What's so wrong with me that people wont even reply to my messages. Am I not even worth two seconds of their time?
I feel the same. Either you're uninteresting or there is something creepy about you. Tell me your storyin greentext
>>38322117
My story?
Original
>>38322169
Tell us an example of when you are being ignored, OP. Unless all it ever is is just people don't respond to IMs?
Yeah. I feel as if no matter what social circlevi move to no one wants me around or wants anything to do with me. Not that i require validation from anyone. I just dont want to be alone anymore.
>>38322203
>Standing in group of "friends"
>I try to enter the conversation
>Silence
>They continue talking
Not much else to it really. It was a while ago, cant quite remember what i said or what they were talking about. Also pretty much all of my messages get ignored too.
>See girl active on normiebook messenger
>"Hey"
>She goes offline
>Comes on later but never answers
>>38322295
Yeah I get that, especially in the office. I think it boils down to you and I just not having a sense of the rhythm of a conversation. I usually find myself entering conversations I wasn't part of to begin with, which is probably weird and creepy and annoying.
>>38322295
Every.
Bloody.
Damn.
Time.
You are not alone anon.
>>38322333
You would think that wanting to be apart of the group and involved would be considered normal, not weird or creepy.
>>38322371
It's oddly comforting to know I'm not the only one.
But still I just want friends and to be involved in things, is that too much to ask?
>>38322528
>You would think that wanting to be apart of the group and involved would be considered normal, not weird or creepy.
It's the rhythm thing. If you are out of rhythm, it becomes awkward, and like a child, you're ignored. You and I have a hard time feeling this rhythm. Conversation is a dance.
>>38322592
How do we tap into this rhythm, I wonder
>>38322827
I don't know, but it also might have to do with you somehow being creepy.
I can detect the point of shift in the last job I had, where people started talking to me less, and it occurred after they were talking about a guy they thought was creepy, and me, listening in and sympathizing with the guy just a little, defended him only to the point of "well maybe he was just..." "No, anon, no."
>>38321973
another threadkiller such as myself.
I post one reply to a thread and nobody replies after that and the thread is later on saged or deleted