Revenge general

But... were you a pervert?

>>38586507

She's a woman.
All she needs to do is put on fake tears and your the monster again.

Congratulations OP, you played yourself.

>>38586534
I tried to go out with her. It didn't work out. We went a little cold after that but we still talked since work and all.

We were friends on FB and her account started liking lewd stuff. I think she was the victim of a bait and switch scam. The problem is, I approached her about it through chat and I sent her screenshots of the stuff she was liking (though I did ask her about it first). It wasn't explicitly porn, but it was pretty obscene.

>>38586507
Is she really that spitfull and worth of putting so much effort to process the case in a court? Isn't that somethig that can be solved face to face, talked through?

>>38587288
She's already ceased all communication with me and made her friends do the same

>>38586507
Why did she try to ruin your opinion among people in a first place?

>>38587328
Like I said >>38586599

To add to that, I did explain the next day what happened but she was having none of it.

She was always kind of random. A girl who likes to laugh and is very social but, as I found out, also one who likes to jump into conclusions.

>>38586599
And she ignored the materials that you've sent her? Maybe she ignored your message, not bothering even looking at your message and is still unaware of a situation or just misinterpreted your attempts to let her know what's going on with her fb account. Wouldn't it be better to hint her once again and solve the ongoing problem by talking things through, instead of solving it in a court, since like you said you knew each other and worked together? What was her purpose in ruining your reputation? Maybe the things she said wasn't said deliberately, like said in spur of a moment/while overreactig?

OP probably likes watching grannies pissing, which why he got so defensive when someone calls him a pervert.

>>38587514
>Wouldn't it be better to hint her once again and solve the ongoing problem by talking things through, instead of solving it in a court, since like you said you knew each other and worked together?

I haven't seen her in a year. It happened last year. The problem is that, throughout this year, some of our mutual friends have also stopped talking to me (closed chat on FB or just stopped responding). I know they talk to her.

I've long, long given her the benefit of the doubt that she would want to talk things over. I think I've done everything I can to save the friendship - I've stopped talking to her when she was avoiding me, and I've tried talking with her. She's let me down every time.

>>38587570
If she wasn't spreading it around, it would be ok.

>>38586507
I got a girl I knew In HS fired from two of her jobs.

She somehow found out later that I was stalking her online & IRL she ended up filing a restraining order against me

Top kek
She deserved it for bulling me in HS like a bitch cause she knew I wouldnt hit her.

>>38587616
So you admit you are a pervert?

>>38587638
lol did you just laugh the restraining order off or did you feel bad about it? How'd you get her fired?

>>38587687
I laughed it off it was fucking hilarious.

I can post a pic of it if you want. I framed it and put it on my wall.

>>38587727
please

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>>38587602
That's kind of dumb of her to be so stubborn, especially since she sure was aware that there is soemthig that needs to be discussed if you made the attempts to contact her, and hint her that the situation is not right. Maybe you should just tell her directly since she's so oblivious to the facts that you want to go to court if she don't want to solve things between you two, it's like a final attempt to save the friendship. If she still insists on not talking things through with you and will want to go to such lenghts to go to a court, as she thinks she's right about the situation and that there is no room to actually analyze and solve the issue just between both of you I'd go ahead with a case. Some people are just too blind because of stuborness. The question is if after all the silent treatment you'd rather go to a court or try to solve things with her telling her straight away that you will sue her is she don't want to solve it between both of you.

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>>38586507
Anyway, you guys think this'll work?

I swear to God I've been the Count of Monte Cristo for the past few months

>>38587888
That's what the cease and desist is for, technically. C&D isn't a lawsuit, it's just a letter. Of course, that it's penned by a lawyer lends a more litigious implication.

When we stopped seeing each other, I made a new FB account to PM her to meet up and talk. Even told her maybe we would never see each other again and that would be a pretty sad way to end things. She just blocked me.

I'm done pleading to her.

