Grindr experiences?

>>38571395
>nobody lives anywhere near me

Where do you live?

>>38571470
Eastern Montana :(

I've matched with a surprising number of guys on tinder, enough that I could probably be picky and still get matches.

>tfw too shy & nervous to send any messages

It's somehow really intimidating.

Normies just use tinder for casual sex right? Do gay guys use it the same way? There's also grindr for that so I almost feel like gay tinder is more for dating.

>>38571921
>There's also grindr for that so I almost feel like gay tinder is more for dating.
That's what I heard too.. but not sure, hence why the thread

>>38571395
i use it catfish faggots and to fuck traps

>>38572569
>i use it catfish faggots and to fuck traps
Ok. But any serious relationship stuff or it's just hookups?

>>38571395
Of course they'd use a skull as the logo. Gay sex did bring about the AIDS epidemic after all.

>>38572894
>Gay sex did bring about the AIDS epidemic after all
AIDS is a non lethal condition and has been for decades now.
Secondly there's an option on Grindr to show/pick by POZ status, so literally fake complaint from you.

>>38572858
meh abit of both

>>38571395
I am 18 and created a grindr account. I was hopefully looking for twinks my age, but was swamped from messages from really gross looking old men. I deleted the app. Never again.

>>38574048
>I deleted the app. Never again.
So what else is there for us to try?

>>38571955
Gay Tinder is more for dating, but everyone I've ever seen on there has been:
>Faggot twink
>Faggot twink normie
>Blank profile
>So autistic they can't write a profile properly
>Highly uneducated (fine if you want to date store managers or whatever)
Not ideal for someone who wants a moderately attractive, bearish STEM student desu, but would probably work otherwise.

>>38574459
Where do I find these intelligent bear bfs
>I just want a husbear to cuddle with and offer my ass to

>>38574624
I dunno... I just kind of put effort into becoming one so now I can justify holding people to that standard...

>>38572976
Who in their right mind will pick someone who has AIDS? Or even be honest with it on their status?

>>38574714
I forget to eat and I don't eat enough to get thicc
How's it a standard? It's not like it's better or worse than other body types, I just prefer bear guys

>>38574624
Just live near me then

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>>38574715
>Who in their right mind will pick someone who has AIDS? Or even be honest with it on their status?
>He doesn't know about the poz/gift scene

>>38574822
Where would that happen to be uwu

>>38575013
You first boy, don't be shy.

>>38574794
You just need to force yourself to eat breakfast, lunch, and dinner and lift with protein supplements (+ not shave anything).
Maybe standard's the wrong word. I guess I thought that if I became a beefy, not-fat-but-packing-on-a-few-extra-pounds, hairy genius, it would prove to myself that such a person could exist and give me some hope for the future.

>>38571395
Set tribe to trans and filter your search to your tribe only

>>38575069
Yeah. There's a comic about that, forgot what it was called. Anyway, it's the gay twin effect or something like that. You be the guy you wanna fuck and fuck the guy you wanna be, something like that
>>38575065
Alright then, let's do this
North America :^)

Lads, the world is feeling bleak. Not sure if I should cling to my purity and keep looking for a loving bf or give it up and try a casual sex lifestyle to at least satisfy my sexual desires.
How do I choose the correct path and motivate myself to stay on it?

>>38575184
Alright, east coast here.

>>38575222
East Coast US as well
But here goes the sad part
>Florida, although I go up to New England often

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>>38575202
>Not sure if I should cling to my purity and keep looking for a loving bf or give it up and try a casual sex lifestyle to at least satisfy my sexual desires.
Gay and pure don't go together.
Once you start having sex with your equally pure bf you'd both get crazy lust and just end up doing casual, but together, fueling each other's perversion anyway.

>>38575239
I'm in FL too a little north of central, what part?

