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I JUST WANT HER TO BE MY GF WHAT'S WITH THIS DUMB COMPLICATED SHIT

I CAN'T KEEP GETTING OLDER I NEED TO FUCKING SETTLE DOWN

DO YOU HAVE ANY IDEA HOW MUCH I LOVE THE IDEA OF BEING A HUSBAND AND FATHER

AAAAAAAAAA

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>life is over 1/3 over
>you realize just how hideously attractive the majority of 25+ women are physically and how old and jaded they're looking
>becoming increasingly stigmatized to be with 18-21 yr old women at your age

I cannot take this anymooooore

>>38336673

It seems the only women available over 25 are either obese or single moms

>>38336673
>becoming increasingly stigmatized to be with 18-21 yr old women at your age
Who gives a flying fuck? Be with them anyway

>>38336512
>>38336673
Dudes, stop worrying about it so much. I'm 29 and get the same feels from time to time. It sucks seeing all your friends getting into relationships and getting married while you're still single. I'm trying to focus my energy on self improvement, and hopefully I'll meet a qt at some point along the way.

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>getting older
>watching my race get genocided in a "legal" way
>usa will be less than 50% white in 10 years
>canada will be 80% non-white in 20 years
>europe is a big question mark as police can't even get into willfully segregated muslim communities
>no one even fucking cares

The joos finally did it

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>>38336478
>approaching 30
>dont own any property
>no career
>almost no money to my name
WHY CAN'T I JUST DIE

I moved back home with my mom because I got laid off and ran out of money.
Plan was to get a job here quick, start saving up money, and maybe make some self-improvements while I'm in comfy-mode like lookmax or something.

It's been 3 weeks since I've moved back home and so far all I've done is shitpost and masturbate.

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>>38336512
>>38336673
>>38336964
if you are that desesperate, try go to china and buy a qt waifu. That's my plan if I reach the age of 30 and still single

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I just want to feel some honest, carefree teenage love. The worst part is that I had some chance in HS, but was to fucking retarded and beta to understand her signals and act on them.

Now I'm a 28 khv, and every time I think about all this i just feel an intense mixture of rage and sadness. I should just kill myself.

>>38337221

Stop trying to make up for how you think your teenage years should have gone.
Move forward.

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>27
>alcohol and weed don't work on me well
>(no i'm not fat)
>losing interest in videogames
>only relief is driving
>go out at 3am and drive to nowhere blasting music
>car is unreliable so I can't go that far

i can only forget what a loser I am for 30-45 minutes

>>38336978
meh, I think it's pretty crafty

a 100 year WW2 revenge plan against a numerically far superior enemy who almost wiped you from the face of the earth and cut your numbers in half

they still got 28 years to go, but demographics are changing so fast they could probably trigger the Civil Wars phase sooner than that

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>>38337317
>almost wiped you from the face of the earth and cut your numbers in half
if only. wouldn't matter anyways, germany wasn't able to usurp any of the bank/fed jews back then and their legacy has been laughing to the bank ever since.

>>38336964
No, I'm tired of passively hoping. The universe has delivered this girl to me and demanded that I man up. This could not be any more of a sign from God. If she literally descended from heaven in front of me it would be nearly equivalent. I have to prove to myself, to her, and to the universe that I am worthy

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How to meet women?I'm 27 HKV, how does this work?

>>38337630

you are too late it's time to retrain yourself to like dicks

>>38337630

never take risks or leave the house

>>38337630

You have to go outside and engage in society in a reliable and predictable way. This means stuff like joining a church or having a job.
When you actually do meet them though prepare to be disappointed.
The ones that aren't outright obese or ugly are painfully average, and the reality of interacting with them is nothing like the fantasies you imagine while you are staring at your pics of 9/10s. It's mostly just really annoying and paradoxically the more they like you the more annoying it is.

I-I'm thinking of talking to a single-mom
>inb4 Chad barges into our lives every 2-3 weeks

>>38337762

That's a good thing anon.
Contact with Chad is literally the only valuable thing on this planet.

