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Psychological Issues #95

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1. Use a name in the namefield; regulars are invited to use trips.

2. Share your problems, ask questions.

3. Be listened to and cared for.

4. Post frogs.

5. All topics are welcome. This thread is also a support group so you're not alone or lonely.
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Hello again Nick, missed the thread yesterday somehow.
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>>38365316
Whoops, put in the wrong tripcode. Hopefully I didn't set off any alarm. IT IS ME!
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>>38365316

No prob. You and I talked more in one thread than most other regs in 10.

There were things I had to come back to but I don't recall what now. I need to get to the archives.

>>38365329

Too late, the mods are on their way.
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>>38365354
>Talked more in one thread
Indeed, I think most other people don't show up until later in the day, so I am a weird outlier that gets to talk for hours.

Hopefully you can think of them. I always seem to have the pattern of starting these, then respond slower and slower until I am hours behind, only catching up when you leave.

I knew it. Hopefully I can get some trips or something to throw them off.
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>>38365329

Found it:

>It is healthy Nick. It is freedom. Freedom to insult me. I never said to stop that. People stop insulting me, the world becomes a retarded hugbox. All I ask is for the same in return, the freedom to do my whims like your whims. Your whim is to call me a name, my whim is to be a bee. We disagree, but I feel you have a right, society confines me from having a right by giving me consequences. You don't get consequences for calling me a name, I get consequences for being a bee guy. That is the difference. That is why I am society's cuck.

>I ask for no boundaries to be put up. Boundaries, walls, do not solve problems. They only create because the individual has to bottle up issues. If everyone was free to do whatever, as long as it did not directly hurt another, we would live in a society with a lot less problems. But I am the bad guy for being immature. Not society for just saying a bee guy is not going to shoot up a school, inferring the difference, and moving on.

Boundaries, healthy ones, are required. It doesn't mean censorship, it doesn't mean a hugbox. I suspect you don't know what healthy boundaries are, for you and others, and this causes you so much confusion.
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>>38365394
>Indeed, I think most other people don't show up until later in the day, so I am a weird outlier that gets to talk for hours.

Some people are here earlier, which is just later in the night for them. I'm on holidays for a while so that's why I get to be here so long.

Maybe we can try to keep things tighter between us no homo.
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I wonder if they make videos that show functional families to people who never experienced them. If anybody knows anything about that...
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>>38365416
"Healthy boundaries" don't make sense to me. They are limitations, they are breaking in fully being able to express oneself. An individual should seek to have as few limits as possible, for limits are something they cannot bear, which in turn is a weakness they need to snuff out.

Boundaries are not something to put up, all that will do is make it harder to communicate. The more we fear offending one another, fear saying something that will hurt another, the more we will end up losing our ability to even express ourselves accurately.

It is to me the ultimate form of censorship, one that starts with a word and ends up destroying ideas to the point that you, mentally, lose the ability to even express ideas. You lose the ability to know what to respond with because the response you have will not be accepted.

Think of it this way. You have a female friend. She is fine about most things, but doesn't feel comfortable with you talking about sex or her body. You will almost be drawn to the taboo as it is a topic you are prevented from doing, then shut down out of respect, resulting in a cycle which in turn results in the inability to even communicate with the friend.
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>>38365231
https://pastebin.com/DxCQxgmp

References and archives up to thread 87.
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>>38365427
Indeed, it helps that you get a vacation. I am naturally on this early, so it works out well in my favor to be able to get you for a good portion of the thread.

>>38365449
Wouldn't that be most families on TV? The best analogy to what I assume you mean is a functional family is the Mormon family from South Park. You know of course my belief that it is fiction, but if we are going the opposite of Malcolm and the Middle, that is what I got.
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>>38365480
>"Healthy boundaries" don't make sense to me. They are limitations,

When capturing wild animals, typically young ones, a blanket is thrown over them. They are then held tightly. This makes them feel safe, like a fetus. When babies are born, and later, they flail around, legs and arms: they are looking for limits. This makes them feel safe, this is partly why you hold babies.

Imagine if I blindfolded you in your kitchen, then moved you to another place of your house. Then left you alone and told you the purpose of the game was to get out.

The first thing you'd do is to find a limit, like a wall, or a door, anything. Imagine if, as you walk towards what you think is a wall, you find nothing. You find that you can keep walking and walking, and no limit ever shows up. How would you feel? Safe? Limited? No, you'd panic and feel lost. "My house isn't this huge! Where am I?"

Limits are necessary for anything to exist. If your favourite cheese had no limits, the entire universe would be your favourite cheese. Shapes need limits, anything needs limits to exist. Limits aren't a bad thing.
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>>38365549
>Limits are necessary for anything to exist. If your favourite cheese had no limits, the entire universe would be your favourite cheese.
The things said in this tread never cease to amaze me.
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>>38365480
>they are breaking in fully being able to express oneself.

Without limits, you couldn't express yourself. You're confusing freedom with focus. Having a focus doesn't make you less creative. In fact, the more limits you have, the more you have to be creative to express yourself. This is what any art is: if musicians also had to paint for their songs, you'd have much less great music to listen to. This doesn't limit their expression, it focuses it.

> An individual should seek to have as few limits as possible,

So the obese man should seek to eat even more? But then he'll live less long, and less well. One thing you don't see here is that it's all a balance: some limits will push other limits. A limit on eating will push limits of motion and health. If you limit your shit-eating habits, you will push other limis. If you work out, you limit your time, but you'll push other limits.

You can't have it all. You can't eat 8000kcal a day and also limit the space you take up.
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>>38365480
>Boundaries are not something to put up, all that will do is make it harder to communicate.

On the contrary, it will make it easier. If I know, from you, where your limits are, I can respect them. If I don't, I will not know where they are. This is why I tell you where my limits are. Did this make it difficult for you to communicate with me? No, it made it easier. Imagine playing any sports without limits, without lines. Would it be easier? No, people would ceaselessly argue that the ball was in our out. Imagine tennis without lines. It couldn't work. Communication is the same, respect is the same.

If you give a room to share for two people, which would work better, one where there's a clear line on the floor or one where there isn't?

Same thing.
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>>38365480
>The more we fear offending one another, fear saying something that will hurt another,

You confuse everything. There are ways to say things.

>"You're a fucking cunt."
>"The way you behave is not OK."

Huge difference.

> the more we will end up losing our ability to even express ourselves accurately.

Absolutely not. I haven't allowed you to insult me once and you've never felt like you weren't accurate or free in what you wanted to say.

>It is to me the ultimate form of censorship, one that starts with a word and ends up destroying ideas to the point that you, mentally, lose the ability to even express ideas. You lose the ability to know what to respond with because the response you have will not be accepted.

This is nonsense. Me not calling you a piece of shit has no such effects.

>Think of it this way. You have a female friend. She is fine about most things, but doesn't feel comfortable with you talking about sex or her body. You will almost be drawn to the taboo as it is a topic you are prevented from doing, then shut down out of respect, resulting in a cycle which in turn results in the inability to even communicate with the friend.

Why on earth would I not be able to communicate with my female friend if she doesn't want me to talk about sex or her body (two topics that you obviously never discuss with a female friend, in case there was any doubt in your mind)?

I never discuss these things with my female friends, unless there's a reason to, and that was never a problem. It goes both ways, no female friend would easily discuss my body, or sex.

Here, I think you don't realise what you're dealing with, and can only see the "censorship/freedom" problem, when that is NOT the issue at all.

Focus on this one, don't necessarily argue everything I say, or we'll spend another ten hours doing this back and forth.
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>>38365549
But at the same time limits confine us and compartmentalize us. We need to escape as many limits as possible if we are to transcend. The reason people panic is because they are not used to the lack of limits. This lack of limits can be problematic even because you don't know what to do.

But think of it this way Nick. That is exactly what is happening with my OCD. I am imposing limits upon myself to the point I am unhappy. Everyone else can play whatever games they want in whatever order they want, for me this causes a mental breakdown that at the same time makes me depressed with what I bother with to the point I end up avoiding it entirely. Why bother when I can't figure out this horrible Amiga game and just want to try Skyrim. Limits can make a person unhappy, especially when there are more limits than the average person, limits you can look around and see others are not confined by. If others could have the universe to taste and all I could taste was cheese, it would be a lot more miserable.

Limits are horrible Nick. If I had less, I would have less problems. Sure, I wouldn't know what to do with my newfound empty void, but it would be a lot better than being confined in a small box. Society may be in a bigger box, but the same rules apply, they don't have the perspective of a boundless world and thus fear it, when it is the best thing ever.

Limits are inhibiting freedoms Nick. Boundaries prevent us from being free. Only through knocking down boundaries can we have mental freedom.
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>>38365493

Pretty cool!

88 - https://desuarchive.org/r9k/thread/38230437/
89 - https://desuarchive.org/r9k/thread/38234076/
90 - https://desuarchive.org/r9k/thread/38249995/
91 - https://desuarchive.org/r9k/thread/38279739/
92 - https://desuarchive.org/r9k/thread/38297476/
93 - https://desuarchive.org/r9k/thread/38320670/
94 - https://desuarchive.org/r9k/thread/38345791/

Here's the rest.
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>>38365522
>the Mormon family from South Park.

I saw this a long time ago, but it's possible. Functional families don't make for great stories, because there are no problems.
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>>38365586

And the best is that this comes straight from Aristotle. I remembered some text he wrote when I was in High School (now it sounds like I went to High School wit Aristotle, and called him Aris for short), about form and substance. Any substance needs a form to exist, or universal favourite cheese. He never mentioned cheese, of course. I'm not sure why my idea of substance is cheese.
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>>38365586
Hey Dan

>>38365591
>This doesn't limit their expression, it focuses it
If musicians had to also paint their songs, we would have even greater works filled with greater complexity. I would be happy if musicians had to paint songs Nick, because the lack of limits also means you would have the freedom to choose not to do such. We would have a choice where right now we have those that can only sing and not paint, or paint and not sing. We can't have both, which we can without limits.

>So the obese man should seek to eat even more
That is a limit, a constraint, put upon us by nature. If it didn't exist, we could be happier.

>You can't have it all
Due to a limitation of time Nick. Once again, the problem here is due to an overlying limit that we cannot eliminate. So we need to play by the limits imposed upon by us. This is one of the reasons life is terrible, we would be much happier if there were indeed zero limits.
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>>38365684

https://pastebin.com/9dPf9n19
Use this for tomorrow's OP maybe
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>>38365680

I'll try not to quote every bit and a make a comment on each, to make things less fastidious.

Coats, I'm talking about limits you don't impose on yourself unwillingly, you are talking about OCD limits, which are always negative and unncessary, by definition. There's a huge difference.

Respect and OCD aren't the same. Limits on insults mean respect; limits in your daily life mean mental illness. This is not comparable. Someone who feels compelled to wash their hands 80 times a day is not comparable to two people agreeing on mutual respect. The first one gets hurt and wastes time and feels bad; the latter two enjoy a nice conversation.

You have to look at what the limits produce. As Christ said, judge them by their fruit. What comes of it?

Does a new sport come of them?

Do injuries come of them?

Does wasted time come of them?

Limits can be both good and bad, it depends on the limit in question. Surely you like that people can't just invade your bed and snuggle you and sleep there. Surely you like having walls around you when you take a shit, right?
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>>38365680
>Boundaries prevent us from being free. Only through knocking down boundaries can we have mental freedom.

Imagine if your molecules thought that way. You'd fall apart instantly and so would your freedom.

Think of Minecraft and compare creative mode with survival mode. I never could like creative mode because it was too free, and less fun. It's great to create things, hence the name, but I enjoyed building things much more if I had to work for my blocks, survive on food, and all the rest of it. I didn't feel like my freedom was limited, despite more limits and restrains, since going beyond these limits, and finding smart ways to do so was more fun than having no limits to begin with.

Think of any games: whatever is readily available to you awards you less joy than something hard to get. We value expensive things more than we value cheap ones, even when they're the same.

I once bought a Cure album for 5 bucks, and I was never able to think it was a normal album; in my mind, it forever remained "the cheap Cure album".
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>>38365756
>If musicians had to also paint their songs, we would have even greater works filled with greater complexity.

No, you'd have less music, because that restraint brings nothing to the song. It's not the same medium. It's be a completely useless limit. See, you're arguing for more limits now! Unproductive ones, at that. Musicians who also paint may use their art for their music, but it's only good if it's by choice. Kurt Cobain did this for the Incesticide album, and that's fine, but as soon as you make it a rule, it does more harm than good, which is why no such rule exists, it doesn't make sense. You'd have to have an emperor or dictactor to enforce such a rule, because everyone would see how meaningless and counter-productive it is.

>We can't have both, which we can without limits.

We can have both. It's called freedom: people can chose to do what they want. They can do both, or only the one they like. Why would you want to limit them?

See how your ideas of what limits are can be turned around? What some limits are to you, they are freedom to others. Freedom not to have to paint if you just want to sing.
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>>38365614
>Did this make it difficult for you to communicate with me?
Actually it does. It makes me paranoid of saying the wrong thing and losing a willing ear. Your limits are a strain on me that make me have to monitor myself and panic that I am missing things.

>Imagine playing any sports without limits
This is why sports are dull actually. Sports are confined and inhibited by boundaries. It is mankind putting limitations upon himself in a way that seems quite dull. Perhaps some like limits, I don't. That is where the bee/wasp analogy came in. Bees stay in the hive, they stay where it is comfortable. Wasps roam and have less limits. Many prefer the bee route of limits, to stay where it is safe, while I view it as monotonous and a great way to make oneself miserable. You want me to be depressed? Impose limits on me.

>Communication is the same, respect is the same
Which is why I fail in these. I don't like sports for this exact reason. When I speak, I speak from one who does not seek to limit himself and wishes others to not be limited. I seek no boundaries.

>If you give a room to share for two people
The main reason to do that would be to define what each owns due to the limitations of society. It is yet another sport, another game of ball. I must play because not playing means everyone else is at an advantage.
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>>38365756
>That is a limit, a constraint, put upon us by nature. If it didn't exist, we could be happier.

You mean eating without getting bigger? For the sake of sanity, we are not going to complain about how reality works, or it will never end. There are limits that won't make you happy and don't necessarily seem to help, such as, you won't live forever. Tough shit but there's no reason to argue that. When there's no solution, there's no problem either. It just is that way.
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>>38365756
>Due to a limitation of time Nick.

No, due to the very nature of "limits". The English saying "You can't have your cake and eat it too," is perfect for that. If you eat it, you don't have it anymore. You can't have both and time has nothing to do with it.

>So we need to play by the limits imposed upon by us. This is one of the reasons life is terrible, we would be much happier if there were indeed zero limits.

You can play well and win, you know? Life need not be terrible. You just need to play better. Git gud.

Without limits we wouldn't exist.
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>>38365763

Bookmarked. Thanks!
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>>38365858
>Actually it does. It makes me paranoid of saying the wrong thing and losing a willing ear.

I laughed. At this point, you should be reassured because despite pissing me off a whole lot, I'm still here. Ask Dan, it's virtually impossible to lose me. Even my parents still have access to me (strictly via written words), so worry not. The reason I do this is because I can take it all. Here, the problem is not limits, but fear.

And you are right to fear such a thing in most contexts with most people, because you CAN go too far, and people will not always forgive you, especially if they DON'T understand. You only have to realise that they don't understand.

it's as if you used the wrong word in a different language, and while you wanted to say, "May I sit with you?" you actually said, "May I fuck your sister?" You'd understand why the person would think you're a threat.

>Your limits are a strain on me that make me have to monitor myself and panic that I am missing things.

That's why I always "correct" you, as training so you can do better in society. Errors won't matter with me, but they will with others. Imagine it's like martial arts training, but instead of swords, we use bamboo sticks.
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>>38365858
>This is why sports are dull actually.

If sports were dull, it wouldn't be so popular. Coats, what you think isn't objective reality every time. I like chess a lot, for instance, and without limits and rules, chess would fucking suck, it wouldn't even be chess.

Great quote from I forget who, but it's from linguistics, might be Chomsky: people play chess when they respect the rules of chess; as soon as they stop using those rules, they no longer play chess.

Cue to the idea that limits are required to exist.

>Sports are confined and inhibited by boundaries.

No, it's focused, more intense. Sports change over time, sometimes, and the new rules always seek to improve the game. Football (what you call "soccer") had a rule that the goalie was allowed to take into his hands a ball given to him by his own team mates. This was abused to lose time, which a winning team wanted to do. Players would pass the ball to their goalie, and he'd just fuck around a bit. They changed the rule and now the goalie can't take such a ball into his hands anymore. The new limit makes the games snappier and removed an exploit.

You play video games, you certainly realise how limits MAKE the game. Imagine death match on an infinite map? You'd never see anyone ever. Boring, dull.
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>>38365858
>Perhaps some like limits, I don't.

How about the following ones (and yes, I want a direct answer for each):

- the floor
- the walls in your bathroom
- whatever keeps you from the NEETs in your place
- your clothes
- doors
- your roof
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>>38365674
>Ways to say things
If you feel the former, why say the latter? The former says you hate the individual you are talking to, that you despise everything about them. The latter says you dislike their mannerisms. Say which you feel.

>I haven't allowed you to insult me once
It simply has never been a wish of mine to insult you. Had it have been, I would be confined and limited. If I was pushed to the point I wished to insult, I don't think I would care about limitations.

>Me not calling you a piece of shit has no such effects
When that is all you believe, all you can personally feel, and it is what you wish to express it does indeed. You felt it necessary to say it, so it had to be said. This is why I often appreciate when people get mad, they get more honest and stop being so limited. They speak how much they actually view me. Positives and respect are just to be nice, they are inhibitors we accept to receive benefits in the form of the other individual. But if both could accept no limits, the world would be a better place.

>I never discuss these things
If it becomes the whim you thought of, it becomes necessary to ask for the lack of other questions presenting themselves. We inhibit ourselves due to respect, which makes us miserable in turn, or at least makes me miserable. I don't want you to get offended and say we need limits. I want the freedom for anything to pass freely.

Sex and the human body are things everyone has. Why can we not talk about them when it is something everyone can relate to on some primal level? It is foolish to have this limit.

>Can only see the "Censorship/freedom" problem
Indeed, I can't see anything else here.

>Don't necessarily argue everything I say
Another limit which in turn makes me seek to avoid arguing which in turn means I have less to say and we get less communication. The only reason it has yet to happen is because I have yet to not follow this point.
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>>38365691
>No problems
But that is a problem in itself. People have problems with one another, the true matter is if they can be strong through the hard times or not.
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>>38365858
>When I speak, I speak from one who does not seek to limit himself and wishes others to not be limited. I seek no boundaries.

By doing so, you actually impose a very brutal limit on whoever you speak to: you don't allow them to exist.

That is the most violence you can impose on a person short of extreme verbal abuse or physical abuse, but even those too often boil down to refusing a person's existence.

Accepting someone's existence means giving value to what THEY feel and think. If you exclude this, you impose a limit on them. If you act like what they feel/think doesn't matter, then that limit removes almost everything from them. Doing so makes it meaningless for them to continue communicating, because you've already stated that they don't exist.

You should seek boundaries, yours and theirs. That way you know what's OK and what isn't, instead of panicking all the time because you have no clue what's appropriate and what isn't.

What I'm writing to you right now is key to you improving your communication skills, and life, so take your time, but do integrate all I'm saying.
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>>38365858
>The main reason to do that would be to define what each owns due to the limitations of society.

Society doesn't give a rat's ass what two brothers share or don't share in a room. I have two younger brothers, I speak from experience. It's strictly between the people involved. Society has nothing to do with it.
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>>38366000
>If you feel the former, why say the latter? The former says you hate the individual you are talking to, that you despise everything about them. The latter says you dislike their mannerisms. Say which you feel.

You think if I insult you it automatically means I hate you? You'd be wrong. You and Dan get copiously insulted because I get angry that you refuse to see the obvious (to me) way out of your misery. And why does that make me angry? Because I care.

I couldn't use insults if I thought you took it in a different way, which is partly why I completely stopped. Dan still gets it because he never reacts negatively to my insults, he probably (I hope) understand that I'm just getting furious that he refuses my help.

Talking is more than just saying how you feel, Coats, you aren't a silly animal. Human communication is way more complicated.
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>>38366000
>It simply has never been a wish of mine to insult you.

Despite that, you have. See? You act like people can only say what they mean, and misunderstandings never happen, or that you always know 100% what you're doing when you act and speak, but you don't. Proof is that you've insulted me a few times, and I never allowed it, but you did it, without even realising that you did. This, not society, is the issue here.
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>>38366000
>Positives and respect are just to be nice, they are inhibitors we accept to receive benefits in the form of the other individual.

Sometimes you really do speak like a little child. The reason why people show respect, ultimately, is so nobody gets killed. In most languages, whenever two people meet, there's always a very ritualised moment. In English, it's often:

"Hello, how are you?"
"I'm good and you?"

And this is virtually always the same damn exact thing. It's not for nothing. It is a ritual and its purpose is to establish that everything is OK. It's called the phatic function if memory serves. Not doing it sends a signal that something is wrong.

Almost everything is communication, you can't suddenly decide that only what you think and say is. You don't even know what you say and do sometimes, and you get surprised by people's reactions, and then you modelise the whole thing as a martyr syndrome, where people persecute you while you dindu nuffin.

Limits are essential to human communication, in part because humans can be dangerous and we evolved to face danger, and sense it.
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>>38366078
>You and Dan get copiously insulted because I get angry that you refuse to see the obvious (to me) way out of your misery.
The main point is that taking this way out of our misery is not that easy. It requires accepting some things and letting go of others. Sure, the way is obvious, but to walk it you have to wear a dunce hat and shout "I'm a gaylord" all the way.
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Hey Nick,
Missed you yesterday; I guess I'm feeling "better" than I was but meh. For reference
>>38353397
Sedative sleep is unsatisfying and short, and I remain neither a danger to myself nor others, but everything feels like horrible shattering. I can't believe existing is supposed to feel remotely like this. The competing urges to just die already, or find a way to do absolutely anything at all that doesn't make me feel sick to be alive, are maddening. I get nowhere, but it just never stops.
It's like an intrusive thought that isn't even a thought. I don't want to erase my life, but I'm off to a good start, and it seems way easier and safer than whatever it is that I apparently can't get a grip on.
I need help, or am beyond help, either way I wouldn't know how to start or describe what's wrong except that I dread most every event of every day and I can't see anything but the same or worse on the horizon.
I'm never going to be acceptable to the rest of them on terms that enable my sanity and I'm pretty sure that's the unpardonable sin.
I admire all of you who have the constitution to function with the myriad nutty neuroses going on but I can't imagine why you want to.
I'm significantly below-average as a human part of the larger whole and have no reason to play in leagues that I don't have the skill-set for.
What's the best use of whatever limited effort I have left, in your opinion?
I'm so tired of whining but I'm pretty firmly locked into my took-my-ball-and-am-waiting-to-die outlook, it just gets so boring.
I don't know if any modicum of passion can return to life when you've turtled for as long as I have. I decided I was done long before I knew what that would mean. To quote a two-time losing presidential candidate: really, at this point, what difference does it make?
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>>38366000
>We inhibit ourselves due to respect, which makes us miserable in turn, or at least makes me miserable.

