>get a job
>go to job training (it's over the course of a weekend)
>within hours fall in love with one of the girls there
Why does this happen. How to get over it before she becomes my oneitis? I have no chance of ever getting with her anyway.
>>38014337
>Why does this happen
Where did you leave your note?
>>38014362
No dude, I realize she has absolutely zero romantic interest in me. I just love everything about her. She's not even objectively the most attractive girl, but something about her rings my bell
>>38014471
>She's not even objectively the most attractive girl
That makes her obtainable, in your unconscious mind.
>>38014532
Maybe subconsciously I WANT to believe I could obtain her, but I know in my waking mind that it is impossible
>>38014551
Doesn't matter what your conscious mind thinks. The will to life will overtake it and push you into her direction no matter what you want.
>>38014580
Now THAT'S some retarded mumbo-jumbo
>>38014659
Is it? You already said that your waking mind fully understands that it's impossible to be with her, yet here you are helplessly in love by no choice of your own free will. Clearly being friends is not enough for you, which means sex is what you're truly after. Being within the bounds of a healthy relationship doesn't really make it all that much better when you consider the fact that the whole reason you want that is because your unconscious desire to breed and proliferate the species. That unconscious force pushing you along is what Schopenhauer refers to as the will to life.