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>tfw everything is going fine
>acing the uni, manging to land some little part time job
>lifting
>forcing myself to socialize as much as I can
>drawing, playing guitar, a little bit of video editing

>still feel standing on the edge of the cliff, still insecure, nogfism is still killing me

>>38337904
Fug, I'm downloading that, what a nice painting

>>38336478
>26

Life is okay. I don't have a GF or any friends but I have something most people my age don't. Money

feelss good man.

I made a lot this year. I am getting good at this shit

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>>38336903
It seems the only men available are obese and/or unfuckable poor losers.

>>38336478
33yo, been coming here for 11years
Own a home
Earn over 2.5x the median household income for my state
Married
2 kids
Have anxiety issues about health problems/dying

Im a 25 turning 26 year old virgin and Im sitting here browsing 4chan on my phone while on a break.
Theres a girl here on my crew sitting at the other end of the table eating an apple. It sounds juicy because shes slurrping a lot and making a lot of mouth sounds. Its getting me very horny. Like rocksolid erect and I wish that she knew just a couple feet away from her Ive got a solid cock for her.
Am I doomed to die alone lads? Is there any chance of salvation from my unattractice perverted ways?

>26
Lost my mind at 19 and snapped out of it at 24 (schizophrenia)
Still no job, education, or life in general.
I'm drawing the conclusion that variables in life are all pointless.
Not mad at how life decided to fuck me, I was never a chad, but I've never experienced not getting what I want for the most part.
Family has already buried me for the most part..
Still here..

>>38338121
it's all depends on your actions
it's comforting and scary at the same time

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So how many of you older robots actually attractive?

>>38336478
Hey. I'm 30. Things get better. I feel better now that when I was 25. I am still living with mom but things look good. Don't lose hope. But do something about it.

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>>38338322
I look alright except that I put no effort into my appearance

why do you ask?

>>38338515
>But do something about it.
what did you do?

>>38338322
I alternate between "I am a disgusting piece of shit" and "3 months of excersize and diet will make me a god"

>>38338536
A bit curious honestly
>>38338615
Why don't you go for it?

>>38337112
i moved home from seattle back to my dads guest bed room... its been 7 months im finally debt free but I hate my life more then ever

28 almost 29 hate everything... worked for amazon,Microsoft, helped build ubers network... broken inside from military and failed relationship... why anon why.... i fought in 3 wars and habe a great resume and im broke and broken...

>going back to college at 26
Am I making a mistake lads, getting a meme degree too

>>38339128
probably? college is only good if you have a clear career path. if you're literally doing nothing else with your life though go for it.

>26
>no job
I think I've found some direction in life though. I'd like to be some sort of shitty cook and write fiction in my spare time. I've been applying to a lot of cooking jobs, but only aiming at places such as Applebee's, Red Robin, and even Pizza Hut. I guess they want someone with experience.

>>38336478
I'm turning 25 in a week. What horrors do I have to prepare for anons?

I miss who I used to be and I don't know how to bring him back.

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>be 25 yo neet
>3x college dropout
>looking for a job with zero prior experience
>after years of isolation looking like a serial killer
It'll probably be fine, right?

>>38340514
How old are you? Just remind yourself of what those days were like. How you lived, what people you surrounded yourself with, what you did, ect

>>38340642
This is me currently.
I feel like when I apply to places and they see that I've done literally nothing after high school they just throw my application in the trash.

>>38340670
25." Those days" sucked but I was a more liked person and was much more outgoing. Now I'm bitter and nihilistic and have driven away anyone I ever cared about either through neglect or just being a boring nobody, and now my self destruction has set it's sights on my relationship with my family as we all grow older and I continue to stagnate and disappoint.

>>38340708
Can't compete with normies.
I got like 2 interviews in last three months both of wich went something like:
>Hello Anon, how old are you?
>25
>Do you have any experience in working with X?
>No
>What kind of education do you have?
>School...
>That's it?
>Yeah
>You said you were 25? What were you doing all this time after school?
>*incoherent mumbling about my failed attempts at attending a college*
>*sighing audibly* We'll call you back.
Not even fucking fast food wants me anymore, most of their hirings are 18-19 yo students these days.

>>38336478
Researching the best/cheapest pistol to blow my brains out. Rifles and shotguns are a little too gory, I think.