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Living in a small town, I ended up meeting every dudes from my neighborhood thanks to grindr.
We're four, me (25) and three bi guys age from 40 to 55, all married.
They're all tops and I'm exclusively bottoming so we agreed to have foursomes every weekend, there's not much anonymity now though since we live close by from each others but we act like strangers in public, but when we meet up I get fucked bareback ine dick after the other for hours it's crazy hot.
Just my personal experience OP, I became sexfriends with these people but we all agreed it was just friendly sex and nothing else, I don't think finding a bf would work.

>>38575280
Oo shit
Boca Raton d-during the school year, Miami normally

>>38575202
I used to be like you, with moral values regarding sex and love, but this world doesn't give a fuck about it and I got sick of getting frustrated over 24 years of existence.
Casual hookups are nice if you find nice people, makes life feel better for me, makes me forget all the bad stuff in my life.
Regardless, good luck anon.

>>38575390
Ah, a few hours away. Who knows, could work or couldn't.

>>38571719
Damn, I am Western Montana. Are you qt?

>>38575202
There is no shame in losing yourself in your sexual desires man.
your gonna feel dirty afterwards but in the end you atleast sillenced one of your demons for a bit right?

>>38575448
Who knows
This is absolutely original

>>38575542
You know, I wouldn't drive much down there myself due to school + work.

>>38575202
>>38575440
I've been feeling the same way lately. This whole past year I've been trying really seriously to find a bf but it's just not working out. Since about a month ago I've been more and more tempted to say fuck it and just hook up with a random guy. I want to suck dick, I want to get fucked, and I'm tired of all the waiting.

The only thing stopping me at this point is the fact that I'm a little chubby and insecure about my appearance, so I don't know if anyone would actually be attracted. I'm also kind of shy and unsure about where to look.

>>38575490
>Damn, I am Western Montana
I know there's people in WM, I've seen the Zmaps thingy.
But I am still living with my parents and I need someone nearby that can be my "friend" and with whom I can sneak out and hangout and stuff. Preferably a "normie" too.

tl;dr just want a semblance of a normal life and some actual companionship.. no hookups no long distance no weird stuff.

You have people near you on the map do you not? How are they like?

>>38575598
Gays usualy love chubby's actually
Dont feel shy or insecure, just take a good pic of yourself post it as your profile pic and just wait lol

>>38571395
there is almost no one zeemaps compared to grindr
you can even try tinder

>>38575577
And I've no care. Such is life. So close yet so far.
Back to Grindr we go

I didn't even reply to the main thread
I've had a good Grindr experience where I met up with a guy and actually dated him for a few months. Otherwise it's just a lot of messages, some very creepy, from older guys. I don't get much dick

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>Set your tribe to trans and filter your search to your tribe only
>Screenshot and post results

I wanna know what kind of traps everyone has in their area

>>38575598
Buy condoms and bring them with you, make sure they wear one during anal.
Otherwise don't worry, gay hookups have pretty low standards, you'll find people easily. Make sure they aren't ghetto trash nigs and it'll be alright.

>>38575737
Dani and K look gorgeous, luckyfucker.

>>38575705
>So close yet so far.
Damn straight, good luck with that bf hunt. I'm sure I saw you asking for a bf on /v/ before too.

>>38575872
Wasn't me, I don't browse it

>>38575737
>I wanna know what kind of traps everyone has in their area
How far away are those creatures from you anyway?

>>38575917
Oh then there's some cuteboi or someshit in your same area trying to find a bf, if you're into cutebois.

>>38575993
Hah in Florida?
I want the fuck out of this state

>>38575943
Dani is 13 miles, so everyone above her is within 13 miles

>>38576052
Yes in Florida in Boca Raton. FL ain't so bad, cheap state of living and all.

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>>38576059
>Dani is 13 miles, so everyone above her is within 13 miles
You lucky doggie.
Best of luck

>>38574715
faggots are mentally I'll, they want to spread that shit, this is why they should be electrocuted.

>>38571395
>used gay apps in the past
>you need to get really lucky to find someone worth a while
>guys even edit their pictures or use 5 year old ones to tricky you

You need to dig deep to actually find something worth your time

>>38572894
The original logo was a masquerade ball mask, not a skull, silly queen.

