ITT: Help Me Give Up On Women

>>37962799
Before giving up you should swing by redpill. Pretty smart people on there and its pretty straightforward.

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>>37962799
this should help you give up on women if you haven't seen it already
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5tuf59ex-U0

>>37962837
Been there, done that. The redpill is basically the blue pill painted over, it's the same shit, trying to appease to women but instead appeasing to women by pretending to not like women, to try to attract women. It's backwards and stupid, and it might work on gross barsluts.

>>37962941
>The redpill is basically the blue pill painted over,

This is not how it works. Its not about appeasing women. Its about their nature and uncovering their mechanics, and molding that to your perception.

It sounds really lame but its actually bretty helpful.

>>37962799
if you're tall and fit then just starting being a cunt to everyone you meet. you will feel better i guarantee it

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>>37963013
Dude, I know, I know it's all of that but all that information is useless to me because I'm so ugly to women that nothing I say or do matters to them, at all.

>Its about their nature and uncovering their mechanics, and molding that to your perception
>molding that to your perception

Oh lordy lord you are giving me a kek
>>37962885
I'm a big Eggman fan, but even that video didn't make me give up completely. The black pill is very real.

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>>37963097
>>37963097
>because I'm so ugly to women that nothing I say or do matters to them, at all.

Heh, try grasping the lower hanging fruit, I think youll be pleasantly surprised, like 4/10s. You have tried this.. havent you?

>>37962799
you must raise your IQ

>>37963218
I've went as low as I could go while retaining my dignity

>4/10s

I've shot for 3/10s before, zilch, nada, zippo my man. Although to be completely honest, I've only asked out about 23-25 girls during college. Stagnated my last year because I was so damn busy. I don't think there is much hope now that the only women I talk to are the ones at work.
>>37963257
>tfw too smart to raise my IQ

hahaha

>>37963218
Not him, but I have.

A balding turbo manlet (5'5") like me cannot even get 1/10s. I was legitimately rejected by a deaf girl with intense, disfiguring burn scars who apparently never had a guy ask her out. (I liked her because she was studying Math) I later learned that I was too short for her. She was 5'0".

OP, I suggest you keep occupying yourself with 2D, focusing on your studies, exercising more, and developing your hobbies. No, the urges never go away, but they get manageable.

>>37963282
do girls ever look at you and smile or stare at you?

>>37963282
>while retaining my dignity
>dignity

This modern dating scene is about as amoral as it gets, at least upon first introductions and sleeping together goes. There are literally no rules. Obviously you can vet, but its a waste of your time unless you are spinning plates. I think if you are at least successful finacially it shouldnt be that hard, if youre getting friendzoned you arent being clear enough or you arent creating tension.

But who knows, I just dont believe its impossible.

>Swing low sweet chariot

>>37963404
I've caught girls looking at me directly before but they never smile at me or anything like that. I caught a few girls looking at me at work recently and when I looked in their direction, we made eye contact for a second or two, then I just go back to my business.

They were probably just bored and looking for anything to look at because the job is long and tiresome, so when you see someone walking a couple meters away from you it looks like the most interesting thing in the room.

>>37963456
girls smile or stare dead in my eyes sometimes

what does that mean?

>>37963508
Well, I'm probably the wrong person to ask man but if they're smiling at you, chances are they like you in some capacity.

>dead in my eyes

yeah they like you
>>37963422
I don't know man I would never date a massive landwhale who hates me and doesn't even have a good personality, there are barely any fat girls out there with a good personality anyway. I also wouldn't date single moms either, I am never going to stoop that low. Would rather lay down and rot.

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Altruism and giving is the answer.

Getting a girl is nice, but its ultiamtely a selfish endeavor that only benefits 2 people, focus on ways you can help many people and advance humanity, make that your purpose, and tfw no gf will be dramatically reduced.

Whenever I feel bad I just think of how I can help someone, and that makes me feels so empowered and worthy, ya know?

I wish I could help you bro, but I am in the same position and nothing helps. Alcohol and drugs numb it a bit though. At 25+ you are faced with the very real possibility of being alone for life.

>Only girls who ever like me live overseas or in a far off state.
>Know what I look like but I'm not willing to move for them.
>Can't ask or expect them to move for me.
>This has been happening for years now.
>Approaching Wizard status

Should I just off myself?

Same. It hurts especially bad because recently I've made some attempts to see old friends and even the ones that were awkward managed to get gfs. When my younger cousin and brother manage to get laid thats when I'll neck myself for sure.