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>>38340939
just find the nearest pitbull

>>38340767
I'd see a councilor/psychologist

>>38341011
You're probably right in that definitely need help.

>>38340939
They're gory because they work.
Don't get a glock and expect anything but to come out a retard that the state won't allow to die.

>>38340939
This>>38341221

Think you're life sucks now? What if the pistol only did half the job?

>>38341221
>>38341334

That's why I'm researching. Obviously you don't want something underpowered.

If you get a caliber that can penetrate your skull, then all you need to do is aim it at your brain stem.

Turned 25 3 months ago

Everything got more expensive, I feel like a little child, feel like I look like one too, should do something about career, should get a bigger flat, find a GF and so much more.

This world is too much for me robots

>>38340642
I'm exactly like you

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>>38340642
>>38340708
>>38340932
>>38341455
why dont you guys start doing internet content? im sure you guys gotta be passionate about something. Videogames, anime, books, movies, i mean the list goes on.

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>>38336512
same here man, I'm sick of playing games but it seems like you really have no choice. I was certain this one was gonna work too (just like I tell myself every year).

we've just got to keep trying

>>38336478
I'm 25, get pussy, and am going back to university. Get your life together faggots.

can't go more than 24 hours sober lads, so sick of being alone

>>38340932
Just say you've been doing online commissions or something. Data entry, transcribing, etc. Impossible to prove otherwise.

>>38337181
H... how do you go about this? Explain, senpai.

>>38338322
I'm pretty good looking if you're into fat bald dudes

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>>38336478
Closer to 26 than 25 now.
I have given up getting a woman and expecting anything too great from the future like owning my own house or anything like that. Now I just focus on feeling happy surviving paycheck to paycheck and enjoying little things like pretty sunsets, new episode of my favorite shows or pizza.
It feels so relieving and empowering in a way to stop caring too much.
Got an easy-way-out pill in 00 buck just in case I get backed against a wall with my bohemian lifestyle though.

>>38336478
> 25
>college drop out
>never had a job
>internet addicted shut in
>very rarely go out and never talk to strangers
>never had a bf
>severe social anxiety
>only one friend i actually talk to
>live with mom
>am fat and ugly

why live

>27
>decent job, own a small house
>luck into a gf for the last 5 years
>she leaves this year for her work
>can't follow due to my work
>back to the full-blown robot life

Flew too close to the sun, my dudes. Not sure if it was worse having and losing normie status than never having it at all.

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>>38341720
>Videogames, anime, books, movies
Is any there anything not oversaturated with jokers, wannabe critics, wannabe pro gamers, attention whoring streamers and the like?
The world's overpopulated and it reflects on the job market, including the entertainment industry both professional and amateur, the competition everywhere is savage.
The value of one of 7000000000 individuals on the planet falling below the mantle regardless of whether you're in Vietnam or in Canada, if some loser somewhere can't get a job, becomes a hobo and starves to death nobody will give a lick of shit because someone's death just made life easier for the next one or two hundred people who applied for the same shit job...
I forgot where I was going with but yeah, shit's fucked.

>>38338322
>So how many of you older robots actually attractive?
A woman I've been inside has told me I basically mind fuck her with how I am and how she can barely control herself when I'm around her. She's told me how she has had dreams of me that have more intense than any previous dreams.
A side from her I mostly get "cute/kinda handsome" from women, most find it odd I'm single.
My best male friend mentioned that I am not attractive.
imho I can either look shit or kinda ok depending on the angle/lighting

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>>38342007
self expression and recognition even if its by one fuckin person is something that can go long ways specially for someone who doesnt have no one that cares about them.
if you're making something that you like, and something that reflects you, regardless of how saturated the industry is,it's still is going to be fulfilling when someone recognizes your stuff and shows appreciation, trust me people out there dont really want you to fuckin fail.

all im saying is fuck success, you should try doing something that fulfills you and makes you happy.

