Who /nofriends/

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>>38153815
My only friend is my waifu.

>>38153815
>Who /nofriends/

Yeah
What are my fellow no friends robots doing this holiday?
I plan on browsing /r9k/ all day, maybe I'll watch a movie

>>38153889
How can you be friends with someone who doesn't exist?

I don't get to see my friends anymore, I'm so lonely everyday

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>>38153815
My friends all left me back in high school. God I hate the feeling of loneliness I've had to deal with since. "Robots" with friends will never understand the feel.

>>38153915
Waifus do exist

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>>38153815
"You'll make a lot of friends when you work, son."

>>38153915
I talk to her in my head

I just moved to a new town on my own and I know absolutely no one except the people at my job, if one of you chads could tell me how make friends that would be great. I'm good looking and funny but otherwise i'm an average joe with typical goals so

>>38153815
I used to be completely friendless. Now I have "friends" aka people I have to constantly bug just so they interact with me, people who forget I exist until I initiate contact with them. I'm done with that, I'd rather be friendless than beg for acceptance. I'm not doing that shit again.

>>38153815
Pol made me right wing and lose most of my left wing friends. I didn't even go full polfag but I still lost them to my newly conservative views. I'm pretty moderate so for them to jump ship like that showed how not in it for the long run they were. Fuck em though, they weren't really helping me get anywhere, I need corporate friends.

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>>38153815
>haven't had a single friend since elementary school
>use 4chan to distract myself from crippling loneliness

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>>38153981
This is true if you're not autistic desu, just act normal and friendly and people will automatically like you.
THERE IS NO TRICK JUST BE FRIENDLY AND SOMEWHAT SOCIABLE

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Having friends feels like a responsibility.
There is nothing desirable about constantly trying to keep someone interested. Of course this isn't a concern for you if you're naturally interesting.

>>38154088
This is why i don't have friends anymore.
I had "friends" but I've decided to cut them off.

>>38153889
This.
>>38153915
She's real to me anon

>>38154085
thats my problem, everyone seems to like me but I never reach that stage with anyone where they ask me to hang out. Only one person wanted to actually be friends with me and go out to bars and shit and he was an obnoxious faggot that I hated being around (everyone else thought the same, no one likes him)

No friends, no desire for friends. Wouldn't mind a GF though.

>>38153815

I've never had a friend before so I have nothing to feel bad about in having no friends because I don't know what having friends is like.

>>38154179
You haven't been to school or anything like that? Even robots have had one friend at one point.

No friends. I'm extremely unlikeable and mean.

>>38154179
>friendvirgin logic

>>38154133
mmh, maybe they think you're busy or can't be bothered, i have had quite some people come up to me and ask if we could hang out, and im not even that good socially

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>>38154218
hey man, it works.

>>38154133
Holy fuck that's me too. I've been through 3 jobs like this. Everybody got along fine with me, we cracked jokes all that shit. But nobody wanted anything to do with me outside of work. Guess I'm just a terrible person

>>38153962
I understand since I don't have any contact with my friends when summer break is over, and I have to go back to college.

Making new friends is so hard outside of high-school, it sucks.

>>38154088
This is why you need friends who you can play vidya with over skype. It's basically the only way I interact with friends, and you don't have to be interesting since you will all be having fun playing video games.

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>>38153815
Reportin
I kinda want friends to do stuff with but I never feel like going right at the last moment. Oh well it's my bed.

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>>38153915
Say that again right to her face
I fucking dare you

my only friends are my cigarettes and canned chilli

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>>38153815
We'll meet, don't know when, don't know where.
But I know we'll meet some sunny day.

i have a few autists i occasionally meet up with but they act like theyre still in school where as ive become less of a sperg

I just want a few guys i can go out with on weekends or occasional road/ camping trip,

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>make friends in school
>lose contact
>make friends online
>lose contact
>stop making friends
>give up on social life
I don't know what to feel anymore

>>38153815
31 years old and literally no friends here.

In a way I never really had any real friends even when I hung out with other kids in high school and shit. As early as I can remember I was only "friends" with weird smelly autistic kids because they had a computer with DOOM on it or a SNES at their place and so I would just play video games at their house. Around high school I would just hang out with other weirdos and loners and robots even if we had barely anything at all in common we would still eat lunch together and go to the arcade on weekends and all that.

