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What are some red flag signs in women when it comes to dating?

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What are some red flag signs in women when it comes to dating?
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There is only one red flag

>she isn't dtf
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Heavy flirting but has a bf
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>has not read a book since high school
>proud slut
>dresses in slutty clothing
>religious
>strongly political
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Roast beef curtains, also called roasties
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>>38402352
>implying i date
top jej lad
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>>38402394
>>38402422
These.
Also
>heavy drinker
>mostly guy friends
>over use of social media
>left another guy for you
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hair that's dyed a color that's not natural. the crazy colors are a warning sign themselves, just like poison dart frogs from the rainforest
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>being a girl (male)
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>>38402352
More than one living family member
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>is not JQ-aware
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Any of the following OP take your pick:

>dresses like slut
>talks like slut
>roastie
>heavily flirtatious
>abused by dad
>abused by mom
>childhood tragedies
>extremely moody or bitchy
>extreme mental problems
>really dumb and can't see people's intentions
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If she's actually dating me she's probably got issues.
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>>38402352
probably i'd say

>she talks about exes
>she talks about the number of guys she's done
>she talks about the man she wants

this is of course, realistically, revealed during our date.

if she tries to force any of her views onto me, that's also a red flag
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>>38402352
boy oh boy anon. Took me forever to find this image again.
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Never stick your dick in crazy OP. Best advice anons are gonna give ya.
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>>38402697
Challenge: You have to have 10 of these traits in your next gf. Which ones do you pick?
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>>38402718
3.
5.
8.
9.
I can't pick a fourth. Rough list.
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>>38402697
The only women left are the ones with penises, maybe not even them.
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>>38402697
I have none of these traits except playing music and video games. What's the issue with that? Oh, and I do have more male friends than female ones, but that's because my only friend is a gay guy.
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>>38402799
Welcome enlightened one. May you find peace in the knowledge you've found.
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>>38402818
gniylpmi<
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>Has a lot of guy friends
>Bad relationship with father
>Says that girls are too much drama
>Posts naked pics on Instagram
>Cuts self
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>>38402818
I think they're implying there's something inherently degenerate or unfeminine about such a brain. I think lot of guys would love to have a girlfriend that also feels like a good friend you can relax with, so I wouldn't get too worried about it.

Many men would also assume your gay friend is secretly attracted to you, though the usual problem the list is implying is that women that love surrounding themselves with male attention are unlikely to be faithful partners.
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>>38402697
This pic is pretty much right. Names most of the red flags, at least the most common in women nowadays. I'd add girls who own/love male dogs, by the way.

>Girls who care about their friends more than a relationship
I met a girl on tinder, got her number and started chatting on whatsapp. We seemed to really be into each other. But when the moment to hang out came she was busy buying clothes because she had a birthday party or some shit and hang outs with her friends (female friends, not sure if males too). Basically told her to go fuck herself, then apologized but didn't invite her to go out again. We never talked again.
After that I started seeing her jewbook activity and turned out to be a huge toxic feminist cunt.
D R O P P E D
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>>38402697
Or just look at this it pretty much sums things up.
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>>38402711
You can stick your dick in crazy, just never let your guard down. The problem is that men will naturally get complacent when things are going their way.

That's why you get guys who actually love fucking with crazy, because they know how to deal with it. I'm telling you man, within reason, crazy chicks won't hurt anybody but themselves as long as you play it right.

Unless you're talking about bathshit crazy bitches that will try to cut themselves or you if you leave them or some shit like that. Then yeah, definitely avoid bitches like that.
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>>38402957
You're right but crazy does as crazy sees. They can still cheat, no matter how much you might contain crazy.
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>>38402352
>keeps it from you that she has a child
>keeps it from you that she's married
>says she's pregnant with your baby 1 week after breaking up with her because you found out about the above
>turns out not to be your baby- paternity test confirms

t. happened to me
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>>38403030
wouch dude. Sucks. Crazy I tell ya.
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>>38402697
Lol flip this around and it works from faggots too.
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>>38402422
Strong list man
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>>38402593
Why are childhood tragedies and abuse red flags? It's not like they wanted those things to happen. In addition, almost everyone will get something like that in their lifetime.,dead parent, disease, etc
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>>38402916
My gay friend is -gay-. Very gay.
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>>38403168
Since you're the one to ask this question it also means you've no experience. Of course they didn't want it to happen but if they've been abused, have daddy issues, been hit, shit like that can only bring sour events about. For those who've been sexually abused they have grown kinks most likely. Strong uncontrollable mindless kinks. Those who have abandonment issues never learned nurturing properly and most likely never fully grasp the idea of a bond, they're more likely to cheat.
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>>38403260
Would you want someone to treat you the same way?
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>>38403071
Kek yeah it was a roller-coaster bro. She said she was 120% sure it was my baby, got divorced and moved in with me. I did the paternity test a week after the kid was born and the results came back negative a week later... So i had shrodinger's child for 2 weeks
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>>38402697
>guitar
>male exclusive instrument
What the fuck am I reading?
I mean if you're trying to imply a girl into punk or metal music is bad then whatever, but generalizing this as guitars is stupid
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girls that shave off one side of their head. like that one pornstar that got beat up by the UFC guy.
damn she was hot though.
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>>38402422