>>38341902
why don't you just eat less food
try that for like 6 months or a year if you're a gross monster and then just start going to bars and wait for some nice guy to hit on you and fix your problems

and before you say "i don't like bars" like every girl is obligated to say, i just have to preemptively respond with saying shut the fuck up because your current preferences aren't getting you anywhere

>>38336478
36 here. I've been at my job for five years, stuck on night shift. Perfect attendance, always get the job done, nothing ever a problem. Then he goes and gives the day shift to the casual I trained. It's an office job, a real opportunity to learn more about the industry, become more valuable to the business and other employers. He didn't even mention it to me. Every time I see the boss I have to repress murderous rage. I want to beat the casual to death. Most of the time I'm OK, but it's so hard to keep hidden. I don't want to be unemployed, I just want to chill and get over it.

I keep applying for jobs left and right. I have a good resume with a lot of good credentials. I'm not sugarcoating. I made a startup nearly 1 million dollars as an intern and I have over a year of experience in my field.

I have a 5 month gap because I got really sick with Crohn's and needed a resection and it took a long time to recover from. I'm a lot better now and with better meds and I get rejected literally within an hour from every company I apply to. I can't work a labor job anymore. I can't work retail or do warehouse or factory work either because of no access to a bathroom.

Don't know where to go from here.

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>26
>Lost virginity to qt trap
>Live free at home with payrents
>Work a robotic temp job, rarely socialise with co-workers
>Low bills so work is very profitable
>Rarely socialise with anyone outside the internet

Life could be worse

>>38342383
Why don't you tell your boss you want the day shift?

>>38341843
Its in parks, people advertise their children, with the degress and skills etc. You would never get one as a NEET. They want creme of the crop

>>38341902

I have social anxiety too, and sometimes you just have to push yourself to go out =/ Pushing yourself that extra mile is a running theme with this disorder

Find a guy who likes big girls, guessing you're in the states so no luck there ;(

>>38342460
I told him a couple of years ago I wasn't happy on the night shift. At that time there was no one to replace me, so I had to suck it up. And now one becomes available and he didn't even bother to tell me. It's not so much the shift but the work. What I'm doing now is menial. The day stuff could really help my employ ability. Thanks for the (you)

>>38337221
>Honest teenage love
>Wearing that much make-up

Get the fuck OUT OF HERE you stupid fuck, you're pissed you didn't get some prepubescent tail and you can't even be honest with yourself about that.

Newflash: Teenage love isn't "honest" it's vapid, fleeting and stupid.

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>>38340932

Go for unskilled temp work, it's easy especially if you just apply through an agency

Get a FLT license possibly

Go volunteering for a bit if you need the references

What's important is filling up your recent work history. I've found no-one really asked too probingly into my past unemployment once I had *a* work history and some references.

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>>38342524
Funny enough I'm just starting to do nights at work. I think I like it better 2bh. If I switch rotations I get Thursday to Sunday night off.

>need to lose weight, cut drinking/weed and stop putting off dating

Even my NEET friend who was 25yo virgin has a gf so I need to get my shit back in gear.

If my pension payout doesn't come this week I might stab the mailman though.

>>38336978
We shall bear witness to the final days of western civilisation

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trying to get into drawing right now. i guess its too late for a professional career considering how long it takes to git gut, but i wanna do it just as a hobby anyways

I envy thoes here biggest complaint is not having a gf.

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>>38342524
>I told him a couple of years ago
you have to bug the fuck out of him,he's busy an forgot. you have to be bold and keep asking.

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>tfw,tfw gf is the least of your problems

>>38343003
>i guess its too late for a professional career considering how long it takes to git gut

not really, it's all about luck in that industry. keep drawing my nigga

How do I get out of the cycle of sitting down at the computer every day and not doing anything? For years I've just been sitting here using it to avoid life and not take part but I can't just keep running from shit anymore.

Need to get a job and go out in the world and accomplish SOMETHING before this is all over. My life has been in stasis for half a decade and I haven't even tried to live, I just hide in my online safe space and avoid the world but I need money and things and home life is becoming too mentally taxing.

How did you old faggots break out of your sadneet comfort zone and step into the adult world without killing yourself

>>38344413
Cut your internet, assuming it's the primary addiction of yours. Get honest with yourself - what shitty things you couldn't live without? Those are addictions. Get rid of them. They've been stealing your lifeforce all along.

