>tfw am not a father
there is no worst feeling ;__;
Fathers CANNOT be robots.
Fathers are above Chad.
>>38531735
oh no, you are asking for too much.
father >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> anything in your dictionary that have more sex then you.
Being a father is the ultimate red pill.
Having a reason to wake up every day and stay alive as much as you can.
>>38532189
What if you're a father not by choice?
>>38533153
What? I don't even care about sex, desu.
>>38533251
You put your big boy pants on and act like a father, you limp-wristed wimp.
>>38533240
>Having a reason to wake up every day and stay alive as much as you can.
this
>>38533298
you missed the point.
i meant
father>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> chad,stacy,pornstars, celebreties,whores,anything you can think that can have sex.
>>38531735
>tfw want to be a father and live a moral life but know I'll die a virgin
>>38533298
yeah just devote your time to your wife's son
>>38533529
Indeed. I'd rather be a father with beautiful healthy children than be a sterile millionaire.
No doubt about it.
>>38533586
millionaire or biIlionaire, doesn't matter
>>38533586
indeed.indeed. indeed.
>>38531735
I know this feel very well, when you see a father that truly loves his children, it just makes you feel something.Got teary eyed just from typing that out.
>tfw single father
>>38531735
>having to take care of ungrateful little shits
No thanks
>>38534236I get teary eyed daily when I think about the fact that I'm not a father.
>>38534283
how would you describe that feel?
Do you lads want a boy and/or a girl? In what order, how many and why?
>>38534745
I would like to have two girls and one boy. I would prefer the boy to be oldest, so that he can protect his little sisters and teach them well (like how to avoid Chad.)
>why
I want three children and it's important to have a trustworthy male in their lives in case something were to happen to me.
>>38534904
Same here except I'd like a girl first, then a boy, then a girl. I hope I'll get lucky. Why? Because big brothers don't protect their little sister like big sisters protect their little bro.
t. have big sister.
>>38534710
Its a pretty chill feel. Without sounding pretentious, it definately gives you a "reason to live" and whatnot. Also its cool knowing your kid is a continuation of your genetics. Like the new protag and its your job to kind of guide them and use your previous fuckups and life as a reference
Its also really frustrating at times, not gonna lie famalia. Especiallt if you're a single dad
>>38534978
>Its also really frustrating at times
Any examples?
>>38534745
I kinda like the idea of having two girls to care for.
IDK why the idea appeals so much to me, though.
>>38534975
I have a big sister too, but I always wondered what it would be like to have a brother because I would actually have a bro to play video games with and stuff. I have no friends.
For that reason I might wish to have 2 girls and 2 boys so that the boy does not feel left out. But having 4 kids sounds rather tiring and expensive.
>>38535020
Do you want them to be twins? I love the idea of having twin girls.
It is very possible that I will have twins as it runs in the family.
>>38535020
Because girls are cuter than boys and taking care of cute things is comfy.
>>38535056
No twins. Give the theoretical wife and me some breathing room before starting with no. 2.
>>38535009
Like its really hard to find time to play vidya and just chill sometimes. Little kids have a ridiculous amount of energy and will always want to either talk to you or play around (they ask questions like crazy) but luckily mine has other friends as well so she spends time with them
Also you cant NEET up at all when you have a kid. Like you gotta work. You start counting every dollar
Who here wants /kids but no wife/?
I don't like the idea of getting married only to divorce years later and cause stress upon my children. Also, the constant threat of custody battle terrifies me. I unironically am considering to become a single father even though it will be difficult.
>>38535041
>I always wondered what it would be like to have a brother because I would actually have a bro to play video games with and stuff. I have no friends.
Having a big sister stopped being comfy when I was around 10 years old and I've been fantasizing about having a twin brother since then. I've also been talking to myself out loud for years giving me the impression that my twin actually exists...I, too, have no friends. ;__;
>>38535189
I want to answer questions...
>>38534283
What's going on here?
orig
I'm a father but I never saw her except for photos since her mother doesn't want anything to do with me.
Been two years since she was born.
Pic is her.
>>38535564
Adorable but you shouldn't post her pics on 4chan desu.
>her mother doesn't want anything to do with me
Why? and how does it feel to be separated from your daughter?
>>38532200
the best post ITT
>>38535622
>that pic
IIlllIIIll
>>38535564
Delete this man. Do you not realize the amount of pedos in this website? Hurry!
I was always pretty adamant that I wouldn't want children.
It changed pretty fast, and I was unprepared for these feels.
>>38531735
I wouldn't really know how to be a dad anyway since I never had one
>>38535564
This makes me sad, your daughter will likely grow up to be a vapid whore thanks to her mother.
