OKcupid thread

>>38286458
Been pretty good, have gained a bit of interest but haven't acted on it yet. You need good photos primarily, just don't be overly autistic on your profile. I set up a female account to see what responses i got. Just put some effort into the message and you should be golden.

>>38286543
That's good to hear. What kinda photos should I have on there? I am basically a hermit that goes to school.

post cringe profiles
learn what not to do
you might even see your own ;)

>>38286561
Try and get someone to take a few photos outside, nothing worse than a shitty bathroom selfie or a webcam. In my profile i mentioned i like travelling (yeah i know it's a meme) but they're all from various countries I've been to. So i guess try to have photos that reflect your hobbies/interests

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>>38286608
I see a ton of trannies on my OKCupid

Fucking SoCal

>>38286657
Fuck I got no hobbies beside video games and making music on my computer.

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>>38286543
>Been pretty good
>I set up a female account
Who could have seen this coming? Certainly not I

>>38286741
Its my catfish account dumb dumb. It's also to see what the competition is like

>>38286732
Don't worry make stuff up. Half the stuff on my favourite movies/tv shows i haven't seen or watched 1 or 2 episodes.

>>38286906
Who knew the way to get women was to lie to them.

>>38286458
tried both, didnt get shit
maybe in just ugly idk

I've at least messaged girls and hooked up with a couple on tinder. My OKCupid currently holds a 0% response rate, and I've tried quite hard.

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>>38286458
Dear God, no. They're all either turbostacies or turbofeminists. Stay away from it, you're better off sticking with tinder.

All I want is a decent (4/10+) girl who likes JoJo, is that too much to ask?

>>38287327
Yes, considering your meme anime is shit.

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>>38286458
>""" I don't think I'm too ugly. """

Every person that has said this has literally been uglier than I imagined. Do not say this. Please.

Also you belong right at OkCupid.

>>38287339
actually i read the manga.

Shameful bump for interest

>>38287327
I'm also gonna throw my hat in here, and say that Tinder is surprisingly worthwhile.

There are all kinds of girls on Tinder, and even I (20 year old asian manlet still living with his mom) have gotten sex and a very cool girlfriend through the app. It just takes time. Leave the app on your phone and get on it every day.

I don't think it is. >>38287327 this applies at least in my city. More on the turbofeminist side of things

Is OKC better for ugly people than Tinder or am I just fucked no matter what I do?

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>>38287327
>tfw no JoJo gf
It hurts.

>>38286458
OkCupid is for people who are too ugly for Tinder but too cheap to pay for Match or eHarmony.

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>>38286458
I have a 15/10 chad friend who's a millionaire, talented, a gifted musician, an actor, was on the Disney channel, is a national champion in many different things, has an amazing personality, and is funny and kind. He said none of the girls message him back and only colossal tumblr land whales message him.

Im an mtf and listed under female and trans and I have like 30,000 thousand likes and an inbox of a constant 800 messages or so. Im basically a neet and a five at best.

So my advice would be to list yourself as female nonbinary or something and then get them to see you and then just decide you're straight or something and they'll just like who you are which is a guy and that doesn't matter because they live you not your gender. But listing as female non binary or whatever is probably the only hope you have to be seen ever.

>>38286458

Not that I've seen. When Tinder gained popularity it seems like OKC took a big hit. The only girls that are on there now are fat, black, and/or feminist nutjobs. It's become a small cesspool.

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It worked for me. I had just broken up with my previous girlfriend and I went to OKC to just find a girl to get my mind off my ex.

I found my current girlfriend, I've known her a year come September. She likes to watch anime with me, speaks some Japanese, plays vidya with me, calls me Daddy, is into cars and has a hourglass figure with a lovely face.

It does get better bros. OKCupid works if you're willing to shovel through mountains of garbage to find a diamond like I did.

>>38287996
Holy fuck I know right? That's the same conclusion I came to. Fat, black, feminist, tranny, or just ugly.

>>38288038
>Fat, black, feminist, tranny, or just ugly.
Seems to me that it's time to lower your standards.

>Move to a new city, within 1 month got 80 likes from girls, several mutual likes over 85%.
>send a few messages not expecting anyone to reply back
>couple girls reply back with 1 word answers, no probing open ended questions from them
>expecting me to carry the conversation

Seriously, if you haven't asked if they want sum fuk within 3 minutes of starting a conversation they flat out ignore you.

I just don't know how to make girls more interested in me. The only ones showing initiative are the thirsty single mothers, the downright ugly girls, and landwhale status girls.

>>38288152
Black trannies have a 75% chance of aids.
Not even memeing.
Read it on the cdc once for an aids report in hs a long time ago

Reading this read I sum up okcupid comes second after tinder for dates and its the only alternative with big demographics.

>>38288152
>sorry that i dont want to date a hamplanet
>sorry that i dont want to date a darkie
>sorry that i dont want to date a nutjob
>sorry that i dont want to date a man
>sorry that i dont want to date a 3/10

>>38288152
By Fat I mean really fat. Black is fine but they're goddamn dark as shit. Feminist is fine but if you really make that your whole personality you're fucking boring. Tranny means not even trying to look like a girl. Ugly, well come on.

>>38288240
>>38288287
If those are the only girls who show interest in you then that certainly says something about yourself, doesn't it? You probably aren't attractive enough yourself to even have standards in the first place. There's a reason you're on /r9k/ after all.

>>38287957
how

I literally did the exact same shit as u and I can't get a message back at all (tranny looking for girls/other trannies).