The closest thing I had to friends was in college where I was into left-wing meme politics and DUDE WEED LMAO. I guess I was actually friends with those people. We went to clubs and birthday dinners and all sorts of stuff together. Then I got into 4chan and vidya and I stopped being in contact with them.


I don't really miss it, like at all. having friends almost always felt like an obligation and a responsibility. I almost always wanted to stay in and be at home when I was out with friends. They would all be like NO DUDE COME ON MAN BRO DUDE IT'S GOING TO BE EPIC MAN WE'RE GOING TO DIRNK BEERS HAHA COME ON MAN YOU OWE ME REMEMBER THAT TIME I BOUGHT YOU A COKE CAN IN 9TH GRADE DUDE

It felt like an annoying girlfriend that I couldn't have sex with.

The college kids were really fun though, but they moved on with their lives and have careers and kids and shit while I'm still posting frogs.

>>38154238
weird as fuck, i crack everybody the fuck up and people love to approach me to shoot the shit and talk but nobody ever asks me to hang out, what the fuck

>>38153815
I used to have plenty of online friends, even had a group that lasted years. That all fell apart though.

>>38153815

I've pretty much sworn off friendship and denies it exist especially because my illness kind of fucked everything up for me and some childhood "friends" betrayed me.

>Tfw haven't had anything close to a real friend in years and as soon as they get close to me or find out I have an illness I pretty much blank them out of my life

Any armchair psychologists want to take a crack at this one?

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4chan and anime are my friends

>finally get some friends
>their jokes are stupid
>they are not that nice to me and don't like me very much
>spending time with them feels bad and I'd rather be alone
>still feel like I might need them one day

What do? Should I just stop talking to them?

>>38154085
>just
Every advice to overcome social anxiety that starts with "just" is trash

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>friend tries to invite me for a meet up with our class friends from 1 year ago
>decline on purpose and tell him im not made for these kind of socializing things
>he understands it and doesnt ask again

i felt like the 5th wheel when there was no topic about video games or internet, im just to shallow

>>38155701
Do what you feel, either way Ill see (you) next post

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>>38153815
>Who /nofriends/

reporting

26 years old haven't had a group of friends since 10th grade of high school like 10 years ago. I've had numerous chances to join social circles, through work and the gym. People generally like me, but I push them away. I guess I was just destined to be a loner. The good thing is the older you get, everyone turns into a loner especially if they don't get married.

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>>38153815

>tfw all the friends I have are girls from interpals

Every guy friend I had in person/from childhood I haven't spoken to recently

Feels weird man

Why does everyone on this board struggle making friends?

we're all friends here

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KAExa9P7hME

>>38153815
Do online friends count? I have a few of those
None irl though

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i just listen to music
who needs friends when i have music

ive been listening to this a lot recently
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1plPyJdXKIY

>>38157667
>Nate Dogg
good taste my dude

>>38153815
Here. But it's because people are assholes these days.

>>38153889
This.

I have "friends" but my mom is sad because I don't meet people

>tfw looking for friends on craigslist
how much worse does it get?

>>38153815
I knew a guy in high school and we sometimes played games together even after high school. Eventually he just stopped signing on and that was the last time I had anything close to a friend. Presumably he got a life but he could be dead for all I know.

Who /doesn'tactuallywantfriends/ here?
They're fine but I feel like I would have to invest my time to make them happy, any social interaction that requires effort is a big no-no for me, so my goal is to be a total social outcast.

>>38158352
Not me. I'm fucking dying inside there's literally nobody. I don't even want a woman anymore just someone to do something with

>>38158297
>but he could be dead for all I know.
Nope im right here!

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>>38158589
Hot damn, what are the chances?

>>38158694
>Hot damn, what are the chances?
Extremely unlikely

>>38158747
No it is definitely the same guy. I'd recognize that gravel toned voice anywhere.

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>>38158216
>browse local craiglist
>strictly platonic
>"i just want to be friends but please send me pics of ur dick"
why the pretense?

>>38155961
>being this honest
how haven't they put the fear of god into you yet

>/nofriend/ by choice
idktf

>>38159028
We all don't have friends by choice. All it takes to be friends with somebody is to adopt an agreeable persona and tell the other person they are the shit.

