How do you fucking deal with the loneliness, /r9k/?

you become it.

>>37979235
>How do you fucking deal with the loneliness, /r9k/?
Watching twitch streams somewhat eases the pain

Drugs, it's the only way

>>37979235
I drink heavily and work a lot.

>>37979235
I stop eating, and laugh a lot

"hobbies" but at some point you'll lose motivation to do them. fapping still works for me

>>37979235
I start a conversation with myself on whatsapp and voice my opinions on there.

>>37979235
usually video games or this hellhole

fucking leave the house

Heavy drinking and drugs

Doubt there is any better way

You think about all the pain that you'd feel if you were abandoned by your potential friends/gf/bf
Works wonders for me

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>>37979235
the best I can do is try to make internet friends

still doesnt help that much

>>37979514
i wish i could make internet friends

>>37979235
Shitposting. No seriously, this website is probably 95% of my social interactions

It doesn't affect me physically. I can still force myself to perform the sequences of actions necessary to get through the days, no matter what's going on in my mind.
After a certain point it doesn't get much worse, and I got used to it.

You gotta start early. First have your parents split up and then raise yourself for a few years, learning how to do it all on your own, then move in with someone who hates you and learn how to be invisible. Spend about five years doing that. Excel and make a huge group of friends and family, then lose them all.

Finally, you should be insulated from all emotion. Takes about a few decades but I got through it faster than most.

>>37979574
I can be your online friend anon
You have discord?

>>37979714
Yep, BlueLander#2856

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>>37979574
honestly I still have a tough time trying to do it though. The same problems I have making friends irl also apply to making internet friends

>too autistic
>when I try to tone down my autism I become incredibly boring
>terrible at having long conversations, let alone starting them
>too nerdy to hang out with normies
>not nerdy enough to hang out with other nerds

>>37980067
same, I have great conversations with myself in my car but that's about it

>>37979697
Hello clone. Nice to see you're doing well. Just finished this cycle 6 months ago. Almost 22 so I guess I've done alright.

>>37979235
Turn into a robot

Mope about listening to sad songs too

>>37980067
>too nerdy to hang out with normies
>not nerdy enough to hang out with other nerds

A million times this. Is there a more lonely feel? That and being a virgin, it's a death sentence, fuck

>>37979235
I sleep and watch movies

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Pursuing love with blind optimism, always believing it'll happen despite the odds!

>>37980612
more like too much of a weirdo for any human interaction desu, i feel like i haven't been in sync with social cues for like 10 years

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It's mostly masturbation and whisky at this point.

>>37980067
>when you manage to not fit into any group
an alien to all

>>37979235
Drugs and alcohol, and I occupy myself as much as I can and try to keep my mind off of it. Read and learn. Emotionally isolate myself. I try to accept who I am and my circumstances, and that I'm broken. I avoid men.

>>37980993
Be my broken gf now

I don't deal with it, since it doesn't bother me

I listen to the boulevard of broken dreams cover - "Imageboard of broken feels" - and cry myself to sleep.

Jk, I play games. Also bought a fleshlight, helps with the manly desires.

I occupy myself with entertainment like videogames, TV shows, movies etc. Better than sitting there and thinking about how lonely I feel.

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>>37980993
Bls cuddle with me

>>37979265
Yup. But then you get hit with a huge wave of loneliness when you realize you're just sitting alone in your room laughing to yourself.

I make friends with people over the internet. It's alright. The only problem is that they tend to be really lonely as well and the girls and some of the boys as well are kind of predisposed to developing crushes on anybody who gives them attention. Not saying that it never happened to me though.

>>37981291
don't even try to ruin this for me, it's my only way to escape reality

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>>37979235
I hurl vitriol at people trying to have fun on 4chan.

>>37980993
>I built a cell of isolation entirely of my own construction and choose to whine about it
Why haven't you hung yourself?
You're just too much of a coward, aren't you?

online girlfriends desu

>>37979235
I wish I could be your friends, lonely robots. I am lonely too. I'm pretty good at pretending to be somewhat interesting, or at least I think I am. I will care about you--that I don't need to pretend. It's too bad I'll care so much about what you think of me that I will have constant anxiety while talking to you and have an attack if I said something wrong and overthink everything you tell me or don't. I'm sorry, lonely robots.

Running out of resources
Already been through the drugs, hobbies, and fapping
Relying heavily on God and starting to just feel like I'm insane, or incredibly desperate

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Being schizoid and not really getting lonely, or what being lonely is about in the first place.

>>37982618
Fuck how do we get past the anxiety? I can't stomach it anymore it's like I can't be friends with people because I get crazy anxiety the second I even perceive to have said something weird or too far. We need to beat this fucking demon.

I fucking hate you guys.
This is the 5th or so lonely thread I've replied to and I get no yous.
Atleast some of you lucky fags get interaction here.

Well maybe you shouldn't be such a shit person?

>>37982664
I wanna marry you please be my cute female bf

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I have two internet friends I talk to somewhat regularly, aside from that I'm used to it.

I've been more or less alone all my life, had friends when I was a kid but lost them shortly after. Was silent in school, never made friends or cared to try (the few times I did try I was ignored so I gave up).

As a result being alone is normal for me, I don't feel "lonely" because it's my natural state of being. Occasionally I'll wonder what it's like to have a group of friends to talk to and do things with, it's probably nice, but how can you miss what you've never had?

I'm pretty certain being alone for such a long period of time has fucked my brain up subconsciously in ways that I don't realise but whatever.

>>37982925
i will give you a (you)

I don't really deal with it. I just suffer through it, and occasionally find brief relief in a video game or tv show. It can be fun to imagine yourself "snapping" and breaking all your stuff and running away into the unknown. But that stuff only happens on TV, it doesn't really happen.

