How do you cope with having no friends at all.

>>38623362
My life has never been originallyyyty better.

By not caring.
..mnkl.j

just block it out,

dont think about it.

People being friends is just a social construct. Friends don't really help anything.

I don't cope that well despite not having any for a long time, and they were friends of convenience.

You just have to keep going, even if it's painful.

>>38623362
I have literally never had someone in my life that i consider a friend, its the only life i know but im pretty fucked up so i dont know if that counts as "coping"
>>38623506
bullshit, the closest thing to bing happy ive felt in years is when my brother comes over and drinks some booze and watches some dumb shit with me even though i can tell hed rather be anywhere else, companionship is obviously the closest thing to happiness youre gonna find in life, youre just lying to yourself nigger

>>38623607


you're lucky, i have no brothers, and the family i do have disowned me a long time ago, and pretend i never existed LOL

>>38623648
He is, but people who have others still complain.

>>38624077
having a family member on suicide watch isnt the same as having a friend ass, pretty sure its worse than having a friend because youre ruining someone elses life aswell

>>38623362

According to recent studies there's a 78% that these so-called "friends" will sexually assault you

>>38625173
I'm not sure how ironic this post is supposed to be.

>>38624211

you don't know me, faggot

you got big balls over the internet huh!

>>38624211


it must be nice to have family that cares. My family know my life sucks, could never get a gf, have zero friends, couldnt get a decent job,

their solution was to disown me and pretend i dont exist.

>>38625276
>their solution was to disown me and pretend i dont exist

But you do exist

>>38625319


unfortunately ,

in fairness i wouldnt come see me if i was them either

>>38625382
Stop being a Debby Downer..

You just need to take a shit, and think! Think why you're better than everyone else! And why the Jews did 9/11

>>38625441


meh, im just a poor ugly fuck who pushes a broom for a living,

>>38623362
I have one friend who I've had for years, but I eventually moved far away for uni. He told me to get Snapchat to keep in touch, so I did. I my SnapChat anonymous and refused to post my face because of autism, and my only followers were a bunch of Arabs.

Not sure why he hasn't given up on my yet.

>>38625569

without broom.. there is certainly doom, huh?

Self-pity makes you feel good, but it doesn't do much apart from that.

But isn't that what life is about? Chasing what "feels gud"?

>>38625623

i bet your thoughts originate from your ass

>>38625569
At least you have a job and you're making do by yourself. Plenty of permaNEETs have it worse. If your family thinks your job is too low-tier they're fucking idiots. Jobs are hard to come by these days.

i simply cry myself to sleep
can take up to 4 hours

>>38625702


but muh family doesn't appreciate the butt-stuff I've been getting into

they keep calling me butt-fucking Billy, my name isn't even Billy

>>38623362
Make online friends and do shit with them.

>>38625820
>make friends online
riiiight, the problem with that is that most people that want to make friends online are the exact same lame-brain retards as i myself am and being an asshole i somehow feel superior to people in the exact same predicament as i am in and that makes me unable to deal with people that i dont consider superior to me, theres a reason i dont have any friends anon, everyone else arent the problem

>>38625935
Jeez.. you could just kill yourself, anon

>>38625672
I can't write right now because I'm sleep-deprived, but it's true.

>>38625935
Anon, there are gonna be people willing to work with you, it'll take a long time to find them, but if you find the right people, you can have some fun playing vidya together.

>>38625985
Im waiting until certain people kick the bucket

>>38623362
I have friends on discord

>>38626033
But I'm just better than everyone else, and it makes me so frustrated!

Why am I cursed being this intelligent!?

God! And also fuck you, you're soo full of shit!

Fucking pea-brains! Yeah that's what I call you people; pea-brains!

>>38623362

> Have supposed "best friend" whom I've known for decades.

> Go out to eat with him and other friends a few times, have fun I guess

> his facebook feed is full of posts of him out at dinner with other friends, or strangers I've never even heard of, saying "Having so much fun with my peeps!"

> not once has he ever facebooked us out at dinner, never mind called me "his peeps"

>>38626271
I was gonna offer to play WoW with you, anon, because we're opposite ends of the spectrum.
I'm a bit of a tard and don't have anything to do besides play vidya. As long as you're not too much of a dick id still like to be your friend.

>>38626414
I can't play WoW, the Orcs keep giving me a hard on, for some reason..

>>38626414
thats some other shithead anon, im the false-feeling-of-superiority anon but i stopped playing wow a long time ago and i dont wanna pick it up again

>>38626271
>>38626414
>>38627001
also, i dont consider myself mentally superior to most people, im just psychologically deadlocked by bullshit autism i guess

>>38627001
Why do Orcs give you a hard-on?