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>>38153815
I have 0 and never ever had a real friend only aquaintances

What do you do if you are legitimately adverse to forming social or emotional connections (and therefore have no real friends or romantic interests) yet still suffer from feelings of emptiness and isolation?

>>38159160
Hope that you are not too old to get over your aversion

I am so fucking lonely
It makes my mother cry and it hurts.

>>38154923
Same.
I don't know if it's because my personality is shit or the people I'm friends with is.
I always put more in than them and then they leave.

>>38154317
God damn

Just right through the heart with that pic

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>tfw 25 and too old to fix my social skills/anixety
It's the worst. Literally 90% of the people at my job think I'm either a serial killer or retarded due to me being quiet and having terrible social skills. And the 10% that I chat with with...well...I'm not good enough for them to advance beyond just small talk to kill time.

It really hurts, it's painful to think on Friday nights/weekends/holidays most people have friends, family, and people that generally want to do things with them while I'm trapped in the prison of my apartment with no way to escape like I'm some sort of worthless freak of nature.

I have no idea how to improve myself. Bee yourself or be social doesnt work when being shy is just fucking ingrained into my being

>>38159944
Normie advice: Go to the nearest bar each friday and drink heavily. You will loosen up, get to know the staff and regulars, and maybe make some drinking friends. The first couple times might be awkward but just browse shit on you're phone while drinking.

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I walk around with a blank stare
that is some energy I just can't spare
I am emotionaly hollow on the inside
The type of void that makes you want to kill
I decided on letting all my feeling go
Now I am no longer feeling low
But I am feeling like a psychopath
And I never sit and cry
Part of me has died - the one that shows devotion and emotion
You see I used to have love inside of me, but So many people I used to have love for ended up stabbing me in the back and lying to me.
Everything happens for a reason.Was I meant to be this way?
I stay to myself anti-social and withdrawn.
It is what it is I really don't give a fuck.
And don't be mad because I don't trust no one.

>>38153815
>tfw /nofriendsorfamily/
what a great life

>>38159944
I feel like 25+ is pretty much too old to make any sort of meaningful friendships even with normal social skills. Everybody else is basically set up and not really open to the idea anymore.

>>38160053
I don't drink because my family has a horrible history with alcohol/drugs and I just dont fuck with em

I dont have a car so I cant really hit up bars if I wanted to anyway

>>38160258
Go to a kickboxing gym then. Or similar

I used to drink a lot with a child hood friend. He was a hardcore alcoholic and a semi Chad who probably didn't even like me but hung out with me once a week because I always paid for everything. He was pretty much my only friend. I stopped haning out with altogether recently I wonder what happened to him.

>>38160258
Fair enough. Maybe a good call, but is being drunk sometimes any worse than where you are now? I'd say fuck no, but i'll admit I am a mild alcoholic. Also walk or bike to the bar, don't drive. Or stay home. Good luck anon.

I want friends as lazy as I am. Everyone needs to be entertained or go do shit constantly or they get bored. I'm fine with lounging around for hours watching tv/gaming/drinking. It's hard to find people that are ok with that level of interaction, at least for me lately. My old buddies that I haven't talked to in a long time were all on the same page and it was great. It felt effortless, nowadays I have to arrange times to chill, or initiate shit then they're busy etc.

Idk I spend the majority of my time alone now bc people make it seem like they're so fucking busy and they have to schedule you in.

It would be nice for someone to ask me to hang out, it's been a long time

>>38160484
hey anon wanna hang out and du stuff?

>>38160053

This works but don't get shitfaced and make an ass out of yourself where you'd never want to be seen there again, from experience

>>38160532

Yeah man I'm free whenever

>>38153815
Reporting in.
Recently moved in as a housemate with my best friend (she's a woman). Thought, stupidly, that it would be fun, thrill a minute, drinking and getting high and socializing and me becoming a normalfag finally. Instead she yelled at me at work and never invites me anywhere.

>>38160162
*Anyone
How come niggers always double negative?

>>38160192
Same mom has cancer
Grandma has a bad heart
StepDad hates me
I will be very much alone very soon and it's gonna suck

yo already spend half of your waking life with your co workers
why the FUCK would you want to hang out with them

>>38160680
yeah being this lonely sucks i havent talked to anyone in my family for years now its a big family but everyone hates me

I threw them all in the garbage, I'm gonna become a cop! haha

>devilish

>>38160706

This, plus as soon as they find out what your personal life is like everyone at work will know. I've chilled with a couple coworkers but I keep them at distance.