Just you. If you were a normal person, you'd not actually want to discuss sex with a female friend. It'd make you embarrassed. Even with a male friend, only closet homos do that.

>I don't want you to get offended and say we need limits. I want the freedom for anything to pass freely.

But you demanding that freedom cancels other people's rights. You remove their freedom by imposing yours, and most people will not accept that; hell, YOU won't accept that! You refuse to have your freedom removed by others, yet you seek to remove others' freedom so you can have things your way. Do you see the problem?

You don't understand: discussing sex was even off limits with women I've HAD sex with! Can you even conceive of anything like that?
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>>38366000
>Sex and the human body are things everyone has.

Yes, but you're not a fucking doctor, Coats, when you speak to someone, there are more things involced then biological mechanisms.

>Why can we not talk about them when it is something everyone can relate to on some primal level? It is foolish to have this limit.

It's PRECISELY because it exists on a primal level that you can't just talk about it like that, silly Coats. And the reason people don't just casually talk about it is... BECAUSE IT'S IMPORTANT!

Important things require special treatment. You don't propose to a woman the same way you ask her abou the weather, right? Same thing here. Some topics are reserved for when you're more intimate. They need careful approach, so everyone is respected.

What you think of as limits aren't limits. You can do anything with a person provided you RESPECT them, meaning, you ALLOW them to exist and have their own freedom too. You can't just go wherever you want, on your own. There's a path. There are steps to go through, together.

It's fucking weird how you can't seem to appreciate "limits" in daily life but somehow fucking impose yourself retarded ass limits for fucking nothing. How do you goddam make sense of this shit, Coats?

How do you go, "Alice doesn't want to talk about sex with me, what a cunt! But let's go fucking play Final Fantasy 1 through 10 so I feel allowed to play 11."

What the fuck?

I wonder if your limit dicksucking doesn't come from the fact that you can't handle unwritten rules out there. You're going to make your own set of bullshit rules to live by. Then complain about limits, when the ones you make up are much worse and serve no purpose.

How do you explain yourself here?
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>>38366000
>Indeed, I can't see anything else here.

You're missing the most important part. Communication isn't just exchanging information. It's doing something together. It's existing to someone else and acknowledging someone else's existence.

>Another limit which in turn makes me seek to avoid arguing which in turn means I have less to say and we get less communication.

As you found out the other day, being two hours late on the conversation was not "freedom".

What you think is a limit will give you more freedom.
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>>38366148

And if you really want out, you'll do all of that.
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>>38366277
Only a retard would want out under these conditions.
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>>38366153
>I can't believe existing is supposed to feel remotely like this

It's not. What you're feeling is basically your body and mind telling you, "This isn't right; fuck outta here."

>I need help, or am beyond help,

Not beyond help. Trust me.

I've read both posts and thought a lot.

Let's be practical first: do you have insurance?
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MESSAGE TO COATS

Coats, mah boy, try spending more time reading what I'm writing to you and less time trying to go against it. Write your questions down somewhere and ask me later, but do not try to argue today, I don't think I'll have time for it this time. Also, remember that the intent here is for you to learn how things actually work with people. I understand how you function, how you think, enough to help.

You can explain how you think, though, that'll be more productive than arguing. Arguing was good, but as we saw last time, when it goes wrong for you, you resort to illogical and untrue points that I can only call core beliefs.

You'll complain that this is a limit, but it'll be efficient.
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>>38366283
>Only a retard would want out under these conditions.

Really? I'm not sure I can take both you and Coats TOGETHER.

Suppose you're in a house on fire. You can only escape by putting on some gaylord costume while shouting "I AM DAN AND I LOVE DICK." Do you really stay inside?

Besides, if I asked you as a dare, you'd probably do it for keks.
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MESSAGE TO COATS

You may want to post in smaller chunks, too, so I get your words more regularly, instead of giant bits all at once.
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>>38366385
Let's leave the metaphores.

Yesterday I went to the supermarket. A different one than where I usually go, one of the cheap ones. It was incredible seeing all these people. They were on average very ugly, fat, most men were short. Then I compared it to the people I see at work, even from the other companies. Everybody is attractive, most men are taller than me. It's so fucking hillarious just how much the world is partitioned, how inferior people end up with inferior lives and superior people end up with superior life. If it was up to hard work at all, the difference wouldn't be this goddamn huge. The pattern wouldn't be this fucking obvious.

If I have to accept this, I'd rather stay in the burning house and wait for me to burn to death. I'd like to believe what you're saying. I really would, but the real world just doesn't confirm it.
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Early thread today.
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>>38366472

I wonder how much confirmation bias is at work here. I shop in various supermarkets, the local one and Lidl and Aldi, the German colonists.

I never saw any such difference. Besides, and focus on this: even wealthy people shop in cheaper supermarkets. So your idea that all the little ugly people shop in cheap shops while the master race shops in expensive ones (like you do normally), that doesn't really work out. If they were that smart, they might shop where things are cheaper, but then again, maybe they like certain items from one shop and others from other shops.

You simplify everything so much it's not even funny.

>If I have to accept this, I'd rather stay in the burning house and wait for me to burn to death

If you have to accept this? Wake the fuck up? You're one of the tall motherfuckers who shop At Master Race's, and you look down on the ugly little idiots who shop in the untermensch department of your area, remember?

You pretentious fucker, you don't even realise where you stand in your confirmation bias.
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Not nick but i have a question for coats.

Every time you post on 4chan, you are limited to typing into a box. You are limited into pressing the 'post' button only after you pass the captcha limit. You are also only limited to communicate in non ascii characters. Every reply is given a number. Any quotes you can make must have two >> and the number of the post you quote.

How does this make you feel
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>>38366569
Also you can only post to 4chan or specifically r9k if you agree to the limitation that this is only possible if the address bar states boards.4chan.org/r9k

How does this make you feel?
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>>38365781
>I'll try not to quote every bit
Which means your thoughts aren't expressed clearly. This is another limitation. Is fastidious not beneficial for acquiring further information?

>There's a huge difference
Why? You talked about the limits of a wall, of solid materials, that is not a willing limit.

>The latter two enjoys a nice conversation
That is the problem Nick. I get hurt, waste time, and feel bad with the latter. That is exactly how I describe the average conversation. This is why 4chan is great, because I don't need limits. If I have limits, we may look like we are getting along, but underneath I am breaking down and feeling miserable.

>You have to look at what the limits produce
At the end of the day, OCD produces knowledge. At the end of the day, conversation produces knowledge. Both cause the same result. Both can result in stress due to limitations.

>Does a new sport come of them
And what purpose does sports with limitations have? Why not have sports created freely without limits?

>Do injuries come of them?
This is simple risk assessment. Are the injuries worth the entertainment? Are the injuries an important part of what I am doing?

>Does wasted time come of them?
Everything is in essence wasted time. Every second that passes is another wasted. It does not matter if there was an activity in that space or not.

>Surely you like that people can't just invade your bed
Since the time you mentioned me getting raped, I have been thinking about this. I actually would not mind the company, isolation is quite rough.

>Surely you like having walls around you
If it was socially acceptable and I wasn't limited, I would not. I would be happy someone put some importance to me, for with these limits I feel a lack of importance. I would have eyes watching me, a pervert is a compliment on the basis that you aroused them and thus had importance to someone. You benefit them with zero deterrent to yourself. It is selfless.
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>>38366569

Ah! Excellent. Very good examples.
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>>38366562
>You simplify everything so much it's not even funny.
Okay, another exercise. Try paying attention to the cars, are the people in expensive cars on average more ugly or more attractive?

Or another one. Let's say you see a group of young people. Three guys and one woman. Who is the woman talking to? Obviously the tallest and the most attractive one.

I know you want to deny it, but this pattern is obvious EVERYWHERE around us. You just have to see it without blindly ignoring it.

>You're one of the tall motherfuckers who shop At Master Race's, and you look down on the ugly little idiots who shop in the untermensch department of your area, remember?
Firstly, I'm not tall. 5'10" might be considered tall according to your italian standards, but it's not. You will obviously talk about average, but what makes you think average is acceptable? Even if you are average, it doesn't mean your tall. Average != good.

Also I don't look down on these people. I stated the fact that there were many ugly and short people, that's all.
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>>38366629
There are definitely short and ugly people in fancy pinky-raising supermarkets

You're just having selective memory and selective perception
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>>38366595
>Which means your thoughts aren't expressed clearly.

My thoughts are expressed clearly if I word them well enough, and I do believe I am doing a fine job of that. I may not comment everything, but the part I comment on is expressed well.

You can't have everything: either I comment on everything and communication suffers, or I don't and it gets focused.

> Is fastidious not beneficial for acquiring further information?

No, because we go round and round and so far, not much improvement was made. I don't think you've changed your way of thinking much in the past few days.

>Why? You talked about the limits of a wall, of solid materials, that is not a willing limit.

The limits of other people aren't "willing" limits either, since you don't choose them, just like a wall. Someone chose to build that wall there and someone else chose to build it for money. The universe exists according to a will (arguably); it's all willed limits.

>but underneath I am breaking down and feeling miserable.

Then you are not expressing yourself clearly and not showing your boundaries. If our exchange makes you feel bad, you must tell me so we can adapt.

There may be discomfort at times because you have to unlearn a lot and learn new things. That's normal, but it's related to the subject matter, not to the way we talk.
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>>38366595
>At the end of the day, OCD produces knowledge.

What kind of knowledge do you get from washing your hands 500 times a day?

Better off reading books for that time. You'll get more knowledge.
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>>38366595
>And what purpose does sports with limitations have? Why not have sports created freely without limits?

Because they can't exist without limits. Just fucking try with any sports of your choice. Choose one, and I'll "free" it and you'll see what happens.
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>>38365806
>Imagine if your molecules thought that way
Perhaps they would be better. It is part of the rules nature has imposed on us.

>Creative mode/survival mode
Never touched creative mode because it wasn't what was in the alpha, only prior to the alpha when most people didn't get to play it, and thus something that I feel wasn't official until later. Couldn't tell you a single thing about what creative mode was about.

>Whatever is readily available to you
Simply becomes a thing acquired and thus you hunt for the next. Remember this also, without limits you can create limits that are beneficial to the self if you so desire. It is the best of both worlds, compared to limits which can never be removed. This is why it is great when a game comes with an editor that lets you break the world, to get rid of its limits, then recreate it in your own way. Limits are definitions, but you must start every blank with no-limits or be caught by monotony. It must also benefit the individual to have this limit and be a limit one knows they can easily break if so inclined.

>The cheap Cure album
To me, I would be happy to have acquired an album for cheap. The cost didn't matter, original or adjusted, the quality of the work within is all that matters. Why would I want to pay more for the same item?
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>>38366595
>I actually would not mind the company, isolation is quite rough.

Then why don't you go sleep with your cousins? See? It's not that simple. Getting raped by your NEETs would not be nice, now would it? I can't believe the examples I have to use to make you understand that getting raped is no bueno.
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>>38366595
>If it was socially acceptable and I wasn't limited, I would not. I would be happy someone put some importance to me, for with these limits I feel a lack of importance. I would have eyes watching me, a pervert is a compliment on the basis that you aroused them and thus had importance to someone. You benefit them with zero deterrent to yourself. It is selfless.

So you would take a dump in front of me if you could?

As to perverts, you're wrong, again, if you think it means you have "importance" to them. Enjoying having importance to others is not selfless, but then again, nothing is, which is fine.
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>>38366629
>Try paying attention to the cars, are the people in expensive cars on average more ugly or more attractive?

1. never noticed a pattern there; I've seen everything; more expensive cars usually are driven by older people

2. you can get luxury cars on lease; even big cars can be obtained by people with modest salaries; I own my car, which is a small Japanese lady with a very short stalling threshold

>Three guys and one woman. Who is the woman talking to? Obviously the tallest and the most attractive one.

That's not true either. Dude, you're doing confirmation bias out the ass. You only register events when they fit your model, and whenever they don't, you assume it's a fluke and doesn't count.

The woman is talking to whoever speaks to her as well. Some women will avoid talking to the one they like best because:

1. tsundere
2. too shy

So even that example makes little sense. The women who wanted my dick the most weren't the ones that talked to me the most.

>I know you want to deny it, but this pattern is obvious EVERYWHERE around us.

Only in your sick mind, my friend. It's not that I want to deny it, it's that it ain't true.

> You just have to see it without blindly ignoring it.

Considering I have put my penis inside women, I don't think I'm blindly ignoring anything here.
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>>38366629
>Firstly, I'm not tall. 5'10" might be considered tall according to your italian standards, but it's not.

I don't use Italian standards, Italian people tend to be short. You're tall, we've already discussed this shit a million times.

>Also I don't look down on these people. I stated the fact that there were many ugly and short people, that's all.

You act like short and ugly people are worth less than others who are tall and handsome, so yes, you look down on them.
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>>38365841
>That restraint brings nothing to the song
In some cases it would. Those are the ones that should paint. When NIN made Year Zero, they made an entire alternate reality game to go with it. As seen, artists doing more than singing can be beneficial to the art as a whole to some individuals, depending on how much you were interested in the mediums used.

>You're arguing for more limits now
I am arguing that musicians that feel a compelling need to paint their songs do such. That simple. Those that don't, don't, those that do, do. This was the definition I gave, I said specifically that musicians didn't have to do such.

>Which is why no such rule exists
Now you are arguing what I am arguing. We are arguing about the same thing. Rules inhibit, don't make sense, and do more harm than good. Unless the rules are simply done for the benefit of the individual and only for the time they deem it beneficial, the removal of which breaks the rule in turn. That is the true meaning of chaos, the creation and removal of laws and rules with no consistency beyond what benefits the individual in question, which in turn could be argued is not a law based on its lack of consistency to others.

>We can have both. It's called freedom
Exactly. By trying to counter me you see exactly what I am trying to argue. This is freedom Nick. This is what I ask for.

>What some limits to you, they are freedoms to others
The problem is their lack of willingness to break them when it does not benefit them, or their altruism to benefit the group. When you start inhibiting your freedom for another person by imposing limits, when you start being unable to break limits yourself, that is when the problem occurs. No longer is it a destruction and creation of limits, just hard walls you will hit your head upon in frustration.
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>>38366690
>It is part of the rules nature has imposed on us.

No, nature doesn't have to do with molecules. If you had said physics, sure, but even that isn't completely true. Physics is a scientific field of study, it doesn't tell things what to do, it describes what happens. Ultimately, you'll be reduced to "God imposed this on us."

Now it's going to be like Dan and genetics. Mostly an excuse. Yes, there are things we don't choose. Move on, because there's nothing more to do there.

>Never touched creative mode because it wasn't what was in the alpha,

I think creative mode existed long before anything else.

>Couldn't tell you a single thing about what creative mode was about.

You can fly, you don't have to feed or drink, no monsters, you can never die, you can choose to have day only, etc. Basically everything that makes the game fun.

Imagine if you remove all enemies from games. How would the game be? More fun? Damn those dull limitations known as enemies and obstacles!

If you were a game designer, with your beliefs, Super Mario would be an Italian plumber running straight for 45 minutes and reaching the Princess, who is not in another castle, but right here.

Nobody would like your game, Coats. You didn't put any limits, you didn't make it fun.
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>>38366588
>>38366569
PIz respondos
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>>38366690
>o me, I would be happy to have acquired an album for cheap.

I was.

>The cost didn't matter, original or adjusted, the quality of the work within is all that matters.

Of course, it still remains that it influenced my thinking, no matter how irrational. The mind has countless ways of fucking you over with like that. There's a great book about it called "You Are not so Smart".
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>>38365862
>Tough shit but there's no reason to argue that. When there's no solution, there's no problem either
Exactly the problem Nick. I cannot get over the fact that it is a problem, regardless of a lack of solutions, and hope blindly for a solution to present itself. What do you think I have been doing with myself? All my problems have a lack of solutions, I admit this, but I still complain regardless because they are bothersome to me. This is because, as I said before, I am a weakling that cannot handle the simplest things that everyone else can.

>You can't have both and time has nothing to do with it
Limits have everything to do with it. The limitations imposed by nature, by society, by family, by everyone you meet... it never ends. Everyone wants you to compound more limits on a person who loathes limits and hates the many I already have to deal with.

>Git gud
I am too retarded for that. I have zero skills. I can play, but I am incompetent and lack the retention to ever get better. It is easy to say get gud by someone who is actually capable of improving, I am a literal retard, I can't improve even if I want to.

>Without limits we wouldn't exist
Limits that are beneficial to the self are good as long as you can break them. As long as you can kill yourself at any time, existence is tolerable.
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>>38366800
>When NIN made Year Zero, they made an entire alternate reality game to go with it.

By choice. Not by obligation. If Trent was under obligation to do that, he'd change record company very quickly.

>I am arguing that musicians that feel a compelling need to paint their songs do such. That simple.

No, that's not what we were saying. You keep changing paremeters during the argument. Obviously, every artist can do anything he wants, which is why this isn't the same. You said it'd be better if musicians also had to paint. Completely different.

>Those that don't, don't, those that do, do. This was the definition I gave, I said specifically that musicians didn't have to do such.

No, because that definition is just reality.
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>>38366657
There is much less of them. That is my point.

>>38366759
>1. never noticed a pattern there; I've seen everything; more expensive cars usually are driven by older people
Really? I find that very hard to believe. Yeah the leases make a huge part of it. I think that majority of the nice cars that average people drive are actually company cars that they can use. Still when you see someone driving a new mercedes, it's likely gonna be someone attractive.

>ou only register events when they fit your model, and whenever they don't, you assume it's a fluke and doesn't count.
It's because of the numbers. I don't see many flukes. I do see some, obviously.

>Considering I have put my penis inside women, I don't think I'm blindly ignoring anything here.
That's the point exactly, many people who are content and valued ignore this to be happy.

>>38366774
>You're tall, we've already discussed this shit a million times.
I have NEVER in my life been called tall by anyone. I have been called short plenty of times.

>You act like short and ugly people are worth less than others who are tall and handsome, so yes, you look down on them.
Well society looks down on them. If there is a correlation between looks, height and earnings, it must be that way.
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>>38366800
>Rules inhibit, don't make sense, and do more harm than good.

I give up. I have shown you many examples of how rules make things exist (like chess) and how, without them, chess couldn't exist, or any sports, or even video games.

You haven't given me a single counter example for any of this. Until you do, I declare a moratorium on that topic. I'm not spending 15 hours repeating the same shit from 50 different angles just so you can pretend not to understand.
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>>38366800
>The problem is their lack of willingness to break them when it does not benefit them

You mean like your OCD limits which don't benefit you either? Projecting, my boy?
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>>38366800
>that is when the problem occurs.

Then how come problems occur for you much more often than for other people? You are wrong.
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>>38366841

He is going to need a lot of time. Last thread he was in, he was two hours behind. I type fast, like the wind, who types really fast.
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>>38366882
>I cannot get over the fact that it is a problem, regardless of a lack of solutions, and hope blindly for a solution to present itself

Then you and Dan really need to address that issue together.

How do I make you two understand that some things are NOT solvable? Some things are a way and that's it. Nothing to do. You can spend your life moaning over it and it won't fucking change.

Half-Life 3 will never exist, deal with it! Some things just can't happen.
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>>38365930
>I can take it all
Yet you have warned me at several points to stop X or you will forsake me.

>You only have to realize that they don't understand
We need to make people less ignorant in that case. Perhaps it is because they are limited in their views. That at least you can see as being negative.

>You'd understand why the person would think you're a threat
You simply say what you feel from the heart. If you want to have sex with someone's sister, say such. It should be the sister anyway that chooses for her own benefit. this guy should have zero choice in the matter. As for being in a different language, how do I communicate at all if we speak too languages? What else can I do beyond say what I say and hope they understand? Cease communication entirely? That is the only other option.

>Imagine it's like martial arts training
You know, it is much like that. They threaten to throw me out of the dojo for my incompetence as well.

>Training to do better in society
Is it working? I have zero idea.
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>>38366882
>All my problems have a lack of solutions, I admit this, but I still complain regardless because they are bothersome to me.

What's the benefit of this? Nothing.

>This is because, as I said before, I am a weakling that cannot handle the simplest things that everyone else can.

No, it's because you're stubborn and refuses to consider that reality isn't how you see it, even when I spend hours and hours telling you.

Sometimes I think I should just fucking kidnap your ass and take you around, with a ballgag so you can't say anything, and an earpiece, so I can talk to you constantly no matter where you are.

You know what they say about having one mouth but two ears?
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>>38366964
>Half-Life 3 will never exist, deal with it! Some things just can't happen.
Wait a minute! Now you've taken this too far! I mean sure, ugly people will be treated like shit by society, but Half Life 3 will fucking be! I don't give a damn that the last of the original writers left Valve.

HALF LIFE 3 WILL EXIST!
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>>38366882
>Limits have everything to do with it. The limitations imposed by nature, by society, by family, by everyone you meet... it never ends. Everyone wants you to compound more limits on a person who loathes limits and hates the many I already have to deal with.

We are clearly dealing with a completely irrational hatred of limits by now. You're virtually telling me that it upsets you that an object cannot exist in the same place as another object. Physics be damned!

We're beyond logic here.

>I can't improve even if I want to.

You know what an excuse is? That's one.

>Limits that are beneficial to the self are good as long as you can break them. As long as you can kill yourself at any time, existence is tolerable.

If everyone's existence was tolerable, nobody would ever kill themselves. You need to work on that logic, Coats.
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>>38366947
He's too caught up in writing lengthy replies to every detailed point you make to reply my very simple and to-the-point question

Coats sen-pai please notice me
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>>38366901
>There is much less of them. That is my point.

I call for confirmation bias up the ass here. Definitely. I'm sure an objective study would prove you wrong. We'll never know, but I'm pretty damn sure.

>Still when you see someone driving a new mercedes, it's likely gonna be someone attractive.

That's retarded. It may be someone who cares for image, and thus makes sure they look good, but it remains to see what you consider attractive.

>That's the point exactly, many people who are content and valued ignore this to be happy.

