>be me, interested in a girl >girl suddenly ghosts me >accept

>>38304559
Fuck that. I tried once before to get a girl. I gave it time between replies and nothing. I eventually tried to hard and she told me to fuck off. Fair enough. I've learned my lesson and stick to myself now.

just go for it, can't hurt

>>38304559
do it anon be more assertive make us proud

If she's not contacting you, she's not interested

This will always be the case, unless she has undergone some sort of grievous bodily harm and is in the hospital or some shit, but even then it's just better to assume she's not interested.

>>38304588
>>38304600
Might as well just deliver, I'm texting her right now.

>>38304641
Godspeed, you madman

>>38304559
What the fuck does ghosting someone mean?
Why did you write this as if everyone will understand your normo jargon?

>>38304684
I know what ghosting is and I turn 40 next year. What do you think it is, Thiago? Didn't your ESL teacher learn you to suss out meaning through context?

>>38304684
Ghosting is when you be texting a fine beeyotch and she never responds to you again, leaving you wondering "what the fuck dis bitch a ghost??"

She's apparently very chill.
We're having a conversation right now, over text.

>>38304720
>I turn 40 next year
That doesn't mean you're not normalscum, even if you're a sad one that posts on anime imageboards.
>meaning through context
The context made it sound like it was an actual action, and not just ~not~ doing something.

>>38304720
Arent you a little too old for 4chan gramps

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>>38304821
I was here first, newfriend.

>>38304926
4chan was made 14 years ago. Assuming you started browsing the very first year (which is pretty unlikely), that means you decided to start frequenting a taiwanese cave painting imageboard when you were 25 and then spent the rest of your life on it. Still sad, dude.

>>38304986
>insulting people on r9k
you're here too pal, don't get too cocky.

>op = me
I asked her about the ghosting thing.
We will learn the truth any moment now.

>>38304612
This, this, this. If you are the one to text first every time there is no shot that she is interested.

OP please update you faggot.

>>38305193
I am here, always.
She messaged me back, so I asked what she was feeling about me and about the ghosting stuff.

>>38305231
Sorry for calling you fag, OP. I just want to know about this.

>>38304559
this is why internet "relationships" are a meme.
years ago, there was this girl I liked online, she had a bf at the time I didn't know, but the dude basically told me, that she would never meet me, and that nothing would ever happen between us due to her mental illness, and he was absolutely right, I tried talking to her once, she pretended like she didn't know me.
I came to the realization that she was just using me as an emotional tampon and to feed her attention starved self.

don't fall for the e-gf meme, or if you do least do so with one that is not mentally ill.

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>>38304612
>meet at girl
>gets my number from a friend and texted me (but never replies to my message back)
>friends me first on normiebook

However
>Chad gets her number from someone, they text all the time
>Chad went and found her on normiebook before anyone else

Feel like I fucked something up

OP please respond to thread with what she had to say.

>>38305256
Met her in a club (actually a school, but that's complicated), found out she has similar interests to mine and hung out with her.
I wasn't going to that club that often, so when she stopped talking and meeting me I hadn't really had a chance to talk to her since.

>>38305420
"I don't know why I did that"

What the fuck are these feels I'm getting

>>38305470
That is called love, sir.
You still love her. Go for it, sir. You have /R9K/'s permission.

>>38305410
Dammit not "at", "qt"

>>38305410
>belle and sebastian wojack memes
Holy shit. Also the original title works just as wel

>>38305537
I literally posted that and started listening to Tigermilk

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>>38305503
Another ((cryptic)) message.
"In time, I realized what I was doing was childish"
There's no follow-up to that yet.
She refuses to talk about some things over the phone, I would meet her but I'm in different country hngghhhh

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>>38305673
>In different country

ABORT ABORT

>>38305673
Stop wasting your time. She will just ghost you again and you're not getting into her pussy when she's in another country.

>>38305741
>>38305792
y do u say abort
I am on summer break.
If it makes it less confusing, we're both from Poland and live in Denmark.

11 minutes have passed since the last message.
She's willing to let me hang on to that cryptic shit.

>>38305887
You need to realize this: You care about her WAY more than she cares about you.
You're just another orbiter at this point, do you think she even considered texting you in those months? Fuck no, she was clubbing and probably fucking a different Chad every weekend.

>>38305887
That's not as bad, if you actually live in the same place then you've got a chance

>>38306054
This is probably true.
The "don't know why" and "realized this was childish" might have been about me.
She might be just regretting that she hung out with me.
I gave up hope those months ago, so again, nothing to lose.

She stopped responding after those two messages btw.

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>>38304612
this is false as heck
i have known a couple girls that were into me and they would never message first because they were shy scum
they would literally w8 for me to message first
just message first u faggot

>>38304559
>months
it's over, she have been gagging on Chad's cock for a long time now

>>38304559
She's been sucking my dick forever, dude. And I can prove it too by having her type it

Hello this is that girl I love sucking anon's penis I only stopped to type this post because he told me to (I love real men that are demanding) okay I can't hold myself off from his dick anymore bye

She just can't stop. Shit's so cash, yo.

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Conversation is over.
She took long to respond and wrote short answers.
pic related is some messages from mid.

>>38304588
>>38304600
dubs told me to try, so I tried. This is the end result.

Bonus: if more dubs request it, I'll send her this thread. Have a good day, robots.

>>38307010
i cant read kurwa

>>38304641
show you your autistic messages

>>38307206
us** wew lad sorry haha

>>38304559
If that's why, they figure out you didn't get it and come back again. If it has been months she ghosted you for real.

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>>38305503
>encouraging the love meme
kek

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>>38307206
>>38307215
Time to translate all of this kurwa. Will give only the abridged version though.

>Let's talk
>What do you want to talk about
insert some stuff about me not coming to school and not having chance to talk to her, after which comes part included in screen cap.
>So, you ghosted me
>Yeah, I stopped talking to you
>Does that mean you're not interested? I've got mixed feels.
>What do I say, it's a shame things turned out this way
>I want to know what lead to this
>That's a long story
>Just tell me how you wanted this to affect me
>I don't know, you're asking me things I can't answer
>That also says something, I guess a lot of time passed, huh
>I've since realized that was childish
>...What do you think now?
no answer yet

>>38307607
nothing about that sounds good im sorry anon
im proud of you for trying though. keep being this confident when you talk to grills it wont be that hard to get another

>>38308549
Thanks anon, it really does mean a lot.

>>38304559
>she's my only chance at a qt gf
Nope, she's not anon