>>38574048
> I'm entitled to beauty, youth, and I judge people based on those aspects
Yeah, I'm pretty sure grindr is better off without the likes of you.

>>38574459
>Not ideal for someone who wants a moderately attractive, bearish STEM student desu,
Is this ironic?
Please tell me you all being ironically behaving like the sort of roastie that this board so much abhor: picky, vain, and judging other for their appearance

>>38575202
I was unhappy. After discovering my sexuality, my life improved 10 times fold.
Like a wise anon said before, casual sex can be nice. It doesn't have to be a sketchy encounter in a public bathroom like you're cruising in the 80's. So you can have an idea, my two greatest friends nowadays I've met from hook-ups on grindr. We had sex, dating didn't go further, but friendship did.
If you look for a bit, you can find nice guys that you can have a nice casual sex, and even if you don't end up married, the experience can be good, fun, especially when you and the guy are not solely interested in fucking, when you get to chat a bit before, or go for a cafe, or have a normal date before succumbing to sex.
Of course you will have bad experiences, the ones that will make you feel disgusted or regretful. You will have heartaches when you like the guy but he doesn't like you back. You will have moments of awkwardness when you have to ditch away a guy who you're not interested in. And you also will have moments of passion, of fun, of pleasure, maybe even of love. Moments that will make you feel happy for stepping out of your comfort box. And that's life. A bit of sad experiences here, a bit of happiness there. You can either open yourself to these new experiences, or stay shut and enclosed in your room where all you know is loneliness and boredom.
Get over this moralistic view of purity. This feeling is derived from Abrahamic religions that abhorred sex and also condemned your existence. You are much better off without them. There's nothing wrong in freeing your sexuality, as long as you do it responsibility. If you're not convinced, take a look at this board. Take a look at what sexual frustration has done to all these men.

>>38575379
Are you married too? Don't you want a boyfriend, or just the casual sex does it for you?

>>38575598
Grindr. That's all you need to do.

>>38574624
Im a bear getting my PhD. Reply if youre a qt and in new England

>Be me(male)
>Install Grindr because I really want to indulge my oral-cum fetish
>Too lazy to upload a pic so I just browse
>Get anonymous sex offers anyway
>Edit my profile to include my snowballing fetish
>Sadly, no one comments on it. Still get regular offers though.
>Take pic of myself in underwear
>I'm even more popular now
>Talked to one or two guys about snowballing but they were noncommittal
>Eventually, went back to (female) escorts since I prefer girls anyway

>>38576940
What the fuck is snowballing?

>>38577022
I think it's some sort of cum-swapping or disgusting shit like that.

>anon is such a degenerate fuck even AIDSridden gay dudes won't indulge him

>>38577022
Nice dubs bro

>>38577096
It is indeed cum-swapping. I'm a big fan of cum-in-mouth.

Anyway, I think the reason I didn't get many bites is that not everyone is gay in the same way. Personally I think buttholes are gross as shit, and I have zero interest in being anywhere near it.

>>38575598
Y-you still looking for a bf or anything?
What's your type?

How hard would it be to find some twink to tie up and tickle

>>38577438
>How hard would it be to find someone to tie up and tickle
Easy

>How hard would it be to find some twink
Do you match any of the conventional gay attractiveness stereotypes? e.g. you're a twink, bear, daddy, stud, etc.

>>38572569
Are there any qt passing traps on Grindr or no? Is monogamy a thing with traps.

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>>38577482
>Do you match any of the conventional gay attractiveness stereotypes? e.g. you're a twink, bear, daddy, stud, etc.

I don't know what any of that means, I'm straight and I have a beard and am okay looking. I'm just desperate and a gagged twink with a blindfold is close enough to a girl for me.

>>38577499
>Are there any qt passing traps on Grindr or no? Yes, but heavily depends on your area 100%
>Is monogamy a thing with traps.
It can be, but they tend to be insane/druggies/whores/suicidal etc etc.
basically "fembots" but crazier and more slutty

>>38577393
Yes, still looking.

I wouldn't say that I have a type necessarily, it depends more on the guy and how well we match up.

