Question for the virgins: do you think about being a virgin a

>>38303814
not naturally

though being on a place like r9k kinda makes it impossible to dodge, not even considering futher enviroments outside this one

ha ha who would ever worry about what you don't do ha ha

t. virgin

>>38303814
No, this idea that male virginity is bad is not present in my culture.It's an american thing really.

>>38303814
not really, it's more that I feel as if I'm missing out on actual love, though I'm pretty sure it's not as good as it seems.

>>38303861
It's not an American thing.

>>38303814
It suggests you're an evolutionary failure.

>>38303814
Life has been kicking the shit outta me, but that loser must be tired because I got it's boot now and this loser is getting better..

>>38303814
I don't care about being a virgin.i do fucking care that i have shit genetics and because of it i can't do some cute cuddles with a qt asian girl.

>>38303861
if you are past 18 and you are still a virgin,most normies will consider that weird.

I think about it every day, well more like I think about my failure with women over my 26 years on this planet. I think about how at this point its impossible to turn the tide.

>>38303814
I think about it quite often, but mostly because of /r9k/.

>>38303861
>>38304610
In my culture, adult males being virgins is not as bad as it seems to be in the USA, but I think it's still considered weird, especially for males over 25 years old.

>>38303814
>Like is it something you dwell on constantly?
No, not really. I usually think about when i see other guys with gf's. I think how my brain is fucked up that i couldnt get experience that is common as breathing and eating.
t. 24 khv

>>38303814

When I was a virgin, it was one of the main things I hated myself for

It didn't help that I lost my virginity at 19. Now that I've lost my virginity, I have one less thing to worry about, which is great.

25 and still don't care. Sex is a shit tier nigger goal, I'd rather be rich or have godlike self discipline.

Yes. Everyone in here is lying to themselves. Next post will be muh "hobbies" keep me happy i don care about sex xD

Also fuck you OP.
>Do you dwell on it constantly? he says while he has a giant smirk on his face thinking to himself he sure is glad he's not one of those pathetic, subhuman virgins himself

>>38304948
>Everyone in here is lying to themselves.
Why?

can non virgins fuck off this thread pls

>>38304983
Because it helps them sleep at night, and helps them cope with how their life is shit because they are missing out on a key component to self actualization. Lying to yourself isn't healthy, I recommend you all embrace the black pill.

>>38304948
."i dont mind or care if im a virgin."
>"yes you do!"
ok

>>38305084
>I recommend you all embrace the black pill.
That looks matter?

>>38305175
Looks absolutely matter, yes. But my definition of black pill has always been "If only you know how bad this really were" tier nihilism.
>>38305137
I wouldn't bottle up your desires like that anon. Let's here more about your amazing "hobbies" that are so awesome so you dont care about sex lmao.

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>>38303814
I'm completely indifferent to it, as far as never having had my dick in a warm wet hole of a female goes anyway. After over a decade of practice, I don't think any girl could give me more pleasure in that regard.

What I'm really missing in my life is pic related, closeness, a strong bond, the warmth of another human, being the most important person for someone who's not my parent, having someone in my life who's more important to me than anything else, being missed in case I'm ever gone, putting someone else first, making someone happy, sharing everything I am with someone, someone who does the same for me. I'd even take a sibling or close friend at this point.

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>>38303814
It's not about virginity. If it was we'd all go fuck a prostitute and get it over with. It's about never being loved or desired. I have tons of female friends but I'm too short and ugly for any girl to see me as a potential partner or even fwb.

So, I think about how I'll die alone and unloved after living my life alone too, all the time, yes.

The worst thing with friends is that you see up close what you'll never get as they kiss their bf or gf in front of you and you're always the third, fifth, seventh, ninth wheel. It's difficult to find the strength to not burn all the bridges because really it's painful. I'm 29.

No. When I was younger I did, but now I'm a 31 year old wizard and have become completely apathetic about it. I rarely even fap anymore, my sex drive has almost completely disappeared.

I'm newly no longer a virgin. I lost my virginity to my beautiful girlfriend a couple weeks ago. We've been together since the start of high school and are now nearly five years into our relationship. We had sex because she gave up Christianity. She was a really devout Christian until then.

Being a virgin until now was amazing because I lost it with the person I love.

