who virgin but dgaf here? How did you become enlightened?

I feel like this pressure is given by the society. Masturbating is basically the same thing but easier and faster

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I'm a gay virgin who could easily get laid, but pic related makes me feel indifferent towards the idea of sex, and when people touch me I wanna die

>>38492563
By being immune to peer pressure and lowering my social interactions by isolating myself for more than 5 years, Soon I'll be a 23-year neet that doesn't know how to drive, doest drink has never done drugs and doesn't even smoke, and I couldn't give a shit. At some point, I think I did lose it thought,

>>38492563
You embrace it anon!

You hone in on what it is you really desire, often times robots long for sex because a more primary desire (a desire that if addressed would probably inadvertently lead to sex)

But if that's too faggy for you, you can become enlightened by embracing it in a way that degrades others for not being virgins. I'm not saying go full fascist and calling out degeneracy, but treat /r9k/ likes it's the cool kid's table and you are the only one with access in your immediate vicinity. One way i did this was at work (burger king) where i went full aspie and called my co-worker a slut for losing her virginity at the age of 18. yeah I got fired but it was worth the look she gave me, that look of "you're just a virgin, what makes you think i care about how you (a boy) makes me feel"

>>38492563
23 virgin here, dont give a shit. only interested in working and acquiring currency so I can retire as early as possible.

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>>38492563
Quite a few years ago. It was a gradual thing. First, it was despair. Then, from despair came hate. Hate became misogyny. From mysogyny, came contemplation. And after contemplating everything, that is myself, women, sex and love, I just stopped caring because I realized it wasn't even that important, at least not for me. Sure, sometimes I wonder how it must feel but most of the time I simply don't care. I'm more worried about the possibility of never finding true love, or any kind of love, really. But even then, it's not a thought that crosses my mind often.

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>>38492563
I still get a sense of longing at times but I'm starting to care less and less as time goes on, it's getting better by the month. The periods of longing get shorter and less intense because deep down, I am pretty sure I already gave up. I feel like I knew this for a while, but I was living in denial that it wasn't my time yet. It's not even hatred for women that is driving me away, I don't hate women, but you have to recognise the game for what it is, and when you've been a virgin your whole life leading into your 20s, you understand that maybe this game wasn't meant for you. I do not have trouble talking to girls and I get compliments about my personality often, but I can't even care enough to let the fact that I got complimented by a cute girl make me happy anymore, I basically feel indifferent, which is surprising because I've always been longing for compliments by girls. This post might come across as self-pitying, but I'm confused about what I want more than anything. Maybe I never really even wanted a gf and sex. Maybe it's something else, I don't know. Hopefully things get easier from here on out, I feel like they are. I just need to stick to my hobbies and hopefully I make something of myself if everything goes smoothly for the next couple of years. It's time to worry about other things more than the need to get a gf and lose my virginity, because I can't do anything about the fact that girls don't like me even after a vast amount of self improvement, but what I can do is focus on the things that I can change. Worrying about girls not liking me still happens to me, but I'm starting to recognise that it's a waste of time, especially when you're a KHV who is down on their luck with getting girls.

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Bump for more responses. I like to read them.

itt: coping mechanisms

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I just try to appreciate what I have now. A gf would be nice, but I cant complain.

>>38492563
Of course the fucking anime poster is a virgin

>>38492563
It gets worse each year. I can't imagine being 25+ and virgin, I'd kill myself if it came to that. I had sex with an escort once but I lasted like 2 min and wanted to forget every moment so at least in my mind I'm still a virgin.

I've always wished my first time to be with someone special but I guess nothing ever goes right for me.

>>38492563
Huffed some of my own redpills and realized I should be saving myself for a good long term partner.
Sex isn't important until then.

>>38492563
Me, had a gf, but left her to go on my way to become a wizard. I am what you can call a MGTOW.

Why would I care about putting my benor in a concave pebis when there are all these clouds to watch, and animals to listen to, and scents and tastes to experience?

Why do people get so bogged down in relativity bullshit when we're living in and are what is essentially a giant self-painting self-sculpting self-writing and self-realizing spiral? Why does it matter that I do anything at all if I have the chance to know I'm real and be happy about that?

