What are we doing wrong? If anyone actually goes outside and

We go here

I have at least 2 friends who I'm 90% are virgins. They're also relatively "normal". One of them is a bit fat and "eccentric" and the other is smart and hard working just very roboto with women.

>What are we doing wrong?
Short answer: We have a distorted view of ourselves, others and the world. We focus on things that others overlook, usually negative: inhibitions, fears, insecurities. We are hypercognizant of these things, whereas Chad glosses over inadequacy or compensates with bravado or accessory skills.
Essentially, we are paralyzed by our fears and gravitate to the comfortable, easy things we already know because we are scared of failing so we don't even try.

>>37998018
My roommate is a virgin and he's a normie.

>>37998178
I have been rejected by over 500 girls, I don't fear rejection I just can't fucking get them to stop rejecting me.

>>37998018
old pasta but:

Why don't you have a girlfriend, Anon? Oh, shit. Wait. I know. It's because you're a wreck, both mentally and physically, and emotionally stunted. You think you're smarter and more intelligent than everyone around you, and therefore rationalize your own lack of success as a laughably absurd conspiracy theory wherein the world has passed you over because you're somehow too edgy for the mainstream masses to understand.

Or maybe you just tell yourself and others that you "don't give a shit" in a desperate attempt to make it hurt less when you see yourself getting older, fatter, and more out of touch while those you look down on are adapting to suit the needs of the world, and learning their limitations while you childishly deny your own.

Perhaps you have taken to telling yourself that women are only interested in "Alpha Males", those that reside at the top of a scale that only you adhere to, and it is THIS rigid table of identity that is holding you back, and allowing society to pigeonhole you. Perhaps you tell yourself that people don't share your very narrow range of hobbies and interests aren't (or wouldn't be) interested in you, and therefore do not even try to engage them. In actuality these are all mechanisms that allow you to blame your own failings on everyone around you, and project your own narrow-minded perceptions onto society as a whole.

You instead choose the easy option of sitting at your computer all day, shielded by the anonymity of the internet, screaming abuse and nitpicking the goals and achievements of your betters while arguing the tiniest deviation in the interests of your peers from your own with a startling lack of understanding and empathy. They are the only other people on Earth that you can relate to, and you hate them because they like slightly different things.

Oh yeah. That's why you don't have a girlfriend. I forgot, for a moment.