I find it quite strange, anon. They're pretty much just green niggers

You shitpost with other friendless losers

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>>38623362
I can't, I'm a fucking wreck and it's because I'm so lonely. I used to have friends online but they're all gone now too. I've had no friends for three years and every day is torture

>>38627058
because green, strong, intrusive and prone-to-take-the-first-step women makes me feel less alone and makes my peepee bone come back which is why female hulk also turns me on

>>38627112

is it okay if you just shut the fuck up?
thanks

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>>38627133
What is your street address

You cope with it by realizing you don't need friends to be happy
Society had always pushed the ideal of making friends and having lovers
But in all honestly I'm happier alone than I am with any other person in the world.
Stop thinking in what society wants from you
And start thinking about what will make you happiest.

>>38627169

wow... how ignorant of the current state of the world you are...

i don't fucking live in a fucking street, you overpillvaged piece of shit!

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>>38627246
just tell me where you live then

>>38623362
Just go out and make some friends dude.

>>38623414
>>38623448
>>38623390
This is not healthy. Blocking things out or ignoring how you feel is how you got to be retarded shut-ins in the first place.

>>38623506
Did you think this was an insightful post? Of course friends are a social construct. It doesn't mean they aren't important and necessary for the health and well-being of humans. We're a social species not meant to be alone. Claiming anything else is a coping mechanism reliant on denial of fact

>>38623362
>How do you cope with having no friends at all.
With videogames and sometimes movies/anime/tv shows.
How else?

includ me in screncap plz

>>38627361
/r/4chan faggot

>>38627243
What are you talking about? Society doesn't want you to have friends, your brain does. If anything the way you are now society DOESN'T want you to have friends because it'd have to put up with you. You've probably never even had a friend or a girlfriend so you have no idea how you'd feel. Stop living in denial dude

>>38623362
If u have no friends directly it means truly and indirectly ur everyone's friends everything leads to and means it's opposite deep down Op follow ur heart live ur life speak ur mind and play ur body OP

>>38627273
i live in Morocco, in the palm trees with my brother Allam.

We sell coconuts by day, and do nigger things by night

>>38627349
you forgot boze
>>38627273
i live in somalia, 12 martin luther king st, come get me
>>38627361
theres nothing to screencap but a couple of asswads jerking off eachothers sad-boners

I'm trying to become a hermit but I read somewhere that social interaction was necessary

>>38627361
Nothing of worth is here, faggit

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>>38623362
By figuring out that friends are for those trapped under nature's thumb and that negative emotions are just it's whip.

Get enlightened, my brother.

>>38627473
>being this much of a faggot

Wow, you're a fag, dude

>>38627384
Are you retarded? Society pushes companion ship all the time society is built on companionship. Society pushes the idea if you arnt in a relationship or have many friends your a loser.That's why so many people are scared of being 30 and single or of living with a bunch of cats.
>you've probebly never had a friend or a girlfriend
that's true I've never actually had a friend or someone I consider a friend
however I have had many people consider me as their friend, but I've never been able to actually relate to the feeling.
>Stop living in denial
Stop denying what? That I need to have friends or lovers.
fuck that it's a waste of time
People are perfectly able to live alone

>>38627328
It doesn't matter, the majority of friendless people aren't choosing to be that way.

>>38627548
>That's why so many people are scared of being 30 and single or of living with a bunch of cats
You're looking at it the wrong way. Society isn't pushing anything. It's reminding you that, as examples show, people who are single past 30 or who live with a bunch of cats to hide their loneliness are extremely unhappy. It's not forcing you to do anything.

>that's true I've never actually had a friend or someone I consider a friend
>my definition of friend is so retarded that it's impossible to satisfy

>People are perfectly able to live alone
Able? Sure. You're able to eat shit for B12 too. You're able to eat cardboard and digest it. But it doesn't mean they're healthy things to do. And from reading your post you're far from mentally healthy.

>>38627592
More likely they're like the other guy I'm replying to who are insufferable to be around and have ridiculous definitions of what makes a friend.

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>>38623362
I have one friend. We talk every day.

I just watch anime and then get sad thinking about how I'm going to get old and be watching some anime and then die before the season is over.

>>38627747
DO. I. GIVE. A. FUCK!!

>>38623362
im not mean enough to have friends that are girls, only guys want to be my friend

>>38627853
You sound like the kinda people that found there personality in a nigger's back garden

>>38627925
no this is how it is in nyc, for ex i was at urban outfitters and i was smell all of the candles while on line, and these girls were behind me laughing and staring at me

>>38627984
Your English is trash. Fuck off

>>38627984
>nyc

Well there's your problem, New York (the state and city) is full to the brim of faggots.