>religious

Wait isn't that a good thing unless she's superficially doing it to make up for slutty past behavior?
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>>38402352
Online dating.
Stay away.
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She's white. That's a big red flag, white women are sluts and nasty. Better to get a black girl.
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>>38403410
A lot of atheist anons just dislike anything associating with religion
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>>38403410
>Wait isn't that a good thing unless she's superficially doing it to make up for slutty past behavior?
I'm not religious and I don't want a religious girl. They tend to be intolerant and whiny and annoying.
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>>38402352
>is willing to date you
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>>38403297
if i am such then yeah, it's the way the world goes bud
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>>38403307
fuckin shrodinger gotta go diddle everyone don't he
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>>38403498
kekd at pic
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>>38402352

Oh look its this original thread again.
Let me just say, there is no such thing as a definite red flag. There are exceptions in every category.
Hair dye doesnt automatically mean liberal sjw, tattoos doesn't gaurentee daddy issues and virgin shutin doesnt gaurentee innocence. The sooner you can accept that all people have flaws and mental issues(including*gasp*you), the sooner you will have a chance at actually getting a gf.
Stop assuming you know whats inside people, it's hypocrisy.
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>>38403240
That's neat. Why don't you have any female friends?
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Go back to askreddit and come back when you have an idea for a new thread
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>>38403498
Is Ketan /ourguy/?
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>>38403592
T. used goods
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>>38403596
Because I don't like nastiness or faking interest in people I don't like. Girl groups are awful entities- nothing hurts more than the manipulative games girls play with each other, not breakups, not male meanness, nothing.
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>>38403410

No. They're usually pretentious and want you only as a cum dispenser, to show their parents, to feel normal in their community etc. not to mention they take breakups very badly and almost always far from conversation material, as they lived most of their life in closed-minded communities and never have been exposed to anything else or immediately rejected anything else because they were told to. I speak from experience as I was hardcore religious up until 3 years ago and I find non-religious girls 200x better although they have their own downsides.
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Why is being bisexual a red flag? Don't men prefer it?
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>>38404121
i've had break ups that hurt more than ur little girly gayms
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>>38404149
>i've had break ups that hurt more than ur little girly gayms
Until you've been on the recieving end of it, you can't know. And I've had some awful breakups.
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>>38403592
>Hair dye doesnt automatically mean liberal sjw
It tends to be a good indicator. At least they are easier to manipulate into getting abortions kek
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>>38404177
oh boohoo stacie made fun of your looks or your situation. If you're a loser fag you care what other people think. Break ups are real and suck. They involve feels. Especially when its more than 6 months and sexual feelings were involved. It even feels worse when things ended terribly.
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>>38402352
>has a vagina
>has titties
>hand skin is too soft
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>>38404183
girls dye their hair so guys stay away from them? makes sense
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>>38402697
I wish I had a bisexual weeb gf just so we could talk about which girls we think are best each season.
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>>38404273
I doubt they are smart enough to think that far ahead mein fraulein. http://www.returnofkings.com/64661/5-reasons-why-you-should-never-date-a-girl-with-dyed-hair
http://www.teenvogue.com/story/psychology-behind-dyeing-hair
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>>38404223
It's not bullying, it's losing your friends slowly without you knowing it, having them turn on you. Ending up with no one, and a group of people who know every weakpoint you have and who hate you for no apparent reason.
Breakups suck, sure. But they're not as soul crushing as losing your friends and never knowing why.
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>>38402352
>dating

red flag you fool
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>>38403592
>including*gasp*you

This kind of redditry shouldn't be allowed here. What a tremendous faggot you are (and that's if you're not a roast).
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>>38402932
so having a male dog is.. bad? immoral?
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>>38403897
yes defending hair dye means that poster is a REEE USED GOODS ROASTIE!!!! MOMMY MAKE ME SOME TENDIES!!11!!
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>>38402697
My ex had many of these, #22 was by far the worst; the worst part is you won't find out about things like that until you're too far in
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>>38402422
religious is a good thing mate more likely to be pure
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>>38404995
>religious is a good thing mate more likely to be pure
I'm not a purefag. I like the middle ground between slut and virgin.
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>>38402697
>have no male friends is just as bad as having too many
Make up your mind, nigger.
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>>38402697
Wait what's up with #8?
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Ultimate red flag is if she cheats on/leaves another guy for you. If she cheats with you she will no doubt cheat on you. Also it isn't fair to the other guy. Stay far away from sluts like that.
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>>38403410