>>38535641
That pic is correct and unironically one of the most important images ever posted on this site
its missing a fuckton of context tho but the links are provided
>>38535799
yeah, it hit me more and more as time went by, then I got a job that has families come in and that pretty much made me want kids with certainty. I really hope I get the chance one day, I want to spoil and protect my little girl and teach man shit to my boy to avoid being like me
>>38535885
THANK YOU FOR THE IMAGE!
I WILL MAKE SURE TO PASS IT ON TO OTHERS!
>>38535815
IIIlllII
>>38535799
fuck that gif so bad omg
>>38535799
This. For my whole life I wanted nothing to do with children until recently. I don't know what caused this sudden change. I want kids asap. I'm only 19.
>>38536132
i mean webm lol
>>38533605
Give me the money any day, thanks.
>>38536232
realIy? why?
>>38536248
Unfortunately, I am I man with no passions. Due to this, any job I have ever worked has felt, to me, like modern day slavery. I've always wanted a partner, perhaps even a child someday, but if an entity were to come up to me and offer me a deal where I would not have a lover or children for the rest of my days, but I could be a obscenely wealthy man, I would take it. Such is my distaste for work that I will never enjoy.
>>38536328
What would you do with that wealth?
>>38536460
Invest it, give it away. I don't need much.
>>38533251
are you black?
>captach: nutwood hope
you're a selfish bastard, to think you would inflict the misfortune of having you as a father to an innocent child
>>38536584
sometimes having a responsibility like a child is the push you need to get your shit together
>>38536752
this desu
origodesu
>>38536559
No, not black. Single dad though.
>>38531735
>tfw antinatalist
life is mostly suffering. only happy people should have children.
>>38537298
>antinatalist
drink acid desu
>>38537355
why? I'm not harming you at all. I just don't like children and don't particularly enjoy living. If you do, then have some. your aggressive anger toward me is irrational.
>>38537410
>why? I'm not harming you at all
Do you support abortion (infanticide)?
>>38537439
if you believe abortion is immoral, then don't have an abortion. infanticide refers to killing a baby. an embryo is not a baby. a fetus prior to viability is not a baby. using an incorrect word for something just sounds dumb.
anyway, in general, I believe abortion is unfortunate and I wish that people used more effective contraception methods if they didn't want to have a kid. I don't believe it is any worse than having a miscarriage, but that's not exactly a good thing-- they tend to be pretty emotionally traumatic and horrible. it's still not infanticide, though.
>>38531735
>TFW I fucked multiple qts last summer a year ago in Czech republic and in Poland and in Croatia.
Never really used a condom and always came inside. They only knew my first name and never gave them any info where I was from specifically or what I did.
My friends already make jokes by giving me happy Father's day cards on my birthday. I don't know for sure though.
>>38537439
>>38537545
regardless, I'm assuming you are not a fetus posting on r9k from within someone's uterus right now, so presumably even if I did support abortion that wouldn't be harming you....
>>38537545
Abortion is essentially infanticide, i.e. killing your offspring because it inconveniences you.
>>38537570
>even if I did support abortion that wouldn't be harming you.
It doesn't matter if you're harming me or not, if you support mothers murdering their offspring, you deserve to drink acid.
>>38537596
is a miscarriage the death of your offspring? what about when a fertilized egg fails to implant properly in the uterine wall -- is that the death of your offspring? how about a 'vanished twin' -- is that the death of your offspring?
offspring means a child. a zygote is not a child. a blastocyst is not a child. an embryo is not a child. an underdeveloped fetus is not a child. an infant is a child. a late-term fetus could be plausibly considered a child if it was developed enough to survive outside the uterus. prior to that stage, no.
>>38537643
The world doesn't need more worthless robots.
there absolutely nothing morally or ethically wrong with killing children under the age of 2
>>38537643
if you support foreign wars and imprisoning people for victimless crimes then you deserve to drink acid, on that logic. sanctimonious nonsense -- the death of an actual independent human being is far worse than the death or reabsorption of a clump of cells.
>>38537705
>if you support foreign wars and imprisoning people for victimless crimes then you deserve to drink acid
correct
>>38537662
You are missing the point or at least pretending to.
I want to be a father, but I may also find the courage to kill myself, so maybe I shouldn't.
>>38537569
How do you get women to do that?
Sounds like a one way ticket to multiple STDs.
>>38537705
>the death of an actual independent human being is far worse than the death or reabsorption of a clump of cells
I never argued about "what's worse".
>>38537742
Never had any STD's and consider myself very lucky.
How I managed to do it was just to say I can't cum with a condom on which is true. They never seemed bothered by it at all. They were understandable. Usually said it when we were 10 minutes in and she was already wet. Imo Central and Eastern European girls are cleaner than Western European girls where I'm from.
How would you react if you found out you're sterile?
>>38537820
Horrible, I really want to have 3 kids later on when I have a job and finished my degree. My girlfriend as well.
>>38535799
>that gif
fuck
my only real dream in life is to come home every day to my loving wife and our kids.