolutionary perspective you are attractive to things you need. Being into submissive must mean that you need a controlling mate.

>>38641823
Afaik most guys really into this shit are anything but submissive and use it as a counterpoint to being commandeering and leading in everyday life.

Robots mostly just want any girl that makes their moves for 'em, and a domina would fit the bill as well as a mommy gf

>why do submissive guys even exist?
Because single mothers are a thing.

>>38641851
there is no point in hating it anon, it's not like you can do anything. why don't you just enjoy it?

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>>38641823
To serve us chads

I'm sure it's for the same reason why many women like it. You don't have to do much while being dominated, and it makes you feel safe to hand over control

>>38641823
Hormones and chemicals. A lot of experts will say all modern overprocessed food is the real culprit, but I eat tons of that shit and i'm pretty far from submissive.

Some people just have kinks, and that's fine. I agree wholeheartedly that femdom doesn't really make sense. That being said, I find it really weird. If you watch Femdom v. Maledom porn, it's kind of embarassing. Everything the guys do/say/body movements everything implies they are their voluntarily. Even when women hit the guys, it's like a half-assed "just kidding" kind of thing, but that's likely because subconciously they know they're inferior.

Maledom is some real shit, the hits look like they're actual hits and the women genuinely give of the sensation of being dominated.

TL;DR: You can get lost in the immersion of Maledom, because it subconciously makes sense. Any Femdom with an attractive (feminine) female you can tell is just cosplay.

>>38641823
We're so beta that we just want a girl to come at us instead of the opposite.

>>38641823
im lazy and being the submissive means that i don't have to do anything in my sexual fantasies

>>38641823
I was raised in a house of five women and I'm the youngest of the family. You get where I'm going with this?

>>38641823
Evolution is probably fake as fuck or very far from being completely accurate

>>38641823
Men who are into femdom have transcended beyond social stigma and judgment to realize the truth. That everyone wants easy sex handed to them. Women aren't really "submissive" but enjoy the perks of being submissive i.e. the guy doing all the pursuing and jjst having to lay there during sex and have an automatic sex robot (a man) fuck you and please you. Males into fendom have realized the joy of this and admit they want it freely while normies will say b-but Thats not what a man does! Roasties will be against it and say Women like gender roles in bed! Because they get the best part od the deal. Females into femdom are usually understanding of humans and nice people and understand what i jjst described. The women are like the Bosses enslaving the normie males as wagecucks but also as sex wagies, doing all the work for a slice of vagina. Guys into femdom are the NEETS.

Its like wagies vs neets desu. The males will say but why dont you work 60 hours a week and earn your spot as a man! These are the guys who will also say the man has to be dominate based on no real reasoning. (Appeal to nature fallacy doesnt count)

>>38642733
Post got cut off..

Women are like the bosses the ones saying to do all the work while reaping the profit from the wageslave males but in this case theyre the sex wagies, doing all the work during sex and going through all of the girls demands to get a slice of her vagina. Guys who are into femdom are the NEETS

>>38641823
Because human social relations need to be flexible in order for society to function. You can't have every guy be the leader of the tribe, right? Things get accomplished when people work together, and that often involves being able to moderate your own ego and aggression.

So seemingly just like most fetishes, it's taking some natural instinct to an extreme or in a different direction than its evolutionary purpose.

>>38641823
From an evolutionary standpoint, why do gays exist?

Because evolution doesn't work like that. Evolution isn't a constant stream of something getting "better". It's adaptations.

>>38641893
this combined with this >>38641876
and that >>38641851

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>>38641823
Mommy issues

I would know, since I can't get off to anything that isn't femdom

>>38641823
Macro-evolution is a meme, and is still a theory because nobody can recreate it without the test subject dying.

How the hell does a T-Rex evolve into a chicken? Becoming a chicken doesn't make it more equipped to survive.

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I hate femdom so fucking much
>masculine, attractive and decent height due to genetics
>fucked in the head and as a result totally submissive
>the only girls who make moves on me are DDLG types and dom girls like twinks

I wish I could fix this shit, I quit porn six months ago too. I wish femdom never existed.