Most religious women are bogged down by their beliefs and want someone to fit their fantasy. They also tend to be social butterflies within their religious group; which tend to have a few zealots or two. It's a no-go situation.
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>>38402352
>tattoos
>facial piercings
>has ever cheated
>dyed hair
The obv really
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>>38405693
tattoos can be a good sign if they are in good taste (aka are simply aesthetic / not corny)
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>>38402697
Who the fuck will even survive this utterly ridiculous list? Nobody I have ever met, male or female, has less than 10 of these traits. Specifically if I turn around the hobby shit into males who are into "traditionally feminine things" like being fashionable or playing the fucking flute or harp. This shit is hilarious.
Might as well just say that 2D > 3DPD.
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>>38405747
Except the are literally never in good taste you fucking nigger. In my entire fucking life I have not once seen a tatoo with even remotely decent aesthetic taste. They are always bad, always.
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>>38405791
Its because you either hang around with niggers and minorities, or you live in a neighborhood where the median income is less than 40k a year. Find a doctor or a stem professor with facial piercings
>Inb4 the one weirdo exception
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>>38402697
8-9-12 are true for me. There goes the dream of a bf.
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>>38405802
I mean, I'm sorry for your loss. Sounds like you grew up in a white trash landfill.
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>>38405802
even a stupid tattoos can look look good if spaced well, tattoos can just be symbols of moments past and a carefree attitude. Also you're a dumbass with naive opinions
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>>38405833
that list is stupid anon, you're stupid for defending it
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>>38405833
Yeah, uhm, I assure you that I do not hang around either niggers or minorities. In fact I don't think there was anything except white people around me growing up, it's the nature of my country's demographic. To be rather blunt with you, most of the people I can think of that pursued phDs and all of the stem professors I can think of right now have over 10 of those things to some degree, and even more. Most of them have really jarring personality flaws and tend to be some form of of aware that they may be kinda bisexual. Men specifically have the worst cases of abandonment issues.
Like, seriously, men who can't even muster the strength to ask out or talk to a girl they are interested in are literally afraid due to abandonment issues/rejection issues.
This list leaves absolutely no one.
No one.
Specifically if you flip this shit around like men who treat waiters very poorly or who have more female friends than male friends. I mean, how can you expect certain males to even have more male than female friends in areas like veterinary and so on?
It's fucking retarded and you shouldn't base your options off of this dumb list unless you are too fucking retarded to use your own damn noggin'.
I assure you that life/doing mistakes isn't quite as scary as you think it is. Sometimes you have to take risks if you want to bank on good profit. But hey, you do you.
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>>38405598
A great faggot once said

It is only the man whose intellect is clouded by his sexual instinct that could give that stunted, narrow-shouldered, broad-hipped, and short-legged race the name of the fair sex; for the entire beauty of the sex is based on this instinct. One would be more justified in calling them the unaesthetic sex than the beautiful. Neither for music, nor for poetry, nor for fine art have they any real or true sense and susceptibility, and it is mere mockery on their part, in their desire to please, if they affect any such thing. This makes them incapable of taking a purely objective interest in anything, and the reason for it is, I fancy, as follows: A man strives to get direct mastery over things either by understanding them or by compulsion. But a woman is always and everywhere driven to indirect mastery, namely through a man; all her direct mastery being limited to him alone.
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>>38402352
Dyed hair,septum piercings,fat, tattoos and cuts herself.
Don't go near a bitch like this.
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>>38404346

>>Talks about being smart
>>Posts links to articles written by a Fiction Book Editor and Teen Vogue

These are still just individual opinions.
There is no science behind them.
As for "muh poison arrow frog"guy, What about parrots and fruit?
Your ancestors were probably the ones afraid of tomatos.
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>>38402352
Fart jokes
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>>38406424
How is spirit tracks? the stylus gameplay turns me off but it's supposed to be very good
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>>38406554
It's around Minish Cap levels with a fun customizable train if you get over the stylus, which isn't too bad because you don't have strict time limits like you had in Phantom Hourglass.

What's really going to piss you off though, is the mic. Those pipes are really fucking specific..
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Red flags:
- Disorganized/messy
- Insecure and craves constant validation as a result
- Biological parents are divorced
- Older than 20 and doesn't have a driver's license
- Older than 20 and has never had a job


Instant dealbreakers:
- Dishonest
- Immature
- History of cheating
- No sense of humor
- Materialistic
- Doesn't like animals or nature
- Poor hygiene
- Self-harm scars
- Short and/or unnaturally colored hair
- Feminist/SJW
- Strong left-leaning politically
- Has ever been pregnant
- Smoking
- Drugs
- Tattoos
- Pierced anywhere other than earlobes
- Works as a bartender, cosmetologist or hair stylist
- Is described as "a bit of a handful" by herself or those close to her
- Womanlet (shorter than 165 cm)
- Inability to convey messages concisely under pressure without getting hysterical or defaulting to crying
- Makes all life decisions based entirely on in-the-moment feelings
- Looks to start an argument at any given chance
- Poor grammar
- Bipolar, princess syndrome and similar mental disorders
- Non-white
- More than 10 kg overweight
- Older than 20 with a sexual partner count higher than 5
- No interests outside of social media, partying every weekend and cosmetics like fake nails, eyebrows, hair extensions and heavy makeup
- Religious/batshit insane to the point of refusing to abort in case of accidental pregnancy, when life situation does not permit having a child
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>>38402365
>tryhard kissless virgin detected
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