You didn't get the point. It's not about being content or happy, it's about KNOWING the things you PRETEND you know about. If you were such a woman expert, you'd have put your Mr. Willis inside a few by now. My point is: you don't know what you're talking about; it is you who is content and happy in believing bullshit that makes you feel safe and secure. We've already established that what you hate in women is actually what you hate in yourself; it is you the shallow meatfucker who wants attractive women only.
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My gf says I spend more time talking to you fags than my gf but that's largely because I don't have much to say to her after so long wat do?
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>>38366901
>I have NEVER in my life been called tall by anyone. I have been called short plenty of times.

Your memory is shit, then. I've called you tall many times, because you're 178 cm and that's tall. You don't remember? No surprise: confirmation bias at work, baby.

Whenever you talk like that, I feel the fucking urge to insult you ever so much. I'm trying to keep it in check but fucking hell... Expect homosexual jokes soon.

>Well society looks down on them.

No, YOU look down on them! YOU do that.
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Hey dan have you ever met/spoke to/seen very very beautiful women who keep insisting they look bad?

That is exactly what you sound like with your height.

My dad is 1.58m and he got married, had 3 kids and last i checked he is alive. He has worked a job for decades and eats sleeps goes to the loo like a functional human being does. Get a grip.

Also my dad has owned at least 3 Mercedes in his life and he isn't handsome. i'm from singapore where car tax is fucking expensive too

Would get a photo of my dad sitting in his merc to show you just to prove my point but i dont want to be doxxed.
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>>38365978
>If sports were dull, it wouldn't be so popular
Most people like limits. Remember the bee analogy? What I say is not objective, it is simply my perspective on the matter, which is all that matters to me being the individual to react to such.

>Chess would fucking suck
You know what is boring about chess? The fact that it has the same rules every single time you play. If only you could break the rules entirely and create a new system for a short period. I used to play with chess pieces on silly putty and stick the pieces in various places. Then I would remove the bottoms and make the chess pieces into finger puppets. Much more fun.

>They no longer play chess
Perhaps this is why I avoid playing chess. It is limits I don't see as beneficial but rules made by others to impose upon me. It is cucking me, making me their little bitch.

>Limits are required to exist
As long as they benefit the individual and can be removed at the whim of said individual.

>More intense. Sports change over time.
Oddly enough, I see it as static and heavily inhibiting.

>Imagine death match on an infinite map
I would love that actually. You know, this is the problem with multiplayer, everyone else plays the same few maps over and over. Imagine if everyone could noclip, it would be a lot more fun to try to beat the others. They should have more patience or play a different game if they are bored by that.

My OCD makes it near impossible to play games with others as they always use the same maps, but maps I can't touch because they were newer than the older maps that nobody touches. So I spend time wandering through the deathmatch maps nobody else plays, often just attacking walls I chose to be enemies.
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>>38367085
Wait, so you actually think there is no correlation at all between bad looks and less success? I mean it's just common sense that there is one.

>We've already established that what you hate in women is actually what you hate in yourself; it is you the shallow meatfucker who wants attractive women only.
But I also hate it in women. You will now NAWALT your ass off, that I'm sure off, but take a gander at tinder to prove yourself wrong. And what will you say now? Oh yeah, that doesn't count for whatever reason.
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>>38367098
become a fag and dump gf
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>>38367098
Tell her to talk to us more.
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>>38367112
>Your memory is shit, then. I've called you tall many times, because you're 178 cm and that's tall. You don't remember? No surprise: confirmation bias at work, baby.
Well even if it offends you, you don't count. You have never seen me. You come from a very different culture. I'm pretty sure someone from Philippines would also think I'm tall. Doesn't matter. Not one damn thing.

>No, YOU look down on them! YOU do that.
Are you really this blind or do you just pretend to be? People who got born genetically superior know it. And they will shit on those who are inferior if they dare to step out of line. Just try watching them once, try talking to them. They are smug as shit and they know they got the better deal here.

You are ignoring reality.
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>>38366987
>Yet you have warned me at several points to stop X or you will forsake me.

Yes, which means I took it, did I not? The part I can't tell you without sabotating my ways, which I'm about to do now, is that while I tell you I'll leave you alone if you don't respect me, I won't actually do it, or not permanently. Because you must learn to respect others, you absolutely HAVE to. One way to make you understand that is to force a consequence on you. Just like your rape/salad bullshit, and why you don't rape just because of the consequences. There are many consequences that you don't see. Coats, there's a whole world out there that is invisible to you now. You must learn it.

>We need to make people less ignorant in that case.

No, we have to make you less ignorant. You are the one who's missing pieces, not them. Just like Dan, for however long you decide that everyone else is the problem, you will not heal.

It's you, not them, and by them, I mean normal people in general, not your family.

>You simply say what you feel from the heart.

When you're 5. Even at 5 kids know how to lie, pretend, etc. Just because you don't understand something doesn't mean you get to cancel all those nuances for everyone else, Coats.

> If you want to have sex with someone's sister, say such

No, because saying that does MUCH MORE than just saying that. It says countless implicit statements, such as:

1. I believe myself allowed to disrespect you and your sister without consequences (this often calls for a physical fight)

2. I'm threatening your sister, and you (also calls for a fight)

And others, which you may not be aware because you don't seem to take into account the existence of other people when you think about communication. You see the words and their meanings, but you don't go one bit further than that, so you don't get anything.
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>>38367195
Bad idea famalino, this is my time to myself

>>38367184
Pretty sure the same issues would reemerge, only muskier
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>>38365999
>The floor
Actually, the floor is torture Nick. My feet feel... compressed, like I am being pressed against a surface I just want to go through. It is miserable to have such a limit.

>The walls in your bathroom
Would be nice if I was appreciated by some pervert enough to be jacked off to. I would if I could watch others in their bathrooms, except for those that decided it would benefit them to put up walls.

>Whatever keeps you from the NEETs
That would be an unbalanced limit as they would get more control over me and I would gain no more over them. As I said, have to play the game when others play.

>Your clothes
Had many dreams about society becoming a nudist colony. Would be nice. Could check out many naked females, maybe even find ways to rub against them and it not be harassment.

>Doors
Without doors you got doorways. Easier than fighting with a handle or knob or other thing that proves I am retarded.

>Your roof
It benefits me to have this, for I would otherwise get affected by the cold. As said, if it benefits the self, a limit can be imposed, as long as I could take down my roof at any time.
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>>38367133
>My dad is 1.58m and he got married, had 3 kids and last i checked he is alive. He has worked a job for decades and eats sleeps goes to the loo like a functional human being does. Get a grip.
The fuck is that supposed to mean? Maybe if he wasn't a manlet, he could have had a more attractive wife and more success. Not to mention that singapore is manlet land.

Also that's why I said "new". Owning an old beat up mercedes doesn't mean shit, these things cost next to nothing.
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>>38366998
>ugly people will be treated like shit by society,

You still think as if you were stuck in school. Ugliness in school is one of any number of differences that can be used to be singled out. It's not inherent to ugliness. Most people like ugly people because they're no threat to them. They're not competition. If you knew women as well as you claim to know them, you'd know many women like an ugly friend, a friend that highlights how pretty other women are.

As to HL3, there's no way they can make it good at this point. They're going to make it Virtual Reality and shit, and it'll suck a big fat one.
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>>38367098
>My gf says I spend more time talking to you fags than my gf but that's largely because I don't have much to say to her after so long wat do?

Sit down with her and talk. Chances are she won't have much to say and within 5 minutes you can come back to us.
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>>38367264
>Most people like ugly people because they're no threat to them.
Oh wow, you completely changed my perception. How glad am I now to my genetically superior lucky overlords.

>you'd know many women like an ugly friend, a friend that highlights how pretty other women are.
Yeah because that surely isn't humiliation, right?

>As to HL3, there's no way they can make it good at this point. They're going to make it Virtual Reality and shit, and it'll suck a big fat one.
No. No. No. No. No. No.
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>>38367283
That would only highlight the issue, ending in collapse
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>>38367112
>178 cm and that's tall
HAHA nick's such a manlet faggot, not even 182cm is considered tall quick fooling yourself loser
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>>38367339
For this one time, I agree with the haha-shitposter.
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>>38367140
>What I say is not objective, it is simply my perspective on the matter, which is all that matters to me being the individual to react to such.

You need to change that thinking if you ever hope to understand reality and other people.

>You know what is boring about chess? The fact that it has the same rules every single time you play.

That's what makes it stable and enjoyable. Imagine a game where you have to play the fucking tutorial every time you wanted to play. Fuck that. That's some Driver crap right there.

>If only you could break the rules entirely and create a new system for a short period.

This is where your idiocy upsets me. YOU CAN. You can do anything you want with a fucking chess set. You can shove bishops and queens up your ass and shit them out into a target: nobody will stop you. You can make your own fucking rules. For a king to end up in your rectum is the new checkmate, no problem. Anything is possible. But it's shit. It's not interesting.

> I used to play with chess pieces on silly putty and stick the pieces in various places. Then I would remove the bottoms and make the chess pieces into finger puppets. Much more fun.

All right, I see the problem, and it's the same as before. You are basically a child. Finger puppets aren't fun for adults, but chess is. You're trying to dress your emotional arrest as everything except emotional arrest.

You're trying to make it sound like other people are "not free" and "drones" while, in reality, you're just far behind them on everything.

>It is limits I don't see as beneficial but rules made by others to impose upon me. It is cucking me, making me their little bitch.

You literally think chess rules exist to cuck you. Lord have mercy. Same persecution complex as Dan.
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>>38367258

How did you know for sure my mom isn't beautiful
And
How would having a more beautiful wife make him more successful? He's more than happy with her and they love each other. He'd stay if my mom got in an accident and lost her good looks.

That's success.

By admitting 1.58 is 'short' you are admitting you're tall
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>>38367378
>You literally think chess rules exist to cuck you. Lord have mercy. Same persecution complex as Dan.
They do if you randomly end up with only half the figures compared to other people. It's just being set up for failure. Same as being born inferior.
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>>38367140
>I would love that actually.

No, fucking hell, an infinite DM map means you'd NEVER SEE ANYONE! How would you love that?

Go play No Man's Sky for its DM qualities and tell me you love it, just tell me you love it, if you dare.
> if everyone could noclip, it would be a lot more fun to try to beat the others.

It wouldn't. That's why people don't play that way.

>They should have more patience or play a different game if they are bored by that.

That's not the reason. You tell them to have more patience but when playing chess, you'd rather play fingapapits. Please shove a king up your butt. Checkmate, mate.
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>>38367140
>My OCD makes it near impossible to play games with others as they always use the same maps, but maps I can't touch because they were newer than the older maps that nobody touches.

So why do you do that dumb shit? Pray tell.
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>>38366041
>You don't allow them to exist
I allow them to say what they wish, they can chose to censor themselves if they like, but I will consider such an act pointless on myself. In return, I can say what I wish and because it is foolish I will not censor myself. It is a fair trade.

>Refusing a person's existence
I see, so if they are not censoring themselves with me, I don't exist. Is this not fair? Eye for an eye, they currently can take my eyes and I cannot do anything. This system has us being able to fairly make each other blind. It is a balance.

>Giving value to what THEY feel and think
Why would I seek to do this when they seek to limit me? They don't give value to what I think of not having limits. Ergo, we either communicate poorly or one of us gives up on the other. Just don't control me.

>If you exclude this, you impose a limit on them
But they can not value what I feel or think, which they do even if rules are in place, so it evens out. This is the big difference, I seek fairness, you are saying to be cucked by making myself inferior for being the only one devalued.

>That way you know what's OK and what isn't
But that kills so many freedoms, so many choices you have, and replaces it with someone who devalues you and thus gives you no meaning to communicate.

>Do integrate all I'm saying
Perhaps I am too retarded to learn
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>>38367382
>How did you know for sure my mom isn't beautiful
Well for one she is from Singapore. Her husband is short even for Singapore. And also her son is on /r9k/.

>How would having a more beautiful wife make him more successful?
This is not even a question that needs to be asked.

>He's more than happy with her and they love each other. He'd stay if my mom got in an accident and lost her good looks.
That's every kid thinks about their parents. Well, I don't.

>By admitting 1.58 is 'short' you are admitting you're tall
The difference from Singaporean average is almost the same as the difference to average in my country.
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>>38367172
>Wait, so you actually think there is no correlation at all between bad looks and less success?

Yes, YES, DAN, YES. Unless looks matter in your line of work, YES, YES, OUI, JA, SI, DA, YES, FUCKING FUCKING YES.

Most careers that make a lot of money have NOTHING to do with looks.

>law
>medicine
>computers
>engineering
>science, research
>etc

Short of being a model, front desk jobs (and even those generally are fine if you take care of yourself), jobs don't require you to be good-looking. Well-groomed is enough.

It's just an excuse you have. You still have to show me your face for assessment.

>But I also hate it in women.

Even when it doesn't exist in them. I've seen you at work with that shit, Dan, I've seen you.

>NAWALT

I learned a new one today. It's true, though.

>tinder

Why would you resort to Tinder for anything? Tinder is where humans go for hookups, Dan. HOOKUPS, DAN.

>Oh yeah, that doesn't count for whatever reason.

It doesn't count because Tinder is used principally for hookups and sexual encounters, in which mostly looks matter. Women who want a serious relationship don't look for it on Tinder, as a general rule.
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>>38367443
>This is not even a question that needs to be asked.
Explain why, more clearly.
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>>38367218
>Well even if it offends you, you don't count.

I'm not offended, but you're wrong.

>>38367218
>You have never seen me.

That's your fault.

>>38367218
>You come from a very different culture.

Bullshit excuse. I come from a more abusive family than your country could ever be abusive.

> I'm pretty sure someone from Philippines would also think I'm tall. Doesn't matter. Not one damn thing.

Reminder that you're 2 cm "shorter" than the average of your nation. That means you're the same size as most.

>People who got born genetically superior know it.

You take these memes so fucking seriously it's retarded. The only thing that makes you inferior is your mental illness, your confirmation bias, your love for your own bullshit. If misery was a cock, you'd be slobbering all over it like one of the whores you love to hate.
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>>38367218
>They are smug as shit and they know they got the better deal here.

No, that's your impression. Remember that guy's portrait? It was neutral, you thought the woman was looking smug.

>You are ignoring reality.

I've had relationships with reality, I know. You haven't, because you don't know. Excuses are what you know, first and foremost.
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>>38367252
>Actually, the floor is torture Nick. My feet feel... compressed, like I am being pressed against a surface I just want to go through. It is miserable to have such a limit.

Well just imagine if there was no floor or ground: you'd fall to your death.

>Would be nice if I was appreciated by some pervert enough to be jacked off to.

Then why don't you fucking go on Craigslist and make your wish come true? You can even get paid for it. You know why you don't do it? Because it's not fucking true. You'd not actually enjoy it.

You're so disconnected from yourself that you don't even know what you'd like or not. Test yourself: find yourself a perv on craigslist and see if you really want to do such a thing.
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>>38367497
>Most careers that make a lot of money have NOTHING to do with looks.
Firstly, you're completely missing out management and entertainment. These are the careers that really earn a lot. And you need good looks for both of these.

>Even when it doesn't exist in them.
It does. Showing some women where it allegedly doesn't proves nothing.

>I learned a new one today. It's true, though.
No it's not.

You're just ignoring everything. I don't know honestly why I bother opening this conversation time and time again. Let's just leave it be.

Of course now you will be all "hurr u running away" I don't give a shit what you think. I get it, you ignore the reality to be sane and happy. Good for you.
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>>38366057
>Strictly between the people involve
Society means many things to me. It at large, a few individuals of the society, it depends on the context. Society is just a group of people with a common core set of beliefs that they instill upon others, the individuals of which change based on the pool involved.

>>38366078
>You think if I insult you it automatically means I hate you?
No, but you heavily dislike me. You talk to me as a curiosity, an interest, but dislike what you hear. This is the reason one insults, to state their disdain for another. Why insult if you are upset with a simple idea?

>Which is partly why I completely stopped
Censorship of yourself in such a manner is unhealthy. It prevents you from speaking your true meaning. It distorts the truth, pervades it, and destroys all meaning of all you say. What you say can have zero meaning at all if you have limits.

>Talking is more than just saying how you feel
For what purpose is talk? Either for the expression of ideas or for the removal of the feeling of isolation. The latter is simple feeling. The former is a concept, which because humans are feeling creatures, gets modified with a subjective context to have feeling. Ergo, everything said is said for how you feel or what you think.
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>>38367258
>The fuck is that supposed to mean? Maybe if he wasn't a manlet,

I know it burns to see men who are shorter than you be more successful, but you have to notice the scorn YOU have for men of modest stature. Do you notice it? It's not women hating on short men, it's you. How do you explain this bullshit?

>"Women are whores and sluts, they hate short men, just like my memes tell me!"

>"Manlet!"

Dan? Make some fucking sense please? I want a serious resonse to this. Make it snappy and sharp. I'm just about to get mad.
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>>38367258
>he could have had a more attractive wife and more success.

You don't know his wife nor his success. This proves you don't even care to know if your theories are right or wrong, you'll deny anything that doesn't work your way.

I know beautiful women who are married to short men. You'll say, "MUH IF HE WAS TALLER, HE'D HAVE GOTTEN A MORE BEAUTIFUL WOMAN," and no, he wouldn't. Some women are the most beautiful women in the world. There's no one above them.

You know how we call these women? I'm sure you don't.

Women you're in love with, cunt.
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>>38367580
>you ignore the reality
You just described yourself

>>38367580
>management and entertainment
If you've never seen an ugly CEO before go get a job in a posh hotel where rich business people go to attend business meetings at.
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>>38366088
>Proof is you've insulted me a few times
Simply because you got insulted by a lack of limits. That I could not help for I seek to have no limits and thus that is my natural speech. Humans can also evoke emotions from fact and construe the wrong emotions, upon which case it was the fault of the speaker for not communicating properly, ergo why you say something is wrong and I communicate it in a clearer way.
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>>38367633
Pls answer my questiom about the 4chan box and captcha. Plz
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>>38367298
>Oh wow, you completely changed my perception. How glad am I now to my genetically superior lucky overlords.

Oh wow, shitty sarcasm!

>Yeah because that surely isn't humiliation, right?

When that happens, people don't make it explicit, they don't talk about it. People won't avoid others just so they don't get into such a situation.

>No. No. No. No. No. No.

Gordon Freeman is 148 cm tall, they needed very small people to get into that suit,
it uses less material, saves money, so Gordon got chosen for his small size.
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>>38367357

Then you're a fucking imbecile because Mickey Mouse over here never speaks his mind or the truth. Haven't you noticed?

You should feel sad that you agree with someone who doesn't believe what they say. Mickey is probably shorter than 178 as well, and has a small dick, because nobody above that height with a serious cock gets this angry over nothing, for over this long.

And yes, trollfag, I will ignore you for the rest of this thread. Enjoy.
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>>38367382
>By admitting 1.58 is 'short' you are admitting you're tall

Snap, Dan.

>>38367403
>They do if you randomly end up with only half the figures compared to other people.

That's not the rules of chess.
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>>38367656
>People won't avoid others just so they don't get into such a situation
I would. I wouldn't want to be the ugly one.
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>>38367438
>I allow them to say what they wish, they can chose to censor themselves if they like, but I will consider such an act pointless on myself. In return, I can say what I wish and because it is foolish I will not censor myself. It is a fair trade.

No, you didn't understand the point. Go back to my post and read again. I'm not rewriting this shit again.
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>>38367580
>entertainment

Google "ugly famous actors"
If you get 0 results your point is proven
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>>38367438
>I see, so if they are not censoring themselves with me, I don't exist.

Other people have empathy, unlike you, they won't have to make an effort to understand you. You imposing your will on others is not fair. And remember, it's not a trade. Tradism will kill any desire for anyone, to be your friend or more. Trading will only lead you to be alone.
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>>38366128
>It is a ritual and its purpose is to establish that everything is OK.
I see. This ritualized moment always confused me. I never understood where to go after this ritualized moment occurred or the purpose for which others did it. I simply did it since it felt like a useful way to start a conversation when nothing else could be said. So the answer is that I must ensure to the other person I am not going to kill them? If so, why not say simply "I am not here to kill you.". If I do not perform this ritual, why would I kill a person? Would it not make more sense to perform the ritual to fool others to thinking all was right, ergo it becomes easier to kill?

>Face danger and sense it
But I am not dangerous. I am cucked. I do not have the power to hurt another. Why can they not sense my weakness and simply communicate, knowing they have the advantage? They disrespect me, yet fear me. This does not make sense.

>>38366148
Indeed. Yelling you are a gaylord with a dunces hat is irrational on the basis that it does not benefit the self, unless the self wishes to be a gaylord or wishes to be seen as others to be such.
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>>38367443
>This is not even a question that needs to be asked.

Because you can't answer it.

>>38367443
>That's every kid thinks about their parents. Well, I don't.
https://www.google.ch/search?q=husband+stays+with+burned+wife&oq=husband+stays+with+b&aqs=chrome.0.0j69i57j0l4.4921j0j7&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8
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>>38367680
If im Mickey mouse id like to let you know that Im 180cm and I consider myself short, my dick is 7in which is probably large by youre pathetic standards
Nick=stupid manlet dicklet tripfag and I hate his threads
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>>38367721
>ugly famous actors/actresses
I can't think of a single one that isn't a comedian of some sort.
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>>38367580
>Firstly, you're completely missing out management and entertainment.

I survived several managers. Looks had little to do with their success and failures.

Same with entertainment. There are many women you'd consider ugly who have a career in fashion and modelling, because they look different. If this surprises you, it's because you know nothing of that world.

> Showing some women where it allegedly doesn't proves nothing.

Then showing some where it does doesn't either. Thing is, you can't even show that much.

>No it's not.

See your above statement: if some do it doesn't mean all do, you fucking said it yourself! But oh, I see, you only apply it to beliefs YOU want! Ah ha! I got you there.
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>>38367781
>comedian
Are comedians not entertainers?
>y/n
Can comedians be ugly and rich?
>y/n
Can comedians be ugly and famous?
>y/n
Can comedians be ugly, rich, AND famous, and married?
>y/n


Answer my questions with either yes or no
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>>38367580
>You're just ignoring everything. I don't know honestly why I bother opening this conversation time and time again. Let's just leave it be.

Countering your bullshit is not ignoring you. Responding to you is not ignoring everything. Disagree with you is not ignoring what you say. I know you're getting sick of your own bullshit, and it's about fucking time.

Don't "leave it be," just fucking change for fuck's sake.

>Of course now you will be all "hurr u running away" I don't give a shit what you think. I get it, you ignore the reality to be sane and happy. Good for you.

Except that makes NO sense. YOU do that. If I ignored reality, how come reality matches what I tell you of it?

You say women are this and that, and you end up alone. I say they're not, and I end up with women, and what I say gets confirmed by reality, so how am I the one who ignores reality?