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>want to go on vacation somewhere
>have plenty of money and days off saved up

>no friends to go with

and so i sit here and shitpost

>>38161688

Go solo and bang hookers

>>38161742
Do hookers take WiFi in my van as payment?

>>38153815
I don't want friends. The only thing I need is an extremely introverted gf to play vidya and watch animu with.

I am freinds with several normies and chads and I recently figured out how they do it. They literally just walk up to random people and start talking to them about stuff. That's it no secret. That's how I've met most of my freinds in college even though I have horrible social anxiety. I've been in the libary studying and someone in my class or major comes up and starts talking about "do you like the teacher, do you think this class is hard, etc" I've met several people from just being in the libary studing. Normies and chads are desperate for friends, that's how they get high. A lot of Chads are actually betas in my experience.

>>38156745
eszett, is that you?

>>38162267
I think only attractive people make friends, if you're ugly why would guys want to hang out with you?

>>38162353
No sorry m8

>>38162388

There's a middle ground between ugly and attractive. Normies collect friends and aquaintances all across the spectrum, the uglier ones obviously get little to no attention but they're still 'friends'

Shits like seeing who has most friends on fagbook. Also, even if a person is fuck ugly but super eccentric and outgoing theyre hideous appearance disappears

>>38162685
>. Also, even if a person is fuck ugly but super eccentric and outgoing theyre hideous appearance disappears
God I wish this was true.

>>38162703

I've seen it happen tons. Normies generally have kinda flat boring personalities, they love having a big fat eccentric faggot to get the party going or whatever

>>38162753

Of course they do have some standards if you look like the elephant man sorry

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>tfw have one friend left
>once I graduate college this year I will probably have to move away for a job and lose him forever
H-hold me.

The last friend I had was from when I was upgrading my math in college. We had one social outing where my anxiety stopped me from being able to say anything meaningful or interesting and we just silently and awkwardly walked around Vancouver. We didn't speak after that. That was 3 years ago, nobody has spoke to me since.

This thread is terrifying. I just graduated high school and am moving to a smallish college far away from my (few, but good) friends. They were all I really had to help me feel better when I am going through the worse stints of depression and whatnot. I am awful at making friends, avoid all socializing unless approached/forced into it. Is it really that hard to make friends in college/work? If I have to make any effort at all I'm afraid it will never happen.

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>>38153815
>decide to go into town for fireworks
>kill time by walking around town just taking in the trails and parks
>just walk around alone for 4 hours
>get to the lakefront park where the fireworks will be launched
>huge throngs of people, find a remote corner toward the back of the park and watch
>on the hour long walk back to my car realize I didn't see anyone else there solo, everyone was with their lover or their friends
>realize that even though I was surrounded by people all day I never spoke a single word to anyone

I have never had a single friend my entire adult life, so I've built up a loner image in my mind. Not sure how much longer I can keep up this charade and pretend I like being the lone wolf though. I feel pretty hollow.

>>38163653

It's hard to make good friends, which is obvious because most people are just terrible. Good luck

>>38153815
How are you supposed to be friends with anyone when you're a gnostic antinatalist?

>>38153815
I have "friends" but never talk to them outside of classes.

>>38163831

Those are classmates or associates, sorry bud

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>>38154398
that would be hard to do considering she's a, uh, drawing.

>>38163861
Oh.
I guess i am /nofriends/

>>38153989
>>38154127
you guys are the loneliest people....

I understand

this "being nice and sociable" shit doesn't work because nobody asks me to hang out or expresses interest in seeing me outside of the current setting

my issue is probably i dont hang out with people unless im sure we'll get along swimmingly

i see people complain all the time about how shitty their friends are or how shitty their significant other is and i dont see logically how you could even be that close with somebody and have such a disconnect. like how could you be in a relationship with someone to call them your girlfriend and not realize how boring of a personality she has? or have a group of people that hang out with you that dont know shit about you or you don't even like?

>>38155062
God I love oldfags. True words right there man, 25 here, it always felt like a chore having friends too

>>38154085
>if you're not autistic
Thanks, that was easy.

