do you have any experience with girls with low self esteem?

no. chad is probably fucking them

That guy looks like he has a small dick, or the dick's length is atleast partially swallowed by his fat pad. I don't think that position would work for them

>>38210627
Are you retarded? I'm 200-220lbs and my girlfriend has a fat ass and this position still works even with the fat pad.

>>38210053
Yes
Most of them are crazy to the max
100% of them will throw into the trash and try to get Chad by the minute they become a bit more confident
And last but not least most turbo bitches and mean girls are not that much confident, you should stay away from them and try to date a confident girl.
>tfw I'm telling someone to date a girl on this board
>tfw confident girls are actually rare
The loud Stacey bitch next door isn't what I call a confident girl btw. Most basic bitches have self esteem problems, at least to some minor level.

>>38210053
Once they realize they can do better, all of a sudden they "fall out of love". I've seen this shit countless times.

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They have hair in anime girl colours.

>>38211160
>>38210823
how about sex?

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>>38210053
I'm ducking one. What do u need to no

Also who sculpted this statue

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>>38210823
No not like that. That's basic low self esteem. I want a girl with nonexistant self esteem. With a negative self esteem. Someone who's been bullied and degraded by her parents, friends, school, EVERYONE in her life so much she literally sees herself as human waste.

Her sexual fantasies will consist of her being beaten up and murdered for committing the crime of existing.

That's when you date her. And she will be amazed you are "crazy" enough to date down to her level. She will think you are a miracle and never ever leave you because she knows she cannot get anyone else. She will then do everything for you to keep you. Every fetish, every chore. A literal mindless slave because she doesn't want to be alone again.

And those. Those ARE rare.

>>38211786
duuuude, OP here, ins't that a bit too far?

>>38211786
>tfw this is me
>tfw will likely end up with a guy like you

>>38211882
PLSS BEE IN MY STATE

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>>38211786
This type of girl is most desirable.

>>38210053
I most certainly have. Low self-esteem, drug problems, severe daddy issues etc. What would you like to know?

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>>38211882
I mean I wouldn't abuse you or anything.
It's just security so you wouldn't leave me.
What you think I am not insecure any girl will leave me instantly. Who the fuck wants to date me.
I would love you forever, knowing there is no way you could get with anyone better, as bad as that sounds.

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>>38211254
None of them are as cute as anime girls though

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>>38211786
>And she will be amazed you are "crazy" enough to date down to her level. She will think you are a miracle and never ever leave you because she knows she cannot get anyone else
Yup, and the moment she starts taking better care of herself and Chad sends a little smile her way, she'll suddenly ''fall out of love'' because your relationship ''doesn't work anymore''. She'll also never let you breathe and you won't be able to do jack shit without informing her first and having her approval. Trust me fellow robot, as much as get an emotionally tortured girlfriend sounds nice, it's not worth it in the long run.

>>38211786
this is actually my gf and after getting /fit/ together she looks amazing

>>38211947
what are your fetishes?
how would you like your partner to handle you sexually?

>>38211961
>implying you wouldn't leave me first
Don't do me like this

>>38211786
you forgot to add that this girl will eventually cheat on you in the bathroom of a bar with some smooth-talking bro. Also the girl you're describing was molested by a family member as a child 99% of the time.

I am one. But I cope

>>38212018
Leave you why. Come on man. We're in the same boat here. We both can't get anyone so let's settle down together out of mutual desperation. I just know I'm in this situation and how to 'fix' it.

>implying you wouldn't leave me for Chad once he gives you attention

My new (first) gf is insecure about her looks, she is quite chubby.
On the first date she said that she can't believe this is happening, also she nearly cried when i looked at her without her shirt on.
If i didn't relate it might have become a nuisance but she slowly opens up to me.

>>38212035
>>>38211786
>you forgot to add that this girl will eventually cheat on you in the bathroom of a bar with some smooth-talking bro. Also the girl you're describing was molested by a family member as a child 99% of the time.

yep

>>38211990
>what are your fetishes
I'm not sure if I'm really vanilla, or I just don't know what weird shit I'm into because I've never done it. Light facefucking, choking, and hair pulling is my usual thing.
>how do you like your sexual partners
I like for them to flirt coyly for a while, and then abrubtly drop the coy thing and suck my dick. I don't usually like it any other way.

>>38210053
There was a chick back at university who really liked me. She was really smart and me and her were kind of on the same "wavelength" ... At some point she started to invite me to do shit with her friends, family and whole her behavior was susggesting that she wanted me to fuck her...


But...

The only problem was that she was very fat. She could have really attractive IF she only lost a few kg's... At some point I decided to just be honest with her. So I said "C..... , you do understand that I cannot fuck you in your current shape? " So I proposed to help her to lose weight. I asked if maybe we could start doing some jogging together, or do a diet...