Super dom guys are my kryptonite, especially if they're caring and can hold a conversation outside of that
That's an unrealistic ideal and I don't want to seem like a roastie though

Someone mutually supportive that I can talk to and invest my emotions in and also slings some mean dick when we visit.

Semi-long distance doesn't bother me that much as long as we can still hang out and have cute little e-dates.

>>38571395
ALL HOMOS MUST FUCK OFF

>>38577670
Where you live babe

>>38577347
How are female escorts satisfy your cum swapping desire?
Wouldn't cum eating be enough? Most guys will agree to do that. You don't need to talk about it before, you just have to ask it in the moment: finish in my mouth.
Most guys will comply.

>>38577706
I'm in the northeast US.

It's pretty rural and there's never anyone nearby.

Closest is usually like, 500 miles.

>>38572976
>AIDS is a non lethal condition and has been for decades now
>Trivializing a condition that destroys your body's immune system
Gay people, ladies and gentlemen

>>38577791
It's not trivializing the disease itself, but prevent segregation and prejudice for those who have it. Did you know that more than a third of aids victims in usa got it from non sexual ways?

>>38577712
I cum in the girl's mouth and they swap with me.

One-way cum eating is alright but I like the idea of cumkissing and people eating their own cum.

>>38577521
Bears are usually hairy men who have either large muscles or are just physically big. Can kinda combine it. There are subsets like otters but you can look that up if you want.

If pic. related is you, then you're a twink or a twunk. Though I don't see any muscles so I'm going with twink.

>>38571395
I found a friend I cuddle with and kiss on Tinder. He will dump me as soon as he finds a real bf though.

>>38578003
>twunk

you're just making this shit up right

>>38575202
Im chatting up a QT on OKCupid, but he lives like 100 miles away. No one else seems worthy of dating though.

Grindr is alright, lots of potential for good and bad things to happen though.
Let guys contact you first, and take some time to get to know them, obviously.
Always be safe, etc.

The only time it DID work out for me was meeting up with a power bottom, which was nice.

But you're mostly going to run into weird fetish fat ass motherfuckers and creepy older guys.

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>>38578228
>Grindr is alright
>you're mostly going to run into weird fetish fat ass motherfuckers and creepy older guys

>>38578259
Okay, maybe I'm over generalizing because of my shit tier experience with it.
But still, there's no point in lying about that shit.

Easiest way to ignore that are age filters.

>>38577770
Fucking atlantic ocean.
It's always the fucking atlantic ocean.
>Back to /britfeel/

>>38575530
>>38576865
The thing is, though, I feel disgusting after just jacking one off to the thought. Just downloaded Grindr and set up a meetup tomorrow, wanked, came, and now I want to delete the app and cry.
Can the feeling of disgust (not based on morality, but because I'm an anxious autist with personal space and intimacy issues) really be outweighed by sex?

>>38578448
Yes. They fade quite quickly with time once you start doing it.
Before your first date, right before the guy comes in, you will be so nervous you will feel like running away screaming. You will be as nervous as you've ever been. But then you will relax and forget about it. It's just a matter of time.
The alternative os live in doubt and bitterness.

>>38578448
So don't jack off dummy.

Starting today you're on a masturbation ban, until next weekend when you meet a guy & sex him.

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>>38575390
>Boca Raton
I live in Boca. I go to FAU, do you to?

>>38578538
I've already been on a date and didn't feel like this, though. I've never felt this horrid.

>>38578538
This is a good way to put it.

Extra hard for anyone with hangups about this type of stuff in general.
The good thing about this is that, good or bad, it will kill your interest in hookups usually after you try it once or twice.

>>38578634
>I've already been on a date and didn't feel like this, though. I've never felt this horrid.
A non homo date you mean?

Well it's because you're prison gay and trying really hard to do unnatural acts out of lust, which are objectively gross af.

Stop and think

>>38578634
I suppose you're the exception then. Every one gets nervous on their firsts times, including first date

>>38578708
Pence, we've talked about this, you cannot treat gayness with electrocution in the usa, remember?