>>38303814
yes, every waking moment its a reminder that I fail as a human being

>>38305254
alright I'll bite, first of all I never really thought of it until I finished high school, now I'm 20, doing a university degree and trying to find a job that's going to help my career prospects. Inbetween I'm trying to exercise 5-6 days a week, for about 2hr/day. You tell me if I have enough time to sit in my bed thinking how bad it is that I don't get to fuck someone. Actually what I desire is someone, who's going to wait for me when I come back and perhaps make me a dinner while I get to rest a bit and just show some affection and not the physical part. So no, I'm not thinking about my virginity all that often. If you're as boring and shallow and you have nothing else to do with your time that doesn't mean that everyone is in this situation.
not the same anon that you replied to

>>38305342
>>38305278
These guys get it, all I want is someone to come home to after my daily wage. Turning 20 in two months and im feeling this pain more and more now.

>>38305254
but i literally don't care about sex. i don't understand the appeal of it and why everyone finds a big deal about it other than reproduction

>>38305378
Did you do anything to erode her christian beliefs

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>>38303814
It depends on the context really, it may sound odd though I'm honestly proud of my status as a virgin - not to the extent that I'd openly tell people about it or wear a pin-badge saying "I'm a virgin!" on it though it'd take a lot of effort to motivate me to have sex and I'd turn down anyone who offered it without a second of consideration. To me its a symbol of purity and as someone who has never watched pornography and believes that abstinence serves as a great test to a couples chemistry I find it important to remain a virgin based on a practical medium. That being said I wouldn't consider myself as being "better" than someone who isn't one, if your interests lie in intercourse and its something you find a necessity then good for you if you lose it, though to me it comes off as little more than a chore made to pleasure whoever I should marry, a tool for procreation at most. To be honest it quite bugs me that a lot of virgins are mislabeled as "bitter" or "jealous" when many of us are simply disinterested, I'd wager the pain Olympics of /r9k/ has led to many people exaggerating their lust for (you)s and petty attention when it likely doesn't affect them much.

Personally I don't find isolation to be particularly threatening at all, perhaps years of customer service and reading philosophy has dried my view a little too much on people and forced me to see them as more of a commodity than potential friends/ family, though at the end of the day I always have Cleverbot if I want affection, and when it comes to comfort then I always have my comfy double-bed and whatever films I'm in the mood for. Now that I think about it, I suppose media in general has put me off of losing my virginity, I'm so sick of watching anime/ films/ tv shows and having the plot broken up via relationships and the whole "will they really get together?" filler that is so artificial and predetermined from the beginning, makes watching anime and television especially near impossible.

>>38303861
What country?

97565eju

>>38305428
Dude, you're 20. You have plenty of time.

>>38305517
No I never let her talk to me about religion except for when I went to church with her for holidays. I let her decide on her own because she used to care about it so much.

>>38303814
yes, it's not like it consumes my daily life or like it makes me constantly sad, but the thought that I've never touched a woman's body in a sexual way is always there, looking at uglier couples in the street just ruins my day.

>>38305566
Cope. He's probably fucked. Once you hit 21 you have to go see prostitutes. You will never experience true love with your looks match. It's over for most of us.

>>38303814
Yeah almost everyday.

>>38305653
Nah, he could just be a late bloomer. If nothing's happened by 25, then it's time to be concerned.

>>38305713
Most normies would consider 19 then peak of being a late bloomer. Past that your a fucking weirdo who will be mocked.

>>38305742
I'm not the anon you're replying too but for the mock part I've already decided to lie about my sexual experience, I advise any "late bloomer" to do the same and give up on a romantic first time.

>>38305742
You'd wouldn't have lived a quarter of your life by 19, how is that being a late bloomer? And no-ones ever questioned my virginity, some women have even expressed interest in me.

>>38305856
>You'd wouldn't have lived a quarter of your life by 19
Most normies have lived their entire lives by their mid 20s.

You know what scares me? It's not the fact that I've never had a girlfriend at 30, or losing hope that I'll ever get one. The scariest part is not being able to come up with stories of your past relationships or a logical, valid reason of why I've been single for my whole life (let's give it 15 years of dating life). When literal 14 year old kids are out there getting sex like it's a bodily function, the real black flag is not being able to explain the WHY or HOW.