Even worse is when people try to tell you that it will be okay, you'll someday get a gf it will all work out if you try hard enough. I'm in my physical prime, I'm very fit, I have a job, I have a full head of hair (for now) and I cannot seem to be able to talk to girls. I don't even meet girls. I just don't see how anything will improve as I get older. I'm 26 and I've asked out 3 girls in my entire life, all went horrible and got denied each time. I can't even picture myself having sex, I can't even comprehend a female looking at me and thinking "I want him". It just isn't happening my guy.

>>37963336
I was about to say that you gotta keep you're 1/10s for those girls with horrible burned faces and shit but...Sorry to hear that man. Keep you head up.

>>37963575
Maybe I'll give that a shot, there's a homeless shelter close to where I live. What do you do to help people?
>>37963580
Yeah I've been drinking and smoking weed more recently, it's fun but only distracts you for a bit. I probably will be alone for life at this rate honestly.
>>37963601
no, there's hope for you yet
>>37963607
that's the shit I hate the most, when you see your old friends again that are objectively worse off than you manage to get gfs that like them. It's a horrible feeling.
>>37963658
I know it isn't happening dude, we have to be there for eachother in these trying times because there's no one there for us.

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>>37962799
If you just want to be happy there's a belief system for that.

Buddhism. The core teachings of Buddhism are known as the four noble truths and the very first one is essentially "Life is suffering". Now, if that idea resonates with you at all, you should consider spending 2 hours with this documentary:

http://www.pbs.org/video/1461557530/

I consider myself an atheist, but that doesn't conflict with Buddhism at all because Buddhism isn't dogmatic. In the documentary you'll even hear for yourself the Dalai Lama say that Buddhism is meant to be completely practical and any aspect of it which you don't find helpful you can discard. So you don't have to believe in literal reincarnation or anything else for it to make sense. And all of the fairy tale elements woven into the story of the Buddha's life are just the result of his story being passed down through oral traditions for 500 years before finally being written.

Really, it's good for a lot more than just getting over being forever alone.

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ITS ALL ABOUT YOUR FACE, BOYO

B O N E S

BONE STRUCTURE, SKIN, HAIR

its ALL face

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get on your lookism shit. get on your facial product skin care routine. save ur balding hair with ru58841 if ur losing it and get a transplant

its all face and looks. also extend ur dick if its not large

fuck all the normies and faggots telling u "just b urself and keep ur chin up XDDD". faggots like that can rot on hell, filthy liars

its all looks

>>37964462
>its ALL face
>tfw realized this a long time ago
>tfw fail horribly at all three aspects of the face
>tfw want to kill myself everyday
I hope the courage to end it comes to me soon.

>>37962799
Are you ugly, or "cute"?

Yeah I hate to break it to you, unless you're at least a 6-7/10 with a good personality, you're probably not going to get anywhere with women.

My advice is try as much as you can will yourself, see how far you can get and set that as a goal to achieve before you swear off of them for good. Once you reach what you want, you won't care anymore and you can continue on with your life.

Don't stop your hobbies or lifting, do that for yourself, not for some dumb women who ultimately don't really give a shit.

>>37964706
Don't forget about height, that shit is important to the woiym

>>37962799
time to start lifting faggot

L I F T

Don't give up dude, i'm 23 and i met this fembot on telegram months ago, shes fucking perfect, we started our relationship last month.

She's smart, always uses logic, not clingy at all (in fact she was worried she was too "cold"), loves vidya and roleplaying, and physically a solid 7/10 (170cm, B cup, thin but not skellington).

Honestly, I feel like i won the lottery.

>>37964786
Fun thing is, when i met her, i didn't even remotely want to start a relationship with anybody, at all. I didn't even think of her that way the first months, i just got to know her and i slowly started to like her more, and now she's my gf.

>>37964786
>>37964831

This made me happy. Congratulations, my dude.

Also, obligatory get out get out get out Chad reeeeeeeee

>>37964786
You're tall. It's not the same.

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>>37962799
Watch a lot of anime and play a lot of games. Eventually you will find a waifu who is miles better than any 3D shit factory.

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Fucking shit fuck. I'm in your same position but I'm a handful of years behind you
>18, khv
>probably 5/10, 6/10 on a good day (long hair, considering cutting it. Take care of it tho, I'm not a fucking hobo)
>plenty of friends, many of whom female. No social autism, rather funny and above-average intelligence
>always told I'll find someone eventually
>already met person who is basically perfect girl for me. We've been close friends since 7th grade but she clearly doesn't share the affection I have for her. She has no problem scoring dates with guys.
Just fuck me up, man. I don't want to be alone. I hate being alone. I just want to find someone who really connects with me. Sex doesn't matter, looks don't matter, I just want to crawl out of the void before it swallows me whole.

Wat do?