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>>38492603
This is what virgins actually believe

>Originally

^a truly enlightened person

I don't care about sex, but I'm desperate for physical contact. Just holding hands, cuddling, sleeping in the same bed as someone.

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>>38494469
That sorta comes with secks

>>38492563
I don't give a fuck about being a virgin, but I'm lonely as fuck. That's mainly the reason I'd want a girlfriend, so I could have someone to call a best friend again.

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The one problem I have with my life is that I can't get a better job, I don't care about women because I'm actually insane and unironically fantasize about my waifu in bed.
I'd almost pay to see how incels crack when their idea of a relationship comes crashing down.

>>38494469
I'm a physical contact virgin but even I know that sex is the logical culmination of those things.

Those things are tastes of knowing another you. Sex beyond its practical function is when 'you' and 'them' dissapear, and you know, truly know because it's right there in front of you, that you are part of a connection, and one connection is as good as a trillion if you're aware of it as it's happening.

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I don't care about being a virgin. it hasn't bothered me since I realised I could find happiness in other things like anime, hobbies etc

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>>38494588
Damn that's bretty bad

>Pic related

>>38494539
>>38494594
I would date an asexual and literally never have sex just to sleep in the same bed as someone else.

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>>38494603
Ignorance is bliss I guess

Losing your virginity is important and something everyone should do

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>>38494611
>tfw somebody reposts your shit
>>38494632
see above >>38494611

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>>38494623
You're only saying that because you haven't experienced secks

After that first fuck it's pretty much all you can think about

>>38494632
originally why norman

people are desperate enough to hire prostitutes just to stop being virgins
the only thing worse than being a virgin is thinking that having sex with a prostitute would make you less, and not more pathetic
im skeptical, but maybe it can help someone to get past their crippling, delusional, insecurity

>>38494653
I've had my dick sucked and it was whatever, I would rather just jerk off. But cuddling is irreplaceable

I honestly think it's because I have low t. It's for the best I suppose, it's not like I could get pussy anyway.

>>38492563
I dont care about being a virgin. Other people do view/treat you differently if you tell them you are tough. They wonder why and that something must be seriously wrong with you.

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>>38494655
It's like asking me why should i try masterbating

It's a joy life has to offer

>>38492563
When I realized 3DPD is shit and men are manipulated by women as a sociological phenomenon rooted in evopsychology.

>>38494632
>>38494653
>>38494701
It's just jacking off when you don't give a fuck about the person.

>>38494701
So why is it any more important than the countless other joys? Without its links to social and mental health and its role in procreation why should I try and have sex with a man or woman instead of watching a sunset, or eating a perfectly ripe banana, or trying to learn how to draw rocks better?

>>38494684
With me they just look at my face and assume I'm a virgin

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>>38494716
I dont get this meme

I understand if it's a prostitute but if it's a friend or someone in your mutual friend group it's pretty good desu senpai

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>>38494728
That's just it why not experience it all?

>>38494751
>female friend
And didn't even refute what I said, useless post.

I don't give a fuck but I acknowledge sex is something nice and eventually I'd like to do it.

Literally have never gotten the whole "gotta fuck girls or my life isnt whole" meme even when i was younger. I dont understand the obsession with it, desu.

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>>38492563
>>>38494632
>>>38494653
>>>38494701
>It's just jacking off when you don't give a fuck about the person.

Did you see what you posted?

You can "give a fuck" about a friend buddy

>>38494767
Same reason I won't live to see thirty, there are things fundamentally wrong with lots of people.

>>38492563
This is a really cute loli you posted, anon. I like her a lot

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>>38494806
>tip harder faggot
challenge accepted

>>38492563
I didn't make it happen. It just did. It'll either happen to you, or it won't.

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>>38492563
I got diddled as a kid and it has made me feel uncomfortable, insecure and inadequate when it comes to sex and relationships.
I don't want to have sex, but it's not really my choice.

>>38492563

me
Idk desu
For some reason I dont feel any shame in telling ppl im virgin