>>38575069
>Willfully overeating to become fat fuck

What a decadent society.

Tallahassee here.
Average dude, bottom

>>38578142
I don't make these shitty names. Twunk is a hunk who's a twink. Basically one of those super thin dudes who have muscles that you see in anime or some shit.

>>38578708
Nope, it was a homo date, and a blind date too.
>Guy was a cunt though, so I pulled out my autism to end it quickly

>>38578762
>You can gain muscle mass without eating a decent amount
>Being well below the healthy body fat % guidelines is better than being just below the middle of them
What?

>>38578910

Over 15 bodyfat as a male is shameful.

>>38578945
I'm at 13% bodyfat.
Also, lol. Chubby is comfy and a sign that you eat well. Skinny normally shows you're uptight and vapid, and feels like hugging a twig.

a few months ago was first and only time so far

>be miserable and drunk (around noon)
>decide to just bit the bullet and finally suck some cock
>go see a guy who i've been messaged by a few times
>around 40, slightly overweight, but i prefer that to skinny
>feeling like i'm going to throw up from nerves as he takes to up to his flat
>have a drink and make small talk
>takes my hand and leads me to couch, pushed me to knees
>gets his cock out, and i start to rub it
>feels really nice and makes my mouth water as it gets hard
>probably 5 inches, but real thick
>wrap mouth around, incredibly erotic feeling. doesn't taste like too much other than skin, but really warm
>struggle to get a rhythm down
>thinks he gets bored, so he stands up, puts hand on each side of my face, and starts drilling my mouth
>concentrate on breathing, try to suck and move my tongue around but not really sure what to do
>feels pretty degrading just letting a stranger use my mouth for his sexual release, still don;t know if i liked being that submissive or not
>cums after a few minutes of this, not much, think he may have masturbated just before i arrived so he'd last longer
>awkwardly left

would like to try again, but would like to know the guy a bit first. glad i got the first time out of the way after years of thinking about it though

>>38578770
My friend chastised me

I'm kinda handsome/cute, 20, college student,
I wanna post pic but THE NEW FUCKING RULE

>>38579246
Draw him, anon.
Draw him for us.

Talking to this think but I'm worried he's a catfish. Literally started speaking today and he's arranged for me to come over tomorrow.

Should I go? I would definitely fuck him if he's real but it still feels scary as fuck all of this shit

>>38579289
Draw who?

>>38579309
Why do you think he's a catfish?

Alt. ask to meet in a public place like a coffee shop first, then go bang him

>>38579378
We have arranged to meet in a kinda public place, it's like a park that always has people there but I will ask to meet in a cafe

It's just he uses the same pic to send face pics as his WhatsApp pic and he's arranged to meet up so quick.

>>38579450
Well then worst case scenario is that he isn't who he says he is and you walk away without acknowledging him

Best case scenario is you get your dick wet

>>38579450
>It's just he uses the same pic to send face pics as his WhatsApp pic and he's arranged to meet up so quick
The samepic is concerning, but not the speed.
Heck you can set up gay hangouts on the spot often

>>38579608
>>38579604
It's all Good, got more pics he's probably genuine.

Not as attractive as I thought after seeing more of him though. It being my first time I'm really worried I won't be able to get it up. I wanna fuck male ass though

>>38579246
>>38579330
Sorry, misread that because tired.
Draw yourself, anon. Draw yourself for us so we may see.

>>38579765
You got it, anon, give me a few

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>>38579715
>Not as attractive as I thought after seeing more of him though
>t being my first time I'm really worried I won't be able to get it up
>I wanna fuck male ass though
Wait.. you're aesthetically attracted to men?

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>>38579765
Here's drawn, I might post a pic, then delete it later...