She said that she doesn't want to change for somebody else to like her. She wanted me to like her the way she was...

>>38212199
>She wanted me to like her the way she was...
Funnily enough, this is what most of /r9k/ thinks. A typical robot wants a girl to like him the way he is, a fat unhygienic neckbeard sperglord NEET.

>>38212245
Not only that but they want average to pretty girls to do just that. Delusional.
Fucking no hope. Honestly.

>>38212245
Agreed. Most of the motherfuckers here have the self-conciousness level of an animal.

>>38211882
Fembot, let me hurt you.
If you want me to love you, you'd let me hurt you.

>>38212245
no I have some awareness, I am losing weight because obesity is disgusting

I want a girl to love me for who I am, but I don't consider being a fat fuck as a fundamental part of my personality, girls who expect people to love in that state are insane

>>38212245
T H I S TBQH
fuck the originality

>>38210053
In case you have a high self esteem you'll get to manipulate her quite easily.If you don't she will leave you for chad.

>>38212170
>>38212170
>>38212170
>>38212170
>>38212170
Holy shit this

I recently matched on tinder with a girl just like what >>38211786 describes

Bitch started calling me daddy within 12 hours of talking to me, was down with any weird fetish shit I told her, obviously fucking crazy due to her shit self esteem, and admitted to her uncle molesting her and getting raped by another guy she met online.


How the fuck do you just meet normal women?
Do they even exist?

>>38213652
normal women aren't on tinder, friend

>>38213738
Where are they?
I have a job but the only women I meet out in public are either married or a good 15+ years older than me

>>38212042
post discord. original senpai

>>38214108
I dunno man. I'm not into those people who seek out girls of low self esteem. Shits damaging as fuck. I do have some self awareness

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>>38211786
>Mfw that's my ex
>Mfw she's talking to me again
>Mfw she'll do anything for my load in her mouth
Feels spectacular, m80.

>>38211786
My current girlfriend is like that. Sort of
>she has been abused and cheated on by her previous boyfriend
>says he sexually abused her
>says she was bullied a lot by teachers, her parents and such
>never been to a party or been invited to one
>somewhat clingy but not too much
>not really demanding and isnt a drama queen
>she plays video games and we share many interests
>constantly apologizes to me and tells me she is scared of losing me
>begs me not to cheat on her and tell her if i want to break up with her
>says she wants to please me and make me happy and that she will do anything
>she confesses her love to me and asks me if she could be my first kiss
>she also says she wants to have sex when we meet
>she is pretty cute, thin and almost looks like a child
>she is everything ive ever wanted in a girl
>doesnt mind that ive never been kissed or had a girlfriend before
>finds me hot and likes my body, also says she touched herself thinking about me before
>she even keeps a random picture of me that ive sent her in a frame

We are LDR but we are going to meet for the first time next month
it was her idea to visit mewe live on different continents but she is still willing to visit and pay for all her travel expenses

>>38214871
Good for you anon, just heed these warnings
>>38213652
>>38212170
>>38212035

Girls are scared you'll cheat on them because they'll be the first ones to do it.

>>38210730
Pics or detailed description of her please. Eye color, hair color, what specifically her ass looks like, waist, tits, etc.

>>38214871
Where'd/how you meet her?

>>38214203
I don't seek out girls with low self esteem, I just want to talk.

>>38214871
Where are each of you from?

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Yeah, I met a bottom of the barrel (for Thailand let alone in the Western world) girl, she was really clingy and she would make up "jokes" (drama) and say shit like "I fucked a stranger on the beach last night and he came inside me twice" and "I'm pregnant". I fucked her once and busted a 1 week nut in her mouth while I was vacationing in Thailand, when I returned it took a few months of her clingy bullshit before I dumped her. In the end she ended up getting one of those dyke haircuts, and she pretty much looked like a fat Asian dude in the end...

>>38211786
I'm the anon you quoted. What you described perfectly applies to my post as well. Most of them are crazy to the max and 100% of them will throw you into the trash and try to get Chad by the minute they become a bit more confident.

Even the most fucked up ones. Sad but true, and deep down you know it.
And even if you don't know it, been here myself, went through that myself.

>>38215368
Put "in the end" twice, it was unintentional.

>>38210823

True.

>>38211786

Wrong. She has already been in the next level, gang banded by three chads.

Stay away of crazy girls.

>>38214203
I was just offering you someone to talk to if you needed it, but whatever floats your boat.

>>38211160
T H I S. origiigiig

>>38212199
If you're that desperate, you gotta be willing to fuck fat chicks. Can't afford to be picky

>>38211666
Roberto Manzano

>>38210053
Many "unconfident" girls don't actually have low self-esteem, they just pretend they do so that men will dote over them.