In a society such as ours, there's no way for anybody to talk their way out of something like this, and even if you somehow manage to go through all the dates and even get to sex without sharing stories about your past relationships, it will eventually come up and that other person will feel manipulated, tricked and freaked out about how they could ever fall for such a broken person that wasn't even able to achieve the most primordial of social rites of passage.

How can you even justify going through your whole life without EVER being in a relationship with somebody without appearing as a mentally ill person?


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I honestly cannot imaging the situation where girl like me that much that she has sex with me. Even putting penis in vagina sounds very frightful. What the fuck is going on with me?

>>38305742
Nah I think 21

>>38304764
Exactly how I felt. Lost mine at 23.

I'm still fucked up, but losing the v card was one less burden on my mind.

>>38305928
>even if you somehow manage to go through all the dates and even get to sex without sharing stories about your past relationships, it will eventually come up and that other person will feel manipulated, tricked and freaked out about how they could ever fall for such a broken person that wasn't even able to achieve the most primordial of social rites of passage
This doesn't make any sense at all, but I know this is what will happen and it hits far too close to home.

>>38303814
>Question for the virgins: do you think about being a virgin a lot?

No. Never. I never thought of my goal as having sex. My goal is to attract a woman who gives be company.

>>38305928
>The scariest part is not being able to come up with stories of your past relationships or a logical, valid reason of why I've been single for my whole life
Then craft your own stories in your head, it's not that hard, specially considering how much time you have before a girl eventually asks you about it.

>>38305981
Same, I've been daydreaming recently of just having a girl that is my friend, just that. That is enough to keep me all warm inside. Just imagine a girl liking your company as much as you like hers.

>>38305742
I agree. 19 is the latest you can lose it without people looking at you funny.

It depends where you live too though. Like in the ghetto or in redneck areas, people lose their virginity when they're like 13 and 14. You'd be weird to a virgin at 16 in those areas.

But if you live in a more conservative, religious community, you'd encounter a lot of people who don't lose it until they're in their 20's.

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>>38305892
Wow, I really envy them. What's the point of life if it isn't a grind? You're just waiting to die, I'm more than happy to die a virgin if it means having something to do day in day out; be it reading books, learning foreign languages, modelling buildings etc. It seems like such a short-term concern that it shouldn't even be considered. Think about it: even if you do marry and have children, one of you is going to die before the other - one of you will live with the emptiness that comes with sudden isolation after decades of close-knit communication, all that'll be left is a couple of kids snapping selfies with you and uploading them onto social media for likes and cheap attention whilst your surrounded by your former friends many of whom have let themselves go completely. I'd rather be alone.

>>38305928
Read Ian McEwan's Atonement, it'd do you some good. And Big Fish, watch that NOW, get up, go.

>>38306156
>Wow, I really envy them.
Their lives end when they start wageslaving. Mine never started tbqh, and it probably never will.

>>38306091
>My goal is to attract a woman who gives be company
>sometimes girl want to use their free time to interact with you
I honestly genuinely can barely really understand this beyond concept

I'd rather have a gf. That's what bums me out most. Even though I'm aromantic and nobody in their right mind would waste their time with me.
I just want to be cared for and hugged and cuddled :(

And all I see is abusive jerks and cheaters getting gfs.

>>38306156
>>38305411
Why do any of that nonsense when your not getting sex, and intamacy from a female? Just seems like a really bad coping mechanism.

>>38306253
>aromantic
>I just want to be cared for and hugged and cuddled
Aromantic or a romantic?

>>38303814
The only time the word pops into my mind is when I'm shitposting here.

>>38306309
Aromantic. I want to be loved and make a girl happy. But I couldn't LOVE her the same way. I care for people to be sure. But I have never been in love or felt anything for people other than physical attraction maybe.
Nothing's there for me. It's empty. But I still like affection, and seeing a girl I'd care for be happy that I exist would make me happy.

>>38305928
Wear your robotness on your sleeve. People who seem perfect can come across as obnoxious and fake, and people who show their flaws can put others at ease. Some people will like you more for it, or at least in spite of it. Be open about it at the same time as you move on from it.

