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Tfw attempting to be 'alpha' backfires

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I realized recently that I was too much of a push-over. I did everything anyone ever asked of me. I cared waaay too much about pleasing others and avoiding conflict.

About 5 days ago I made a conscious decision to only say what I was actually feeling, rather than saying what I thought others wanted to hear. I started being a bit more self-confident and not mincing words. Not being an asshole, just a normal person who says and does what he wants rather than what everyone else wants.

I pretty much haven't stopped fighting with my girlfriend since I made this change. She says I'm an asshole, I'm disrespecting her, she can't believe I'm treating her so badly, etc. Told me to go fuck myself multiple times.

And these reactions of hers are over mundane everyday shit. Chores, dinner, money, etc. I haven't even started speaking my mind on our relationship -- how she needs to lose weight, how I'm dissatisfied with our sex life, etc. Judging by the way things are going, we'll probably fucking break up before that conversation comes about.

I never thought I'd encounter so much resistance for just being myself and expressing myself truthfully. I don't even think my GF likes who I really am.

Thoughts?
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>>38321299
Sounds like a normie problem. Do the normie thing break up with her and find someone more tolerant of the real u.
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>>38321299
>my girlfriend
What makes you think that you are in ANY WAY similar to us?

You have a woman who can pleasure you in ways that even the best porn can never do to me. In other words, a failed normie.

Literally.
Fuck.
Off.
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>>38321299
fuck off normano
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How did it backfire? Sound like it is working as it should.
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>I think being ab alpha means I can spill my feelings everywhere

You are a moron.
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>>38321299
you know why pic related is posted? not only because of the dumb useless advice; because of this other side of "just bee yourself zzzz"

most people are incredibly petty and will hate you for the dumbest shit, always claiming that there is some inference to be made about your character in general. your gf is one of those people
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>>38321383
How? She acts like she hates me... I thought things would run more smoothly in my relationship.

>>38321386
Where did I say I'm doing that? You've missed the point entirely you complete fucking idiot.
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>>38321422
About 5 days ago I made a conscious decision to only say what I was actually feeling,
>what I was actually feeling,
>feeling

Are you autistic or something?
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>>38321422
>You've missed the point entirely you complete fucking idiot.
Not him but so have you. Your gf is probably cheating on you. Being alpha is dumping that retarded cunt, Why? Because she was with you because you were a beta fucking pushover and now she like most women can't handle that she can't walk all over you
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>>38321422
>How?

It makes the garbage people in your life light up like a lightbulb, showing you who to avoid in the future. no better gift ever known
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>>38321299
>I pretty much haven't stopped fighting with my girlfriend since I made this change. She says I'm an asshole, I'm disrespecting her, she can't believe I'm treating her so badly, etc. Told me to go fuck myself multiple times.
But has she broken up with you? Cheated on you with one of her sexless orbiters?
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>>38321299
break up with her and join the airforce to serve your country
that is what a true alpha would do in that situation
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How ugly are you where people don't even tolerate your emotions?
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>>38321523
>Airforce
>Alpha

Pick one
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>>38321299
We can't really tell from your description if you're being an insanely abrasive fag or if she's just lashing out because she's used to you being her lapdog.
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>>38323118
This, while I'm inclined it believe it's the latter based on the shit you mentioned, it is pretty impossible to tell.
Can you explain what's happening better OP?
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>>38321299
Maybe you should stop fick off now.
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>>38321523
Unironically this.
You don't need her if she's so hesitant to change
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dress up as a flower and give up this alfa bullshit
ur obviously not a man if ur posting about how u tried to b alfa on an online imageboard for the /banned
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>>38321299
You act surprised that a Roastie wanted a slave 'shy guy' to do everything for her. She's acting the way she is because you've malfunctioned. You were supposed to be a non sentient robot with a fuckable dick. Now you've gained sentience that she is a poor choice, and thus rebel. With the way things are going, expect the relationship to be over soon.
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>>38321299
>h-hey guys I want t-to be more alpha
>i'll just "talk" to my spoiled, fat girlfriend about us hoping she won't get hysterical
>d-dumping her ass ? no ! no ! w-why would I do that
Kill yourself.
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Wrong board normalfaggot

Take this shit to /adv/ or /soc/
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to really be alfa u don't be alfa u b a teletubby
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>>38321299
Drop that thot, it'll make you feel better
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