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look on the bright side bros

at least your femdom isn't so bad that it manifests itself as thoughts of women being impossibly huge and powerful monsters

what kind of loser would have that hahahaha

>>38642997
Nah. I'm into this and don't have that in the least.

You should be submissive to those you love. Desiring or being dominative is always degenerative however.

>>38641876
>pedophilia
>fetish
lol if I wasn't born with it how come I've always only liked little girls and never liked women or teenagers, or males?
Sorry mate, some people just love cuties'wit'cooties :3

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>>38643103
>Tfw this is your fetish

The reason why many guys are into femdom is because they're tired of being Chads the entire day they just want someone to dominate them to keep it balanced

>>38641823
To die in pointless wase for the pride of more dominant men. To toil daily for pennies so others can be rich. To never know a woman's touch because they are inadequate.
They exist to suffer.

>>38643127
If the object of your attraction isn't the opposite gender and near your age, it's a mental illness.

Also if someone thinks their fetish defines them, like transsexuals, they are what is known as delusional.

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>painfully boring and dry personality to the point where I can't hold a conversation with another person
>can't achieve inner fulfillment on my own because I'm so uninteresting and bland
>can't make eye contact with others
>physically hideous
>submissive sexuality makes a relationship with a woman impossible and bleeds into my personality to the point where I'm rendered a timid embarrassing manchild that can't influence others or stand up for myself

LOOOL

me BTFO!

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>>38643320

That hit a little too close to home... a-are you me, anon?

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>>38643103
>masochism and femdom has gotten this bad over the past few months
tfw into giantess murderfaggotry now

there are no world wars to lower the male population, so they're trying other ways of convincing men to not breed

>>38641823
>From an evolutionary perspective, why do submissive guys even exist?
Provide an example on how not to behave in order to procreate.

It's not an evolved trait, it's acquired. Dominant women would exist otherwise.

>>38645736
>Dominant women would exist otherwise
BDSM chicks are out there. they are rare, like submissive men, but they are out there

>>38645757
>they are rare, like submissive men
the ratio isn't even close

and there's more than just BDSM, I'm sub but not into traditional BDSM or hard femdom at all

Because women are so fucking timid and weak and although I like being the dominant one 90% of the time and have them on all fours moaning as I shove my dick up inside their guts, sometimes it gets to me. Sometimes I want them to TAKE CHARGE and be more than a submissive cocksleeve. Fight me, dammit! Make ME submit, make ME worship YOU for a change!

But most women never will.... have to almost BEG my gf to be dominant at all and she SUCKS at it. A good little submissive whore, but she just fucking can't take CONTROL....

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It is a mistake to think every human aberration to be the result of evolution.

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>>38643103
>tfw I am such a pain slut I can only get off to what basically amounts to soft core gore now.

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>>38641823
You seen The Soprano's? Ralph was a submissive gangster who loved being pegged by Tony's sister and other messed up things. He used it as a crutch given that he was disrespected by the other crews in Jersey, even the Cifaretto crew he ran. Janice mentioned this to Tony as being a case of "Bottoming from the Top."

From my experience LARPing as a female on Kik, lots of guys who would consider themselves as masculine or tough otherwise are lowkey turned on by the idea of a femdom, regardless of their upbringing. Inner-city people especially, since they were likely raised by their mothers exclusively. Much like Ralph, though, as stated above, they aren't submissive in the way /r9k/ interprets it. Most men like a domineering woman who can be rough in the bedroom.

True femdom, involving male rape, pegging, cuckoldry, and financial abuse, is strictly a beta affinity, whereas lighter, more vanilla femdom is common in alpha personalities. All men are somewhat submissive to women; we have to be in order for her to feel safe and comfortable around us. If a girl got on top of a guy while in bed and started talking down to him while riding him, for example, he would likely be super into it. Why do you think this is such a common trait in modern porn?

Not sure where I'm going with this post so I'll end here, hope it sheds some light.

>>38643250
>near your age

Fucking what? That makes no sense.

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>>38643250
>near your age
But that's irrational.
Realistically your attraction should primarily be as young as possible, as they're the future of society.
Being attracted to grannies makes no sense, or really anybody above 30.

>m-m-muh fetish!