>>38344413
You stop caring and do what you have to do. For instance my dad always told me I had to keep physical paperwork around, and here we have a lot of it, well I said fuck it and keep only what the laws forces me to keep, I trashed every non necessary paper, switched online everything that could, and it made my life way easier.

For jobs, just become a robot and apply to everything you can. At some point bullshitting in cover letters won't be a hassle, you'll do it automatically just like brushing your teeth or jerking off.

Realize that you'll die and there's no reason to be afraid because life is shit anyway. And remember that more money means better toys. Better to cry while sitting on a comfy $1000 chair, in front of a $4500 desktop and drinking expensive wine while using your $1200 VR setup to cuddle with your waifu than be a poorfag sadsack.

You realize that you take some aspects of life too seriously, and others not seriously enough. You adjust this.

>>38338322

I used to somehow think I was attractive but now I realize that I'm scrawny with no jaw and a huge nose.

>>38344635
why did you even let internet fuck you over

>>38344579

Last July I was like desperately poor and cut my internet service to save money. I went a year without it and in the end I think it just made me even more insane.

Instead of a constant stream of new content and interaction, I just looked at the saved content on my disconnected computer over and over again, or would play solitaire for hours.

The lesson is that simply cutting off the internet won't fix the problem.
At least the internet is undeniably stimulating. Without the internet, you'll just end up doing something equally useless, but without the stimulation.

If you have an addiction, regardless of what it is, drugs, alcohol, internet, masturbation, you have to fix what's underneath it. Additions mean something, there's something that causes them. The problem you have to solve isn't the addiction, you have to solve what caused it in the first place.

>>38344662

Fuck me over how?

>>38344691
>The problem you have to solve isn't the addiction, you have to solve what caused it in the first place.

Doesn't work that way, and we both know it.

>I just looked at the saved content on my disconnected computer over and over again, or would play solitaire for hours.

You were still addicted.
Try NOT doing any of these things. You will get your life-force back.

Or you can persist in your current lifestyle and its false sense of accomplishment, until it collapses under its own weight and forces you to take change.

I've been there too, friend. Looking back, the only times I did something good were times fraught with sincere, high will to live. I went a few months completely without my PC, and after phone emulating pokemon red&blue became boring, life suddenly become easier without me realizing it. I just "did it" and "was myself" until I got a new PC and everything went back to shit.

>>38344701
>males complaining about looks online
Literally what the fuck.

>>38338007
Honestly I'd prefer a really fat girl but very few of them are interested in fat dudes.

When will this convert in 30+ thread

>>38342549
I don't see why you have to be so needlessly agressive and defensive at the same time. Sounds like someone trying to rationalize loss.

Also whats with the prepubescent shit? You know teenagehood emcompasses 13-19, and that is after puberty, which starts at roughly 12-13? Fuck off with your strawman.

I consider it normal, honest and healthy to experience teenage love and some ptp, along with the sociaization and the other things that form a healthy individuals life. Whats not normal is being a 28yo kv.

>>38344758

My understanding is that addictions are compensating behavior for some missing need. Removing the object of addiction isn't going to magically materialize that missing something. It's still missing.

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Im turning 25 next year can some tell me what to do before its too late?

>>38344413
Limit yourself to an hour on your computer everday.

Make a commitment to practicing or engaging in a hobby or project of your choice at the same time everyday.

Check out local events in your area for each week and commit to going to a few.

Discipline is your best friend. Ive been where you are. Life is so much better outside your comfort zone.

>>38344772

I was simply making a factual statement.
It's amusing and even amazing to me how delusional I used to be about my looks.
Do I wish I were more handsome. Sure, who doesn't? But I'm not complaining.

>>38344815
If you're not committing to NEETdom at this point:
>get stem degree
>save as much as possible
>retire asap

>>38344815
It's already too late.

It was over before it even began.

>>38344814
No one is going to magically materialize anything except you. It's just that you are going to do it easier when you remove that escapist thing that basically destroys your will to live in every other aspect. I can't first magically spawn a gf, unfail two colleges or resurrect my dad to cure addictions, i have to do that thing first and so far it's gone pretty amazing. I'm off this site soon, gonna visit only briefly.