>>37983089
Thank you anon
It's the simple things really

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>>37979235
Watch anime, go on 4chan. That usually works for me

>>37982790
It's weird that I can laugh at how much my mind is buzzing and my heart feels sunk that you replied to me. Back to lurrkrring, bye, my friend.

>>37980691
shit m8, don't be so harsh. This actually hit me hardd nigga

>>37982925
here you go friend

original

It hurt for a long fucking time man, a loooong fucking time. Then one day, I shit you not it simply stopped hurting. On that day, you will learn the painful truth of life and it will crush whatever is left of your soul and any emotion will drain from your body and when you feel that emptiness, you will know true peace.

>>37983061
But why?
Explain.

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Friend sims like Persona, desu. Makes the wait for my inevitable kms'ing a little bearable.

>>37983408
But anon, I'm sad and I'm scared, and I really don't want this to happen to me. I don't want to be alone but the nature of a lonely person is repulsive, really. I guess what you have to do is pretend to not be miserable and that's what I've been trying lately. But then they leave and it's all for not.

great news everyone!
i think i have a new internet friend !
im NOT >>37979574

>>37983537
I've heard people use the term "fake it till you make it" and I can tell you it simply doesn't work. You can't fake confidence effectively enough to fool anyone, let alone a girl you're interested in. People pick up the subtlest social ques, posture and shit like that and no matter how strong a facade you put on, try that shit at a party and see how long it takes for people to pick your false confidence apart.

I wish I had a productive answer for you man, I'm sorry.

>>37982564
Because I don't have the constitution for it and because physics guarantees immortality anyway. Any suicide I committed would fail except to outside observers and I'd end up a cripple. Read up on quantum suicide.

Besides, it's not entirely of my own doing. I isolate myself, but if I chose not to, it's not like anyone would be there for me. I don't really have friends or family. No one will ever care for you and you are all alone in this world no matter what. All interaction is transactional.

>>37979235
Body pillow, VR, onahole. Godspeed, anon.

>>37979235
I play WoW of course

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>>37983516
>Yfw ywn tease Makoto
This series just exists to remind us lonely weebs that we're stuck in a rut, doesn't it.

>>37979235
I've been lonely for years. It was very depressing for a long time, but now I crave being alone when I'm around people. I just adapted to it, I guess.

>>37979235
I think in my waifu which you posted .

i really want to make a tulpa
anyone else wants to?

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>>37983833
Personally, it allowed me to experience happiness I never would've gotten in this life.

>>37984004
Misaka is very qt too.

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One more bump 'till I'm off to sleep and this thread eventually dies because of normalshit, or not. Stay strong robots.
>>37984222
I suppose you have a point, I'm quite glad I got into the series to begin with. Seeing how the MCs were literally supposed to be fit and intelligent got me into a self improvement mood that's been going for years now. Still GFless but I don't really care anymore.
Also checked.

I could never get into those persona games. I tried playing 3 for a while but my character was this strong charismatic dude loved by everyone and I just couldn't take myself seriously and had to stop. Like my mind wouldn't even let me try to self insert into it.

I had fun with Persona 1 on playstation for a bit but then I got a bad ending because I answered some question wrong or something.

put emotions into art

Will anyone famous come out of /co/?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KAExa9P7hME

>>37984169
I wish I could. But I'm not insane enough yet.

>>37985007
Are you sure it was Persona 3? That MC was such a depressing twink.

>>37979235
what? i'm not alone. i have all of you.

before the internet, before 4chan, i was lonely. i technically am lonely, but i've been lonely my whole life, so i don't put much thought on something i consider normal. i'm used to it. i grew alone with no friends.

>>37985080
It was years ago, but my character was friends with lots of people and I'm pretty sure some glasses girl was my character's girlfriend. Or close to it.

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>>37979235
Lonleiness bites?
Here's what to do:
>Take music: Stupid mainstream 80-90 teenager stuff. Like u2, police, etc
>Play it as loud as you can.
>Then act like you're a teenager again.
>Jump on the bed, wave your hands into the air, air guitar, sing, scream like you've got all the energies of this world.

That's it.

ALLERTS:
This works if you don't think about how pathetic you are doing that: Can cause crying.

secondlife.com is a good place to make internet friends

inb4 40 year old fat moms

>>37979235
escapism, if i didnt have it id blow my shit out years ago.

>>37979235
By telling myself than human nature is beneath me, thusly allowing me to act as if I don't need friends or relationships.

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>>37979235
Escapism. Since I cant keep friends because I either leave them or me. Lost one today and just filling the hole with anime and video games.

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I used to be able deal with it fine just through escapism. Then I fell in love for the first time and almost had her but got cucked by chad. Now I can't enjoy anything and the loneliness is constant.

I have become comfortably numb

Well actually it's just lots of drugs and a career

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>>37984341
I literally spent a year playing Persona 4 and improving myself to really immerse myself. It's the happiest I've ever been in my life. Too bad I can't be paradoxically quiet and friendly in real life too.

>>37985007
You should allow yourself to be happy at least in 2D.

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>>37986542
>almost had her but got cucked by chad.
>trusting a roastie
You have no one to blame but yourself, anon.

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>>37979235
I just deal with it.

>>37979265
and then you move to a place with shit internet and have naught to listen to fuck me I just wanna listen to INSERT STREAMER real bad

>>37979235
I just naturally enjoy being alone. I feel much less restrained when I'm isolated.

4chan, twitch and youtube literally 24/7
And if I ever feel too lonely just go outside for a moment and realize I have nothing in common with most people, that appeases the feelings pretty quickly.

>>37983699
Any way of at least talking to you? Maybe on discord?

>>37979235
Becoming violent