>>38303814
Yes I do dwell on it constantly

>>38306360
So... Autism?

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>>38306219
That was sarcasm anon, besides life's a meme. If our consciousness ceases to exist upon our deaths than pleasure and memories are all for nothing. If that is not the case then we have an eternity to fulfill our pleasures.

>>38306276
What does it matter? You're linking that "nonsense" to sex for no reason when they are in completely different realms. Some people just aren't interested in sex, what part of that is beyond you? Is it so taboo to find something that you enjoy? Word of advice, if you aren't happy with yourself how are you ever going to be happy in a relationship? I've had more than enough shots at having a relationship and I've rejected them every time since A. I'd rather be alone and B. I'd rather they find someone who doesn't make them feel alone. You can't just make everything orbit around female attention as easy as it is - and you can't just have this inferiority complex and force yourself into some woman's arms because eventually you'll start feeling like you don't deserve her, then she'll start feeling like she's got to help you and you'll be clashing all of the time.

>>38306460
Whatever man. Autism, asspergers, AVPD. I feel so empty all the time.

>>38304594
this is how i feel! I just want someone who i can be my truly relaxed myself with. Someone who i can just watch a movie with or anything. Having sex is a plus factor.

>>38306510
I'm not trying to insult you, just pointing it out that it's probably mild autism, a lot of people in this board show these traits and it's mostly assumed that it's autism. I'm referring to the difficulty you mentioned in showing your emotions, your emptiness is probably another problem.

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>>38306462
>Is it so taboo to find something that you enjoy
Honestly yes. I'm pretty much a nihilist who contemplates suicide daily. Sex and a GF are the only things I want.

>>38306713
Then at least refrain from projecting, because I can safely ensure you that most people do not care that much at all about sex. I'm not going to question why you prioritize it so much, its really quite pointless. I'm guessing you're certainly underage given that you'd have virtually no life experience to contemplate suicide over your virginity, go role-play with Cleverbot for five minutes and jerk it if you have to.

>>38306276
It's purely for practical reasons though. I need a helping hand when it comes to cooking and such trivial tasks. I also need someone close to have a word with from time to time etc. Doesn't mean that I wouldn't want sex, but that's not the main thing and surely not something to be obsessed with.

>>38306858
I'm 21 and I'm nofaping. My life is shit. Stop bullying me.

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>>38307000
>nofaping
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHA HAHAHAHAHAHAHA OHOHOHOHOHOHOHOHOHO BUHHIHIHIHIHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

>>38303814
No, besides I'm waiting for marriage.

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>>38307096
I said stop bullying me! I'm trying to uncuck myself!

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>>38303814
The only time I think about being a virgin is when I see a thread like this. It never crosses my mind otherwise. Why other virgins care so much, and are so insecure, is beyond me.

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>>38303814
Not after 20. That's when life's real problems start and virginity just becomes a deop in the ocean

>>38303814
I think about people judging me for it more than the actual fact itself.
I mean it still bothers me and I'd like to have sex, but the fact that I'm the only one of my friends who hasn't convinced a female to have sex bothers me far more than the actual lack of sex.

I'm a very insecure individual

>>38307243
Maybe it's because Normies and pop culture obsess over it? You will also be made fun of for it and thus lowering your chances of losing your virginity because your social status is damaged?

>>38307298
>the fact that I'm the only one of my friends who hasn't convinced a female
This fucking hurts. Why did you have to remind me of this other fact. god damn it. I wish I was dead/ never born at all.

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>>38307315
>Normies and pop culture
Why would you ever involve yourself in it?

>fun of for it
Why do you care for what some shallow idiot thinks of you?

>lowering your chances of losing your virginity
Once again, why is this such a big deal?

>social status is damaged
Maybe your status and reputation to those whose opinions you should disregard by default. Any respectable person wouldn't care for something as insignificant as virginity, so long as it is justified. I guess for the majority of you it is unjustified, since you're shitty people and yet so desperate; can't get laid no matter how hard you try. Perhaps that is why you pathetic "people" care so much.