You are.
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>>38367814
They want to rife you because you're pointing out facts they want to avoid facing. By getting you rifed, they think they have won and can happily run away from the facts you presented to them
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>>38367819
Yes to all, but the problem is that attractive people have privileges.
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>>38367586
>No, but you heavily dislike me.

Wrong again. If I did, I'd not waste a second on you.

>You talk to me as a curiosity, an interest, but dislike what you hear.

No, by now, I've understood enough about you and it's not curiosity anymore, or even interest. I want you to improve and get better. I dislike what I hear because I know it means that you won't get better; what I dislike is you not getting better.
>This is the reason one insults, to state their disdain for another

I've stated my reasons and they were not this.

>Why insult if you are upset with a simple idea?

I've explained that as well. It's not about ideas. It's about dumb motherfuckers who stay in shit when they get a chance to get out of it.
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hey guys im faggot nick and these threads arent actually my shitty armchair philosophy but actually where I can argue with other idiots on irrelevant topics and make no arguments but I spend my entire day here because I have no outside life or friends
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>>38367586
>Censorship of yourself in such a manner is unhealthy.

Pff, bullshit. If nobody "censored" themselves like that, they'd have no friends, like you, and isolation is unhealthy, not politeness.

>It prevents you from speaking your true meaning.

It's always possible to speak your true meaning while remaining respectful. If you don't believe that, give me a sentence you think cannot be said in a respectful manner and I'll prove you wrong.

>What you say can have zero meaning at all if you have limits.

Wrong again. You have all these grand statements you make, but they're wrong, and untested by reality. Get off your fucking high horses, Coats. You can't tell me you have low self-esteem and then speak like you're the human communication expert.

>For what purpose is talk? Either for the expression of ideas or for the removal of the feeling of isolation.

Stop being retarded, right now. Thanks.
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>>38367868
>Yes to all, but the problem is that attractive people have privileges.
>you are right but i must come up with an excuse that you're not


A rich ugly and famous comedian, and his wife, will get to jump the line when queuing at the supermarket. Or get random strangers offering them free shit. Or asking to take photos with them.

An unfamous Chad will not get this treatment.

Is this statement correct? Again y/n only
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>>38367633
>Simply because you got insulted by a lack of limits.

That wasn't the insult.

> that is my natural speech.

That's why you need to grow up. All things natural aren't good.

> upon which case it was the fault of the speaker for not communicating properly,

That always depends. Sometimes people are cunts and don't get what they should get, for various reasons.

>ergo why you say something is wrong and I communicate it in a clearer way.

Instead, you should make an effort to see that I'm telling you isn't wrong. Like I said before, spend less time arguing and more time thinking about what I'm telling you. Or else this will be pointless.

Remind me which one of us has his own place and freedom and has successfully made friends and lovers?

If you want to get on my level, listen to me.
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>>38367697

The beautiful ones don't have such situations, I meant.
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>>38367721

Steve Buscemi. I wouldn't even piss on his face, but he's a famous actor and critically appreciated.

Your point is proven. Can't wait for Dan's comeback.
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>>38367931
Yes.
Origanolli.
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>>38367965
Oh, okay. You would be correct.
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>>38367970
He was good looking and doesnt look that bad nowadays, hes odd but not hideous
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>>38367992
So, looking good does not automatically equate to having privileges
Y/n?

ugly people can be more successful and/or privileged than rich people.
Y/n?
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>>38367766
>I must ensure to the other person I am not going to kill them?

For fuck's sake, are you really an alien trying to understand the customs of my planet?

No, Coats, the original reason for doing this doesn't mean it'll happene very time. You'll greet friends even if you know they're not dangerous. It means things are OK and it's OK to talk.

>If so, why not say simply "I am not here to kill you."

Because if you did, the person would immediately wonder why you'd want to kill them, making them worried. Isn't that fucking obvious?

Have you ever done an IQ test of any sort? Or any tests? I really feel like you're about 4 of age in some areas.

>But I am not dangerous. I am cucked.

You are dangerous. You'd rape a woman if you were sure you'd suffer no consequences, as such, you're dangerous to women. You're dangerous, don't be a pussy and say otherwise. You're a potential rapist, that makes you dangerous to half the population.

>They disrespect me, yet fear me. This does not make sense.

Who fears you? It doesn't take much to be dangerous when you're a human.

>Indeed. Yelling you are a gaylord with a dunces hat is irrational on the basis that it does not benefit the self, unless the self wishes to be a gaylord or wishes to be seen as others to be such.

The point went right over your head. That's why we should stay clear of analogies. Dan is saying that healing yourself of your mental illness is hard work and can be painful.

Both of you are too pussy to do much about it right now.
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>>38367779

Everyone knows my dick size by now. Don't go read the archives, I don't want you crying.

I don't believe you're 180 cm and I'm sure you're fat.

inb4 "see, I made you respond! I'm a good troll!" I do what I want.
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>>38367781

http://www.imdb.com/list/ls004246438/

This goes to show that "ugly" isn't a very defined category. Some of these I find beautiful, but I can see why they'd be considered ugly.

The women I loved the most weren't "perfect beauties", but that only made them more lovable. It's like, I can see beauty in a man, but it won't make me feel anything. Same on some very beautiful women; I know they're beautiful, but it doesn't pull at the heart strings.
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>>38367819

Nice rhetoric. Manhandling the Dan.
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>>38367868
>attractive people have privileges.

Like what? I'm attractive, I want my privileges, where are they?
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>>38367931

We have a tough one over here. I like that.

I should do that y/n stuff more often.

Very Socratic, in fact. Dialectic up in this bitch.
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>>38368008
>He was good looking

He's considered ugly by most. Like I said, it's subjective. Nobody is hideous short of mutilation or burn or acid or something.
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>>38366170
>You'd not actually want to discuss sex with a female friend
To do such is illogical. Everyone has sexual urges. Everyone has a body. Everyone takes a shower. Everyone shits. To cut off these threads of conversation is to get rid of a lot of what makes every person similar to one another, thereby in turn preventing their ability to comprehend or otherwise communicate with another. Now you will say my mother's ability to talk about sex freely was abuse.

>You seek to remove others' freedom
They see my freedom and have become offended by it to the point it is their freedom to have me enslaved. If your interests do not line up with my interests, we do not have a common goal and therefore it becomes faulty to communicate. Ergo we talk until one of us gets fed up with the other. I do not see any with a common goal, therefore I talk with those that eventually get fed up with me. It is not the fault of either of us, but is still a problem due to the lack of there existing humans with a common goal.

>Can you even conceive of that
Such is illogical for it was an act performed, all the more to talk about it if new facts are realized for the purpose of transcendence. Transcendence is beneficial, sex is an act, to transcend sex you need to talk about it. Not talking about it confines it and makes it weaker. She is in turn preventing herself from transcending in sex, but also from preventing you, which in turn means she is attacking you as a human to self-improve through communication. To prevent self-improvement is an attack on the human form, to attack is abuse, she was abusing you, you were in an abusive relationship. Ergo it is good you are not with this woman on the basis she is unhealthy and seeks to wish to abuse those she is with due to being the malicious individual she is.

Captchas are getting more annoying. Now I cannot get them to function half the time.
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>>38368111
I ate green tea cake with my favourite milk /tea/ at 9pm and now i can't sleep. It's almost 2am. I have to get up at 7.30am and i'll be up and running for 10 hours tomorrow and sunday, not too sure yet but i may end up on a stage spouting words in two to three languages in the hot unsheltered summer sun
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>>38368019
Question 1: No

Question 2: It depends on the rich person
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>>38368134
>To do such is illogical. Everyone has sexual urges. Everyone has a body. Everyone takes a shower. Everyone shits.

That's why you don't discuss this. They know, they do the same. You won't discuss shitting with a woman until you're very, very intimate. Intimacy is a journey, you need to walk it, you can't just jump phases; if you do, people will know you're a fucking alien, Coats.

Plus, you're wrong, not everyone has sexual urges, for instances.

> Now you will say my mother's ability to talk about sex freely was abuse.

Yes, because it is. No son of a mother should be exposed to her sex talks. You know what happens when parents are abusive fucks? You.
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>>38368134
Coat

Do you know who or what shits, has sex and showers in public?
Answer: chimpanzees

Well if you check your birth certificate though. I'm pretty sure you were born 'human'
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I always think whenever anyone gets a hideous burn, loses an eye, so on and so forth, it's the perfect excuse to get a badass mask or Kano-style face armour.
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>>38368201
>It depends
I should have asked 'true or false' instead of 'yes or no'
Now if dan could be less stubborn and and answer too.
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>>38368134
>They see my freedom and have become offended by it to the point it is their freedom to have me enslaved.

No, that's persecution complex bullshit. How many times do I have to say this until you realise it?

You aren't trying to learn anything by now. It's been over 15 hours of arguing back and forth, and I see zero intention on your side to learn a damn thing.

>Such is illogical for it was an act performed, all the more to talk about it if new facts are realized for the purpose of transcendence.

Put it into your head that YOU don't understand much about much. Your logic doesn't include 90% of the elements it should consider.

As long as you keep your pretentious ways, you won't learn. You may think you aren't arrogant, but you are. You never doubt a thing you say. It's time to do so. Because you're wrong.

The amount of bullshit you speak is out there.

> you were in an abusive relationship.

No, dumbass, neither of us was comfortable with discussing certain things, so we didn't. I know that makes no sense to someone who's 4 mentally and wouldn't mind shitting on the carpet in front of guests, but to adults, it's normal.

The rest is just so much crazy bullshit that I won't even respond.
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>>38366245
>When you speak to someone, there are more things involved than biological
Like what? Please explain what else one can talk about when you know about them in general. They know you are not going to kill them, where do you go from there in a normal conversation?

>They need careful approach
Why is such an act put in such a limited time frame with such limited people. To gain more opinions is to transcend better due to being aware of the majority as well as those most important to you. To gain fewer opinions means you have no idea what you are doing.
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>>38368100
When a person is attractive they are seen as holding valuable personality traits regardless of whether they have them or not. You would be seen as more intelligent and interesting than an average or ugly person. You were probably given more attention in social situations than an average or ugly person. These are a few examples of attractive privilege.
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>>38368168

Damn, that will be hard...
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>>38368049
im not fat NICK im actually pretty skinny but ive started lifting to improve that
t. 180cm Mickey Mouse
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>>38368311
>where do you go from there in a normal conversation?

It's an activity. It's not just exchanging information. You're showing the other that you like their presence, and they do so too, but not in direct ways, as that would be creepy and unsettling and would convey other meanings (such as, "I am retarded and understand nothing of humans, please let's fuck.").

>Why is such an act put in such a limited time frame with such limited people.

Narcissism again. It's not limited, it's sophisticated. A space rocket is more complicated than a car, but it goes farther too. It's more fragile and dangerous, but it's built for other things.

People aren't limited, you are. People can engage in such sophisticated exchanges, you can't. While you're shitting on the carpet, others engage in relationships and exchange things you don't even know exist. Tenderness doesn't exist to you, you wouldn't even know how to do it or receive it. And that's sad.

>To gain more opinions is to transcend better d

Red flag, whenever you use oddly elevated terms for obscure actual meaning. What do you transcend here?

>. To gain fewer opinions means you have no idea what you are doing.

This is tiring me: do you really think you know what you're doing? One moment you say you don't, the next you're pontificating all over the place like a self-absorbed expert.

If you're that fucking good at people, why are you socially retarded and isolated? Oh, it's everyone else's fault? Can you believe your own bullshit here?
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>>38368316
Lol. When i was in my shitty vocational school i would work on some project for weeks and sleep 2~5 hours a night for 3~6 days straight and then have to present it to the lecturers.

This is nothing

>>38368314
That slight leverage in attention is not enough to classify as 'privilege'
Until i see people cutting the queue at the cashier because they're handsome your point isnt proven
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>>38368314
>When a person is attractive they are seen as holding valuable personality traits regardless of whether they have them or not.

Very arguable. You may want to convince yourself, but that doesn't last too long.

>You would be seen as more intelligent and interesting than an average or ugly person.

For the purpose of being in a relationship, maybe, but not when it comes to getting a job and getting results.

>You were probably given more attention in social situations than an average or ugly person.

I wasn't. Besides, attention isn't always a good thing. But if that's all you have to show for privilege, then it's virtually nothing.

You're a Tumblrina now.
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>>38368368

Good thing you got a name.
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Why are the people who claim to be the most 'made of love' completely unloveable? Atlas, you must have some ideas.
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>>38368434
so nick if you care about outwards appearance so much (constantly mentioning height weight dicksize etc) im assuming youre insecure, why is this nick?
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>>38368476

Atlas is unloveable to you because he's loved by too many other people already,

Daily Atlas anti-bullying defense force.
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>>38368483
>(constantly mentioning height weight dicksize etc)

Whenever I mention these, it's when it's been used as excuses, usually by Dan.

You mentioned your cock first, please notice.

I have no reason to be insecure about any of those things, in fact. Moreover, insecurities about the body rarely have their roots in the body per se.

Let's talk about you dislike of me and the thread, that's more interesting. If you dare, that is.
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>>38368505
Not a fan of this ADF desu. Tell the truth, you're being funded by George Soros aren't you?
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>>38368545

I'm funded by the Association of Donuts for Fatsos, so yes, the ADF. Financed by George Fatsos himself.
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If anyone wants to see an American indie movie with elements of comedy and weirdness, I recommend Happiness.

If you don't go, "Damn..." every 5 minutes or so, you're probably from a very dysfunctional family.

Warning: it is normal to hate most of the characters, have some degree of compassion towards them.

From 1998.

Recommend comparable movies if you know any.

>Ice Storm
>American Beauty

Someone on /tv/ told me about Buscemi's first film as a director, I think, I forget what it's called.
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What are some games I can play on the weakest laptop known to mankind?

I'm considering that "I have no mouth and I must scream" game. I've read the short story already.

I wonder if I can play that game on some emulator website.
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>>38368424
Well, it's not like being attractive doesn't come with down sides either. Your love life is pretty fucked, and it's a whole lot harder to stay in a relationship. I'd rather be how I am now, average. There was actually a thread up earlier about this. The OP wanted to see if other robots were attractive or not. He linked a website that was supposed to determine whether a person was hot or not. Here's the link if you want to try it for yourself, https://www.prettyscale.com
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>>38368527
I think these threads are stupid and pointless, youre helping noone faggotnick
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>>38366245
>It's fucking weird how you can't seem to appreciate "limits" in daily life but somehow fucking impose yourself retarded ass limits for fucking nothing
Welcome to my life. It is retarded. I believe I said I was a walking contradiction. Now you see how insane it gets.

>I wonder if your limit dicksucking doesn't come from the fact that you can't handle unwritten rules out there
Perhaps. If so, how do I stop this mess?

>>38366264
>Existing to someone else and acknowledging someone else's existence
For what benefit does that serve?

>Being two hours late on the conversation was not freedom
What alternative exists? Either I am ridiculously late, like I am today, or am unable to express myself.

>What you think is a limit will give you more freedom
I don't understand Nick. The only thing you are saying is nothing is free, suck a dick and enjoy it.

>>38366283
I guess it depends how desperate you are to get out. Do you really want help? That is what it comes down to here. What do you prioritize more, getting help or staying the same. The route out is made clear, that is all that can be done, it is up to you to take it or accept you are a retard who can't change.
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>>38368730
Do you like tycoon type games? Try this

https://www.openttd.org/en/

It's so much fun. Or find a website with NES/SNES emulator and play anything.
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>>38368769

That's not the reason, because you come for every thread, and you see what happens in them. You see people coming back, for months.

Maybe you're upset that the thread helps people. Is that it?
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>>38368771
>Welcome to my life. It is retarded. I believe I said I was a walking contradiction. Now you see how insane it gets.

No excuses. If you don't eliminate bullshit when you see it, your situation is completely your fault. This is your chance to get better.

I will be tough on you about this, Coats. We aren't here to fuck around and giggle. If you aren't ready to take things seriously, tell me now.

>Perhaps. If so, how do I stop this mess?

How about you listen to what I tell you without imagining I'm always wrong?

>For what benefit does that serve?

If you only knew. It's the best thing in life, the very best. No life is worth living without these "benefits".

>What alternative exists? Either I am ridiculously late, like I am today, or am unable to express myself.

You often do this bullshit where if it's not your way, it's nothing. Stop it.
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>>38368587
>Phillip Seymour Hoffman
Ever seen Synecdoche, New York?
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>>38368773

I liked Transport Tycoon, back in the day. I may even have tried this thing once.
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>>38368867

It was on my list. Still haven't. I hope he doesn't shoot loads on walls in that movie.
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>>38366370
>Write your questions down somewhere
Paranoia of someone finding my questions, I like to destroy all evidence. An anonymous imageboard is the safest place to put them.
>The intent here is for you to learn how things actually work with people
But if they differ from me, how can I be like them?

>Arguing was good, but as we saw last time, when it goes wrong for you, you resort to illogical and untrue points
I shall try and follow this, though I don't agree mine are illogical or untrue.

>You'll complain this is a limit, but it'll be efficient
I'm a retard, not sure what you are even asking me to do here. Do you want me to reply less? I don't get the meaning.

>>38366385
Is it irony I can see what you are saying here? You are giving us a choice to make to face our situation. It is our choice to take it or not. It may be ridiculous, but how bad do we want it?

How willing were people to saw off their own legs, chew threw their arms, or otherwise permanently disfigure themselves to escape a boulder? Some may not. It is the individuals' choice to make, nobody else can do that for them.

>>38366447
>So I get your words more regularly
That makes the bump count reached a lot quicker. Plus, isn't that the opposite of not replying? I don't know what you want from me. I shall continue as I have and hope you clarify it later....
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>>38368730
>Papers, Please
>Yume Nikki
>Saya no Uta
>Heroes of Might and Magic 3
>Emulators of Genesis games such as Shining Force +2

>>38368888
Nice quads. My personal favourite movie.
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>>38368897
>But if they differ from me, how can I be like them?

By growing, learning, healing.

> I don't agree mine are illogical or untrue.

I know, but either we focus on a specific point and argue it to the death, or you accept that I can be trusted on account of my experience in normal and abnormal people.
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>>38368897
>Is it irony I can see what you are saying here?

No irony there, it literally is the situation. You guys would sooner drown in shit provided it was your own, than swim in someone else's pristine pool.
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>>38368897
>How willing were people to saw off their own legs, chew threw their arms, or otherwise permanently disfigure themselves to escape a boulder? Some may not.

Give it a few days, most will. Animals do.

There's a movie about it. The moral of the story is to take a fucking cellphone with you or tell people where you'll be.
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>>38368897
>That makes the bump count reached a lot quicker.

WHO GIVES A FUCKING SHIT! Do you think I am limited in the amount of threads I can open? If the thread reaches bumplimit, I'll make a new one, big fucking deal. We did it before.

To reach 500, though, it needs to be a very involved, or long thread. Our record is like 620 posts or more, maybe 660? I forget. Hasn't happened since last time I was on holidays.
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>>38368897
>Plus, isn't that the opposite of not replying? I don't know what you want from me. I shall continue as I have and hope you clarify it later....

Smaller chunks is all I suggested, so I get your responses more often.

>>38368921

I hadn't seen my own quads. It is your favourite?

I hope you see almost everyone in it is fucked and many are cunts, right?

Do it spoilered: name two good people in the film.
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>>38368782
idk who youre mistaking me for, ive shitposted on ONE previous thread but I hid the rest
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>>38369001
If you haven't seen it I'm not telling you shit
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>>38369058

I thought you meant Happiness, my bad.
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>>38369047
nick this is the second thread ive been in why are you laughing like that
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>>38366472
And I forgot to add my name. I am bad at this...

Dan, you are quite right, looks get you ahead in life. This is why every robot is ugly. Why not just accept being a loser? Focus on the individual, on the self, and who cares about everyone else. Just try to find a way to not get cucked like I am being.

That is your choice to make. It is the choice of a coward. It would be my choice as well. I can't saw off my own arm. I will seek to find other ways out until I die because sawing my own arm off is too much of a sacrifice.

>>38366562
I rather shop at cheap places. Why spend more for food? Sounds like a waste. Just another way everyone is obsessed with spending more money for no reason.

>>38366569
It bugs me heavily. I loathe the limitations here. I hate the box, hate the post button, hate captchas, hate the limit on text, hate all these constraints on the site.

But I deal with them because I feel I benefit from being able to post and understand it is necessary for some procedure to exist for things to be posted or else it wouldn't be intuitive. Life and everything in it starts with you being heavily limited, stuck in confinements. The tutorial has little free will, then every level past that gets more free until you have almost no limits whatsoever. The problem is I feel I am still stuck on the tutorial level.

>>38366588
Limitation I see the benefit of and can change by choosing not to post. Choosing not to come here. Now tell me about societal conventions and what choice I have in the matter?
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>it's another tripfag norman circlejerk thread
when will we be rid of this disease
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>>38369115

Because you're so fucking transparent. I honestly don't know at which level you're trying to troll, but I have a hilarious feeling that you believe you thought you could actually make me believe you weren't yourself.

That's why I laughed.

So, why do you hate me exactly?
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>>38366629
>Are the people in expensive cars more ugly?
Yes. They usually are overcompensating for being rejects in other areas of life.

>Group of young people
Yep, and everyone else has someone else to talk to, except for the fact that they will find a way to make a group with each other so they don't have to talk to you because you are the dangerous one.

>5'10"
Join the club. I feel like a midget. Everyone I hear from or see is bigger than me.

>ugly and short people
That still view you as shit and thus want nothing to do with you. They are the enemy as much as any other.
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>>38369116
>Dan, you are quite right, looks get you ahead in life.

How would you know?

>This is why every robot is ugly

I've known robots who were hot, but thought they were ugly.

It boils down to whether you're ready to work on yourself and improve, or whether you want excuses.

>Why spend more for food?

Plenty of reasons: tastier food, local products, animals being treated differently, etc.

>It bugs me heavily. I loathe the limitations here. I hate the box, hate the post button, hate captchas, hate the limit on text, hate all these constraints on the site.

Then go back to pen and paper and see how you enjoy that freedom. Are you dumb? How do you send a fucking post without the send button?
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>>38369146
>when will we be rid of this disease

As soon as you're able to read the threads you like and ignore the ones you don't like, smart boy.
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>>38369146

I know it's you, Rich.


>>38369181
>Yes. They usually are overcompensating for being rejects in other areas of life.