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>>38337630
my guts say to lookmax and see a prostitute

sexual success and experience = confidence. same as being as best physically attractive as you possibly can

thats what im doing atleast

>>38344815

None of us know how this ride ends man.
We all ended up here because we got hurt bad. You don't end up this way over night. Can you turn it around after going through something like that? No one knows. Even if you turn it around and start trying to play the normie game, there's still years of your life that you spent in the most autistic way possible. That shit doesn't just go away, it's a part of you.

>>38344878

What I'm saying is that there is a dependency upon a behavior that has to be addressed rather than just the behavior being addressed. The escapist thing isn't what is destroying you, it's your desire to escape. And if you remove your favorite outlet without fixing your diseased will, then you will learn to escape in other ways.

I get what you're saying insofar as cutting the cord is a necessary step that must be taken at some point. But what I'm saying is that isn't the last step it's the first. People have to fix themselves on a deeper level and there's more to it than just turning off the computer. If it were that easy we'd all have done it.

>>38344937
I see your point. I apologize, my perspective is a tad different. I feel amazing really not having to boot up <insert current favourite videogame>.

>People have to fix themselves on a deeper level and there's more to it than just turning off the computer.

Agreed. Can you elaborate? It has been pretty straightforward to me, but I'd like to relate to this as well.

>>38345021

Sorry that I can't elaborate further that's the end of my knowledge.
I don't understand enough about it to respond in a generalized way about what causes these problems and how to fix them. I'm not even certain of the roots in my own personal case.

But I'm in agreement with you that "getting out there" is at some point a vital part of it. You can't fix this stuff with just doing "knowledge work" inside your own head, this stuff is deep-rooted in your body, you absolutely have to start behaving differently. It's kind of a chicken-and-egg problem which I guess is what makes it so hard to break the pattern.

>>38336978
do you want to bet 20 bucks on the canada thing happening? with interest

>>38345149
Oh man I recognize myself so much in this post. What helped me a ton is NOT rationalizing it at all; which as you see leads to the chicken and egg problem.
Try meditations. This helped me a lot. When you get into this state enough, the life afterwards feels so much clearer and you know exactly what needs to be done. Just stop worrying about stuff and relax.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eKncH1M1hU0

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Have you guys ever come across unwelcoming sights of those 40+ disgusting mentally ill totally non-feminine crossdressing men shoving stuff up where it ain't mean to go in front of a camera while scrolling through amateur porn?

You will just be like them in a decade or two.

>>38345194

Yea, just like there's an infinite variation of the problem there's probably infinitely many solutions.

A lot of people recommend meditation. Something that helped me a lot actually was chess. Playing it a lot trained me to think more analytically about consequences and goals.

Turning 28 soon and got my first GF a few months ago.
My life was practically over before I met her and I "extended" it almost reluctantly for her. Today I realized how much she means to me and how ridiculously I got. But the distance separating us and my personality and life I am in are ruining it. I can't handle this.

I feel some sort of pressure to do things, even I don't want to do them, like sorting my life out, but those things are out of my control and I'm waiting now (I applied for things and now I just have to wait). I feel like I'm going to lose her by being a lame, boring, cynical piece of shit that doesn't want to do anything.
I can't deal with this pressure and it's only making me even lamer and expediting the process of breaking up.

>>38337221

I was in a same position and got my first GF at your age. After that I never gave the "wasted teenage relationships" a though again and realized how stupid it was.

>>38337630

Internet dating, obviously.

>>38345299

What did your GF think about your inexperience?
Was she equally inexperienced?

>>38337904

Why don't you work on finding a GF then? Everything else seems to be taken care of, so why not focus on that now?

>>38345265
I misread chess as cheese . Is there hope for me?

>>38340767
>>38340514

I know that feel, bro. That's exactly how I feel.
I don't blame anyone and I don't have any delusions. I just hate myself and I see no point in trying to salvage anything now because of the implications what could have been if I hadn't been so stupid.