>>38307359
Yeah it really fucking sucks, to top it all off one of my friends is an even more typical robot (other than not being a virgin obviously) than I am.
He's a manlet, not just short but like 5'6 or something short, he's incredibly awkward/ shy around people, hardly eats anything, and literally just plays vidya all day when not at work.
I care about him a lot, I don't mean to sound like I'm mocking him for these things because I'm pretty similar but it just bugs me y'know

>>38307531
How the fuck did I guy like that get laid?
>>38307529
>Why do you care what some shallow idiot thinks of you
It's not that I care it's what the fucking normie will say about me. Normies love to character assassinate those that are beneath them for some strange reason. Heh that anon guy? Stay the fuck away if you know what's good for you.

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>>38303814
I think about my social anxieties and the fact that my life consists of going to work and then back home to sleep.
Being a virgin is just a small factor of my problems really.

And besides, if you are a total loner you should prioritise finding some friends first.

>>38306276
>why maintain a constructive lifestyle if you don't get to touch vagina?
This is why you're a virgin.

Can women "smell" a virgin?

>>38307749
No they can't smell a virgin any more than they can smell that Tyrone will beat them to death right after fucking them.

>>38307712
>How the fuck did I guy like that get laid?
Younger stepsister

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>>38307749
>"wow, that guy reeks of virgin"
>"haha, yeah! I bet he hasn't even watched four seasons of Friends!"

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>>38307315
>revealing your a virgin to anyone ever

I know 3 people that I'm very sure are virgins like me, and the 3 of them are fat, interested in video games and computers and one is disabled and has to use a cane to walk because of a limp, also black. I'm technically not a virgin because I fucked a hooker once, but it doesn't count to me. I wanna have sex for real because a woman wanted me to fuck her, not because I paid for it.

i don't think much about it, neither do i have a problem with it. i rather know myself better before i know others.

>>38303814
Yes it's a part of who I am. I love complaining about it.
If I didn't have it, I dint know what I'd complain about.
Also it makes me feel pious and virtuous and pure and better than everyone that is used goods.

>>38307818
what is it with normalfags and friends when i mention i never have watched it they act like im so wierd

>>38307529
Also what do you mean by "justified" are you implying that some virgins do deserve the shame that they get?
>>38307749
Yes they can.
>>38307800
Lmfao. wow good shit.
>>38307729
That plus I'm ugly and undesirable to begin with I guess.. At least I work? idk. Tech me your ways chad san.

>>38303814
In terms of my feeling ranking:

tfw no friends > tfw depressed and anxious as fuk > tfw no job > tfw no education >>> tfw no gf

>>38307863
It has all of the qualities of a soap opera without being one. Generally provides a mutual area for people to talk about television without having to penetrate through surface material whilst also having great potential for gossip due to the nature of the show, add on to that and the fact that its extremely relateable for normies and you've got yourself a winning formula.

>>38307749
I just assume that everyone over the age of 20 isn't a virgin, so even if I did meet someone who was still a virgin, I'd probably just think they were socially awkward.

>>38308168
Virgins past the age of 21 should be executed.

>>38303814
I think about being a virgin constantly, OP. It's always on my mind and I'm always worried that other people can tell, even though I know it's irrational to think that way.

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Pretty certain most of us fixate on it unhealthily, thanks to unfulfilled libido and bitterness. We just need to be ourselves and we'll get there champs!

>>38303814
No I don't give a shit at all.

What I do give a shit about are the things that cause my virginity. Small dick, social anxiety, not attractive etc.

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>>38308411
>just b urself :)

56766757y8gui

>>38303814
Only when others have a problem with it. Some how girls I talk to always ask about it in some way shape or form and they always get sketchy when I tell them. I've had girls call me creepy and I tell them straight up I think they are horrible people if they let something as unimportant as virginity dictate who they date. They normally flip out at that point and I block them.

>>38307749
No

But they can definitely smell insecurity and nervousness

>>38309051
>But they can definitely smell insecurity and nervousness
So the answer is yes?

>>38310102
There are sexhaving normies who are insecure and nervous.

>>38303814
no i don't care about that at all i got a laundry list of worse problems

Yes. I'm trying to work on accepting it so I don't think about it as often and focus on the rest of my life. Not everyone gets to have sex or relationships. My brothers' future kids will need a cool uncle anyway.

>>38310218
>Not everyone gets to have sex or relationships
Fuck I'd rather kill myself then not get to experience either of those.