Awesome, now we have two bullshit versions of the same thing; I hope Coats and Dan will somehow cancel each other's crap.
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>>38369159
Nick theres not one single guy who hates you and these threads, the entirety of r9k with like 20 exceptions hate you and these threads, most just hide them but some shitpost or 'troll'. just make a fucking discord and leave r9k this place is not for you loser
also im not the guy you think I am
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>>38369216
having a bunch of these shit threads just invites more retards who in turn make even more bad threads, to the point it's impossible to ignore
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>>38369241
>I know it's you, Rich.
Nick you absolute dunce its clear as soon as he posted this the amount of posters went from 12 to 13, pay attention retard
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>>38369260
>the entirety of r9k with like 20 exceptions hate you and these threads,

This is a known mechanism by which the mentally ill person tries to escape being responsible for their own abnormal behaviour by saying that everyone else feels the same way. It's almost as though you'd be ashamed to be the only one with that opinion.

> just make a fucking discord and leave r9k this place >is not for you loser
>also im not the guy you think I am

This place isn't for me, that's right, since I'm basically a Chad by your standards. What are you going to do about it, cry? I'm here for the people of this board, so I am in the right place for that. I don't belong here, but I'm not here for the same reasons.

And you are the guy I think you are. You're the illiterate one. You're very obvious, Rich.

When you mentioned my height, you failed to realise I didn't mention my height in this thread. It's only in past threads, and many threads ago, that I stated Dan and I were the same height, yet you knew I was 178, like him, proving you have been here before, and of course you have. You post virtually all the time, and you're one of the few anons who can't spell. Look around, most users spell just fine. That's how you're so transparent.
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>>38369279
>to the point it's impossible to ignore

Rationalisation. It takes a click to ignore.

>>38369290

Ahaha, don't get pissy, Ricky, you have nothing left to hide.

Now let's focus on why you hate me.
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>>38366662
>My thoughts are expressed clearly
Because you aren't a narcissistic psychopathic retard who can't understand the simplest things in life

>I don't think you've changed your way of thinking much
I haven't? The problem is I have zero idea of what is going on.

>The limits of other people aren't willing limits either
And thus my problem. I cannot change them, who cares about society's role in all of this? I cannot change them and it does not benefit me that they have these limits.

>If our exchange makes you feel bad, you must tell me
I feel bad when you try to act more civil than you are thinking. I want the Nick that says what he feels, for that is the true Nick.

>There may be discomfort at times
Not so much. It is a healthy debate. You state things, I counter them, you counter them, we come to a solution. We just haven't reached that point yet, it takes time.

>>38366666
Well, my OCD forces me to read a lot of books I absolutely loathe. Nice quintuplets by the way.

>>38366672
>Just try with any sports of your choice
Golf
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>>38367357
That wasn't me haha lmao
That is short though
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>>38369349
>I haven't? The problem is I have zero idea of what is going on.

Coats, I keep telling you what's going on, are you not reading?

>I feel bad when you try to act more civil than you are thinking.

I always tell you what I think if it's beneficial. You don't get access to my secrets yet.

>I want the Nick that says what he feels, for that is the true Nick.

Sometimes you know more about people when they lie. That's because not everything is in the content of what people say. I'm always the true Nick.

>You state things, I counter them, you counter them, we come to a solution.

That's not how it goes. It goes like this: I tell you how people normally function, you don't believe, you tell me how you see things, I tell you it's wrong, you still don't believe it, we never come to any solution or anything.

>Well, my OCD forces me to read a lot of books I absolutely loathe.

Let's focus on this stuff for now. I want you to make me a list of OCD things you do.

I hadn't noticed how Lord Kek loved me today. Fuck. Quands plus quints.
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>>38369372

C'mon, at least pretend that your other you knows how to place periods at the end of sentences.

: |
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>>38366694
>Then why don't you go sleep with your cousins
Because that is socially unacceptable and would get me arrested.

>Getting raped by your NEETs
I had dreams about that. I am messed in the head.

>>38366713
>So you would take a dump in front of me if you could?
No, because it wouldn't be beneficial to have a turd on the ground. Would be nice, but the cleanup would be a pain, even if I would want to. If you mean on a toilet, no problem.

>You're wrong again
Why does a pervert jerk off to someone if they do not matter to them in some way?

>>38366759
One question to Dan. Abraham Lincoln was unattractive to the point he is often joked about for being ugly (which is why me looking like him, except fat, makes me absolutely hideous), yet he was the president of the United States. How did such an ugly man get so far if this limitation exists?
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>>38369486
>Because that is socially unacceptable and would get me arrested.

Isn't it because, more simply, you hate them? Sleeping, as in actually sleeping, isn't illegal. In fact, even sex with cousins isn't illegal. Provided they're adults.

>I had dreams about that. I am messed in the head.

Uh... Was a dream or a nightmare?

>No, because it wouldn't be beneficial to have a turd on the ground. Would be nice, but the cleanup would be a pain, even if I would want to. If you mean on a toilet, no problem.

You wouldn't feel any shame? You wouldn't feel bad that I'd fucking hate seeing that? That doesn't bother you at all?
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>>38369486
>Why does a pervert jerk off to someone if they do not matter to them in some way?

Enjoying something doesn't mean it matters.

I enjoy cookies, they don't fucking matter.
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>>38369327
>since I'm basically a Chad by your standards
no its because youre a loser who has a sheepish mindset and I mentioned most of r9k not as a group to back me up but because theres most likely more people who shitpost and hate on you here you absolute buffoon and the height thing, in this thread you mentioned 178cm being tall when it really isnt so i assumed youre a manlet
t. not the guy
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>>38369327
I never misspelled anything, jackass
>>38369425
There is no "other me," it's more than one person you manlet
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Train your tactics here:

https://www.chess.com/tactics

That's what I'm doing. For now.
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>>38366838
>Move on, because there's nothing more to do there
So I should just accept cucking and stay miserable? Is that your answer?

>Creative mode existed long before anything else
It did. But that was Infdev and Indev, which weren't for the general public in the same way alpha was.

>Examples
Wow... why on earth do people want creative mode? It sounds tedious if it is all presented to you. How can you collect everything if you already have it? The point of Minecraft is to collect as many ores as you can, eventually making blocks of diamond to signify you have found a lot. This seems to get rid of the point.

And that is the point, isn't it, getting rid of the point. Which makes it all meaningless because you need to be the one to get rid of the point. If they got rid of the point, it just became another rule society is enforcing on you, which in turn means the entire removal is pointless.

The lesson here is that Minecraft is actually pretty shit. It promises freedom, but is as confined as you can get, even trapping you on virtual servers.

Well, at least now I don't need to worry about working my way up there. The lesson here is most games are like Minecraft and thus most games out there are complete shit. Life is even more miserable than you could have ever believed.
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>>38369593
hello nice to meet you, im the other faggotnick poster and nicks a complete idiot, he cant understand basic concepts and misinterprets everything I say
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>>38369570
>no its because youre a loser who has a sheepish mindset

I'll ask you to show how and you won't back it up with anything, right?

>theres most likely more people who shitpost and hate on you here you absolute buffoon

Since you're always around, you know that's not true. I get a surprisingly low amount of hate in these threads. The only ones who hate are those who are asshurt in some ways. That's the only motivation that's strong enough to keep shitposting on and on. But I don't need to tell you that, you already know. You have your dark secret and you won't share it, because you're weak, too weak to face it or reveal it.

178 cm is tall, yes. Taller than most women, for sure, which is the only thing that matters to some degree when it comes to male's heights, but even this is not all there is.

It's always you rich. You always get upset about being told it's you, always. Coincidence? Fucking top kek.
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>>38369260
>theres
>>38369260
>'troll'. just
>j
>>38369260
>im

>>38369593
In that one single post, you misspelled all these. You always misspell everything like you have dyslexia, and when you get upset, it becomes worse.

You'll call me a manlet when you're packing some heat, boy.
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>>38369646
>So I should just accept cucking and stay miserable? Is that your answer?

As opposed to what? What are you going to do about things you can't change?
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>>38366841
Finally made it up to here...

>>38366860
>The mind has countless ways of fucking you over
Like instilling conflicting OCD traits that go against your freedom and make you go insane and turn into a narcissistic psychopath.

>>38366896
>If Trent was under obligation to do that
Exactly, it was freedom of choice

>You keep changing the parameters
It would be better if musicians also had to paint. Those that did would be better than those that didn't feel the compulsion to do such. That simple.

>Definition is just reality
Wait, so definitions can't be accurate?
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>>38369654
>sheepish mindset
>I'll ask you to show how and you won't back it up with anything, right?
>178 cm is tall, yes
my bad I meant to say loser in denial mindset,haha faggotnick manlet
I have no reason to be asshurt nor am i hiding anything so no im not 'weak' for no reason whatsoever
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>>38369651
You're not "the" other, there's plenty more
I'm gonna try to go back to napping
>>38369691
Nigga you thought
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>>38369646
>which weren't for the general public in the same way alpha was.

It was. Anyone could buy it. I bought it in 2010 or so, for ten bucks. I was part of the general public.>>38369646
>Wow... why on earth do people want creative mode? It sounds tedious if it is all presented to you.

It's the mode with the least limits. Think about that until you understand your limit bullshit.

>The point of Minecraft is to collect as many ores as you can, eventually making blocks of diamond to signify you have found a lot.

Obviously that's not the point of Minecraft. The beauty of the game was that there was no goal, you did your thing, just like life. Another example where you seem to like limits.

>it just became another rule society is enforcing on you,

You see everything in this light, it's truly retarded. A nerd making a game in his underpants isn't "society enforcing its rules on you", for fuck's sake. Are you this delusional?

>The lesson here is that Minecraft is actually pretty shit. It promises freedom, but is as confined as you can get, even trapping you on virtual servers.

Too much retarded autism in that. Just read yourself.

> Life is even more miserable than you could have ever believed.

Bah, you're just whining like a cuck now. Not even trying to make sense anymore. Tell you what, put some diapers on, shit yourself, cry like a baby, you'll feel better. I'll pick you up in 10 minutes when you're done.
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>>38369651
>im
>>38369651
>nicks a complete idiot
>nicks

>>38369651
>cant

Funny how you both make the same mistakes.

Drop it, Rich, it ain't funny anymore. It's cringe by now.
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>>38369731
faggotnick is a complete dunce
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>>38369708
>It would be better if musicians also had to paint. Those that did would be better than those that didn't feel the compulsion to do such. That simple.

Then it would NOT be better. You're not making any fucking sense. Compulsions are meaningless if you're forced to paint in order to make music.

>Wait, so definitions can't be accurate?

Not when you switch from your own to just reality, while forgetting on purpose that what you meant wasn't what is happening in reality.

This is such retarded conversing.
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>>38369719

Like I said, you didn't back it up. You never back up anything. You're a rhetorical midget. You never have any fucking comeback to give, you're not even funny, and you don't make any points. Of this entire thread, since the beginning, you're the most worthless addition to it. You're like a little fly. It's honestly the saddest thing to happen in these threads: your attempts at God knows what.

Are you trying to be funny? Are you trying to annoy me? Are you trying to show everyone something?

Typing like a ten-year-old and going "haha" and "lmao" makes you look dumb by any standards.

Stop being so weak, it's fucking cringe-inducing.
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Just had a blackout but Now I'm back in the game, sup ppl?
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>>38369731

I'm not even going to address this retardation anymore. Like I said, we past the point where it was funny, and we're past the point where it's cringe. Now it's just whatever happens after cringe.
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>>38369822
>Typing like a ten-year-old and going "haha" and "lmao"
never have i EVER said 'lmao' you stupid idiot nick
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>>38369880

I'll ignore you until you come up with something more interesting than this retardation.
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Dan, are you here?

Facman?

Anyone else?
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>>38369822
>you're the most worthless addition to it
No that'd be you. What's absolute cringe is you thinking it's only one person
Unrelated note, does anybody know a good hentai browsing app?
>>38369880
I don't know if you are or not, but remember to sage the threads
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>>38369938
I'm still here. Trolls are boring except haha poster
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>>38369968
Thanks, you're a pretty interesting lady too
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>>38369968

They're the same guy, isn't it obvious to you? Same misspellings, same absence of punctuation and caps, same silly bullshit. He's making an effort to appear different, when two actually different guys wouldn't spend so much fucking time on this.

It'll be fun watching him talk to himself, but he'll blow it like everything else and I don't want that cringe in my life.

Do you want to play some chess?
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>>38370021
I say again Nick: I've never misspelled anything while posting in your threads. I hope you'll realize you're the real cringe sometime soon, and I hope I'm there to haha lmao at you when it happens
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>>38366917
>You haven't given me a single counter example for any of this
Is it possible to define such a thing without it becoming a rule?

>>38366932
I don't embrace my OCD limits, I want them gone

>>38366940
Other people want limits, that is why. To them, this situation is fine. They are fine with cucking me.

>>38366947
Yep, I am behind by 3 hours this time. May need to stop at certain points and slow up even more.

>>38366964
So what do I do? Just settle for the fact I am being cucked? Not even try to fight? You can't ask that Nick.

>Half Life 3
Been wanting to play Half Life for years.
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>>38370021
I'm not paying much attention, the whole obscene rant the other day just tickled me. I'm afraid I'm playing Tekken at the moment.
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>>38370071
>sometime
>>38370071
>when it happens
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>>38370077
>Is it possible to define such a thing without it becoming a rule?

Still no counter example.

>>38370077
>Other people want limits, that is why. To them, this situation is fine. They are fine with cucking me.

To be cucked requires having a wife. You have no wife.
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>>38370083
I don't know what you're trying to say haha LO's giving me the succ
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>>38370147

More like your girl gave someone else the succ, amirite, boy?
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>>38370167
I don't think LO ever gave you the succ, but it's pretty good
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Bit of a slow night tonight eh? Not a lot going on. Tell you what, how about some more of those unusual games/ techniques you talk about now and again. Guinea pig me up, stave off boredom for a bit.
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>>38370410
>Tell you what, how about some more of those unusual games/ techniques you talk about now and again.

I don't see what you mean. I mention chess sometimes, but other games?
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>>38370421
Your trademarked 'dark therapy'. We tried the white room exercise once. Anything else?
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>>38370436

Oh, OK. You should do the swapping thing more. Who's the human being you care the most for right now?
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>>38370452
Swapping thing? Probably gf
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>>38366995
>What's the benefit of this?
No idea. But giving up and dying isn't an answer either. Just because everyone else is cucking you, the answer is not to give up.

>You're stubborn
Not surprising to me. One of my "best" traits.

>One mouth but two ears?
You will eventually snap because nobody else will ever shut up enough for you to talk?

>>38366998
I WILL ONE DAY BE ABLE TO PLAY HALF LIFE 1!

>We're beyond logic now
Well, what am I supposed to do? Be cucked? Or fight like a man?

>Excuse
I am a literal retard. Retard's can't improve. This is why you can waste this much time and I don't learn anything.

>Nobody would ever kill themselves
No, because then they wouldn't have the choice, now would they? So decided life wasn't worth it, others decided to stay for whatever reason.

>>38367032
I notice you. 4 hours late but I notice you :'(
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>>38370463

Pick a memory from your past, and have her in your role. Observe what happens in your reaction.

Pick a bad memory.
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>>38370464
>But giving up and dying isn't an answer either.

Complaining is not "fighting" or doing anything positive, it's just whining. Not complaining isn't "giving up". In fact, you give up because you aren't trying to get better.

>Not surprising to me. One of my "best" traits.

Also your worst. You cling on bullshit that feels safe and familiar, not realising that it's your actual prison.

>You will eventually snap because nobody else will ever shut up enough for you to talk?

You need to listen to the right people more than you are doing.

>I WILL ONE DAY BE ABLE TO PLAY HALF LIFE 1!

You can play HL1 right now. Nothing prevents you from it.

>Be cucked? Or fight like a man?

Fighting like a man, here, would be listening to what I say and trying to understand, asking questions, learning. You're not doing it. You're hiding behind your core beliefs and won't budge.

>I am a literal retard. Retard's can't improve.

That's an excuse. This fallacy allows me to use my little series of robots making logical fallacies. Pic very related.
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>>38370498
What happens is a welling of murderous rage and then, almost like a hole in a balloon, it dissipates before I can really feel it.
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>>38367098
I don't know how to continue conversations past the "I am not going to kill you" part. I would freak out and probably ask if she shaves her pubes as literally the only thing I could come up with.

>>38367223
>The part I can't tell you without sabotaging my ways
Very good indeed. I feel better knowing that it wasn't as bad as I panicked.

>Whole world out there invisible to you
How do I do that if I let society cuck me? It sounds contradictory. Accept all these limits, you learn it.

>It's you, not them
I do notice I have this contradiction. I am the messed up one in society.

>Cancel all those nuances
So how do I learn? Sounds rather impossible at this point.

>You see the words and their meanings, but you don't go one bit further than that
I can entirely agree. This is my problem, I don't understand other people. How can I be expected to know all these meanings?
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>>38365231
Hey Nick just wanted to say hello, and share something. Today went on a call, pulled several hundred feet of cable through a too-small pipe with too many bends. As I was working, I noticed my grandfather's ring. He passed on a few years ago, and grandmother gave it to me this past May for my birthday. I've never met a man who'd work hard as him. But the harder I worked, the dirtier I got, the brighter this ring shone. Just like him, shining brightest in hard work. Felt him there with me today, started tearing up a bit.
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>>38370586
>What happens is a welling of murderous rage and then, almost like a hole in a balloon, it dissipates before I can really feel it.

Now that's unusual. How come it deflates all of a sudden like that? What's your thought right before it deflates?
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>>38370671
loser loser i hate you faggotnick
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>>38370671
Well, I got this image of tearing into everyone involved, stoving their heads in with rocks, I saw the actions and the words as other than my own almost as though I wasn't allowed to feel that way anymore and suddenly I didn't. It never reached that heat of rage, just the first flicker before it went out.
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>>38370600
>I would freak out and probably ask if she shaves her pubes as literally the only thing I could come up with.

You don't think that'd be intrusive? What makes you think you have the right to ask such a personal and private question?

>>38370600
>Very good indeed. I feel better knowing that it wasn't as bad as I panicked.

Use this panic of yours to understand that YOU can have this effect on others, in worse ways. Being abandoned isn't the worst a person can do to you.

>How do I do that if I let society cuck me?

This has nothing to do with society. This a limitation you have. Even if you were Emperor of the planet, you'd still not see it.

>This is my problem, I don't understand other people. How can I be expected to know all these meanings?

You are a human being. You're supposed to understand these things. If you don't, it's time to learn. Past this point, we shall do more teaching and learning and less arguing. You can ask questions, but for your sake, we'll behave as if everything I say is true (because it will be).
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>>38370621
>But the harder I worked, the dirtier I got, the brighter this ring shone.

That's a fucking awesome image, Hero! Nice, very nice.
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I posted in here yesterday but the thread died before I got a response. Here's what I wrote yesterday.

I work at a daycare center with school age kids, before and after school (5 hours a day) but right now I'm full time since the kids aren't in school for the summer. I'm studying elementary education and want to teach 2nd or 3rd grade when I graduate. I first worked at summer camp when I was 12 and I've known I wanted to work with children ever since then. I've never had a job that wasn't in childcare. I'm a KV who's never been in a relationship and I don't really have any friends, so I don't have much of a personal life and my job is pretty much the only thing I have.

One big thing is that the kids don't really listen to me and don't seem to respect me as much as the other teachers. If I talk to them nicely they ignore me. If I raise my voice they still ignore me. It's really frustrating and I don't know what to do about it. Today while the lead teacher was putting on a kids' sunscreen (since they're not allowed to it themselves for some reason) and I was supervising the kids on the carpet, he asked me to switch out and do the sunscreen because I guess he thought he could handle the kids better than I could. Even though I'm legally allowed to be alone with the children, he seems to take every possible opportunity to avoid having me alone with a group to the point where I have to question if the director told him not to let me be alone if he could help it. The only time I've gotten to be alone was when the autistic kid started having a meltdown, and I had to take the rest of the kids to another room so he wouldn't try to hurt them. Sometimes they've asked me to move to another classroom so that a more experienced teacher could come in and I wouldn't be left alone with just another college student. They didn't really explain the reasoning to me, but it kind of seemed like a vote of no confidence in me that they didn't trust me to be the lead teacher in a classroom.
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>>38367378
>You need to change that thinking
How does one go about changing one's own mind?

>Imagine a game where you have to play the fucking tutorial every time you wanted to play
How did you know I did that? I can't skip the tutorials, they are an important part of the game lore.

>But it's shit
Why? Why is it not more interesting to shove a king up your rectum than play a "stable" game? Why do you want stability? If you know the rules, you can break them, then create your own.

>Far behind them in everything
Isn't that being a literal retard? We have gone full circle Nick.

>Chess rules exist to cuck you. Lord have mercy.
Well, they do. They are confined rules expected to tell me WHAT I MUST DO and HOW I MUST MOVE. It is like being to do something at gunpoint. It isn't fun at all. It is being threatened if I don't play the game the way you understand it.

>>38367403
If you have less chess pieces, you have been cheated indeed. Best to switch rules, that way you don't have a disadvantage to them. If for example it is getting every chess piece up your ass, you have a lot less you need to shove up there and can win. You just need to forget everyone else is playing chess and you can win Dan.
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>>38370703
>I saw the actions and the words as other than my own almost as though I wasn't allowed to feel that way anymore and suddenly I didn't.

This all makes sense. Do it again but retain the rage as yours. Own it, you're justified in feeling it. If you start to feel like you're not allowed to, instantly identify that thought as cuckery. Someone's trying to cuck you, so become even angrier, and maintain it.
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>>38370743
Continued

It really doesn't help my self confidence that the directors don't seem to have any confidence in me, and it really doesn't help that they won't be forthright and admit they don't trust me. It sucks because I don't have any skills and I'm not passionate about anything other than working with children, so I can't really see myself in another career. Plus, like I said before, these issues would follow me anyway no matter what I did.
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>>38370797
john you need to assert your dominance, smack a misbehaving kid across the face or piss on him, itll show them all a lesson
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>>38370743
>One big thing is that the kids don't really listen to me and don't seem to respect me as much as the other teachers. If I talk to them nicely they ignore me. If I raise my voice they still ignore me. It's really frustrating and I don't know what to do about it

If there's a show called Super Nanny in English, watch a lot of it. The nanny in it normally comes from the best schools of how to raise children, and everything they do is useful. I can give you tips as well, since I work work children.

>(since they're not allowed to it themselves for some reason)

Can you guess the reason? I can.

>he seems to take every possible opportunity to avoid having me alone with a group to the point where I have to question if the director told him not to let me be alone if he could help it.

If he saw you at work with the kids, he probably doesn't want chaos to occur and wouldn't want you in a bad situation either. When one adult fails to have authority, it breaks defenses in other adults as well, and that's not good.

>They didn't really explain the reasoning to me, but it kind of seemed like a vote of no confidence in me that they didn't trust me to be the lead teacher in a classroom.