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>>38288331
>implying that any girl shows any interest in me
also
>tranny
>girl
pick one

>>38288331
No those aren't the ones that take interest. Those are the ones available to me in my area.

>>38287327

I just want a bf who likes JoJo, but I'm a THICC weeb with pink hair and all I have in my area are guys who fish and love the jays

>>38288331
Females on dating sites get hundreds of messages and "likes" their first week. They're often overwhelmed by the super creeps that send dick pics, ask if they're into diaper play, or flat out asked if they wanna fuck.

Regardless of what they're looking for, they literally could pick any of the men they want. Its often why decent guys' messages are simply overlooked, or ignored over the dozens of other average guys also messaging her.

Basically, the best outcome would be for the females to initiate and make the first moves but they won't.

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>>38288589
I'd date you, but I'm an 18 year old manlet NEET who lives in the UK.

>>38288709

Lol, I'm in Canada. Thanks tho

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>>38288450
>>38288506
>he can't even get a tranny gf(bf)

>>38288703
There are a crazy number of Bimbofication fetishes

>>38289133
There's a few cuties who are real women. The rest are filthy trannies.

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>>38287369
I'm with you there. Why do they have to exclaim that they're gay, who cares?

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>all of the women in my area look exactly the same (e.g hamplanet, too much makeup, glasses, "artsy" or "nerdy")
>they have the exact same hobbies
>they have the exact same interests
>they have the exact same tastes

They're all fucking clones of each other. Which lab are they made from?

>>38289571
Wait what area are you from?

>>38289642
Hicktown USA, aka TN

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i used to play the okcupid game but i want to settle down with a real woman now ;^)

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If a chick is resorting to online dating, something is terribly wrong.

>>38290215
>Third from the bottom
Is that Crispy?

>>38288409
I have the profile set in la I think. Rack up points then switch it back to your homeland?

Maybe that's why?
I have a lot of linked interest blue text
I think it's something like [anime] makes it a searchable tag on your profile

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>>38290412
i thought so too but apparently it wasn't

>>38287681
>>38286458

Tinder and POF are more serious than Tinder,
BlendR is even less serious, and more naughty.

Better use interest/ hobby/ religion based niche dating sites though.

Met one chick on that Badoo app and she was an absolute nutjob.
The app is just sleazy and weird.
Had a bunch of dude and totally unpassable trannies hit me up. Nearly all the women were gross one chick had a bathroom selfie in a nasty room with a box of gas x visible on the vanity.
Tinder has been alright to me. Bumble is starting to see more action I'm noticing.
I'm out of the game for the next couple month due to a bullshit shift at work 6days a week. Maybe I need ok Cupid so that I can find women desperate enough to wait up for me.

>>38289664
Ooh tough break man. I'm sure it'll work out tho.

>>38290589
>
What the fuck is baddo you poo

>>38286691
depending on the face I'd fuck the shit out of that desu.

>>38287996
It's owned by the same company as Tinder, Match.com, POF, a bunch of other garbage, and Vimeo, oddly enough. I don't really get why a company with a bunch of trash in its portfolio would also own the only large video site that isn't shit. Anyway, OKC is positioned at college educated urbanites, which means that amongst the younger set it attracts a lot of people so damaged that they may as well be part of MKULTRA for all I know.

>>38291704
Of course you would queer.

>>38286543
>Just put some effort into the message and you should be golden.

Meh, doesn't mean shit. If you aren't tall, white, super attractive or some combination of those things, it almost doesn't matter what you send.

>>38288589

Stop staining the word thicc fatso

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>>38289571
>>38289664
It's the same story out here in Denver, famalam.

only literally crazies use OKC these days. back before tinder and coffeemeetsbagel became popular it was a decent dating site, now it's horse shit. met my fiance on there over 4 years ago

>>38292759
Denver is a major metropolitan city you fucking faggot

>>38292759
im in keystone, be my bf (best friend)

>>38288589
Thicc =/= Fat
Also I like fishing. Fuck you.

>>38289571
>>they have the exact same hobbies
>>they have the exact same interests
>>they have the exact same tastes
None of that is ACTUALLY true. Stop taking bios at face value. People just put generic interests because theyre afraid to make themselves vulnerable. Just find someone youre attracted to and actually find out what they really like.

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I can't tell if she's attractive or not


either that or a man.

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>>38293363
>Just find someone youre attracted to

Did you just miss the part about the hamplanets or

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>>38293407
If you can't tell, she's not attractive,

>>38294023
She just has such strong facial features I don't know man.

>>38293080
then that says something about the whole website now doesn't it, friendo?

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>want to make an okc
>the stuff that lets you know who visited you makes me nervous

the pressure is too much

>>38293407
She looks pretty to me.

>>38289571
May I have your attention please
Will The Real Slim Stacy please stand up
We're going to have a problem here.

Yall act like you've never seen a single mom before

I'm about to try this online dating profile thing again for the 3rd and last time.

Should I even bother though. I was rejected for months. As in no messages. Nothing.
Tried.

>>38294544
Well maybe I'm just too chad for her.

>>38294651
Then kill yourself mate lol

>>38294651
Hang in there

I'm ugly as fuck and even I have managed to get some interest here and there. Granted I usually end up blowing it by being myself

>>38287546
how did you do it? i don't think im bad looking and i've followed all the typical advice about pics/bio and yet i still dont get many matches, and the ones i do get either dont reply or stop replying after a few messages