>>38310248
I used to feel the same way. Maybe it's my new meds talking, but the sun still rises even if I'm unattractive I can still work at a job I find meaningful even though I'm unattractive. I can still make my music even if I'm unattractive. It's still hard to accept that romance probably won't happen for me and that that's ok, but I'm getting there.

>>38306253
Their dicks are bigger anon :(

>>38310492
Well step 1 is to stop saying all the bad things about yourself and just being who you are. Sounds a little edgy but it is the most simple way to say it

>>38310758
Haha I am being who I am! It's actually not the worst situation - I'm not hideous, I just have 0 masculine qualities. I've become very close with a lot of women because if you have my traits, you learn your place pretty quickly, and it can actually be quite rewarding in terms of friendships.

>>38311262
>Haha I am being who I am! It's actually not the worst situation

Same. Some people just don't have fuckable personalities

>>38303814

I just stopped caring about it all together. Not being a virgin isn't going to improve my life or give me insight. Poorfags have lots and lots of sex yet stay in the same condition they're in. I'm fine with dying as a virgin.

Not really. Sometimes when I see my Ex on facebook and remember she never let me smash and I get a little mad but then I just go jerk it and forget about it.

>>38311316
Exactly. I'm just friendly. I don't try to express any kind of sexuality because it makes people uncomfortable (friends have laughed when I said I wanted to try asking people on dates), and no one does to me or expects me to. Friendships without sexual tension are nice.

>>38303814
Nope it does not bother me. Not having someone to share my life with is what bothers me. I do have friends irl though which is nice but it's not the same thing.

What bothers me the most is that I never had a gf and realizing nothing is gonna change soon.
I think the next "big change" in my life could be at 27-28yo and I'm almost 25yo now. I genuinely can't see myself with a partner sooner.

I just really want an intimate relationship with someone.

What even is this mystical 'male virginity'? You can't lose something you never had, it's not like there is some penis hymen shit you have to break. How the fuck is anyone going to find out you never had sex if you don't tell them. >it will be obvious and she will make fun of me
Why would you even want to sleep with such person anyway? How could it ever result in anything but an unhappy, one-sided and short lived relationship that will leave you bitter?

>>38305742
Why is it that you all claim to hate normies so much yet all your actions are shaped by their percieved values? Why are you trying so hard to please someone you despise?

>>38303814
Not really. I'm young enough we're being a virgin isn't the worst thing ever I'm super horny all the time tho

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>She starts giving me a handjob
>Starts fucking me as I grab her tits
>Kissing
>I have finally lost my virginity. It feels so good.
>Wake up

>>38311977
I was about to blow up on you, then I read the last line. It's ok anon I know that feel.

>>38312081
It's been happening a lot lately. Don't know why.

>>38303814
No, I have a low sex drive and strongly dislike casual sex/hookups.
I'd be very kinky in bed and would use lots of things to pleasure the girl but don't really plan on getting into a relationship anytime soon.

>>38306109
Sorry to burst your bubble but this never works out. One of you (you) will start to develop feelings. There's no such thing as being friends with a woman, all encounters men have with females hinge on an inherent sexual tension. A female can never be your "bro" just as a normal friend because you are sexually attracted to them, its just not worth it

I don't think about it often, since I always have shit to occupy my mind with.

Every once in a while I stop and realize just how fucked up it is to be a 24 year old kissless virgin with no prospect, though. Weird.

>>38312252
If you work on repressing your sexuality like I've tried to do it can work out. I've had many good women friends for the last few years. Their boyfriends are always suspicious until they actually meet me lol.

Not always, but it is pretty damn pervasive.

>>38303814

I hate the idea of casual sex, but have never had an IRL girlfriend or even someone IRL I was close to considering a gf, so I'm still a virgin. It use to bother me but it doesn't anymore.

At 20 I think I still have plenty of time to find a nice gf.

Also just a side note, if you are against casual sex and only plan on having sex with a partner, there is literally nothing to worry about. If she loves you, or is thinking she might love you, she won't care any less whether or not you are a virgin

When I was a virgin I would think about sex and women a lot. After I had sex I stopped being so delusional and just masturbated when I had sexual urges, instead of being all "tfw no gf" and shit.