That's why I call it Poo York

>>38628071
English is not shit you just get easily angry because your balls are really small

Pea-balls, as you will

>>38628130
>That's why I call it Poo York
No, you call it that because you're a cringey manchild

captcha: child minton

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>>38627544
>"oh shit i gotta call someone a faggot before my edge dulls, let's do it twice to make sure"
Here's your (You)

>>38628166

If you're from Poo York, there's no need to get offended, faggot.

It's not your fault that you were born in such a terrible city and/or state

>>38627738
>>38627738
I am perfectly happy to be by myself anon
I just cannot take the stress of having to worry about my friends and social events

This entire argument is a nature vs nurture situation
You belive that it is hard wired into the human brain that being alone equals to unhappiness
However I believe that Society nurtures us to be reliant on other people for help
That we must always have a social circle and that living alone is saddening
And in all honesty it's probebly both nature and nurture that goes about the whole you can't live alone thing.
However it's completely my choice to be alone

>>38628160
>English is not shit
hahaha sub-80 IQs are the funniest

>>38623362
I spend all my time on here. You get used to it the longer it goes on. It used to hurt me more when I was younger.

Drugs are great too. Getting drunk by myself and posting on /tv/ was the best time I ever had in college, probably best time of my entire life.

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>>38623362
>used to have friends
>tfw dont miss em one bit

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I suggest pic related

>>38628278
Thank you, good sir

Here's your (you) in return

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The better question is how to cope with having friends.

>>38628292
Hey, pea-balls!
Shut the fuck up! You're basically just embassing yourself here

>>38628335
were they shitty

>>38628283
I'm not even from there. It's just childish to call it something like "Poo" York. It's what pre schoolers do. Grow up.

>>38628284
Thank fuck you choose to be alone. You seem to think the question of whether we're social animals or not is up for debate. It's already settled.

>>38628384
Hahaha this guy

>>38628410
You're a gigantic faggot btw.

>>38628395
That none of your bees wax, faggot!

>>38628441
Yes I know.

Thanks for setting the record straight, anon. I love you

>>38628530
okay sorry spinelli

>>38628550
I-I love you too anon.

>>38623362
>be me
>have "friends"
>hate all of them
>they have triwd setting me up with chicks that arent dumpter fires and would wanna fuck
>straight up tell them i would hate that shit
>havent text them back in a week

been in the best mood of my life latley

>>38623362
How do I cope? by telling myself its okay bit having any friends they could turn out to be backstabbers/users not dealing with that shit again

>>38628643
You're kinda guy that like butt sex, but says he doesn't like butt sex.

Face it, faggot, you're a faggot

Having friends is a meme.
You're not 10 anymore.

>>38628410
You seem very frustrated
It's just a image board friend

>>38628410
>If we're social animals or not are up to debate
Actually with all the changes to society and shit technically speaking living alone is actually a possibility now
Explains all the neets and shut ins

>>38628973
Tell that to the starving niggers in Africa, wait.. no that's right, you're in a first world country.

This is a text book example why people should count their blessings

Fucking disgrace...

Family is the only thing that matters long term.

>>38629037
Are you retarded? It being possible doesn't mean it's what is healthy.
>durrrrr in the last 1000 years i think its possible so we must have evolved already lol hurrrrrr

>>38628920
Probably so, but I don't really have any relationships whatsoever.

I can feel myself going crazier when I go for days without talking to anyone. It's great.

I wonder how crazy I would get if I did it for months. I think I could handle it better than most people. If civilization ever collapses, I'm going to try it out. What an enjoyable time that would be.

>>38629092
I bet you're slow to wipe your own ass..

Did I say what you're insinuating?

>>38629041
>what about le children in Africa?
Good meme

>>38629092
>what is being a introvert
Pssh this gut

>>38623362
I go to v4c and pretend they're my friends

>>38629051
how do you cope with fucking up your family relations
my house is pretty on edge right now

>>38629270
>being a shy, quiet faggot is the same as eschewing hundreds of thousands of years of evolution to be mentally healthy without outside interactions

>>38629157
>did I say what your insinuating
B-but he replied to my post anon...

>>38629304
Anon you don't seem that mentally healthy
I'm worried are you a introvert, desu?

>>38629315
STFU

I got this!