ITT plebs who call thicc girls fat
today a saw a cool nerd looking fuccboi with a thicc that you losers would consider a whale because of your plebeian mainstream standard, bet he's shagging her like a boss right now

>>38216533
I agree, robots aren't lucky enough to be able to pick and choose. they have to accept anything

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>>38211786
I agree in principle but slow down, but that's still pretty unsettling.

>>38211786
kek. oidokjdidk

>>38210053
is that supposed to be a tattoo on her back? or is that some kind of smeared food or someshit?

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God damn my son I should like to get my hands on a fat ass like that

>>38210053
Yep. My first gf had extremely low self esteem. It was great because she didn't think she could do any better, so I wasn't concerned with her cheating. And she was desperate to keep me around so she'd do absolutely anything to make me happy. Sneak out of her parents house and drive 20 minutes at 2 am to blow me? Sure. Ass to mouth? No problem, just please love me!

Long-term it got fucking annoying though, so I dumped her.

>>38210053
My girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me after numerous attempts to sabotage our relationship. She constantly talked herself down and would on occasion tell me that she didn't deserve me even though I'm a fat, ugly and lazy piece of shit myself. I'll probably never meet someone else who understands me the way she did but now that it's over I don't miss all the emotional abuse and neglect.

>>38211786
>>>
> Anonymous 07/07/17(Fri)10:54:37 No.38211786
damn

>>38211786
M8 don't let your memes be dreams kidnap and mindbreak until Stockholm syndrome

>>38210053
She ended up lying to me for 4 months and I never got to know who she really was-or exactly how fucked up she was.

Wouldn't do again because I got hurt in the end.

>>38211786
lmao that's my last hookup on tindr. bitch was crazy. i've nver seen a oman so hygenic before bitch was practically sterile.

>>38210627
>being this much of a virgin
if a girl arches her back right you have complete access to her pussy no matter how big her ass is.

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>>38210823
THIS.

I've had the unfortunate luck of being with such a girl and it was a nightmare.

>>38211786
Don't fall for the memes you fucking virgins. These girls WILL cheat on you with any chad looking for a quick fuck. I have seen this happen so many times. Their self esteem is so low they won't be able to say no to a chad since they believe it's a once in a lifetime opportunity. I know this through personal experience. The whole submissive girl with low self esteem thing only works when a smooth-talking chad with psychopathic tendencies wants complete control over someone.

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>Girl with low self esteem wanted a fwb with me
>She was dumped by her chad ex boyfriend
>A few months in she said she had feelings for me
>I hesitated and said I didnt have any feelings back. She ran to the bathroom, locked herself inside and cried.
>Wrote blog posts about how shes never good enoug to have her pictures taken with her bfs
>Read cringey and sad as fuck poems about unrequited love
>Kept attempting to be with me for months. Bought me birthday presents, drove me around town, bought me random shit. Shes extra needy if I dont answer texts within half an hour etc etc.
>After a long time I decided to maybe give this girl a chance since she appeared to be putting in effort to be with me.
>Tell her I decided that Im ready to date her. She seemed excited.
>I start putting in my own effort to build her self esteem. Her self esteem improves.
>Perhaps start to fall for her.
>Not a month later her self esteem is better. She decides that she can do better. Starts seeing another Chad behind my back.
>I find out later. She tells me she has no feeling for me anymore and that I'm boring. She also said she developed strong feelings for Chad whom she onlyet 3 weeks ago. She eventually went to leave me for Chad.

>I was upset but did nothing about it. I cried for a while in my room.
>Later that evening I get a call from her.
>She drove all the way to Chad's house.
>Said she wanted to fuck him and that she has feelings for him.
>Chad actually rejected her.
>I replied "What the hell are you telling me this for?" And hung up.

Havent spoken to her since then. Last I heard she turned into a turbo slut while going to stoner parties.

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it makes me lol hard that virgin autist neckbeards fantasize about finding that unicorn autist tomoko gf but in reality they're getting PUMPED and DUMPED by CHAD yet omega incel losers would still do anything to be with her

TAKE THE BLACK PILL

>>38222475
>implying I'm not already a /fit/ bro mind breaking chicks by the dozen
Git on my level scrub

>>38223182
>Implying being /fit/ is going to save you from being cheated on.

It's female nature. If you're banging chicks, good for you but don't go on pretending any of them are worth keeping or that you are capable of keeping any.

>>38210053
Yep, they'll do anything! So don't. Treat her with respect and she will always be faithful to you.

>>38210053
very hot low self esteem friend of mine wanted to fuck me bad, but I didn't go along with it because I am sexually repressed. She just wound up fucking an obese manlet who got then insisted they were in a relationship while I am kv.

I thought that there was some secret reason for abstinence I was missing. Nah. Literally everybody would have been better off if I had fucked her. But I just had to continue the search for wizarddom.

Bruh, she deserves to have low self esteem. Her ass isn't the only fat thing, she's a blob. Look at that greasy hair. She's probably as ugly as what these two things imply.

