Ive literally never had friends since I was 14 years old and im 23 now, thats 3285 days of doing nothing but sitting in room and occasionally going to the grocery store, ive never kissed a girl or been on a date, how come when I tell people they just fucking say "oh its no big deal anon" like i feel like im going crazy. They expect me to just put myself out there and for shit to be ok, but it hasnt and it wont
ill be your friend anon, do you at least have discord and steam?
>>38184767
Not op but can you add me? im bretty lonely
CHIM#0161
I haven't had friends since I was 6. I'm 34. I win.
Get a tinder profile, hit a few bars to see if you meet anybody, and if you're an ugboii, fix yourself up. Making friends is easy if you put in any effort vro.
>>38184330
i mean step back and take a look objectively though for a minute. Your attitude guarantees that it's a big deal from your end only, totally orthogonal to how others view you. you get something out of being friendless, which makes your brain tell you things like "it's a really big deal" and "it won't be OK if I put myself out there."
if you wanted things to change, you would HAVE to ditch this mindset that you currently have. which would involve realizing it's not actually that big of a deal. See? So, you don't want things to change, deep down inside. now you can ask yourself, why not? why don't I actually want things to change? maybe it has to do with things that happened before age 14, or since.
by the way, you sound like a whiny bitch, which makes nobody want to be friends with you. I'm serious. Most people won't tell you this, but you do.