Or post it to imgur x3

When it comes to getting hiv from a blow on, it's like less than 0.1%

It's a bit higher from anal, but you'll be wearing a condom anyway to keep shit off your dick

>>38579999
http://imgur.com/SytpbUe

Sweet I got quads
I took this pic yesterday for /b/ for a self esteem thread.
Anyways Im doing this for my friend that's worried about me, take me or leave me

>>38580112
>you'll be wearing a condom anyway
>to keep shit off your dick
Yea these 2 are the reason I won't ever go gay it's just gross

>>38580112
>When it comes to getting hiv from a blow on, it's like less than 0.1%
Getting or giving bj?
Getting has to be lower

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>>38577872
>prevent segregation and prejudice
>on 4chan

>>38580365
I think its pretty much impossible to get HIV receiving head, and giving head you need to have cuts in your mouth and be tremendously unlucky to get it in your bloodstream.
I am not a medical professional and I don't know if this is true.

>>38579999
>>38580133
The drawing and the image look nothing like each other.
What is this, anon?

>>38580509
I drew myself on the spot, felt that the drawing lied, so I thought if I uploaded the pic, I wouldn't look ugly

>>38571395
>Ples help I'm tired of all the hookup threads on here

Me too. You faggots should fuckoff somewhere else.

>>38571395
>just want a loving bf to cuddle with

Chose the wrong sexuality

Most faggots aren't into that cutesy shit. They just want to mindless fuck as many people as possible

>>38580648
You misspelled biscum

>>38580674
biscum are the ones who are most likely to do that cutesy shit because they do it with women.

Faggots are worse than biscum. Way worse. They have zero concept of monogamy.

>>38580717
>They have zero concept of monogamy.
lol biscum are way fucking worse. They will never be monogamous to a man or a woman.

>>38580717
Biscum trade men off for women all the time. Then they trade women for other women.
At least gays aren't those trans fags, those losers don't get anything. No sex, no cutesy shit, no validation.
But yeah, biscum are evil.

Is Zeemaps banned now or something?

>>38578590
ANON TELL ME YOURE STILL SEEING THIS IM LONELY IN THIS PLACE

>>38581939
I think he's gone.
Have you taken a look at Zeemaps though?
Is he on there?

>>38582636
Where the linky dinky

>>38582705
Here you go newie
https://www.zeemaps.com/map?group=2560398

>>38582832
He's not there
O Anon, I hope Ye read this and reply soon

>>38571395
What's the consensus on grindr, is it for degenerate fags or is it approved for robot use

>>38584448
>consensus on grindr
we couldn't come to a conclusion

Just happened,
>Met this dude on grindr.
>Seemed nice, attractive,
>We meet at park
>Fat Mexican dude, flaming as a bonfire
>End up pussying out and just talking about shit for two hours as if he was an anonymous therapist
2/10, would not meet again

>>38585601
How did he go from "nice attractive" to
>fat mexican dude
And who pussied out? he did?
Never go for newbies unless u're bored and want the thrill

>>38585720
His pictures were not accurate, and looking at them now, they were out of focus and such.
I REALLY didn't want to do shit with this guy, if I want to get pounded, Id just go to the other guys I already have

What site can I get a long term bf on? I want an adult who wants companionship, not just fucking

>>38585813
Amen

Djdjf

>>38585813
Please, I need an answer, I'm lonely and the other chans have failed me. I even got desperate and was looking into the NEET adoption threads. Help me robots, you are my only hope.

>>38585943
>Please, I need an answer,
We don't know this oursevels dipshit.
Read the thread there's lots of other dating sites mentioned, try those idk!

When would you guys do anything sexual when dating someone
I'm crazy paranoid about STDs but I don't want to lose people cause I'm being frigid

>>38586173
>When would you guys do anything sexual when dating someone
Are we talking about gay?
Then it's expected to go full sodomy on the first date.
A way to avoid this is have chill afternoon dates to take it slow

>I'm crazy paranoid about STDs but I don't want to lose people cause I'm being frigid
Yea thing is you will NEVER be certain your partner isn't a promiscuous fag so..

>>38586173
3rd date probably, with some chatting & flirting in between.

I'm paranoid about STDs too since I'm totally clean. I'd want to wait to get to know them a little. Enough that I can judge whether they'd be honest about it.