Gross, I can only imagine the smell.

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>>38223987
>Treat her with respect
>Meanwhile your girl is getting choked and being called a whore by Chad while he rails her like a piece of meat.

Im sure it worked out so well since the dawn of mankind. Would you like a side of friendzone to go with that nice guy you ordered?

>>38222954
This 2bh fampai. No idea why everyone here beta orbits female losers instead of Stacy when both are just getting fucked by Chad anyway.

>>38214871
Anon don't meet that bitch in your own house It sounds too good to be truth, She either will be crazy wants to rob you, wants to kill you, or isn't a girl, Best of lucks

>>38211947
Show boobs

>>38212199
Fuck that! gimme some closure man, did you tell her to fuck off for being a fat fuck?

>>38214871
Wtf??? I'm dating a girl who is 100% the same as this. It's weird how often girls fall into the exact same cookie cutter shapes and personalities.

>>38224864

People really aren't that unique. The same is true of men as well, not even trying to be a white knight.

The amount of men who fit the "beta orbiter" stereotype at my uni is ridiculous. They do homework and shit for girls, and these girls proceed to be roasties and fuck everything that moves. The r9k archetypes are real

I think people are more unique but when you're talking strictly about sex/relationships everyone sort of falls into a category.

>>38223861
No but it will make you more desirable and her satisfied.
The only thing to stop you from being cheated on is to have a fearful yet l9ving respect from your partner. You want her to think youre dangerous enough to kill her if pushed but still love her.

Had a fwb sort of situation with a very ugly (badly burned, disabled) girl who just wanted to experience it. She had very low self esteem to the point of not wanting me to touch her or be intimate, or even look at her really, and wanted all the lights off. Asked me just to get hard and lie still and that I could pretend she was someone else, and other ways wanted to cover her face with a pillow and apologized for having to look at her.

Honestly it was really sad actually.

>>38225461
Fuck I wanted stories like yours, but honestly that makes me want to hug and love and build confidence in all those chicks, does anyone have this fetish? like fix fetish?

>>38225461
That does sound really sad. Poor girl. I feel guilty for being attracted to the idea of someone like that. It's obviously because of my own insecurity that I think only a very damaged girl would stay with me. I'd love to make a kind and humble person happy no matter what they look like. A truly kind personality offsets any physical shortcoming. And to be honest, I only really expect someone who has been outcast and abused to be that way. Confidence corrupts.

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>>38210053
>do you have any experience with girls with low self esteem?
Yes, recently. A perfect 10 that everyone was dreaming of, except one Chad she wanted, who told me he didn't want crazy.
Having her was sometimes nice, sometimes weird. Like putting herself of her own will in strange sexual positions. (pic related)
Nice side is I could always decide, she never knew what she wanted.
Then she took her life.

>>38226090
this is actually the 1st time we did it, that position being the second.

>>38226090
That's interesting. The only gf I ever had was a very insecure girl with borderline. She would always do that too, put herself in sexual positions whenever wherever. Most commonly she would just strip down unannounced, get on all fours and crawl backwards into me until her ass was pressed against my crotch. I didn't think that was a common thing to do. I really miss her but she broke up with me over a petty argument and cucked me with a college kid.

>>38226727
>until her ass was pressed against my crotch.
yes weird, but heh

My girlfriend from here is like that. She is getting better though.

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>>38211786
I actually know a chick exactly like that. Tried to date her, she didn't take to it sadly.

>>38226727

This didn't happen.

Source: Have BPD. (Most) Mentally ill people aren't demons or succubi.

I want to hear more stories!

>>38211160
>be my sister
>reclusive 18 year old virgin
>starts wagecucking and going to uni
>meets Stacies at her job and school
>"you don't have an Instagram/Snapchat"
>"you have ever had a bf?"
>they take her to a house party
>she meets some cyborg-lite guy way below her
>date steady for 1.5 years
>she cucks him with a chad classmate
>she cuts him off cold like a switch
>dude goes madcap starts stalking her
>restraining order
>kills himself

cute shy girls not even once. Never forget: looks> everything else

>>38211971
I mean women tend to want desirable men

If you're just dating eachother because of "status" then nothing of value was lost and you haven't really got a right to complain

>girls with low self esteem

That's basically all of them.

>>38227785
Also we're not all violent and cheaters.

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How do i find these girls?
I feel like theyre the only ones i have a chance with.

Problem is it seems most girls with self esteem issues are tumblerinas and feminazis and i cant fucking stand them.

a girl used to post here from time to time. her name was Hailey. she has about the lowest self esteem of any girl i have ever talked to.

[email protected] is her email and skype. send her a message and let her know she isnt that great of a person.

>>38210053
Bitch I'm tryna fuck. I've been inside for 13 years now!