>>38587995
But wouldn't that result in totally breaking chances to reestablish relations that you had with her before or at least of explaining things to each other? She may react hostile upon receving this letter and there will be no dim chances to solve things differently than in a court aka no turning back to how things were before the accusations. When was the last time you tried contacting her? If it was long ago, since you said this is an unsolved issue from a last year, maybe something has changed by then, like she learnt about the events or after thinking it through she's changed her opinion on unfortunate things that happened and if you tried contacting her now she would be eager to discuss things through, knowing all the facts?

>>38588493
I already told her it was a misunderstanding. And, really, I screenshotted the thing. A little application of thinking would show it was me trying to warn her.

She doesn't want to communicate, that's obvious.

>>38588661
Yes, but if it was soon after whatever has happened that made her accuse you of a pervert, she might have just acted upon emotions, not seeing the facts as they were/in a heat of moment? It happens to people to be driven by emotions/afects rather than viewing things rationally. After that have you tried contacting her once again via sth different than facebook, unless she unblocked you and you actually kept that account? If yes, when was the last time you made such attempt? Like I've written, maybe now things are different for her, like she reflected upon events? Does she even have a mean to contact you, like telephone no, fb or through same circle of friends at previous job if she still keeps in touch with them after changing a job? Maybe she wanted to sort things out after that time, but couldn't because of that?
>tfw still advocating for that girl, since I myself had a conflict with one person due to a misunderstanding, the situation could have been easily solved if there was a dialog between two conflicted sides, but it all went downhill

>>38589159
She has my number.

Actually, anon, I already took a shot at her earlier in the year. I posted on FB that last year I told a girl I liked her and that it didn't work out and people, including mutual friends, gave me their support including saying things like 'her loss, not yours'.

The thing with her is she has to be friends with everybody and anyone she hates, everyone also has to hate. I know through a mutual friend she saw that post and was upset about it. Even tried to call me but I couldn't answer when she did.

>>38589208
Well same thing: if it was still a fresh case she still might have had some lingering feelings of distrust, contempt, you name it. Maybe she didn't think that what you've written and told your friends was sincere, there must have been something off that triggered negative response from her side, and especially since she accused you of a pervert and she ignored your evidences she was probably driven by certainity of being the one that's right, this or maybe actually just she wasn't into you. Did you try calling her back after not picking your phone? If yes how did it go?
Why did you decide to take legal actions against her after such a long time? Has she continued spreading those rumors during following months? Have you actually tried contacting her before submitting your cease and desist letter, so recently to check the situation?

>>38587888
Holy kek, you still believe that you can be friend with a woman?
Fucking beta-male, it's no wonder that you failed so miserably.

>>38589794
>Why did you decide to take legal actions against her after such a long time? Has she continued spreading those rumors during following months?

Yes. Mutual friends cease communications with me.

>Have you actually tried contacting her before submitting your cease and desist letter, so recently to check the situation?

The friends that stopped talking to me were actually friends I approached to slip some words into her to contact me.

m8, an entire social circle was cut off from me because of her. There's a lot of implications to what she did and how she could even attempt to do that.

This isn't even legal action. Cease and desist is just a letter warning her that I've already had a lawyer look at the case, which he will explain in the letter. Maybe that will make her understand.

I actually appreciate the sincerity you're giving this but it's misplaced.

>>38589909
This guy has a point. If a girl is already shitting on you, either the first thing or the last thing you do is you approach her. The first thing if you think she's just upset about something and can't say it properly, and is doing mostly harmless stuff in the big scheme of things. And the last thing if she's really trying to screw you over. Not only is it just bad but it's obvious she doesn't have any respect for you as a person. My red line is when she starts making you look bad in front of others. She's basically testing who's the one controlling the relationship, at that point.

I've tried asking for an apology before. She only got meaner. That's because now she thinks she has the upper hand. I eventually out-talked her again at some point and I saw her crying in a corner. Then I tried to make up with her and she started being nice.

Women respect power. Women that have a good moral core who make value decisions are not that common.

>>38587288
Not OP, but "women"(3D) are not rational or logical

>>38586507
Does sending a C&D to their workplace work to scare off the employer?