It all makes sense yes.

Suppose a kid is doing something he's not supposed to do, like playing with a book. How do you act?
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>>38370749
>How did you know I did that? I can't skip the tutorials, they are an important part of the game lore.

Logical error here. I always play tutorials too, but not EVERY TIME! There's no need for that. Lore my ass; play it once and you've got your lore. Logical fallacy up in this bitch. Have some robots.
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>>38367423
>Never see anyone!
Actually, that sounds pretty good. Seeing people means you never get time to learn the rules. DM is too stressful, maybe not seeing others would work well.

>No Man's Sky
A response to Spore which was inspired by The Sims which was inspired by Simcity which was inspired by Raid on Bungeling Bay. Too recent for me to ever touch.

>That's why people don't play that way
A shame. It sounds more fun that way.

>Checkmate
Not really. I don't have the patience, so I play a different game, as I said to do.

>>38367432
Because I break down emotionally if I don't to near suicidal levels only prevented due to my fear of death.
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>>38370772
I think the idea that I'm not entitled to anger and always having to choke it down, being unable to express it healthily, is one of the most annoying and deeply embedded things from childhood. It makes sense that things have unfolded as they have, that in mind. Perhaps it all comes down to things that I'm not 'allowed' to feel or think, so 'someone else' feels and thinks those things instead.
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>>38370749
>Why? Why is it not more interesting to shove a king up your rectum than play a "stable" game?

What's more interesting about playing with your asshole compared to playing a game that's several millennia old that some of the most intelligent men in the world love as well? Uh?

>Why do you want stability? If you know the rules, you can break them, then create your own.

If you break the rules of chess, all that happens is that you are no longer playing chess. An absolutely shitty outcome. Knowing the rules is so you can play the fucking game.

Watch this video:

https://youtu.be/MUO-pWJ0riQ
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>>38370833
I would probably ask him what he is supposed to be doing to see if he has an answer. Most of the time they know what they're supposed to be doing even if they're actively not doing it.
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>>38370749
>They are confined rules expected to tell me WHAT I MUST DO and HOW I MUST MOVE.

No, rules tell you what you CAN do and HOW TO DO IT. If you could do anything, why not decide that you just won the game? That's no fun, even for you.

Winning is only fun when you earned it.

Still can't understand how you cannot appreciate rules for fun games, but make worse rules for yourself.

Your rules are shit and ruin games, but rules that MAKE games, you somehow hate? Are you suffering from displacement? You hate your own rules and somehow prefer to hate other rules so it's easier or something?
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>>38370749
>It is like being to do something at gunpoint.

But it's not. You're free to do anything you want. You can leave the game, you can throw the set in the air, you can make an illegal move. Life isn't limited, but the moment you do any of these, the game is dead.

False dichotomy is strong in you: either it's total freedom or total cuckery. That's bullshit, Coats. Things aren't that extreme. You are free within rules, you can do anything you want within the rules of chess.

Pic related.
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>>38370749
>It is being threatened if I don't play the game the way you understand it.

We will play chess. You aren't threatened. There's only one way to "understand it", it's to know what the rules are. Once you know the rules, you know how it works, and you can move on to learning the basics of how to play well, and then tactics. These are awesome and interesting, but are built on the rules, of course. If you remove the rules, you destroy the game.

Surely you understand game design to some degree and know that an absence of balance or fine-tuning of parameters will break a game, right?

>If you have less chess pieces, you have been cheated indeed.

Both players start with the same amount of pieces. That's a rule. It is there to make sure everyone starts fair and square.
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>>38370820

Fuck off.

That's not me, John, make sure to notice when there's no trip.

Rich, you really are the lowest of the low.
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>>38370797

John, I'm a teacher, I can help you a lot with this, and I'm amazed your workmates don't help you already. Do they give you any tips at all?
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>>38370820

>john

No capital letter to a proper noun.

>itll

No apostrophe in that contraction. It should be "it'll" because when you contract two words into one, you place an apostrophe to represent the letter, or letters, that have been removed, in this case, "wi". One student described this to me as a tear for the missing letters. A good way to remember it.

No period at the end of the sentence. Sometimes I think you really are mentally retarded, Rich. Maybe that's why you're so angry. You have literal mental retardation. Is that why you're so upset at me?
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>>38371126
> a tear for the missing letters
Best thing I've heard all day desu
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>>38370867
>Actually, that sounds pretty good.

More logical bullshit: if you want to play alone, PLAY ALONE, don't go multiplayer if you just want not to meet other players.

>A response to Spore which was inspired by The Sims which was inspired by Simcity which was inspired by Raid on Bungeling Bay. Too recent for me to ever touch.

Don't touch it. Who the fuck gave you that old rule thing? It'll keep you from playing some of the best games ever made. Why are you cucking yourself so hard? You won't live forever, don't waste any goddam time, Coats.

I'm giving you homework, and you have to do it: play a game of your chooseing outside of your normal scope. Play Half-Life 1. That's your homework. Will you be man enough to do it? Or will you pussy out? We shall see!
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>>38370867
>Because I break down emotionally if I don't

How does that make sense to you?
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>>38370740
Thanks Nick. Running that quest has improved my writing a bit. Plus my best imagery comes when I'm emotional.
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>>38370871
>is one of the most annoying and deeply embedded things from childhood.

Definitely. So much so you had to divide yourself to feel it.

>Perhaps it all comes down to things that I'm not 'allowed' to feel or think, so 'someone else' feels and thinks those things instead.

Yes. It makes sense as a coping mechanism that you become someone else to feel what you can't escape feeling, yet had to. You were forced into an unnatural situation by motherfuckers.

I still think that you need to send your parents to go fuck themselves and explain why. To liberate yourself. Just being able to do this will feel like freedom. You don't owe them anything. I don't think you're ready now, but it's what you must do. No need to completely cut them off, although you might have eventually. You need to rise up as an adult to people who are acting like children.
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>>38367573
>Just imagine if there was no floor or ground
Fall, but you wouldn't die from that, for there would be nothing to fall to.

>Go on Craigslist
I'm not putting in that much effort for a pervert. Plus I need to look good in society's eyes. I can't afford to be as degenerate as I want to be.

>>38367651
I did.... hours later. 4 hours on the wall. 4 hours to go...

>>38367707
Read the rest of the post Nick, I talked about why people that don't exist don't matter anyway.

>>38367734
>Trading will only lead you to be alone
Because other people are unfair and seek to cuck me. Other people have empathy, yet don't care about me enough to do anything for me. I have a simple desire, a simple will. If another cannot accept it, they weren't meant to interact with me.

>>38367873
>I'd not waste a second on you
But you need to save all the lambs. It is in you to be kind, even to those you find to be human scum.

>I want you to improve and get better
But I am a retard. Retards don't improve Nick.

>They were not this
You are trying to be nice. The truth behind the mask is a dislike for me in the way society does. You tolerate, you are fine with me being around even, but you find me quite grating.

>Get a chance to get out of it
I sure don't see such a simple chance unless it is cucking myself. Is that my dunces' cap Nick?
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>>38367915
>If nobody "censored" themselves like that
To censor is to not state your true beliefs. To pretend to be what you are not. To manipulate. It is blatant manipulation of others.

>Give me a sentence you can't be said in a respectful manner
The problem is I have zero idea what ticks everyone else off. People get offended by every statement I say, at least one person will take offense to these very words.

>They're wrong
What else am I supposed to do but state my opinion on the matter?

>Stop being retarded
Hard for a retard to do Nick
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>>38370900
>Most of the time they know what they're supposed to be doing even if they're actively not doing it.

Which is exactly why you shouldn't ask that. The kid knows you're not really asking, you're not being direct. It sounds like you're trying to fool him or something, and he won't like that. It also doesn't make you sound like an authority.

A very simple way to have authority is to give orders. Keep this in mind: a real authority has no need to go the extra mile to have an effect. In fact, children who are asked calmly will more easily assumed that you're the boss, because you're not adding anything to your order. This may not work every time, and especially not if the kid knows you already and has decided that you weren't worthy of being obeyed, so expect it not to work, but ask as if it was going to work without a doubt, because it should.

If it doesn't work, don't lose your shit. That's the worst you can do, lose your shit. You wait a little and ask again. If by now you realise that you have a rebel on your hands, you'll have to try something different. At this point I'd need to know the age of the kids you deal with, because I'm not American and your system means nothing to me in terms of ages.

To establish authority, you need to do simple things like:

>eye contact with the kid, don't try anything until eye contact is on

>speak calmly and make sure the kid understands, by actually asking him if he understands, it's like a contract, if he says yes, it'll be more difficult for him to disobey afterwards, because he remembers saying yes, making him a liar or a disobedient kid later on

>don't shout, don't raise your voice, and don't feel like you're on the spot, you aren't, you're the authority no matter what happens
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>>38371162

Student named Sara gave this to me many years ago. A teacher of hers told her about this trick. I miss Sara. She had two sisters who also were my students. All three were platinum blonde girls, all were highly intelligent. When students leave, after many years with you, it's always like death to me.
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>>38367957
>That wasn't the insult
I don't even remember what the insult was in that case. Bees? You got upset because I said you were a productive honey bee?

>All things natural aren't good
How does one improve, especially if one is retarded?

>Sometimes people are cunts
So how do you know when they are being such or when you are the problem?

>Spend less time arguing and more time thinking
But debate is all I know. How do I think something through if not through debate?

>If you want to get on my level, listen to me
But nobody has all the answers. There is always the case you could be wrong.
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Greetings Nick, Fembot here,
I was wondering if I could get some help. I've always been a good child with great grades and have never done anything wrong, due to my strict father(only parent) I've never dated anyone nor have I had any sexual experience(at 21) and my father still completely controls my life. A few days a go i ordered a 7cm faggotnick dildo and i beat my father to death with it, what should i do?
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>>38371323

Literally fours hours late on posts. Coats will be writing this shit all night.

>>38371323
>Fall, but you wouldn't die from that, for there would be nothing to fall to.

Then guess what: you're falling to the center of the planet, and guess what, everything else is falling there too. You'd be falling for God knows how many hours, but then you'll meet other falling objects and people from every direction. You'd die clashing with something. If you make it alive, you'd just go up the other direction, and down again. Whatever happens, you'd die very violently. Thank God for limits.


>>38371323
>I'm not putting in that much effort for a pervert.

First fallacy. If you really wanted to, you could.

>>38371323
>Plus I need to look good in society's eyes.

Second fallacy, since nobody would know what you do in your private time. It's not like you're a celebrity, Coats. Society doesn't give a shit about anyone.

>I can't afford to be as degenerate as I want to be.

You can. You're just resorting to excuses for some reason.

>Because other people are unfair and seek to cuck me.

No. They are not unfair. They are completely fair, but you don't see it. Other people doesn't include your family or parents.
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>>38371323
>But you need to save all the lambs. It is in you to be kind, even to those you find to be human scum.

I will try, but not every lamb wants to be saved. Pic related.

My kindness isn't automatic. People who cross certain lines can go fuck themselves. Rich here is a case like that. For as long as he acts like a cunt, he won't get anything from me.

I waste no time on those who don't want to improve. Doing so would mean less time for people who deserve it. Deserving help just means wanting help, here.

>But I am a retard. Retards don't improve Nick.

Already discussed.
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>>38371323
>You are trying to be nice. The truth behind the mask is a dislike for me in the way society does.

I am not trying to be nice. I am trying to help you. Sometimes that means saying nice things, other times it means saying tough things. I've said way more tough things than nice ones. I'm not here to "be nice".

And I'm certainly not doing anything "the way society does". I don't have a dislike of you. I know full well why people don't like you, though, and that's obvious to me, but it doesn't mean I share their opinion. I understand how you function to some degree, and that means I can empatise with you, because I realise that what you mean by some words and acts isn't what normal people would mean.

>but you find me quite grating.

I regret that you're not making an effort to listen more. But that's what we'll do in 4 hours.
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>>38368037
>Are you really an alien trying to understand the customs of my planet
My parents called me the same, they worried I got abducted when I went out to New Mexico.

>Things are OK and it's OK to talk
No it isn't. They keep using OK, a word that sure doesn't sound OK and instead sounds like something people say before they suffocate you over the head with a pillow.

>Wonder why you'd want to kill them
I just said I wouldn't, why are they worried about it?

>Have you done an IQ test?
Nope, none of those.

>You'd rape a woman
You do realize I am also retarded enough to be given the opportunity, I would mess it up in a grand scale and fail to have sex with the woman right? I am a literal retard, I can't rape a woman, but I sure do want to.

>It doesn't take much to be dangerous
When you are retarded? It takes a lot. You said it yourself, I am like a 5 year old. What 5 year old is dangerous and not laughed at for being retarded?

>That's why we should steer clear of analogies
Indeed, seems to cause a mess. See the bee thread, eventually to be made into a movie starring Jerry Seinfeld.

>Both of you are too pussy
I agree. I am a coward.
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>>38371403
>To censor is to not state your true beliefs.

No, Coats. True beliefs are yours, but that doesn't mean they should always be shared. It's like when you're a kid and get naked. That's OK for little kids to do, but adults who do it rightfully go to prison.

>To pretend to be what you are not. To manipulate. It is blatant manipulation of others.

No, it can be normal protection of yourself. Students who have conservative beliefs shouldn't be obligated to tell their artistic friends that they don't believe in the same things, for instance, because doing so could mean becoming isolated. This is why certain topics are better kept secret until you trust someone enough.
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>>38368242
>People will know you're a fucking alien
This is my problem. So what do we talk about if not shitting? What else is there to talk about with people once we understand each other?

>Not everyone has sexual urges
Point taken.

>No son of a mother should be exposed to her sex talks
I see. Never thought of that being part of the abuse.

>>38368245
Well, we are a lot like chimps. What more is there to humans without driving Nick crazy about bees again?
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>>38371474
>I don't even remember what the insult was in that case. Bees? You got upset because I said you were a productive honey bee?

No, you assumed I was a drone like anyone else without knowing about my life to suggest so. It's more the logical fallacy that pissed me off than the insult per se. It shows you don't actually need facts or logic to build beliefs, and that's the proof of a sick mind. As long as you build bullshit, you won't get better.

>So how do you know when they are being such or when you are the problem?

You tell me and I will tell you.

>But debate is all I know. How do I think something through if not through debate?

I can do all the thinking through if you just listen and ask questions.

>But nobody has all the answers. There is always the case you could be wrong.

On the stuff we're talking, I won't be wrong, because I know what other people would think. It's all very obvious to most people. Some things may be less clear, but when that's the case, I'll say so.
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>>38371483
>A few days a go i ordered a 7cm faggotnick dildo

Rich...
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>>38368308
>Zero intention on your side to learn a damn thing
I don't know how to learn. How do I convince myself when I don't see it? It is like looking at a picture you say is red and I see is green. How am I just supposed to say it is red when I can see in front of my eyes a very blatant shade of green?

>YOU don't understand much about much
I know I don't understand much about much. I am a retarded recluse that knows little of the world. But I see what I see, how do I simply just change it? I know you know more, but I blatantly see the color green.

>I know that makes no sense to someone who's 4 mentally
Indeed, I don't get what is uncomfortable about it.
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>>38371627
>My parents called me the same, they worried I got abducted when I went out to New Mexico.

That doesn't make sense. If you were an alien, you wouldn't be abducted by aliens. Humans get abducted by aliens.

Your parents are mentally ill motherfuckers. It doesn't make me like them, and everything they say need not be wrong, but you're better off not listening to them.

A great quote goes something like: telling the truth to hurt someone is worse than any lie.

I never tell you the truth to hurt you.
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This day was an astounding break from my classic working routine.
I have a coworker to which i talk quite a lot. I have some uncommon interests that are shared with him, and i like him as a person since he may be the only person i ever met who can discuss in a rhetoric way (rhetoric intended as constructive). He is young and he started working a couple of years ago, since my job is not welcoming to newcomers i helped him out a lot. As of now he is the only person with which i have held meaningful conversation since many years. When i first met him i was surprised i'd ever find anyone that i could talk to with ease and we got personal quite quickly. Every morning he would tell me how shitty public transportation is and how much he wanted to buy his own car. 3 months ago he finally bought it and i remember how hearing that made my day.
This morning he was late and was visibly stressed. He quickly approached me to say that he woke up this morning just to go out and realize his car had disappeared from the parking lot, and he supposed they stole it which turned out to be true when he received a call some hours later from the police telling him no state authority was in possession of his car.

For the rest of the day he was visibly sad and we did not talk a lot. I also could not talk a lot to him because i felt something weird, something i never felt. I passed the rest of the work time with this weird feeling and as i came home i realized what it was.

I felt sad for him, i was feeling genuine compassion. I never had felt anything like this in my entire life as far as i could recall. I realized that i am a shitty person, that i deserve to be an outcast. Heck i knew i was a shitty person, but not up to this point. I've come to accept my loneliness as it is: a natural consequence of my distorted, cold, incoherent and avaricious pathetic excuse of a being.
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>>38371627
>I just said I wouldn't, why are they worried about it?

Because saying this means you're thinking about killing them, don't you see?

If someone comes up to you and say "Don't worry!" the first thing you'll do is wonder if there's anything to worry about and why this guy is asking you not to worry. You know humans, you know you can't always trust them, right, and that's why people would worry if you told them this.

Why do you assume people will trust you right away? Do you never lie? Have you never been lied to? Why would other people not have healthy reflexes against possible liars?
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>>38371627
>You do realize I am also retarded enough to be given the opportunity, I would mess it up in a grand scale and fail to have sex with the woman right?

Rape attempt is still punishable and still leaves scars on a person, and it still makes you a piece of shit, Coats. I literally want to to beat the shit out of you just for having such heinous thoughts.

>but I sure do want to.

Why? You're not even a sadist. Why do you want to rape a woman?
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>>38368401
>It's an activity. It's not just exchanging information
I see. So what does one say? All I want to say is autistic things like "Cheddar Cheddar Horny Cheddar. It rapes you when you get wetter." This was a literal thing I told someone as I had zero idea how else to communicate with them, they had been quiet for 5 minutes and I had no idea where to go.

>That's sad
Indeed, I have no other perspective or how to know what others feel.

>oddly elevated terms
Transcend whatever activity or task you are doing. Sex, knowledge, whatever.

>One moment you say you don't, the next your pontificating all over the place
As I said, a walking contradiction that doesn't even make sense to myself.
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>>38371627
>When you are retarded? It takes a lot. You said it yourself, I am like a 5 year old. What 5 year old is dangerous and not laughed at for being retarded?

Your logic keeps fucking up every step of the way to yield to your feelings. You feel retarded, so your logic yields to that. Retarded people are more dangerous. Suppose you drive a car, handle a gun, work around small kids, etc. You're dangerous in all these situations.

>I agree. I am a coward.

Admitting it is a good step. But you can't stop there.
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>>38371680
>What else is there to talk about with people once we understand each other?

So many things. You and I could discuss video games for hours, for instance. And game design, and game ideas.

>I see. Never thought of that being part of the abuse.

The abuse here causes this: it doesn't teach you healthy boundaries. You now have no idea that talking about shaving pubes is beyond the line for a woman you don't know more than well, and so you fuck up socially all the time.

You don't even seem to have boundaries for yourself. I'm not sure what's a thing you wouldn't like, short of shitting in your cereal, I don't know.

> What more is there to humans without driving Nick crazy about bees again?

>literature
>science
>nations
>history
>space exploration
>languages
>mathematics
>chess
>marriage
>the ability to create zoos in which to imprison the fucking chimps

And so much more.
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>>38371770
>I don't know how to learn.

Remember: to truly listen to is the be ready to change. If you aren't ready, you're not listening.

> How do I convince myself when I don't see it? It is like looking at a picture you say is red and I see is green. How am I just supposed to say it is red when I can see in front of my eyes a very blatant shade of green?

You try to understand. If you don't, you ask questions. I will know how to guide you.

> I am a retarded recluse that knows little of the world. But I see what I see, how do I simply just change it? I know you know more, but I blatantly see the color green.

What you don't see is because you've never learned to see it as a thing. I tell you about boundaries, you didn't know they were a thing. That doesn't mean you can't understand. We should spend more time on this and less on fucking retarded arguments about rapes and salads. This is the last time I indulge in this shit.

Next time there'll be rules and a strict focus. Maybe a rule that we post one statement each, not series of them, so this doesn't happen again.

It needs to remain like a conversation, which we can't do if you're 4 hours behind.
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>>38371832

You just might be the holy grail I was hoping for.

Call yourself Holy Grail.

Describe the sadness you felt for him and his car problem. If you can.
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>>38371895
>All I want to say is autistic things like "Cheddar Cheddar Horny Cheddar. It rapes you when you get wetter."

Why the fuck would you want to say that? Aren't you aware of the consequences of saying such things?

>This was a literal thing I told someone as I had zero idea how else to communicate with them, they had been quiet for 5 minutes and I had no idea where to go.

That's fucking retarded. You sound like a psy op. Trying to make people feel horrible by messing with their minds. Nobody can make ANY sense of this shit, Coats! Nobody can even understand WHY you say such shit.

Do you understand it yourself?
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>>38372134
>you might be the holy grail
That kind of puts me under pressure over my next answer, so let me think about that for a while. What do you want to know about his car problem more specifically?
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>>38372262

Don't feel under pressure, there's nothing to worry about. You can't "fail" this, so relax.

I want to know more about how you felt.
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Dropping the address in case anyone needs it: [email protected]
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jumping in in the middle of the thread today, im practically falling asleep so im not gonna stick around for long.

>>38367172
>Wait, so you actually think there is no correlation at all between bad looks and less success?

if you want proof that there's no correlation you can look up casey neistat, he's on youtube among other places. He also the ugliest motherfucker i've ever seen, as well as hugely successful.
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>>38372445
>yahoo email adress
admit us your evil intentions, you clearly over-40 years old kind dude
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>>38372709

My year of birth is in the address, I'm 34. My evil intentions is to make your lives better.
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>>38372698
>casey neistat,

Fuck... that is one nasty dude. But even that way, he's OK. Dan left us a while ago. I hope he'll read this.
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>>38368826
>If you don't eliminate bullshit when you see it
How do I eliminate it?

>I will be tough on you about this, Coat. We aren't here to fuck around and giggle.
That's the Nick I like to see. The one who speaks his mind and isn't confined by censorship. I am taking this as seriously as I can, sorry if it seems like I am not.

>Listen to what I tell you
Waiting for your response on red/green. That will be a long time coming at this rate.

>Best thing in life
Existing to another? Why, when you aren't even human to yourself?

>If it's not your way, it's nothing
I am not sure I understand what you mean. Please clarify. Trying to see what you mean on this.