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>>38623362
I talk to other anons on discord and pretend our interactions are meaningful

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>>38623362
Talk to traps and gays on a discord with some mixed in regular people. And intense shitposting with a lot of dank reaction pictures, this includes a lot of smug anime females.

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>>38623362
Every time I try to make friends, it backfires on me.

>>38623362
My privacy is worth more to me than having friends. You can never be my friend, if you spy on me. That leaves nobody to cope with because I'm not going to be emotionally attached to strangers.

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>>38627328
>we're a social species
>friends are a social construct

>>38629485
They wouldn't be strangers if you got to know them

>>38629365
Um thanks l guess....

What's with all this salt in this thread
Faggots

>>38629631
Hey, you'd STFU if you knew what was good for ya

>>38629515
If I came up to you tomorrow and read your post back to you face to face, would you still consider befriending me?

>>38629699
Yes anon
Where do you live?
I'll walk around carrying a piece of cardboard with my post on it until someone stops me an says 'traps arnt gay' and then we can go to a bar or something

>>38629699
Actually.. no.. forget about it

You're problem a manlet anyways

>>38629733
I live in Monrocco, with my brother Bange. We sell coconuts by day, and do nigger stuff at night

>>38623362
I made friends and now it's worse. Have to do a bunch of shit I don't want to do to be social. Most people are boring and never want to talk about my interests to the level I want to and only care about music, partying, drinking. All in all putting hours into something that has shitty return on investment when I could have been learning something useful, making more money, or developing a hobby all for "mental health" and "you need friends". The only thing friends are good for is meeting girls if you're interested in that. If you're not it's a total fucking waste of time unless you connect deeply over a shared interest.

>>38629733
You wouldn't have to identify youself in any way.

>>38629741
Ugh, lanklet lover.

>>38623362
I haven't had friends in 4-5 years
One normie down the street talks to me occasionally but I think he knows I'm not like him
It's a pretty faggy lifestyle but you get used to it

>>38630158
I'm not really like anyone I've ever met, so I never really connect with anyone either.

>>38630335
I rarely ever meet people who I would even want to be friends with, so I feel this
It's either
>normies who would look at me weird if I were to even let the slightest part of my power level slip
>complete and total autists can't think and act out all the time
>chads who would treat me like shit no matter what
>women, all of which are insufferable amerifat Stacys
In this environment I don't even WANT friends
It could be argued that I'm just bad at searching for people, but I really don't think that's the case

>>38630335
I have absolutely no coherent identity and I don't know why. Never have. Any sort of permanence of an identity makes me feel uncomfortable for some reason. That's partly why I never got tats even though I'm a wacko and should probably have a million.

>be lonely robot
>religious guy my age came to my house
>offered a bible study next week
>i said yes
>he came to my house and we sat out the front reading verses and he explained them to me

wasn't too bad desu senpai

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just stopped hanging with everyone because they are turbonormies. Some got gfs, most of them were trying to get me into normie activities, which i just couldn't handle.
God can i get a friend who is into old classic movies, pro cycling, rare beers and history?

>>38625777
This, also
>4 hours ago
Sleep tight anon

>>38630454
I actually like Jehova witnesses since they will actually talk to me

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>>38629254
>implying reddit made a good meme

>>38630845
Wow no wonder you have no friends

Grow up

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>>38623362
You should try finding a card/hobby shop near you and going to their beginner's nights. Someone there will almost certainly talk to you, even if you don't initiate conversation.

And trust me, they're not as bad as you think. People going are certainly not normies, though they can be a little autistic at times. Should fit right in.

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How the fuck do I get close to people to the point of being friends and not just simply acquaintances?
This is the first time in years I've had a chance to make friends. Good lord why is it so hard to socialize with people that aren't into imageboards.

>>38632252
What setting are you in? I'm really good at faking social interactions so I might be able to provide some advice.

>>38632679
Computer science classes. They're all a bunch of nerds like me so I don't have to fake that much, I still hide some of my power level though.

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>>38623362
Never had a friend in my entire life. The only time I feel true joy is when I exercise or get really drunk and play Fistful of Frags while listening to old-school hip-hop, or seldom listen to post-rock before bed. Other than that there's no coping, only escalating suffering, which makes me convinced that if you have any friends (even online) you can't be a robot.

>>38623362
I have a few.
But they live fair away so I might aswell have no friends.
I deal with it in different ways.
I work part time, have basic social interaction with my boss and generally play vidya or read books. It's comfy desu. I don't mind being alone desu.

>>38632745
I assume you can talk to them about video games, start with that, if you play some of the same games ask to add them, things should progress pretty naturally from there, play online, hopefully with VC, chat on steam sometimes. Etc. etc.