Who else /night anxiety/ here? I have declined several meetings because I get afraid of literally get lost in my own city and for the possibility I can't come back home. I feel like Cinderella but autistic

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I'm so lonely

sometimes it's too much
i just want people around me

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>>38153815
Me. No social contact I will go insane soon probably

Pic related: my balls

>don't want to be lonely
>don't like being around people

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>>38153915
It's all in the head when it comes down to it. I don't care if she isn't real.

>>38153942
Same. I haven't played Persona 3 in a while due to wagecucking. I should start my year long playthrough again this weekend. It's been even lonelier nowadays.

Lonely1 reporting in

>>38164827
im going insane. depression turning into fits of blind rage, and homicidal ideation

>>38153815
>Used to go to college
>Only people I talked to were my immediate family and the people in my course
>Finished college a month ago
>Now I literally just have my immediate family to talk to IRL

Also I'm really shy online as well, so the only site I talk to people on these days is 4chan.

>>38164993
Gaaahhhh!!! Don't say such cruel word, ER evil TURDDDDDD!!!!

>>38164993
know the feel finding friends has shown to be near impossible for me in this untrusting online world. if they don't know you, they aren't gonna talk to you, let alone message someone back that they don't know

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Last "friend" I had was a turbo chad who didn't call me unless he wanted something.

These days I go to work, come home, watch anime, and shitpost on 4chan.

Not really the life I wanted, but it's all I have.

I don't even feel lonely anymore. Pretty comfy desu.

>>38165050
You will.
I promise
That is, if you actually have no one around

>>38165023
I think for me, a big problem is how reclusive and shy I am myself. I often end up just spending all day on my computer.

>>38165029
^ this.
share the same life but it gradually feels like you have less and less to live for eventually getting to the bottom where you're sure that there is nothing to live for. then it gets worse when it only seems like it cant

Next-level /lonely/ coming through
I don't have any online friends at all, I don't talk to anyone on my computer. I don't even use my computer that much anymore, I use the internet a couple times a month nowadays
I just sit around in my room and read and write almost all day almost every day
Work from my computer, order stuff online mostly.
Pretty agoraphobic at this point due to habit and some stuff that happened a while back
I don't talk to anyone at all, no family, no friends, no one.
l just hang around with my cat really. But even he is getting old and sick. And he's not a really friendly or loving cat. I still love him but sometimes I wish he were a little nicer. Though I guess I get why he's not

>>38165137
order a new one before the old one kicks it

>get a friend
>drive myself up the wall because I'm scared I'll do something wrong and he'll leave me
>if not that, stress over him leaving because I'm boring
>end up avoiding him so he doesn't realize I'm shit

>>38165184
done this too many times. i feel like girls im talking to lose interest and i cut contact only to figure out that i was overreacting

Its not a matter of having friends, but that I literally don't know what I would do with other people. So I do have friends but it just feels so pointless and boring to get together with friends just for the sake of it. I do this a few times a year at most, and while I enjoy their company its a stressful experience having to talk to people so much, I can literally go the whole day not talking to anyone and it feels good, very peaceful.

>>38165258
see i'd like to see myself like this but it feels like not talking about my problems helps them grow into ones that might actually get me into trouble

>>38156745
I wish I knew.
The closest thing was when I knew other kids on the street to play Gameboy with up to the age of 11.

Since then I've only ever had a few acquaintances and never been able to befriend anyone.

>>38165293
i think that people like us tend to congregate. this is where it happens

>>38160053
Bars aren't like t
They're big, completely full on weekends and don't really seem to have regulars.

Those comfy bars I see in movies it series don't exist here.

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>>38165313
>this is where it happens
I disagree, most people here are normalfags who have pretty much ruined the board.

Used to be a nice place, though.

>>38165170
You've made me sad.

>>38153981
Yeah, if your job doesn't let you talk. The department is entry level first part of the job, then wait a few months to look at a job post.

Do online friends count? Does it count if they're all much closer to each other than they are to me and all are friends and facebook and shit?

>>38153815
companionship is useless autonomy is perfection.

>>38165288
>talking about my problems
See this is another reason I shy away from talking to people. While I took a communication psychology course in college and learned that interdependence, personal disclosure and burden sharing are the building blocks of friendships-- Somehow it just feel super imposing to tell my problems to other people, and I sure as hell don't want my friends telling me their sob stories either. Thats what I think women do, they like to get together and bitch and complain about things, commiserating. Men know this is counterproductive, and problems should be solved, hopefully without burdening your friends with anything big, I'm okay, you're okay.