>>37964971
You got me, but she didn't know how tall i was until after a couple of weeks since we started our relationship. I did mention i met her over telegram. The only contact we had was telegram and the occasional discord voice chat when playing ESO or WoW.


>>37964942
Hey, i might be tall, but i'm not a chad, not even remotely. INTP here.

>>37964093
Thanks man, will get to it shortly.
>>37964462
Yeah this is true unfortunately
>>37964489
fucking disgusting lying sacks of normie shit that say that need to hang
>>37964584
Does it matter? I'm ugly to women, whether I'm "ugly" or "cute" doesn't make a difference. Gay men find me attractive though.
>>37964706
sounds about right, I'm a 5 pretty much
yeah women don't care, but I do them because I like doing them and they're fun to me
>>37964738
I guess I could work on putting on more muscle but I do lift already
>>37964786
Good for you

>>37965014
God you're so right, I watch anime frequently and what you say is very true. I will start by masturbating to only 2D, done it before but then went back to 3DPD porn for some reason, then 2D sometimes.
>>37965124
Honestly I don't know man. I was pretty much the same at 18, girls that were perfectly compatible with me who shared the same hobbies and everything didn't care about me, at all. Even the so called "nice" girls were bitches to me, my own fucking PROM date rejected a slow dance with me because she was sad she couldn't go to prom with any of the Chads after being rejected by all of them after asking them to go with her, she settled to go to prom with me. Even had a huge look of disappointment in her eyes, sad face and everything. Told her she didn't have to go with me at all but she said it was ok. She even laughed a bit when I asked her to dance, and said "no no it's ok I don't dance". I was so fucking depressed and livid that night, easily one of the worst nights of my life.

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>>37964706
SHUT UP FAGGOT

u neurotypical normie FUCK you do not belong here. god i hate people like you

YOU LIE and spread misinformation in the most devious of ways. and you talk ABOUT SHIT YOU KNOW NOTHING ABOUT AND DO NOT UNDERSTAND. look at all this fucking noise coming out of your mouth, this is tier 1 "just be urself XDD" bullshit. you've said NOTHING in your post

>personality

PERSONALITY DOES NOT EXIST

here is some actual good practical advice:
- be white
- be tall
- use korean skincare products as they are the highest standard for beauty products. have skincare routine with liek 8 different products no joke
- mew and do jaw exercises. trust mike mew, bless be his name
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TY3bIMRKil8
- if ur losing hair SAVE THAT SHIT. finasteride is dangerous as fuck, try topical androgens like ru58841 or some other shit. hair is STUPID IMPORTANT. balding = sexual death
- chiropractry and have low bf%
- being really ripped only adds 1 point at max, and thats with perfect skin
- if ur dick is small do extending exercises, they work and give permanent gains

FUCK neurotypicals are so fucking stupid and know NOTHING about what theyre talking about

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EFnJMPQow7A

>>37965264
Never had that sort of tension between me and friends, just close friendships which will never advance. I don't mind that much- I love those guys (and girls), but the prospect of losing them to time and/ or being a khv manlet my entire life is the only thing which keeps me up at night.

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>>37965339
oh, and just to add another important point,

another really big thing is location theory. if you're in america or the west its a lot harder to get laid as a 5/10 white than than it is in the philippines or thailand

location = VERY IMPORTANT. white roasters in the west have stupid high standards as they are spoiled rotten by society and the media and there is more males than females so the competition is raised to a stupid high level because the males are desperate for any bones they can get. its actually so tragic to be a average guy in the west, its fucking painful, especially if you're shy

thats why you leave to asia or latin america if you ever seriously plan on experiencing intimacy with a female.

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>"you know op... you have a really NEGATIVE attitude :((((..... no wonder you cant get a gf, just be urself and be happy =PPPP"
>"maybe if your attitude wasnt so rotten and you developed your personality a girl might find you attractive you bitter virgin LOL just be yourself :P"
>"hes a protip op, try your hardest, be honest, have confidence and be yourself and im sure some female will find you attractive XD"

in all seriousness i think being extremely reclusive and having no social circle is a determent for your ability to land females, but even if you posses these things, you still need to have a sexual market value high enough for a female you find desirable to be attracted to you

i hate everything. honestly probably the single most important thing to get females is to simply be a neurotypical. mental issues = death

>>37965339
Do fin and minoxidil still work on DUPA (diffuse unpatterned)

I found out that I'm in the 10% of the 1% of balding men who have diffuse loss all over the head ON TOP OF a receding hairline and thinning crown, compared to a normal DUPA thinner. I've read everywhere that RU, fin, and minox don't really work for it. Does lookism have any advice for this condition aside from just necking myself