>>38345335

She found it acceptable, maybe even charming.
I was honest with her. We met online and since none of us had any hopes of meeting each other we were honest and I told her everything. How I was a KHV for 27 years and other embarassing things. She was more experienced, had 2 boyfriends but it was kind of unusual. Once we met it was incredible. She was kind and understand and I "caught up" with everything. That's why I don't mind "missing out" on relationships during my teenage years any more. But I am worried about heartbreak now, incredibly worried since I had no chance to "practice" it. It's gonna kill me..

The point is you have to be honest if you want a relationship. Perhaps you could lie about your inexperience if you just want to have sex for a night.

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31 here
> Lost my job in february due a psychotic breakdown
> no education beside high school diploma
> no friends. I only talk to my mother and sisters sometimes.
> Brokeup with my fiance (8y relationship) in january.
> lately im really thinking about getting a gun in shot myself in the head.

>>38345521

Sorry man. That's a lot of destruction in a short amount of time, like a forest fire. Maybe you can start to grow in new directions now. Sorry if that sounds callous just want to give you maybe a positive image to think about.

>>38345627
Thanks mate. Im really trying to be positive, im going to the shrink once a week hes a cool dude, i learned a lot from him. But Im feel so tired of dealing with everything, i just want to rest.

There's a lot of "normal" people on here. People with genuine problems and fears. Do you only post in these threads?
Because I cannot imagine that someone like that would engage in the sour-grape, juvenile, deluded behaviour that makes up 80% of the posts on this board.

I only post in the 25+ thread and the occasional thread that is about my current problems or life situations.

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I haven't gotten any money this month because of some goverment fuckups couldn't read my forms. Getting some money next week though which is good since they now cleared it up. What pissed me off the most was the fact that all my bills are unpaid and I have to pay a bit of extra now.
On a more positive note, I think I have created some of the best songs to date out of sheer anger. Only downside is that my next album will be a complete mess tone wise. It has incredibly angry song with some really harsh, distorted basslines and some cute and funky chiptune songs. What a fucking mess.

On that note, I haven't been thinking of having no gf or anything like that for a long time. Life feels simpler, which is good.

I'm a college drop out but I have a stable job (8 years so far). This is my first job and I haven't done any training since I came here. I've been actively dismissing job offers all this time for multiple reasons (mostly excuses). I've been the boss of my division for 2 years, but I plan on stepping down in a few months.

I have a genuine interest/worry on how people like me will be treated in the future. I have no interest in education and I have less and less motivation to come to the office and work as days go by. I haven't done anything productive this entire week. My subordinates didn't come to work this morning and I didn't do anything about it.


All I want to do right now is to stand still. I understand getting qualifications and having a job is something important. I understand how that can affect my life and that of people who rely on me. Still I don't want to do anything.

I believe there are a lot of people in this situation and I don't see how the ones who never get out of it will deal or be dealt by life.

>>38345265
>meditation is everything that makes you calm and relaxed, so it's not only sitting quiet, it's also when you are reading, painting, singing, etc.
That was a form of meditation too.

>>38336478
Cleaned the apartment, made food and washed clothes today. I just bought a bag of chips and 3 cans of heineken. Gonna drink these and might go after some more if I feel like it. My life is pretty much a mess but today feels like a good day.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pnpndwN3WIQ
Take it easy robos.

Fifth day in a row that I am working 12 hour shifts. Just want to get home, pop up a video game and crack open a beer and unwind. But at the same time my mind is nagging me on how i should not waste time and how i should go out and socialize.

It fucking sucks when you do not have a clear and decided opinion on what you enjoy and what you do not enjoy.

>>38347089
what videogame (dont answer if it's a console game)

>>38347101
It is, I am replaying RE4 on my ps2.
My PC overheats and gpu drivers crash in this ungodly heat.

>>38347111
daaaaaaaaaaaaayum invest in a big tower and get proper cooling, don't sell yoruself short with """"console""""" """"...."""games"""...."""
RE4 is a good game tho

>>38345757
I'd take this as a compliment. It comes with age. The majority of posters you are talking about are little bratty youngsters with a minor thorn in their sides that they obsess about. Anyone younger than 25 can not know the feels we are feeling, and the seriousness of the situations most of us face. This naturally leads to mature, post-SHTF behavior.