>>38165204
Yeah, I'm sorry you have to feel this way, too.

>>38160706
Christ this. I don't even want to think about work when I'm not there let alone hang around people from it.

>>38165671
Also full time wagecucks/salarycucks never have time to maintain any friends outside of work.

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>>38154277
>Making new friends is so hard outside of high-school, it sucks.

Having social interactions aren't this hard anon, it's just about mindset.

>>38159944
Where do you work Robro?

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>>38154018
Is there something that you like ?
Because if you talk to someone who has something in common, the approach and discovery of each one is going to be easier

You can hang out, go talk to people in order to salute them if you are a new in the town, thing that everyone do in my country.

You also can register in a club, in order to socialise with someone that you will learn to know.

t. no even a Chad

>>38159944

Dude. Same-ish here. 25 and feel I cant change social skills and or anxitey.

Although I dont think I have anxitey around people, I just prefer doing my own thing. And I dont meet much people who enjoy the same thing.

The thing is im not attractive but not ugly, people often compliment me on my social skills and think im very outgoing. But I always spend my fridays and saturdays at home thinking of other people socialising. I hope it's just a phase since I'm a uni student and super broke. But then once finished, I only see my self going out doing stuff alone... idk senpai.

Oh yeah, forgot where I was going with that^^ So being mildly handsome, stoner appeal people I guess get the wrong impression. I think the nerds dont really want to hang with me and i don't want to hang with the try hard's

reeeee

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>>38153815
I've 'friends', but they always had other people they were closer to, so I felt kind of on the outside. Then it got to me only having one friend, and him inviting me to hang out with his other friends who probably thought I was weirdo, and then I dropped all contact with that guy and have been truly friendless for three years. The more I stay like this the worse I will get and the harder it will be to make friends in the future. I just want at least one true friend, someone who I'm close enough with to consider him a brother, someone who I can confide everything to and understands me, a friend for life.

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>tfw no handsome robot friends

what do you do if you have a few weeks of feeling sociable towards guys and lustful towards women but you always wake up one day dreading life, wishing you were dead and uninterested in sex? and your life history is littered with people you dropped?

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>>38166306
Dropping all contact with the guy that was kind enough to take pity on me and try to help me was a shitty thing to do, but I was having a terrible time with life. I did terribly in highschool, had ocd and depression, and I thought I was a piece of shit, especially compared to my friend who got into a good University and was having the time of his life with lots of friends and a bright future ahead of him. I was jealous and I thought I was inferior or beneath him, so when we went our separate ways I didn't keep in contact with him, even though he tried to, because I didn't want him to know what I've become, though I now look like an ungrateful asshole to him. I would make a terrible friend.

Kind of unrelated but I had to post it.

>>38153815
Last time I could say I have "friends" was 5 years ago just before I dropped out of highschool
One time I went to game tournament and went to pizzeria with "online friends", I was awkward as fuck and I pretty much didn't said anything for 4-5 hours.
If I cant even talk in real life with anime loving nerds what is left for me?

>>38154259
The trick is not just being nice (although some people might invite you just because of that) but to bring them something.
Like being funny for exemple, lead some stuff like a running joke between you and them, be unique too, have your personnality. If they come to you to have a good laugh you're on the good way and they'll start to ask you to hang out

>>38165258

You outgoing senpai? This kinda me, why put effort into something fake

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>>38153889
same here man, who needs anything else? Waifus love you forever

>>38166570
>just be funny XD
I'm tired of this normie tier advice. I could solve all my problems if I was funny. Guess what? IM NOT FUCKING FUNNY

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>>38167628
>posting 3D waifus
disgusting

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>>38155740
thats actually not true

some good advice would be "just look incredibly good"

>>38153815
I had a bunch of friends. Then I defended Brock Turner, saying that the fingering of the girl wasn't really premeditated, so the court ruling isn't going to give him life because it wasn't violent rape like we usually understand it as being, and that maybe emotional press statements trying to fragment sides based on feelings instead of what really happened isn't wise.
All the females denounced me, males slowly left in order to be with the females.
That, and I just grew distant from everybody. Now, I am all alone.

No friends and honestly don't gaf. What's the problem?