do you fap less when you have a girlfriend ?
>>38638279
I make a point of trying not to fap too often when dating a girl. Makes ya more romantic if you have some sexual tension built up in them nuts.
For me the answer follows:
Is she immediately available to use dozen times a day as a sex toy? I don't jerk off at all.
Does she want me to save up a gigantic load to completely drown her in it? I'll not jerk off for about two days, up to 5 if she wants to fetishize my pent up lust.
Otherwise nah, I jerk off the same amount.
>>38638279
When I'm on the verge of getting a girlfriend I usually find myself less horny and only jack off once a day to get it out of my system. Haven't ever actually had a girlfriend but I'd imagine it'd be about the same as that.
>>38638279
I have a gf but we haven't fucked.
So nah, I still wank a lot.
>>38638279
When I have a little girlfriend my sexual desires mostly go away, especially if we're together a whole bunch.
I haven't fapped (for the purpose of cumming/etc) in a couple years.
>>38639997
>little girlfriend
elaborate on this
>>38640011
Uhhh...I met her a little over three and a half years ago and begun babysitting her before she could even walk, fell in love with her and was made sane and had my mental issues cured from her within a few months.
Few months later it was abundantly clear we both loved each other more than anybody, and some months ago I moved into her house and most nights she comes into my room for cuddles.
She's 4 now.
>>38639923
>When I'm on the verge of getting a girlfriend
>Haven't ever actually had a girlfriend
>>38639997
>>38640078
Now this is properly loving a child. Good for you anon. Just curious, do you think you'll still love her when she's in her 20s?
>>38639997
>I haven't fapped (for the purpose of cumming/etc)
Have you fapped for other purposes?
>>38640078
this sounds more paternal than sexual
>>38640156
Yes, although since we don't do sexual things it's probably likely I'll stop finding her physically attractive/pretty though...
>>38640273
It's healthy to cum every now and again and since I don't care to masturbate and don't have sex I sometimes "fap" for the slight health benefits, but it's rare.
>>38640277
lol that's how pedo-relationships are.
People just always mislabel them as parental and then mislabel normal people raping kids simply because they're horny as pedophiles.
Almost every genuinely good parent you see, at least if they're really good and have fun with their kid, is most likely a pedophile at least a little from my findings.
Our sexual desires aren't routed in lust generally, but rather out of a more innocent love. I don't want to defile, "fuck," or "cum on" cuties. I do want sex with them, but what I want isn't like normal people sex. It's about making them feel good and bonding with them, which usually means nothing with dicks.
Because of this, as I've hinted, it's not a must and you can easily be satisfied without it.