>>38347089
No matter what you do you'll have a voice that says to do the opposite. Take a break every now and then anon. If you rely too much on your achievements to make you feel happy then you'll forever be chasing and never taking a break. Not saying you should slack but after 5 days of 12 hours shifts maybe you deserve a break.

>>38336478
>25
>college dropout
>abused as a child and have chronic sleep insomnia and depression where I have to take sedatives every night
>have a job where I can work mostly from home but my boss is incompetent and emotional
>live with people where I'm basically a house slave (do all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, driving people around)
>put up with living like this because taking care of a dying old lady and the people I live with are family at this point
>hope the job I'm doing will lead me to have some degree of wealth so I can afford a fun car to drive and a nice comfy condo where I live but making my bosses do things properly is a challenge
>do all the things drs and normies tell me like eat well, work out 5 days a week, talk to friends but still severely depressed and every day I don't want to do it anymore but I still do because I feel guilty about the people who care about me
>Does it get better?

>>38347177
Nah I can handle it, I just do not know what I want to do and then, like you said, no matter what I choose I end up regretting it.

>>38347228
As I said. No matter the choice the nagging will be there. Try to stop fighting it and let it in on your ride.

>>38347192
Sounds like you're holding up pretty well. Things do get better depending on how you plan things out. Eating well is hard so is exercising but cutting out bad stuff and replacing it with "better" stuff that provides no downside isn't nearly as hard. At least in small areas.

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>tfw you're going to be stuck in retail for life

>>38336478
>that wall placard
Wouldn't seeing that every day just remind you of suicidal thoughts, constantly resetting to 0?

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Serious question,

If I have a girlfriend who wants to have kids, how bad would it be if I got her pregnant with no intention of staying with her?

I'm 26, soon to be 27. I want to have children, but I'm not ready to settle down. I probably won't be ready to settle down until at least 35. But I don't want to be an old father.

See, I didn't lose my virginity until I was 21, and I can pull so much ass now that it isn't funny. And yes, I've cheated on her. I've only had sex with five other girls while we've been together, however I've come close with countless others. Like blowjobs, hand jobs, making out, etc.

It's funny because an open relationship is out of the question, but she has caught me so many times and still begs me to stay with this "I know you can be good to me, you just have to try harder" logic. And I do love her. Just my self hatred for not getting laid out weighs that love. And even then, new sex partners and the drama associated with that is far more exciting than going to work, then coming home to stare at your wife, then going to bed then waking up to do it all over again for the next 80 years.

But I don't need to explain myself. Just wondering on a moral compass where that decision making would point.

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>summer break started 2 weeks ago
>have done literally nothing except started sorting out my almost hoarder-tier mess of a room that hasn't been cleaned properly in a year
>was planning on getting high all day everyday this summer, but it turns out maryjewana either does nothing to me or fucks me up completely
>should try to find a place to live closer to where I go to school as my commute is way too long but even the most popular people with giant social circles can barely find housing here
>only other option is shitty dorms where you share a kitchen with +10 other people which is just way too much for my autism
>can't make friends, so only really talk to one person at school and occasionally play vidya with him online, but that's it
I really don't know where to go from here. I'm 27, still have 2.5 years left of school, and I'm so incredibly far from even thinking about trying to get a gf.

>>38347420
I say do it dude. You obviously should do it. I would. Morals shmorals, someone is gonna end up knocking her up, might as well be you, better than some nigger

>>38347420
>how bad would it be if I got her pregnant with no intention of staying with her
You're basically opening yourself to be fucked over for for life. Just drop the bitch. No matter what don't give her leverage (your child) plus a reason to hate you (you won't stick around).

>>38342007
Minds.com or vid.me, anon. YouTube is a lost cause at this point, money-wise.

>>38341367
>If you get a caliber that can penetrate your skull, then all you need to do is aim it at your brain stem.
Utter bullshit. Try flinching at the last moment and a lifetime of vegetablism awaits.

>>38347420

Do what you want. Society doesn't even look down on drop out dads really. You are seen as the chad rogue, daring and mysterious.

>>38341858
What do you guys hope for by killing yourselves?

>>38347999
the cessation of existence