>>38368924
>Growing, learning, healing
I assume growing, the first step, is by seeing you being right. That is the problem, I don't know how to do that.

>You accept I can be trusted on account of my experience in normal and abnormal people
I have accepted this. At least, I believe I have. I just argue my perspective because I don't know how to make myself see yours.

>>38368942
>Drown in shit provided it was your own
Well, how can I trust the pristine pool to not be a trap? You talk about all these people wanting to rape me, which I disagree with due to my lack of being someone special or even noticeable or desirable, am I supposed to feel safe with that?

>>38368954
>Take a fucking cellphone with you
One thing I am always sure to do

>>38368977
>WHO GIVES A FUCKING SHIT!
The guy with no empathy ironically. I feel bad to take this much space up.

>>38369001
Well, I think I messed that up. Sorry Nick.
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https://youtu.be/qyfJlcrN09w

Listen to this slaying music.
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>>38369207
>How would you know?
I don't. I am surprised I said this. I think I am getting more irrational.

>I've known robots who were hot
Now that you mention it, so have I. All those face threads had good looking faces that made me realize I am indeed one of the ugliest here. I completely forgot about that. Now I feel more alone.
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>>38369207
>Tastier food, local products, animals being treated differently
Depends if the food actually has a better taste. Usually I find the cheap stuff tastes the best. What I would do for a plate of macaroni and cheese. All I eat is sandwiches and fast food, I don't own an over.
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Any other mental exercises or other such diversions? Also, here's some karaoke from a minigame to get you up for Yakuza:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=42pszbJgRGE
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>>38369207
>Are you dumb? How do you send a fucking post without the send button?
I hate how tiny it is. It is inconvenient on a 1440p monitor to click this very small area.

>>38369241
>I hope Coats and Dan will somehow cancel each other's crap
Maybe that was our destiny in life. Would give me an actual purpose for once.
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>>38372869
>That's the Nick I like to see. The one who speaks his mind and isn't confined by censorship. I am taking this as seriously as I can, sorry if it seems like I am not.

That's the only Nick you see. Again, there is a difference between using polite language and "censoring". You often put things into extremes and act like nothing else is possible.

>Existing to another? Why, when you aren't even human to yourself?

You. You aren't even human to yourself, because you have no idea what normal boundaries are, what self-respect is, etc.

>I just argue my perspective because I don't know how to make myself see yours.

If you don't see, ask questions. I will explain. Then ask more. We can do this for hours, but waste no more time arguing.

>Well, how can I trust the pristine pool to not be a trap?

Haven't I proved myself enough?

> You talk about all these people wanting to rape me, which I disagree with due to my lack of being someone special or even noticeable or desirable, am I supposed to feel safe with that?

What?

>The guy with no empathy ironically. I feel bad to take this much space up.

This has nothing to do with empathy. Nobody fives a shit about threads like that, because nobody feels bad when a thread is gone; there's no limit on threads.

Feeling bad to take up space, that's more it. You weren't taught proper boundaries, so you don't even know your worth, or that you deserve to take up some fucking space.
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>>38369410
>I keep telling you what's going on, are you not reading
Not the first to ask that question. I read everything I see, I try to put meaning in it, but I just either lose focus or something. Imagine you say "you're just having a ball over there, aren't you?"

My mind processes ball, sees a cute little dog playing with a ball, and you are yelling at the cute dog about him having his ball. Then you will grab him by the balls. That is messed up and sexual abuse.

This is how my mind works. I have to work just to see it as anything else. I have to put a lot of effort in just to make sense of what is going on. This is how retarded I am.
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>>38372925
>I don't. I am surprised I said this. I think I am getting more irrational.

At least you notice. Make sure to observe where you say things that don't make sense or that you shouldn't logically say. These are where you'll find the roots of your problems.

>Now that you mention it, so have I. All those face threads had good looking faces that made me realize I am indeed one of the ugliest here. I completely forgot about that. Now I feel more alone.

I doubt this. Feel free to send a photo of you to my address if you want an opinion.
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>>38372967
>All I eat is sandwiches and fast food, I don't own an over.

That's not good, Coats. Plenty of things you can cook without an over. Do you have any kind of cooker?
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>>38369410
>You don't get access to my secrets yet
Not sure what you mean

>I'm always the true Nick
People tell the truth more when they get angry. They lose control over their ability to lie, so they can say a lot more about their about their opinion with you.
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>>38373005

All I have to give aren't diversions, but ways to focus on the problems.

I'd like to wake your empathy, which can be done. But this always hurts, because that's the point. Empathy is pain.

We can play chess.
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>>38373018
>I hate how tiny it is. It is inconvenient on a 1440p monitor to click this very small area.

Is it?
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>>38373171
The pain thing sounds more fun.
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>>38366666
checking those devil quints
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>>38373263

No, real pain, Fac. Not enjoyable pain.
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>>38373286
I don't really mind pain, I just don't enjoy humiliation or feeling powerless.
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>>38373322
>I just don't enjoy humiliation or feeling powerless.

I'm talking about mental pain, both of these fit the description. Whatever hurts you the most is what you'll need to come to terms with eventually.

That's why I say chess might be best for now.
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Do you guys like my widdle fallacious robots?

They're robots saying wrong things, robots, get it?
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>>38373372
I like the robots. Have you ever played koi-koi? It's a card game played with a special deck of cards that's built around poetry
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>>38369410
>We never come to any solution
I can see that at work. But how do I fix it? Need to make it to red/green to figure that out.

>OCD
Let me see..
>Bite my shirts
>Chew my nails
>Chronological order of games (can be broken based on arbitrary rules and only those rules)
>Chronological order of albums
>Can't drink coke out of a can, only a bottle
>Can't drink water through a straw
>Can't drink juice without a straw
>Spend a lot of time aligning things on my desk
>Can't stand hair on my ears or I start to break down. I am barely coping from haircut to haircut.
>Collecting (stopped mostly in real life due to the limitations of money and knowing the value of a dollar, though I have a storage bin of action figures; online I still have a lot of compulsions such as documenting every enemy I encounter or taking screenshots or collecting images online or collecting virtual clothes from one store).
>Writing sexual constitutions, then realizing no girl wants such a constraining set of rules and delete it
>Making my waifu in a 3d program like Second Life and constantly trying to make her more "realistic", never satisfied, emotional breakdowns
>Being uncomfortable with my own body. I often find I am fidgety, that I feel confined and need to move around
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>>38373395
>a special deck of cards that's built around poetry

I never have. Sounds intriguing. Is it like cards against humanity but cute?
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>>38372698
>>38372829
according to wikipedia he's also 175cm short.

going to bed now
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>>38369524
>You hate them
I do, but sex is sex. As for sleeping, I just don't like their particular company due to their mannerisms.

>Dream or a nightmare
I have dreamed numerous times about raping my cousins or even being raped. I find them repulsive in reality, but my mind makes them into a fetish even.
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>>38372303
I am not used to emotions myself and to imagine how i could describe them to others in a way that would make them relateable or at least understandable to them is something that i have not even ever thought about. English is not mi native language and i am already terrible with words in my mother tongue so most likely what i will write is not what i feel.

I felt it in my chest. It was not the kind of sadness that makes your throat heavy or your eyes wet. I was just looking at him and my flow of random thoughts (i always think of some random shit and i cannot control my thoughts at all) was stopped. I cannot exactly recall what i was thinking in those moments but it was me imagining how he'd feel when he eventually had to tell it to his family, and i suppose i could sort of relate as a lot of my life has been being humiliated in front of people.
That's about it, all this sadness could do was stop my flow of random thoughts that i cannot control even as i talk to people or do things that require concentration.
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>>38369524
>You wouldn't feel any shame? You wouldn't feel bad that I'd fucking hate seeing that?
If you are there, you must not hate it. If you do, go elsewhere. I would expect you to return the favor for me.
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>>38373417
Ha, nah the poetry is long gone unless you speak ancient Japanese. Now it's just pictures and hands.
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>>38373422
>according to wikipedia he's also 175cm short.

That's not short.
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>>38366347
>It's not. What you're feeling is basically your body and mind telling you, "This isn't right; fuck outta here."
I wish it were as easy as that.
>Let's be practical first: do you have insurance?
No, I don't have much ability to do anything either at this point; I don't even know really how anything works. I'm pretty much permanently crippled at this point.
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>>38369544
>I enjoy cookies, they don't fucking matter
Maybe it is my OCD talking, but you can you enjoy something and not feel it matters? To relish that you get to enjoy it and be thankful that you got the ability to reap the spoils of it?

I love cookies. If cookies were gone, I would be depressed. I really want some cookies now. I need a cookie around me. I need to see a cookie, to have a cookie's company, to taste a cookie and relish that taste.

Stuff like that matters to me. Now you are probably going to compare it to people and say how it is messed up that they don't. For some reason, I feel more emotions with objects. I think I told you about my sadness with stuffed animals, those eyes bug me Nick. More than any person or even an actual animal could.

Forget a badass dog, bring me a beanie baby.
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>>38373484

That's amazing, grail. This is very hopeful for everyone here.

It means a connection is possible, even empathy. The key, I suppose, is to really care for someone.

Can you describe connection to this person more?
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>>38369698
>What are you going to do about things you can't change?
I can't be happy about them.
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>>38373490
>If you are there, you must not hate it.

Who are you to tell me what to do? What makes you think I have a choice in this (fecal) matter?

>If you do, go elsewhere. I would expect you to return the favor for me.

How can you not mind a thing like that? How? Is taking a dump a private thing? Were you raised by animals?
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>>38373499
>Ha, nah the poetry is long gone unless you speak ancient Japanese.

We... it just so happens... That I don't.
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>>38373547
>I wish it were as easy as that.

It's not "easy", but it is essentially correct. That's what the message means.

How are you crippled exactly?
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>>38369750
>I bought it in 2010 or so, for ten bucks
Well, that is just great. Next time I touch Minecraft, I know not to touch survival mode. Thanks for the correction, though the problem is I can't even bother with Minecraft.

Then again, Minecraft is shit.
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>>38373565
>For some reason, I feel more emotions with objects.

Yes, that's likely the problem too. Objects have been nicer to you than people have. I really need to know your age, Coats.

> I think I told you about my sadness with stuffed animals, those eyes bug me Nick. More than any person or even an actual animal could.

You haven't, tell me.
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>>38369750
>Think about that until you can understand your limit bullshit
So the answer is that limits are good? My OCD is good? I don't want my OCD, it makes me miserable. How can limits be good when my OCD is torturing me?

>You seem to like limits
So I am even more contradictory and thus even more fucked up. The rabbit hole goes deeper...
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>>38373598
>I can't be happy about them.

That was not the question.
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>>38373695
>So the answer is that limits are good? My OCD is good? I don't want my OCD, it makes me miserable. How can limits be good when my OCD is torturing me?

Don't put words in my mouth, especially if they don't make sense. OCD is not good.
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>>38369750
>A nerd making a game in his underpants isn't "society enforcing its rules on you".
It is defined rules demanding me to do X. You must do X or else you can't play. It is unfair because I am a retard that can't do X.

>Too much retarded autism in that
Told you I was.
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>>38369750
>You're just whining like a cuck now
See? Even you think I am society's cuck. Was I not wrong?

>>38369799
>Compulsions are meaningless
When did I say they were forced?
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>>38369799
>This is such retarded conversing
I said I was a literal retard. At least now you see where I am coming from.
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>>38373632
I'm 27 and I have no idea how the world works. I was raised with great expectations, and no specific guidance and a significant lack of support, especially given the need to conceal that I was "eccentric."
I'm both trapped and dependent on the same person at this point and have no more belief in a better future. I don't have any friends, and don't know if I ever really have.
Everything is a lie, even if there doesn't seem to be a reason.
I don't have the ability or heart to do anything but hope to wither.
The extended strained pretense has drained my soul.
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>>38373753
>It is defined rules demanding me to do X.

No, rules aren't orders. In game, rules are always help, always direction. Because game designers don't have to ask you to respect anything: they put it in the game. If they don't want you to go left, they put a wall there, or they just make sure you can't go there. They have no need to tell you what to do. The possibility or impossibility will be encoded in the game.

>You must do X or else you can't play.

That's some bullshit too. You can always play.

>It is unfair because I am a retard that can't do X.

You have OCD, that's different and it isn't retardation. There therapies for it. You can be healed, Coats.
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>>38373817

Who's the person you're dependent on?

Everything you say is actually positive. Knowing is half the battle.
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>>38370560
>You give up because you aren't trying to get better
I am still confused how to get better or what is going on. Yes, I am this retarded.
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>>38373846
>I am still confused how to get better

Cure OCD, or alleviate its effects; move to your own place.

Doing those two things alone will be a huge help.
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>>38370560
>You cling on bullshit that feels safe and familiar
Sounds like my OCD. Not surprising.

>You need to listen to the right people more than you are doing
I am sorry I am so difficult. I am sperging along here and I don't know how to handle what you tell me to do.
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>>38370560
>You can play HL1 right now. Nothing prevents you from it.
Except the OCD that if I break I will get extremely depressed from. I tried it, numerous times. Had plenty of "Life isn't even worth living for, there is zero point, everything is destroyed and there is no going back" moments until I found some other route and just tried to avoid the old route. I live my life with many regrets from my cheating.
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sperglord here; Nick, how - in your opinion - can one cope with the fact that most people are just really disingenuous?
i mean, i have to navigate through social situations all the while being borderline irritated/disgusted by typical social situations
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>>38373870
>I am sorry I am so difficult. I am sperging along here and I don't know how to handle what you tell me to do.

It'll be easier when we can have something closer to a conversation; because this is just delayed e-mails.

We'll have to keep it down next time. You don't have to answer to everything I write, Coats. Time is of the essence.
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>>38370560
>You're hiding behind your core beliefs
Really need to see the green/red response. I hope you explain a bit more how to handle this.

>Pic very related
Both statements are correct and yet aren't, which makes them fallacies and thus incorrect, and yet they explain the world. This doesn't make sense.
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>>38373899
>borderline irritated/disgusted by typical social situations

Let's start there. Describe what makes you feel that way about social situations.
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>>38370723
>What makes you think you have the right?
Nothing, but I have zero else to ask at the time, so I come up with the first question I got. I usually go taboo. I don't even care for the answer, it is just a question to fill the space and find some fact.
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>>38370723
>Use this panic of your to understand that YOU can have this effect on others
What am I doing to cause panic? Acting "immature"? It seems foolish to overreact to that.
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>>38373571
I share a certain interest with him that is extremely rare and he is extremely constructive when it comes to discussing. That realistically is what i have with him. I suppose the cold mechanisms i have within me were urged to tell me that when anything bad happens to him i lose the only person in this world that makes me feel welcomed,appreciated and liked. my feeling sad for him are merely attributed to my mechanisms having become addicted to the necessity of feeling good.

He actually does not know much about me, as i am a ghost with no family or past or friends in the place i live, he could not know about me even via third party. I like to see myself as reserved but actually i have not much as a person. He understood what my nature is and he respects it which is great.
We never met anywhere aside from work. I am subconsciously avoidant and i suppose he has better to do.
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>>38373970

Nobody would ever imagine that you don't care about the answer; it sounds like you're a pervert trying to scare people, like a sadist. That's the only thing people can imagine from saying such a thing.
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>>38370723
>Even if you were Emperor of the planet, you'd still not see it
So I am basically doomed to not see it?

>Past this point, we shall do more teaching and less and less arguing
Agreed, I need to learn what I need to learn, I am just confused on what to learn.
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>>38373944
normies/ordinary people communicate through body language/social cues, which i find irritating, because i cannot read/comprehend it.
now i know that the fault on this one is on my side
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>>38370857
>Not EVERY TIME!
But it is important to the game, to the experience. Missing that and you miss part of the experience. The tutorial is like the first part of a movie. I wouldn't dare skip it. Now, I may do more crazy antics with it, but I won't skip it.
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>>38373991
>What am I doing to cause panic? Acting "immature"? It seems foolish to overreact to that.

Does your opinion matter? Whatever you think about someone else's reaction doesn't remove the truth of their reaction: if they feel a way, then they feel that way. Stop fucking questioning everyone else and never yourself. Moreover, it's not foolish at all. It makes PERFECT sense. Sense that YOU don't understand. If a stranger asks you whether you shave your pubes, they may very well do something completely dangerous. You know why? Because any normal person saying something like this would KNOW that the other will just fucking run away, which means whoever says this is ready to do things that would make you run away, such as rape. You say this to someone, they expect you to assault them potentially.

Their reaction isn't immature or foolish: it's mature and alert. These are humans who are in touch with humanity. You're not acting "immature", Coats, you're acting dangerous. You give signs of being dangerous; people can't afford to risk their lives just to be sure.
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>>38370889
>What's more interesting about playing with your asshole compared to playing a game that's several millennia old
My asshole is a lot newer and thus has more experimentation to play with.
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>>38374001
>my feeling sad for him are merely attributed to my mechanisms having become addicted to the necessity of feeling good.

Are you sure about that?
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>>38374019
>So I am basically doomed to not see it?

My point was - please try to see it - that not seeing things doesn't mean others have power over you. Hence the emperor example.
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>>38374047
but if i try to get my "way of meaning"(more direct information about what is communicated) people get really disgusted towards me or think me in a way retarded - which i certainly am
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>>38374047
>normies/ordinary people communicate through body language/social cues, which i find irritating, because i cannot read/comprehend it.

OK, not too different from our buddy Coats here, who will join us in about 4 fucking hours.

Good that you are aware that the missing bits are yours.

You are aware that people don't consciously analyse body language, right? It's not like sign language.
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>>38374056
>But it is important to the game, to the experience. Missing that and you miss part of the experience. The tutorial is like the first part of a movie. I wouldn't dare skip it. Now, I may do more crazy antics with it, but I won't skip it.

Coats, there's a difference between skipping it, playing it once as intended, and playing it every fucking time you play the game!!!
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>tfw can feel all your blood pumping throughout your body
I think I'm really stressed and anxious right now. I don't even want to know what my blood pressure looks like at this moment. There's a personal situation that's developed and depending on how it goes I may come out the other side much worse. I can't stop thinking about the worst possible outcomes.
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>>38374084
>My asshole is a lot newer and thus has more experimentation to play with.

You might want to reconsider. Chess has many more combinations available than your asshole will ever have.

>things said in this thread
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>>38374130
>but if i try to get my "way of meaning"(more direct information about what is communicated) people get really disgusted towards me or think me in a way retarded - which i certainly am

Give me an example of this. I'll deconstruct it for you until you understand everything.
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>>38374195

Then stop. Learn not to give a fuck. Tell yourself, "I don't fucking care," and spit down the sink or something. Do it.
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>>38374143
>Good that you are aware that the missing bits are yours.
i don't really think that i am the flawed one, while the rest of humanity is normal/okay; rather i think that i have certain deficits in the social domain, at which normies more or less excel, while having to cope with that fact
>You are aware that people don't consciously analyse body language, right?
yes, but that doesn't speak in favor of people, if the let their opinions of others be influenced by things that they aren't even consciously aware of
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>>38370889
>Knowing the rules is so you can play the fucking game
But after knowing the rules, it becomes necessary to break those rules. Knowing them is to know what is possible, breaking them makes everything possible. You need to know to break, but break is the end goal.
>Watch this video
Must be retarded, not really sure what I am supposed to be learning from this. He just kept talking about manipulating people and making lots of money and taking them down because they are shit. I don't want to be that person.
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>>38374095
As far as i do understand human relationships (not at all)yes. Everything happens for a reason and i would dare say humans don't do things that aren't profit for them, relationships included.
Now's late and tomorrow morning im working so i will go to sleep soon, nick. Is there anything that you want me to know?
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>>38374291
>i don't really think that i am the flawed one,
>>38374291
>rather i think that i have certain deficits

How do you see a difference in these statements? Being flawed or having deficits amounts to the same thing in my understanding.

I will also ask you to no longer think in terms of "normies", because even people who seem to do better than you may not be all that normal.

>yes, but that doesn't speak in favor of people, if the let their opinions of others be influenced by things that they aren't even consciously aware of

That's a very bizarre way to understand this. Most of the action in your mind is unconscious, so being in touch with that is a positive thing, not a negative one.

Your opinion being influened by things you aren't fully aware of means you're healthy. That's what people refer to as the instinct, often, and your instinct will save your life.

You're in a much worse situation, because you have no access to that well of information that others have. I'd like you not to have such condescending views of people, mostly because you're wrong and you misunderstand how this stuff works.

Some things aren't clearly unconscious or conscious; many people can actually tell you what made them have a bad impression of someone. Picking up on things that the other person isn't consciously aware of in what they express is a much superior way of knowing if they're truthful or not.

And that's where it doesn't speak in your favor: you probably have zero idea of what you express unconsciously, but everyone else knows.

In other words, if you think "normies" are fucking pieces of shit, "normies" will know it from you, but not in the form of words. They'll know what you think of them.
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>>38370953
>What you CAN do
Why doesn't my OCD work like that? Why doesn't my OCD have an option? If it is a can, it is freedom, but my OCD doesn't feel like freedom. I like can, I like challenge.

>Winning is only fun when you earned it
This I can agree with

>Still cannot understand how you cannot appreciate rules for fun games
Because once the game is won, those rules become even more confining. The most important part then becomes to break all the rules, to make your own, and to find true entertainment.

>Your rules are shit and ruin games, but rules that MAKE games, you somehow hate
I have tortured myself with this contradiction quite a bit actually.
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>>38374263
I know you mean well and I'd even agree with you, but that seems like the exact opposite of what I should be doing in this specific situation.
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>>38370990
>Life isn't limited, but the moment you do any of these, the game is dead
In my opinion, that is when the game starts

>Things aren't extreme
You know, I believe I have said that quite a bit. I live in a world of black and white, not the grey.

>You can do anything you want within the rules
That is essentially saying you are free, as long as you do exactly what we have defined in this book. It feels terrible.
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>>38374423
Hi, Winter Coat. Could you tell me what symptom of your OCD emerges most frequently or which causes you the most distress?
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>>38374339
>But after knowing the rules, it becomes necessary to break those rules.

No. It doesn't.

>breaking them makes everything possible.

Breaking them is when the game instantly ends. In video games, cheating is different. You can't force a game.You can turn a game into a toy, that's what happens when you remove rules.

>You need to know to break, but break is the end goal.

That's for OCD, Coats. OCD isn't a game, it's a mental illness. But you're right for that one: breaking OCD rules is your endgame. So do it, but leave non-OCD rules alone.

>He just kept talking about manipulating people and making lots of money and taking them down because they are shit. I don't want to be that person.

