When the first MGTOW arose, they rose from the crowd of Chads, not butthurt robots angry incels, who just came to the conclusion, that while they could get it any time from any wkman, pussy is not worth the hassle and following your mission should be your priority. However they knew one thing very well: Being in shape, taking care of your body and your mind, still was the most important thing of them all.
The mere nature of a man going his own way is an instant pussy humidifier. He is taking care of himself, he is confident, he is following his own rules and he's got goals in life and is assertive in reaching them. Probably the exact opposite of what many of the "2nd wave MGTOW" are.