What? Are you out of your mind Coats? Do you LISTEN?
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>>38371042
>Tactics
See, now it is getting even worse. Now we are getting predefined motions to do that everyone else expects you to do. This is why MMOs are horrible, all those combo tactics they expect you to do if you want to be invited to groups. I need to read literal guides just to play a game. That is making your game into work. I don't want to read, to study.
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>>38374344

Take care and see you soon! All my questions can wait. Don't worry. Pretty tired myself.
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>>38374417
I always thought that any person able to thin rationally should be granted her death wish by the state, since the state's exists as a representation of the citizen he must grant euthanasia to any thought-capable citizen that asks it.
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>>38371042
>Game design
An absence of balance indeed is horrible indeed. I can understand this. There needs to be a balance for the game to be good.

>It is there to make sure everyone starts fair and square
The problem is life lacks that rule. So the problem is in turn we need more rules? Does that mean a totalitarian empire? I don't see how the NWO will make things better Nick.
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>>38374417

If all that remains for you is pain and death without hopes of anything better. I'm thinking lung issues that will have you suffocating to death within a few weeks.

Things of that nature.

My fiancee was big on this topic. She studied it a lot.
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>>38371188
>Don't go multiplayer if you just want not to meet other players
One reason I play games by myself.

>Who the fuck gave you that old thing?
But it needs to be done Nick, otherwise I will lose awareness like you talked about in the void. How can I understand anything without the order?

>Play Half Life 1
I can't Nick. Sorry. I just can't. That is way too hard for me to do, it would make me too miserable. Don't try to make me that miserable Nick.
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>>38371212
>How does that make sense to you?
I don't know. I don't even know myself. I am a retard, am I even allowed to understand myself?

>>38371514
Here I am... still going along...of course now I need to go for an hour. Oh joy.
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>>38374423
>Because once the game is won, those rules become even more confining. The most important part then becomes to break all the rules, to make your own, and to find true entertainment.

I understand use cheats once you've finished a game, to make the game have yet another experience. That I understand. But "true entertainment" isn't what I find when I cancel rules. Things turn to shit without constraints in game.
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>>38374449
Looking back, I shouldn't have come here today. I'd rather not talk about what's going on, so I should just go. I'm not an heroing or anything, I'll probably be back in the next few days. Sorry I took up your time.
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>>38374449

And that's why you should try it. I don't get the impression that you don't care; I get the impression that you care so much it paralyses you.

Give yourself a real break, give yourself time to take things at your pace, and in time, it will work.

I didnt clean my place for over 6 months. I told myself I would not give a fuck until I can actually give a fuck. No consequences, nothing happened. When I got back on my feet somewhat, I was able to start cleaning. I'm still cleaning nowadays. It's a lot.

So yes, relax.
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>>38374479
>In my opinion, that is when the game starts

For chess, as soon as you make an illegal move, it ceases to be chess.

>I live in a world of black and white, not the grey.

Also the result of abuse. Your brain couldn't afford nuances and complexity: it's all black or white for you, evil normies and good robots, wasps and bees, etc. It's the same thing, and you need to add complexity, because life is complex.

>That is essentially saying you are free, as long as you do exactly what we have defined in this book. It feels terrible.

It shouldn't feel terrible. That's the nature of any game. Even existence is like that. There'd be no freedom if there weren't any limits.
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>>38374392
>How do you see a difference in these statements?
i mean, that my understanding of the world isn't fundamentally inferior to "normal people's"
>I will also ask you to no longer think in terms of "normies", because even people who seem to do better than you may not be all that normal.
i am aware of that and use "normie" as i see it used on this board - meaning "normal people, who succeed socially(in a broader term)"
>you probably have zero idea of what you express unconsciously, but everyone else knows.
mostly i express not very much, because my body language(especially facial expressions tend to be rather limited to a few "basic" emotional expressions), which means i do not have a very differentiated range of expression in emotional expressivity -> "normal people"(i.e. neurotypicals) perceive this as a fundamental lacking in their "field of expertise" therefore i am in their domain retarded(of which i do concur)
>if you think "normies" are fucking pieces of shit, "normies" will know it from you
i doubt that, because i have a way too open personality/behaviour even though i do not like that fact
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Hey lads, recently chain-smoker here.
How are you this evening?

It's getting really tiring to try and get through with my parents, it's getting unbearable.
I've bought a length of rope the other day, you know, just in case.
It's not worth it anymore, I can't find piece and quite, can't convince myself that things would get better (some brain adjustment exercise bullshit)
I can't get myself to do anything productive.
I wonder how longer i can last like this.
I keep applying for jobs but I'm not getting any interviews.

How do you guys get the determination to keep living day to day?
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>>38374511

He is several hours behind and I think answering everything I tell him is part of his OCD. Using my name a lot may have been part of it too.

Coats is a very special person. We'll have to change how we communicate because it's too problematic right now.

Too bad becase I'd really want to see him answering your questions.
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>>38374533
>Now we are getting predefined motions to do that everyone else expects you to do.

You can never know for sure. Not everyone knows the same tactics.

>That is making your game into work. I don't want to read, to study.

But people like learning about a thing they love. I like watching videos on how to play chess better. It's interesting, and fun!

I can find you a good video if you want.
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>>38374737
>tfw see a reply with content and can't not post
I appreciate that you actually replied when I'm putting up a wall and giving no details. I agree that I generally care too much, but this seems like one of those times where you should care or else you'll regret it. I'm not comfortable saying what is going on, and as such it isn't fair to you. See >>38374704

I'll leave the thread up to see any replies, but it isn't fair to you if I continue posting.
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>>38374546
>any thought-capable citizen that asks it.

That's where it becomes complicated. People who suffer from depression aren't "thought-able" and yet they wish to die.
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>>38374580
>There needs to be a balance for the game to be good.

And that's where rules come in. In all games, rules are there to make the game a game, and to make it enjoyable.

>The problem is life lacks that rule.

It has lots, but they're natural rules, not necessarily rules that someone consciously decided on.
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>>38374635
>But it needs to be done Nick, otherwise I will lose awareness like you talked about in the void. How can I understand anything without the order?

None of this makes sense to me. What are you talking about? Lose awareness? How? Of what? What void?

What do you need to understand? I understand when you mean sequels and all, but not when you mean more than that. You need to play Dead Space 1 before 2 and 3, yes, but you don't need to play Metroid on the NES in order to play DS1.

>I can't Nick. Sorry. I just can't. That is way too hard for me to do, it would make me too miserable. Don't try to make me that miserable Nick.

Maybe you won't be this miserable if you try. There's no actual reason to be sad to play HL1.
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>>38374693
>I understand use

I understand USING

Getting tired, also shit keyboard.
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>>38374704

You did well to come. Everything on your own terms and at your own pace.
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>>38374831
>i mean, that my understanding of the world isn't fundamentally inferior to "normal people's"

But it is. You're missing an enormous amount of information. You've probably heard that "80% of communication is non-verbal," and if you're missing 80% of what someone is expressing because you can only understand the words as if they were written, then you're missing a huge lot.

Understanding the world at 20% instead of 100% is an enormous difference, and yes, it is inferior.

>perceive this as a fundamental lacking in their "field of expertise" therefore i am in their domain retarded(of which i do concur)

Partly, but even a lack of expression expresses something.
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>>38374951
>but it isn't fair to you if I continue posting.

Don't worry about that. It's no problem to me.
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>>38375248
80% that consists of "static" doesn't sound like that much lost - i mean, that most information is quite superfluous - "what does he do", "how does he behave", "what expression does he convey"?
i can understand your point, but seeing interpretation of body language as the uncertain thing it is - especially respective to myself(because people are really bad at interpreting my body language) seems like a rather bad way of conveying information(worse than "words as if they were written")
the fact that people are - rather easilly - fooled through body language('fake it, till you make it' in PUA-terms) is - in my view - evidence that such a mode of communication really is flawed, and maybe more so than you, or other people, may realise
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>>38375422
>80% that consists of "static" doesn't sound like that much lost

But it's not static at all.

>"what does he do", "how does he behave", "what expression does he convey"?

This isn't the information we're talking about here. Not at all.

>>38375422
>seeing interpretation of body language as the uncertain thing it is

Again, this isn't it. It's not interpretation, since it's unconscious for the most part.

>>38375422
>the fact that people are - rather easilly - fooled through body language

You think of it the same way you think about verbal language, which is a mistake. People aren't fooled by body language, that's how liars betray themselves, that's how people get a sense that something's up, someone's lying, etc.

>('fake it, till you make it' in PUA-terms)

Faking body language doesn't work. It feels fake, and actors get to that by actually feeling the emotions they're portraying. It's not done consciously, it's done by feeling the feels.

> in my view - evidence that such a mode of communication really is flawed, and maybe more so than you, or other people, may realise

Your view of it is completely off. You evidently have no idea what you're talking about, which is the premise of this. People don't consciously use body language, which is what makes it more truthful. It's not flawed in that sense. You'll know when someone is sad, even if they try to hide it. It's hard to hide, which is why it's very reliable, but that stuff is probably invisible to you.

It's not a mode of communication so to speak, because people will "communicate" things without intending to. That's a big part of why it's so important.

Good friends watch out for that in their friends.
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Sleepy time for me!
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>>38375626
>This isn't the information we're talking about here.
>Again, this isn't it. It's not interpretation, since it's unconscious for the most part.
then please enlighten me to the result of that, because as i see it(and i am aware that that is also a flawed perception of it) your perceiving of others' body language results in you having certaing emotional/instinctual responses as results (what i haver - in a broader sense - meant by interpretation)
>Again, this isn't it. It's not interpretation, since it's unconscious for the most part.
'Method acting' is just one school of many./What are psychopaths/sociopaths, and why are they so successful?
Btw, don't you think of your inability to translate your reactions to others' emotional states into semantical terms as a lacking?
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>>38365231
Lost over half my ice machines when I was cleaning up my desktop and it made me far less motivated to draw ice machines. I want to do one with a shotgun under its cover but I cant bring myself to do it now that ive lost so many.
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>>38375982
Forgot to use the trip i have not used since january (in a thread i needed a trip) accidental typed it in options
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>>38376014
>>38375982
>not using cloud-based storage for your ice machines

their blood is on your foolish hands
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>>38376105
Ive been thinking that and cant forgive myself, honestly you dont understand how much they meant
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>>38376193
Did you already empty your recycle bin (or whatever the equivalent is for Mac and Linux)? Could you use a recovery tool to find and restore the deleted files?
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>>38371514
At this point I am just playing catch-up, so I can imagine you will be reading all of this when you archive it Nick.

>Die very violently
Not if other objects weren't solid, if the limits also made it so we could pass through one another.

>If you really wanted to, you could
Perhaps, then why do I believe I do?

>Society doesn't give a shit about anyone
Those around me care enough to put me down if I did such a thing. My father especially.

>Excuses
My limitation is my father.

>Other people doesn't include your family or parents
That is the problem, that is most of society since my days in school.
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>>38371569
>Deserving help just means wanting help, here
And am I deserving Nick? You said yourself I don't seem to learn.

>Already discussed
I don't remember that. You said it was an excuse, but how is it not true limitation?

>>38371609
>I don't have a dislike of you
Thank you Nick. I am glad to hear that. Indeed, you are more the middleman than anything, the communicator who can see both sides due to being more open to experiencing both sides.

>We'll do in 4 hours.
If I didn't fail to always catch up before you left due to having other hobbies. Had to deal with martial arts, where I got yelled at for not being able to do anything properly and how I should know at this point how to do it.

Then you wonder why I say I can't do anything right.
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>>38371660
>Doesn't mean they should always be shared
But isn't that manipulation?

>Normal protection of yourself
But secrets are different, that is something you did. It isn't a belief of a person.

>>38371719
>As long as you build bullshit, you won't get better
Logical. The more I believe things without having facts to back them up, the more I will just remain blind.

>You tell me and I will tell you
But you can't babysit me, you can only tell me in hindsight.

>I can do all the thinking through
How does one stop thinking? Still need to inch to green/red.

>It's all very obvious to most people
That is pretty sad indeed.

>>38371774
>Humans get abducted by aliens
Exactly, they think when I was 5 aliens came and abducted me, replacing me with an alien.

>You're better off not listening to them
Hard to Nick when they are in my life.

>Telling the truth to hurt someone is worse than any lie
Definitely agreed. Usually the worst ones aren't the ones lying, but the ones telling you what you need to hear, but in a hurtful way that makes you fight it and thus never take it.
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>Severe God Complex
I have this but I've yet to prove how I'm even remotely godlike in anyway at all. How does one deal with this shit?
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>>38371862
>Reflexes against possible liars
I think you are getting through to me. This makes sense. "Don't worry" is a strong hint that there was thought, because why say "don't worry" otherwise.

>>38371882
>I literally want to beat the shit out of you
I couldn't stop you, not good at self defense at all. I couldn't defend myself against a baby.

>Why do you want to rape a woman?
Mainly because it is the only way I will ever experience intercourse. I am hideous, I have a horrible voice, I am seriously mentally ill, and I cannot do a single thing right. Why would any woman want me, even over any other robot? I am literally the lowest of the low.

>>38371920
>Retarded people are more dangerous
But I can't handle anything properly. I would mess up at every opportunity. I am like a Chris Farley that is more likely to trip over a box of crates than ever successfully go through with anything.

>Admitting is a good stop. But you can't stop there
What more can I do?
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ohayou Nick it's time for you to go to bed
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>>38371986
>Video games for hours
Not really. I haven't been able to experience anything, so I mostly know random stuff you wouldn't care about. You talking about games I haven't touched would just make me more depressed.

>Game design
Better, but I am a retarded failure that has no idea how to handle game design. I would love to, but I just can't.

>Game ideas
My game ideas are garbage. Nobody would play them. So worthless to talk about.

>You don't even seem to have boundaries for yourself
Indeed, this seems to be a big problem. I can't understand boundaries. It feels like a bad thing to have.

>Examples
Fair enough. Should have thought of products of society.

>>38372080
>You're not listening
Not sure how to start

>Try to understand. If you don't, you ask questions.
That is essentially what I have been doing. It just comes off more as arguments. I state my opinion so you can correct it.

>More time on this and less on fucking retarded arguments
Agreed. Debates about things don't really matter, we need to get to the actual concepts.

>One statement each
I don't like rules, but I can agree

>Like a conversation, which we can't do if you're 4 hours behind
Due to this. Each day has been a bit of a mess. I get lost where we even were in the conversation and am just trying to respond to the best of my ability.
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>>38372156
>Why the fuck would you say that?
I didn't have anything else to say and it sounded like something that would invoke conversation

>Nobody can make ANY sense of this shit, Coats!
Not even myself, which is a big part of the problem actually. I don't really know myself, I live in a lot of confusion.

>Do you understand it yourself
It was all I could think of. It was the only way I could believe a conversation could be continued.

>>38373041
>Extremes and nothing else is possible
I believe I said elsewhere about the black and white, probably after this at some point. Where am I?

>No idea what normal boundaries are, what self-respect is
Indeed, I can see this being a problem.

>Waste no more time arguing
Not sure what questions to ask. I am terrible at conversation.

>Haven't I proved myself enough?
I thought the pristine pool was the NEET's bed.

>You weren't taught proper boundaries, so you don't even know your worth, or that you deserve to take up some fucking space
I lack self-confidence, so I would agree with that statement. A big problem at martial arts is because other people are practicing and I don't want to get in their way because everyone will yet at me and throw me out of the dojo for getting in their way. This is a problem everywhere, feeling like I will mess up and get discarded entirely.
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>>38373098
>These are where you'll find the roots of your problems
I am not sure what I should be seeing as the root. I just saw the contradiction.

>Feel free to send a photo of you
Extreme paranoia. I can't do that.

>>38373142
>Any kind of cooker?
There are others besides ovens? No, I don't, I live in a basement with a mini-fridge for my soda/water. Other than that, it is sandwiches and fast food, plus some snacks for good measure. Of course the sandwich bread I got was terrible, so I have just been eating pieces of salami and handfuls of Mexican cheese. Luckily it is the weekend. Today I have Domino's, though it is probably getting cold as I try to answer all (or all I can) of this before the thread closes.
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>>38373222
It is. Really tiny box.

>>38373600
>What makes you think I have a choice?
Well, why are you in the middle of the bathroom watching me take a shit unless there is some reason behind it? Do you have a gun to your head?

>Is taking a dump a private thing?
It is currently because society doesn't like it, though the NEETs tend to leave the door open or close it with the light on when they aren't in there, so you end up not knowing when they are in the bathroom. I try to catch the bathroom as often as I can, but there have been quite a few occasions where I need to use a shopping bag because nobody would get out of the bathroom.

>>38373662
>Objects have been nicer to you than people have
Perhaps that is it. Objects don't hurt, people hurt. People don't accept, objects accept. I am 22.

>You haven't, tell me
When I go into a store or other area where beanie babies are at, or any stuffed animals with those black eyes, I get heavily emotional. I feel sad that I can't save them from the imprisonment of the store, I just want to hug them and take them home. I want to show them love in a way no other human ever could. I want to respect them, to treat them like my equal, and to befriend them. It is bothersome to see stuffed animals, I just see those sad black eyes and can't handle myself. I feel bad that they are lonely. I empathize, I just do it with stuffed animals.

>>38373709
Give up and hate life?

>>38373740
Then why are rules good if OCD is bad? Isn't OCD just a more structured version of a normal person?
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>>38373821
>Rules aren't orders
I see, so it is a limitation to create a world with balance.

>You can always play
That is what bugged me about rules. You made it sound like "Play Chess like I play or stop playing chess you retard, stop messing up my activity, learn the rules by reading manual after manual and studying for years on how to do all these techniques".

>There therapies for it. You can be healed.
I hope so. I need my OCD to go away.

>>38373854
>Cure OCD
If you have some tips for this one, I would definitely be happy. We haven't focused enough on the OCD side.

>Move to your own place
No can do. My father would view it as a personal attack on him. I can't do that to my father. At the least he means well, and doing that would be unappreciative for his efforts.

>>38373906
>Delayed e-mails
Indeed, this has been a mess

>Time is of the essence
I see. But I feel bad if I don't reply to every single thing you say.

>>38374009
I just don't know what to ask. What do I ask Nick? Where do I go with someone I know somewhat well?

>>38374068
>You give signs of being dangerous
I see that this perhaps is not the best route to go, but in that case, I have zero idea of what to say.
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>>38374117
>Not seeing things doesn't mean others have power over you
But they do Nick. My father does. My job does. Martial Arts does. The NEETs do. Everyone around me does.

>>38374193
>Playing it every fucking time you play the game!!!
I just feel it has severe importance. It was a part of the game, it deserves to be appreciated as often as the rest. I love going back to the tutorial and pretending I don't know anything.

>>38374240
>Chess has many more combinations available
But they have all been made and put in books for people to demand you to use. It is like reading legislature for driving a car... all for a game.

>>38374511
Probably either the obsession with collecting or the obsession with playing games in chronological order. I don't know which causes more torture, both are pretty stressful at times.

>>38374521
>No. It doesn't
But then the game gets boring because we always have the same rules. It turns into football.

>You can't turn a game into a toy
Well, I like toys. What is wrong with toys as well as games? What is wrong with making a game into a toy and back into a game with your own rules?

>So do it
I can't Nick, I did it for Tera once, it made me throw up and start bawling like a baby. I couldn't handle it. It was some of the worst misery I have experienced.

>Are you out of your mind Coats?
I just listen and say what I hear. My mind isn't sane. So it goes to weird places.

>>38374693
>Things turn to shit without constraints in a game
Not for me. Finishing the game is when you start turning people into robots that get massacred by everyone else for being a robot.
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>>38374792
>Chess, as soon as you make an illegal move, it ceases to be chess.
Then it becomes a better game. One with robots and people getting slaughtered.

>And you need to add complexity
Not sure how. That is part of the problem, not being sure how to do anything even when you are probably blatantly telling me. I just cannot see it.

>That's the nature of any game
But that is miserable. Why do I want to play games in a Nazi war camp where I have fun only by doing X and never Y? Why never do Y?

>>38374894
Catching up... still... perhaps you are right as I can't help not answering these. Why is using your name OCD even? Why did I get an obsession to do that? Why can't I just be normal?

>Coats is a very special person
I feel it. Not in a good way. This is bad.

>I'd really want to see him answering your questions
Answered, though now it will only get seen by Nick.

>>38374939
>Not everyone knows the same tactics
But they are all off the same caste, the same design, the same mold. "First I do X, then Y, then Z". It sounds like a terrible way to play the game when everything is just pre calculated moves.

>I like watching videos on how to play chess better
No real worth to me. I find it dull, not enough happening at one time. It is turn based, it is slow, it feels tedious and limited.

>>38375026
>Rules are there to make a game a game
I can concur, but removing them is not so bad as you believe. They serve their purpose, then, like wrapping paper, are to be discarded.

>Not necessarily rules that someone consciously decided on
And for some reason I lost the lottery of the RNG there. Ironically while still debating with myself I have a good life. I mean, it looks great. I have a job, I have the ability to do whatever at home, I can buy whatever I want... what more could I ask for?
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>>38375089
>Lose awareness?
I won't be able to figure out down from up and up from down. Nothing will make sense to me. The void without any floors.

>You don't need to play Metroid on the NES in order to play DS1
No, you need to play all of the Ultima series. Forget how many there are, but it is over 12 if I remember correctly.

>Maybe you won't be this miserable if you try.
Look at what happened with me and Tera. That can be a good fact to take note of for my OCD.

>>38375892
I think I am caught up after nearly 2 hours of responses.
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I don't know where to start but anything would help

>secretive about everything, nobody knows the real me or my problems, outwards facing I'm great, inwards I'm fucked up. Feel suicidal, people ask how I'm doing, "great"

>I can't do long term goals,everything is ruined by instant gratification.
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getting my mental health evaluated soon, took two months just to get a confirmation on that.

went to the doctor because i wanted to get my heart checked out, cause every night i'd wake up with my heart just poundin away and me thinkin i was gonna die, just lyin there counting my heart rate, too scared to go back to sleep, just in case

wants to get me on anti depressants to stop the panic attacks

on a totally unrelated note i've found myself being disappointed greatly by things to the point where i don't bother much trying to please myself anymore, because it just doesn't live up to expectations.

lots of mood swings that's scaring the shit out my mum and the online friends i do have by going from 0-100 on the rage scale, and i just turn red and start shaking and smashing shit

also i've started stalking a person i have a crush on and taking creepshots of them for myself. only just last week i noticed a golden ring on their left hand-ring finger. commissioning eastern european va's to make relationship/i love you tapes for myself.
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>>38378061
oh shit i know that feel, the happy mask, i'm sorry
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>>38378425
forgot to mention but i've also started hating my friends in general, i have this suspicion all the time that nobody is really on my side and everyone hates me
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